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Romance / Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018
Acidosis:

Bro, at 30, you don't need this kind of woman.
tanx bro
Romance / Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 5:48am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
Thanks bro, I appreciate.

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Romance / I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 3:12pm On Oct 15, 2018
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.

There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.

We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.

But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.

Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.

After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.

To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.

Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.

I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?

Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?

Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

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Events / Re: Bride And Groom Look So Sad On Their Wedding Day (Photos) by spyg1(m): 2:00pm On Oct 15, 2018
tunary:
Jesus Christ what is this?

is this this one a human being?

no wonder she's not happy, maybe she was forced into the marriage spiritually or physically

how can a beautiful young Lady like this settle for an imp
You don't care to know whether the girl is insane and you drew conclusion.

You also don't care to know whether the man is on rescue mission.

Most of girls are beautiful with brains
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by spyg1(m): 9:37am On Oct 07, 2018
PDP candidates are too desperate for my liking
Investment / Re: What Is The First Thing You Will Do If You Wake Up As Buhari? by spyg1(m): 12:26pm On Sep 02, 2018
Attack drug addict Trump
Politics / Re: US Government Speaks On Calling Buhari “lifeless” by spyg1(m): 4:31am On Aug 30, 2018
I never for once considered Trump as a huMAN, he is a huWOMAN. Always talking behind US officials back.



SHE is a coward, how can SHE be afraid of a "lifeless" person??
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NPOWER: An Open Letter To Afolabi Imoukhuede. by spyg1(m): 10:25am On Aug 23, 2018
yeyerolling:
Greed no good. Abeg go find work. What can 30k do in ur life dat u want permanency
With this kind of understanding, how did you make it in WAEC?

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Crime / Re: Woman Stabs Her Husband To Death In Delta After Suspecting He Has A Girlfriend by spyg1(m): 7:09am On Aug 20, 2018
This is the result of "I must marry a cute guy" syndrome.

As e good for your eyes, na so e good for another person.

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Celebrities / Re: "Be Careful Of Me" Moesha Boduong Says As She Flaunt Her Backside In New Photos by spyg1(m): 7:00am On Aug 19, 2018
vanida6:
I wish to get that kind ass one day to tempt does rich men's in abuja smiley

i don die here ooh wit NL guys cheesy
Then eventually use you for rituals one day

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Religion / Re: Pastor Preaching With Snake, Rushed To Hospital After Getting Bitten (Photos) by spyg1(m): 6:47am On Aug 18, 2018
Must we tempt God??
I thought is only Nigerian pastors that does this.

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Health / Re: 14 Reasons Why You Must Stop Watching Porn And Masturbation by spyg1(m): 6:19am On Jul 29, 2018
Quitting masturbation is like quitting cigarette. A times you smoke or masturbate and you say this is my last time. Next time you're at it again

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Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Wows In White Bikini (Photo) by spyg1(m): 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2018
Dead breast

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Politics / Re: Breaking: Benue Assembly Impeach APC Speaker by spyg1(m): 6:20pm On Jul 24, 2018
buhariguy:
And so what?

Is a family affair,
Ortom should be afraid now.
They remove the speaker in case ortom want to defect,

Hence,
His impeachment
You're not from Benue, so ask for more clarifications. He is behind the impeachment
Politics / Re: Ortom Rejected By 13 PDP Governorship Aspirants In Benue State by spyg1(m): 8:27pm On Jul 23, 2018
vinnex:
Nonsense, the so call 13 PDP members are not even relevant in Benue politics. Ortom has many options to join any political party. The people of Benue are ready to follow him...

Which people?
Politics / Re: I Am No Longer In APC – Governor Ortom by spyg1(m): 6:47pm On Jul 16, 2018
FarahAideed:


You said Suswam was the most hated and today just because he exposed your mentor Buhari as being complicit in the killings you have shameless volte faced and started calling Ortom the most hated ....Ortom is only hated by Islamic and Fulani terrorist
Sir are you from Benue State?

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Investment / Re: Please Help A Sister!!!!!!! by spyg1(m): 2:57pm On Jul 13, 2018
Let's do business, if you're not indirectly telling my fellow male folks to give you a job. Iam from Benue State.
Romance / Re: Meet Jacqueline Obed Aka Poshyqueeen: Curvy Tanzanian Lady by spyg1(m): 11:36am On Jul 13, 2018
Artificial.




Go and argue with the Nigerian Police
Phones / Re: How Airtel Subscribes You To Their VAS Services Without Your Knowledge (Photo) by spyg1(m): 9:27am On Jul 10, 2018
BrainArk:
I am victim of this their wickedness, I have called them times without number to deactivate it, which they will tell me they've done only to continue deducting my airtime. The only reason I am still using the sim is because it is attached to my bank account, and I am to lazy to go and change it yet.
contact NCC, make sure you include the airtel customer care reference number. they deducted my airtime for over four months and that was the solution.
Crime / Re: Nigerian Guy Stops Petrol Station In His Area From Collecting "Keg Charges" by spyg1(m): 2:44pm On Jun 30, 2018
ChiefAzubuike:
Every fuel attendant has the right to collect keg charges. How much is #50 or #100 that you can't overlook. Those people suffer to make sure you have fuel in your car, at the end of the month they are paid peanuts yet you can't appreciate them with a token?
pump attendant suffering? including the manager?. who force them to accept the job? if they are not contented let them look for something else rather than collecting bribe from the poor Masses. N50 may mean to you but ordinary Nigerian is money.



















Some of you take corruption as a normal thing.
Romance / Re: Most Girls Are Hookers, But Men Are To Blame. by spyg1(m): 7:28pm On Jun 12, 2018
I never chop boyfriends always complaining
Sports / Re: Super Eagles Win BBC “Best Fashion Team” Award In Russia by spyg1(m): 7:04pm On Jun 12, 2018
Factfinder1:
That's the only thing dey are gonna win I bet my left armpit
armpit? You have won the bet
Romance / Re: Appreciate What You Have Before It Becomes What You Once Had by spyg1(m): 6:59pm On Jun 12, 2018
Nigerian girls prefer I once had, than to stay with [i][/i]I NEVER CHOP in the name of [i][/i]tomorrow go better
Crime / Re: A Thief Dismantles A "Secured" Generator (Photos) by spyg1(m): 7:08am On Jun 07, 2018
Innovations in stealing

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Family / Advice To Marriage Counselors And Married Couple. (photo) by spyg1(m): 11:40am On Jun 04, 2018
I read this post and felt I should share it to my fellow Nairalanders.
I felt so sad and overwhelmed by the reality on ground in most Nigerian Marriages.
A woman stabbed her husband to death because according to her, he has been beating her for so long and she couldn’t take it anymore.
This woman would go most likely go to jail for a very long time and her children would be raised by someone else. According to her, she said she didn’t want to leave him because she has children with him even when everyone else advised her to leave the marriage, now she won’t even be around for those children and God help her that the same children would be able to forgive her for killing their father.
People, let’s be honest with ourselves. Marriage is very beautiful at the same time, it could be a problem if you are having issues with your partner and you are no longer happy.
When it gets to the case of domestic violence, please leave so that you get killed or kill in anger. When it gets to that point where your partner irritates you and you can’t stand them anymore, please stay away for a while to process that feeling and even see a coach or therapist that can help you through those issues.
Furthermore, please stop stigmatizing people for leaving their marriages. Nobody would get married and plan to divorce anytime soon. Nobody would wake up one day and decide to bear the name divorcee just out of a flimsy excuse.
When people tell you that they are no longer interested, counsel them, pray for them but don’t force them to be together. These people are the ones in this marriage not you, so don’t quote scriptures on their heads to guilt trip them. Do what you can and leave them alone. Stop playing God and Judge over peoples lives even when your own life is in shambles.
Guys, let people be. It is their lives, not yours. No matter how much you love them, if being apart is what they want, let them have it while praying for them from afar. Don’t have someone’s death, unhappiness or depression on your hands because you want to help people do what is right..
A word is enough for the wise!!
#DomesticViolence #Onedeathtoomany#StopplayingGodinpeopleslives
#DontjudgeasyouarenottheirGod#Savelifefirst
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Celebrities / Re: Davido’s Girlfriend, Chioma, Slays In Jumpsuit; Shows Her Backside by spyg1(m): 5:21am On May 26, 2018
Her backside is like big testis

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Romance / Re: How Do I Handle This? by spyg1(m): 6:30am On May 14, 2018
Prognose:


She's currently separated from her husband (about a year now, nothing to do with me). And no I'm not enjoying the attention if not I wouldn't have brought the matter here in the first place.
she is a crook. Run away from her
Sports / Re: Shocking Reason Why I Don't Want Liverpool To Win Champions League this year. by spyg1(m): 8:33pm On May 08, 2018
This pope will break the record
Politics / Re: States With Signed 2018 Budgets In Nigeria (Infographic) by spyg1(m): 1:22pm On Apr 09, 2018
360frolic:
The state of Nigerian States’ Budgets as at April 6, 2018



Has your State government signed its 2018 budget into law?

http://newshelm.ng/infographics-nigerian-states-with-signed-2018-budgets/




Benue passed the budget of 160bn last week
Celebrities / Re: Ahneeka Shares Breast Tube With Bald Head Photos by spyg1(m): 12:47pm On Apr 07, 2018
angelanto8:
you don't even know her.. Must you comment biko shut up
work done for the defence
Family / Pre Wedding Photos Of My Brother's Traditional Marriage by spyg1(m): 5:42pm On Apr 04, 2018
The Tiv traditional marriage ceremony is going to take place in Katsina-Ala Local Government Area of Benue state, while church wedding will take place on Sat. 12th May, 2018 at NKST Church Iortyer Makurdi, Benue State. You're all invited.

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