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toby4ever: noooo. we were nt up to 50 ooo for d first batch we were 38-40..abt 10ladies d rest r guys..de said de r likely to call in 2wks time...der is 12pm batch too dunno hw many de wil be?

Chikogb: I went with photocopies only. Going with originals 'may' be risky.

toby4ever: also r we to go wit original crendentials n photocopies as well?

chibuking1: nope!.... Blv it wud b sent later..... If dem no send am, i wil go dem office

chibuking1: I got it too......invited for a test on 19th

topeontop: Pls I also got thesame text but was told to check my mail for further details but nothing has been sent to my mail. pls where is the test holding ?

Matthewbriggs: I had a chat ... With a friend and he was like he would not go for a woman as ambitious as him.

Just like me he has very crazy ambitions ... We are both committed to seeing our daring dreams come to pass.

He reason is that he wouldn't like a situation where him and his spouse are so preoccupied with their DARING goals at the detriment of the family.

Eg. He goes on a business trip to go seal a deal and his wife jets off to Paris to go launch her new line ... With both of then never having time for the kids or each other due to their demanding careers as they try to build their dreams.

He says he is not expecting her to be a house wife but more like she would have a lesser demanding career or job than his.

He was like their is need for balance. With one of the couple having a lesser dream or demanding career.

I am like if you have someone as ambitious as you ... You both stand the chance of sharpening each other and assisting each other achieve their dreams, I was like it would be very wrong of you to inhibit your spouses goals because you want her to have time for the family.

He was like he would not be inhibiting her ambition if she doesn't have a big ambition in the first place.

So now one of his criteria is a woman with little or no ambition but she would be very smart and intelligent and working class.

I am like you can't be smart without having an ambition. He was like her ambition would not be too big or demanding of her time.

As for me I am turned on by women with really bold ambitions. The only clause is do not forget I exist as you go on to pursue that dream.

What's your take people. Is it ideal to go for someone with a lower ambition than you. Male or female

#MathewBriggs

TheBigUrban2: Yes....I've been there


Take heart. Depression is not easy.

There is no God to help you. Only yourself. That is what I realised. Better to do something than wait for a miracle

You have to strive to be happy.
Tell yourself that you can be successful and happy
Try to be around people that make you happy
Try and make a plan for your life.


Heaven helps those who help themselves

cc150615: that doesn't answer the question of why I wasn't invited I met all the requirements nd I think I even took my time to prepare a good cover letter!

ernie4life: What did u study