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u r not alone øh. my colleagues are straight from hell too, just a few are nice, there times i tot of quitting for nothing, but getting a job in naija is møre fraustrating than what u r feeling now, but seriously i cant wait for the day ill leave without saying goodbye

Giannakopoulos: Let me clarify that I'm not a scam,I can't ask for your money,I work for a consulting and an outsourcing firm,we collect CVs,screen them,then successful candidates get interviewed,ie all,it's not by force to submit,I only use NL as part of the avenues. thank you.

oya look my Cv na, I don send my own since ooo

she luvs 4 real and it shows, Shz just too nice. if pple loved like my mum then the world would be a berra place

i reside in phc and have sent my Cv. if the job is ok, ph to akb isn't far na or ur firm doznt want to consider ph residents at all

[quote author=coogar]the struggle is

[quote author=Ishilove]Well, not in all cases. I am single and most of my working experience have been with children. Not once have I been treated differently from my married colleagues, and in church, I don't really socialise so I haven't noticed any odd treatment as a result of my marital status. I don't want to blow my horn or anything like that, but, at work I have a voice who most people listen to, single and married alike.

On my facebook wall, virtually all my female friends are married, but that doesn't stop me from interacting freely with them. I don't feel any awkwardness because of my marital status. Maybe its because deep down, I am actually a bit scared of commitment. Asides that, I don't know why but the men of nowadays ehn... So many boyfriends, so few husband materials... I voiced this to my mum and she was like "Ishi, are you sure spirit husband is not worrying you?? ".

Well, I will admit that there are times when I wish there was someone who will whisper sweet nothings into my ears (I am hopelessly romantic ) and at those times I give one of my admirers a chance. Well, the sweet nothings get really boring, really fast, and then I quietly withdraw . Mum is actually more worried about my unmarried status than I. It's not about marrying and having children. Heck, even some mad women have children. For me it is about marrying RIGHT. I don't want to endure marriage, I wanna enjoy it and have peace of mind.

How do I cope with spinsterhood? Well, there's nothing to cope with to start with. I'm single and living my life like the trumpet will sound tomorrow (and it just may so we have to be vigilant), and that suffices. For now [/quote

artisticallyart: from 30k you reduce am reach 20ok, later you go they ask have you eve heard of the word expansion..... I think it is not good. for the organisation to have turnover of staff regularly which affects the turnover and image of your organisation. Since last year till date unable to find pa and secretary.....smh

abi oo, he even needs a beautiful lady sef , wonder y, na front desk for bank? mtcheeeeeeeew

RuksBen: More about what exactly?

don't bother oga sir sorted, my cousin was looking for lecture center for f2, someone else that is familiar with ACCA warri has recommended someone, clearly u are not ready for business, sidon here dey wait for students wey u go teach u hear,

ruksben can I have ur contact? need to discuss more with you

please help me confirm if ACCA has any exam centre for Warri

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is anybody writing in port Harcourt? lemme try my luck please post venue and date and time pls

britnex: I received dis

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Dear Candidate,We refer to the Employment Aptitude Test you wrote recently and regretto inform you that you slightly missed the cut-off mark set forselection for the next phase of our recruitment exercise.

as if the slightly they put was meant to make us feel good

ChelseaKings: Hmmm.... Where did U write ur test?

port Harcourt, at least end of chapter

I just received a regret mail from them now, at least no more speculations

4get it, my broda has been there before

Ndissle: Did u get a call from them?

no

so y r they calling people and bringing too much tension, wat happened to the CVS they received

eluebo1: What is d latest because I am loosing patience, I keep seeing that abstract in my dream, bloody 2 difficult. Ph peeps are u there

yea the abstract was mad but, chai! there is Godu oooooooo

I think its a very immoral thing to do. must we always copy the western world in everything?

for me

Many thanks to everyone for your responses,aisha, chillisauce , 1miccza, hglmkope , ottizz, I really needed to talk to some1

please dnt post sarcastic comments here, if u don't have somtin reasonable to say just park well

sexyseun: Abegi.. Please find the right bobo first and complain later, or rather marry first and get scared later..
You haven't even started dating the guy you will hope to marry and you are already getting scared.
What help do you now need from us? We should help you hope for a good man abi?

please dnt post sarcastic comments here, if u don't have somtin reasonable to say just park well

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aisha2: Nothing is wrong with you. 26 is not old, better marry the right person at 40 than marry at 26 and be divorced at 40.

Stop bothering about what people will say you are the one who gets to live with your spouse not them.


Again, ensure you are also the right person for a right man.

Have standards based on strength of character and stick to them, dont listen to those who tell you to "manage".

well said, thanks

visasubagent: You sound so cool and level headed.
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All I can say is that life generally is difficult, unpredictable and uncertain.
It involves risk which we msut take if we want to move ahead, just that we must ensure that those risks are calculated ones.
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You can marry a seemingly angel who will show his true colours later, you can equally marry one that is genuine only for him to change later. It's all about risk taking.
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You need to go to such places you think the kind of person you are looking for can be found.
If i desire to marry a nurse, wife, I might need tto visit such schools or hospitals, or attend events meant principally for such persons. The same goes for Lawyers.
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Again, try see if your standard for men isn't unrealistic. What you watch in nollywood are vastly ethereal, utopian and unrealistic.
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Wish you your heart desires.
Cheers!

Tenx 4 ur response, am sure my standards are realistic, only rare

bellong: I wonder why people are always scared when it comes to marriage.

You don't get scared when to choose a friend or acquaintance, why should marriage be a thorn in the flesh.

I am sure of a thing, for everyone that is sincere with no filthy lucre or deep seated selfish intention and very diligent in looking for the right things will not be miserable in marriage. Not downplaying the "God-factor" that is very important.

So Lady, have an open mind, destroy the fear factor in you and have a realistic expectation which shouldn't be compromised. Most times, fear of what we nurture as humans have a way of working out in one's life. An ancient man once said, "What I fear most has befallen me".

May you find the right man you seek

Amen. thanks

I have

r u sure its not redstar express? what's the location?

no body seems to know much about this tsl coy , no body has said anytin concrete...

darlingjoes: i dont know of any but all am sure is that they are expanding their branches.
Just remember me ooo if you get the job.

This one wey their exam hard like this.....Any way well see how it goes

darlingjoes: TSL is a good place to work for all that wrote the test. it will give you an opportunity grow in your career with more pays to your pocket.

All the best.

Do u know if they have an office in PHC?