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IAmSkinny:
Like I said, the redpill does not condemn marriage blatantly like it's some sort of taboo. Just like there are single mothers, single daddies exists too.
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I might choose to get married, I might not. But one thing I know is that marriage allows 80% of promiscuous women to eat their cake and have it and still have it. This is exactly what redpill principle is trying to open our eyes to.
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Wanna get married? Then vet ruthlessly and discard as appropriate

Anyway I know the redpill to be good at one thing, shinning light at small object. Hovering microscope on them and making them a topic.

If you had the power what should change in marriage institution to make it good for men?

IAmSkinny:
Rollo Tomassi a popular proponent of the Redpill is married.
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Marriage is an arrangement that does not favor men. Even Esther Villa, a women has bared this fact in one of her books.

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Remember I mentioned that to a redpiller, everything is business right? Now why would anyone want to engage in a business where he's sure to lose at the end of the day?
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Yet, the redpill does not still blatantly discourage men from only getting married. It only admonishes men to vet their intended spouses thoroughly and tread with maximum caution.

So let me ask you, how do you plan to train your children?
Out of wedlock?

IAmSkinny:
Just liked the fvcked up kid, you too have zero knowledge of redpill principles.
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Let me quickly summarize briefly.

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Redpill is about embracing your masculinity and putting your interest first be it in a business or in a relationship. Redpill advocates healthy living for men through healthy eating and working out regularly. Redpill places emphasizes on hard work, independence and self sufficiency. Redpill is an all round self improvement manual for men.

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Redpill is not a manual for easy nacks as you've wrongly and ignorantly asserted.
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Redpill has nothing to do with incels.
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Redpill is not anti women, rather it points out what you should expect when dealing with women (in a relationship or business) so you don't end up disappointed and heartbroken.

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Funny enough, redpill is hugely anti-gay but your ignorant self must find a way to feel an iota of importance. Tueh!

Well I have a lot to type but I won’t, I stopped trying to convince anyone long time ago.

But let me tell you a secret, if you start noticing it you will see it.

Redpill has no plan for family nor a family man.
Redpill are theory for youthful man who see the world as a candy shop of ladies. It is a guide that tells you how to traverse the candy shop.

In every 100 guys there are most likely two men who are married or none at all. I bet you will like not be able to mention about this 10 people married in that thread.

Redpill has no plan for fatherhood also, if you think I am lying I want to bring article about being a father, redpill even advocate having child out of wedlock with different women.

Unlike redpill claim advocacy for men yet it really has close to nothing for men. It is instead more about women and their character. It fails to address some social dysfunction in men and how to go it. It rather finds comfort in padding it with women flaws just like incels does

Redpill is not for a man.
Redpill are for boys

Don’t take my words seriously, just observe

nwaezeemmanuel:
A sign of weakness is when a person easily resorts to insults during a proper conversation.

TRP is about self improvement and more, if you're a conservative person you'd definitely have problems with it (which you do now).

It's a weekend, too early to get off this angry.

So what we had is called a conversation . You said I should go to google and I said you should go to your thread. See me, see wahala o

Self improvement my ass, well I have no problem about your online self improvement therapy with faceless counselors. Continue

cybersoldiers:
Egbe NTU 101.

Nigerian military should have common sense.

You can't win against the citizens.

You can't win the masses.

At the comfort of your one room apartment. Mtcheww

nwaezeemmanuel:
Google. It's easy these days. If you browse things before you defend them, you'd know there is a very good difference between incels and redpill.

Bleep off with your gay brothers( MGTOW ) and go back to your women nagging thread

IAmSkinny:
This has nothing to with redpill.
The lad is emotional fvcked up and needs help urgently

why are you defensive?
As you can read carefully, he follows so online community. Of nasty mindset and denegrated thinking.
Same way we have redpill becoming an umbrella of immoral men, gays and sadist.
Even ritualist and pant bandit using female for sacrifice are also part of the redpill.
Well you’re blinded by the promise of a knowledge that can get you laid

HighK:
This is obviously a liberal/far left couple training their kids to be lgbt, allowing them to be exposed to porn so early, no spanking, no religious/spiritual guidance/restriction. All these things are child abuse that the mainstream is pushing to the masses.

You have until when a child is 7 or 8 to mold his/her core values after that it becomes extremely difficult. If this guy was exposed to porn too early before he has learnt how to protect or control his mind to any degree, that could be what has short circuited his psyche.

It might be too late now. Even the daughter is being abused by 15 she already has 3 sexual relationships... What a mess. Her mental issues are only hybernating.

Well some children here are corrupted by Nairaland redpill already, so internet and phone is another way this said boy may have been corrupted or maybe a bad egg at school has done so and corrupt others too

nwaezeemmanuel:
If you don't know something, ask for education.

From who?

IAmSkinny:
This has nothing to with redpill.
The lad is emotional fvcked up and needs help urgently

What is the difference incels and redpill?
It’s just a matter of incel show aggression. Redpill nags.

trisha01:
Wow, just to have sex?

Most likely yes but that may not be the only thing. Maybe other things too

Drone95:
Something must surely to teach man lesson! Thank God its STD not HIV.

HIV is an STD

The5DME:
shut up Stanley.

goan write jamb 2021

DriftOff:
Many people thought that the only time that people can leave their body is when they die, but I think that's not true.
So here's my experience:
I have once had out of body experience. And it was a great privilege for me.
Here's my story, one morning I waked up and started feeling so light, it was frightening at first, but I didn't gave it much thought, I assumed it's because I was tired or maybe because it's morning. I then went out and eased myself, later came back and went to the palour to bring my phone, I plugged it to NEPA the previous day.
When I came back to my room, I saw my body on the bed, I was confused... I thought I was dead, I moved over and touched it. It was real for a second. That was when I immediately started feeling dizzy and fainted, and then waked up instantly in my body. I checked to see if it's real or not (that's if I was really in my body), but surprisly - it's real, I didn't died.
And the funny thing is that The activities I previously performed seemed to be real too...
Up to this day, I'm still confused about what happened that morning, I just can't fully comprehend it.
So what about you, have you experienced such before?

When is part 2 coming out?

Justinlean02:
Yeah, the Mompha case comes to mind

Oh I see. Evans the kidnappers should have also

EmmanuelScott1:
I think mompha and naira Marley has the answer to your question.

Since mompha and Naira Marley evaded the law then Hushpuppi should have.

Well I guess you see them as idols

EmmanuelScott1:
Naija is a scam, know this and know peace

The boy don settle the matter with cool cash, no more case with him, continue your fraud business

Hushpuppi really fall hands, if to say he return and EFCC arrest him, his case would have been different now

So in other words hushpuppi deserve to be roaming free in Nigeria

Truthabulabula:
Good day fellas, I won't disturb with plenty details but short.
There's tis girl I've been dating.
My fam an friends know of our relationship (open relationship).
She made me sign some o this documents an like I follow all the rules with it.
She has no job then, she made me promise a 30 thousand USD payment to her account every week end.
That was not any issue till I began hearing stories about her main man.
Same woman I decided to love an settle with.
I asked her how true the rumour an she agreed to it. Told me she just loved me outta pity cause I gat no love life.

Problem is she still love me (so she said), and told me she was gone break up with tha main guy shit.

I decided settle in Nigeria. Took flight in early this May.
Planning on sending her a 30 thousand USD this month end so she know I still care for her well being.

She been sending me texts on how she's gone commit suicide and tell everyone I killed her.

Please,
How best do I get this girl off my life? And how do I build love life with a Nigerian woman?

Thank you.

Omo this your story get how e be.
Make she kill her self na if e easy

@trisha01
In conclusion he wants to get to the cookie jar.
He is only trying to destroy your ego that would get against that.
I rest my case

Igbankpa:
Nobody is talking about isah pantami anymore.

Exactly, Naija and trend ehn chai

@igwebest23
How did you even get to marry her at the first place. How did you guys meet? Why are surprised about her current behavior? Have you not seen any of this before?
That I see is a foundation, for her to suddenly turn out like this towards this moment and for you to not even feel confident to be transparent about your salary. It is clear you guys started on a shaky foundation.

For the main time take your attention away from the Money wahala and focus on the real thing. Giving her that money does not explain why she has to degenerate to calling you names. You and her have foundational problems.

This situation is just a way of understanding who she likely is. You have a lot to learn.

For the main time you can call her mom and discuss with her. Not in a way of reporting but to point out the surprises you encounter and maybe she could possibly have some explanation about her daughter. You have a lot to learn about your wife.

Telling her to leave may not be the ultimate solution for the moment rather it is just a cheap easy way of doing things which at the end may not be as good as you think . You need more knowledge of about your wife to know the best decision to pick, had it been you did this homework before now, you would not be surprised by any of her behavior

triple996:
D story is not complete.
I know our soldiers can b unprofessional atimes bt how can a soldier jus beat u up like that 4 no good reason. The story is not complete

Well I understand your where you’re coming from but to think of it deeply.
What could have warrant to physical assault?

What the man a criminal?
Was he a thief?

Is there no other way out solider can handle cases without physical assault?

Igbankpa:
We have so many mad men on uniform.


The civilian populace are not helping matters, you dont just stand and lament from afar when you see innocent civilians getting brutalized by this idiots on uniform. You speak up for them, when many people stand up to them in one voice they will backout. Las las how many people soldier go kill... we really need to revive aluta spirit not this 'e no concern me attitude ' we have to understand that those people are our servants and as such have as much power as we give to them. The demi god attitude they portray is all our fault.

Well speaking about it and keeping the consciousness until justice is found is our major problem. We easily let things slide away in this country and for this single reason our corrupt leader knows just how to buy time since they know we would forget with time

Ishilove:
Shebi the military man in camo was alone and on a bike? Is the driver not a man too? The driver should have fought back like a man instead of allowing himself be assaulted by his fellow man.

Nigerians are too docile. The EndSars protest has shown we are capable of so much more. Stop the docility and let these idiots know that power resides with the people.

Fighting back through physical means to a soldier is nothing more than entering his own arena. If the other mates find that situation you’re a gunner, and worse of it, civilians won’t give you helping hand.

In extreme case defend yourself and run away. But to truly fight back you need to find another means other than physical combat for a soldier.
This life na sense

Kamdil:
the barracks is an isolated environment for serving officers,that doesn't take away their right. The barracks are just to ease accomodations burden on the officers ,and doesn't impede on their right to trade. Most of those beer parlours are own by officers' wives ,or serving officers.

What section of the Constitution did she derive her power from to issue directives affecting people's businesses?

This is just an ordinary police igp wife that the Constitution ,or police act doesn't even recognized. Who gave her that power?

Even the IGP doesn't have such power ,not to talk of his wife.

You people just like to drag issues
The post say “she decried” ! Meaning to call to attention. So what is the wrong there.
Did they tell you they have started removing the beer parlour or she went ahead to remove them?

post=102131288:
In as much as this would have been a good news but,
Statistics shows that 80% of parents of cultists trained their children well, but some children will definitely bring reproach, disappointment and embarrassment to their parents.


But, do those animals reasons like normal humans?

I need a reference to this statistics. Can you provide one?

Kamdil:
stop spewing gibberish.

What right does she have to issue such order?

Does the barracks look like Sharia state of Kano ,and other shithole northern state that she will enforce the ban on beer

Are the people in the barracks not citizens that have right to do businesses of their choice in the barracks? You better start using your brain

So in other words you wanna teach the police how they run their barrack shey?

It was called barracks because of why?
People running businesses are fully aware it’s a barrack right?

Michelle55:
Are you saying those that connected with their life partners on social media didn't love them? We don't really know how and when we fall for the opposite sex, it just happens and if God willing it ends well for you.
Some people met their spouse on this same faceless forum as you tag it, it simply means that you can fall in love with anyone irrespective of where and how you met them.
You can meet your partner anywhere, in fact make e be inside rathole sef, if it's destined for you guys to be together bros e go happen. Infatuation has got nothing to do with love.

You heard clearly what I said. I said faceless forum. And stop using destiny as a quick and magic solution why people should be together. Everything has a process.
Any kind of deep feeling kindle for an online presence is nothing but fantasies and the process Op is describing it is even tiring. Had it been they’ve had a hangout before and she thinks his personality is amazing then such process even more welcoming.

Anyway it’s her choice, I was only talking about a process.
faceless forum as friends > hangout > dating etc

Not facelesss forum > catching feelings for an online presence

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ReactJs:
After going through this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6572647/thinking-dropping-out-college-focus , I realized that in the coming years, there's still going to be a large % unemployed and ignorant youths. I have never seen a group of people to afraid to take risks and generally pessimistic in my entire life!

How do you people not know that times have changed and even in this country, especially the emerging tech industry in Nigeria, you DO NOT NEED a Bsc to work.

I dropped out of 2 federal universities because i realized very early in my life that there's a difference between schooling and education and that a time will come that society is gonna need actual EDUCATED people. I'll leave you to figure out what it means to be educated cuz it seems like a lot of you guys really think you're educated. You're being Schooled that's why we're where we are as a country. if 60% of the youths are actually educated, Nigeria will probably be a better place.

First uni, I studied biochemistry and 2nd uni i studied zoology. I saw that all of these courses didn't align with the trajectory i envisaged and i took a conscious decision to change my path. it wasn't easy but here i am today.

A friend that didn't even bother going to university at all. He started learning immediately we left sec school in surulere. i recently met him in victoria island and he's a goddamn big boy. A complete senior developer at his workplace.

All of my friends back then in school are doing one thing or the other just to make ends meet and only just a few are doing relatively well. I am not mocking anyone but a lot of you just really need to stop viewing life in binary terms.

Before i got a job, i interviewed with about 3 companies in this Lagos and not one, not a single one made mention or even asked me about a Bsc. I've interviewed with firms in Brooklyn and Amsterdam, they never asked me for a degree. You people really need to wake up o.

I've been an instructor for over a year at a well-known bootcamp in lagos. Majority of my weekend students were bankers, accountants and all other types of people looking to get into the tech ecosystem.

Times have changed and you people better understand this.

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Op it is because of our standard of education has falling you’re writing this. Not everyone is cut of for this coding of stuff. Except you have been coding before now and your journey is enjoyable you can quit if you like or do part time or anything but not for a starter please
Take it or leave

Kamdil:
Everybody flexing muscles and giving directives as if they are the President.

What right does she have to determine how ,and where people will do their businesses?

Breweries pay tax,and have right to operate as desires. Beer is not a contraband goods,so how can ordinary police igp wife issue directives with threats.


This people are something else.

Don’t be dumb, they said barracks.
Which kin long epistle be this