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Romance / Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Acidosis:tanx bro |
Romance / Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 5:48am On Oct 16, 2018 |
nho4:Thanks bro, I appreciate. 20 Likes |
Romance / I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 3:12pm On Oct 15, 2018 |
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future. There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship. We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter. But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted. Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again. After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla. To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex. Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come. I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat? Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly? Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page. PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Events / Re: Bride And Groom Look So Sad On Their Wedding Day (Photos) by spyg1(m): 2:00pm On Oct 15, 2018 |
tunary:You don't care to know whether the girl is insane and you drew conclusion. You also don't care to know whether the man is on rescue mission. Most of girls are beautiful with brains |
Politics / Re: PDP Presidential Primary Election: Live Updates, Results And Situation Report by spyg1(m): 9:37am On Oct 07, 2018 |
PDP candidates are too desperate for my liking |
Investment / Re: What Is The First Thing You Will Do If You Wake Up As Buhari? by spyg1(m): 12:26pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
Attack drug addict Trump |
Politics / Re: US Government Speaks On Calling Buhari “lifeless” by spyg1(m): 4:31am On Aug 30, 2018 |
I never for once considered Trump as a huMAN, he is a huWOMAN. Always talking behind US officials back. SHE is a coward, how can SHE be afraid of a "lifeless" person?? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NPOWER: An Open Letter To Afolabi Imoukhuede. by spyg1(m): 10:25am On Aug 23, 2018 |
yeyerolling:With this kind of understanding, how did you make it in WAEC? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Woman Stabs Her Husband To Death In Delta After Suspecting He Has A Girlfriend by spyg1(m): 7:09am On Aug 20, 2018 |
This is the result of "I must marry a cute guy" syndrome. As e good for your eyes, na so e good for another person. 8 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: "Be Careful Of Me" Moesha Boduong Says As She Flaunt Her Backside In New Photos by spyg1(m): 7:00am On Aug 19, 2018 |
vanida6:Then eventually use you for rituals one day 80 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Pastor Preaching With Snake, Rushed To Hospital After Getting Bitten (Photos) by spyg1(m): 6:47am On Aug 18, 2018 |
Must we tempt God?? I thought is only Nigerian pastors that does this. 24 Likes |
Health / Re: 14 Reasons Why You Must Stop Watching Porn And Masturbation by spyg1(m): 6:19am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Quitting masturbation is like quitting cigarette. A times you smoke or masturbate and you say this is my last time. Next time you're at it again 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Wows In White Bikini (Photo) by spyg1(m): 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Dead breast 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Breaking: Benue Assembly Impeach APC Speaker by spyg1(m): 6:20pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
buhariguy:You're not from Benue, so ask for more clarifications. He is behind the impeachment |
Politics / Re: Ortom Rejected By 13 PDP Governorship Aspirants In Benue State by spyg1(m): 8:27pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
vinnex: Which people? |
Politics / Re: I Am No Longer In APC – Governor Ortom by spyg1(m): 6:47pm On Jul 16, 2018 |
FarahAideed:Sir are you from Benue State? 1 Like |
Investment / Re: Please Help A Sister!!!!!!! by spyg1(m): 2:57pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Let's do business, if you're not indirectly telling my fellow male folks to give you a job. Iam from Benue State. |
Romance / Re: Meet Jacqueline Obed Aka Poshyqueeen: Curvy Tanzanian Lady by spyg1(m): 11:36am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Artificial. Go and argue with the Nigerian Police |
Phones / Re: How Airtel Subscribes You To Their VAS Services Without Your Knowledge (Photo) by spyg1(m): 9:27am On Jul 10, 2018 |
BrainArk:contact NCC, make sure you include the airtel customer care reference number. they deducted my airtime for over four months and that was the solution. |
Crime / Re: Nigerian Guy Stops Petrol Station In His Area From Collecting "Keg Charges" by spyg1(m): 2:44pm On Jun 30, 2018 |
ChiefAzubuike:pump attendant suffering? including the manager?. who force them to accept the job? if they are not contented let them look for something else rather than collecting bribe from the poor Masses. N50 may mean to you but ordinary Nigerian is money. Some of you take corruption as a normal thing. |
Romance / Re: Most Girls Are Hookers, But Men Are To Blame. by spyg1(m): 7:28pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I never chop boyfriends always complaining |
Sports / Re: Super Eagles Win BBC “Best Fashion Team” Award In Russia by spyg1(m): 7:04pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Factfinder1:armpit? You have won the bet |
Romance / Re: Appreciate What You Have Before It Becomes What You Once Had by spyg1(m): 6:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Nigerian girls prefer I once had, than to stay with [i][/i]I NEVER CHOP in the name of [i][/i]tomorrow go better |
Crime / Re: A Thief Dismantles A "Secured" Generator (Photos) by spyg1(m): 7:08am On Jun 07, 2018 |
Innovations in stealing 6 Likes |
Family / Advice To Marriage Counselors And Married Couple. (photo) by spyg1(m): 11:40am On Jun 04, 2018 |
I read this post and felt I should share it to my fellow Nairalanders. I felt so sad and overwhelmed by the reality on ground in most Nigerian Marriages. A woman stabbed her husband to death because according to her, he has been beating her for so long and she couldn’t take it anymore. This woman would go most likely go to jail for a very long time and her children would be raised by someone else. According to her, she said she didn’t want to leave him because she has children with him even when everyone else advised her to leave the marriage, now she won’t even be around for those children and God help her that the same children would be able to forgive her for killing their father. People, let’s be honest with ourselves. Marriage is very beautiful at the same time, it could be a problem if you are having issues with your partner and you are no longer happy. When it gets to the case of domestic violence, please leave so that you get killed or kill in anger. When it gets to that point where your partner irritates you and you can’t stand them anymore, please stay away for a while to process that feeling and even see a coach or therapist that can help you through those issues. Furthermore, please stop stigmatizing people for leaving their marriages. Nobody would get married and plan to divorce anytime soon. Nobody would wake up one day and decide to bear the name divorcee just out of a flimsy excuse. When people tell you that they are no longer interested, counsel them, pray for them but don’t force them to be together. These people are the ones in this marriage not you, so don’t quote scriptures on their heads to guilt trip them. Do what you can and leave them alone. Stop playing God and Judge over peoples lives even when your own life is in shambles. Guys, let people be. It is their lives, not yours. No matter how much you love them, if being apart is what they want, let them have it while praying for them from afar. Don’t have someone’s death, unhappiness or depression on your hands because you want to help people do what is right.. A word is enough for the wise!! #DomesticViolence #Onedeathtoomany#StopplayingGodinpeopleslives #DontjudgeasyouarenottheirGod#Savelifefirst Source : Lara Kudaisi's Page
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Celebrities / Re: Davido’s Girlfriend, Chioma, Slays In Jumpsuit; Shows Her Backside by spyg1(m): 5:21am On May 26, 2018 |
Her backside is like big testis 29 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle This? by spyg1(m): 6:30am On May 14, 2018 |
Prognose:she is a crook. Run away from her |
Sports / Re: Shocking Reason Why I Don't Want Liverpool To Win Champions League this year. by spyg1(m): 8:33pm On May 08, 2018 |
This pope will break the record |
Politics / Re: States With Signed 2018 Budgets In Nigeria (Infographic) by spyg1(m): 1:22pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
360frolic:Benue passed the budget of 160bn last week |
Celebrities / Re: Ahneeka Shares Breast Tube With Bald Head Photos by spyg1(m): 12:47pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
angelanto8:work done for the defence |
Family / Pre Wedding Photos Of My Brother's Traditional Marriage by spyg1(m): 5:42pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
The Tiv traditional marriage ceremony is going to take place in Katsina-Ala Local Government Area of Benue state, while church wedding will take place on Sat. 12th May, 2018 at NKST Church Iortyer Makurdi, Benue State. You're all invited. 1 Like
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