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Dexy4yah:
There is nothing like the most beautiful in the world.... nomatter how you fine reach...u go see person wey fine pass u 100 times

And the one wey come fine pass na the most beautiful

Firefyta:
Which Oba?
Dey play lol
Oba wey na lordi
You see Benin and makurdi till thy kingdom come fraternities are there to stay.

What does Oba need them for?

NastiLord:
Congratulations to them. Nothing gives peace of mind than knowing that the job that pay your bills is secured. I don't have a job but I'm happy for them.

God bless me one day

Brain dead

FitCorper:
World war 3 is more economical than physical. You will understand after African gains back her greatness championed by Nigeria. God bless Nigeria… God bless Africa

?? I am sure this is not a normal human being. obviously a miscreant

BRATISLAVA:
You'll simply pity Nigerian women by the time this dubious sounding and looking man is done with his beclouded testimony.

His son is dead, but he's more interested in this infidelity allegation. If he were asleep from eating the drugged noodles, how could he know all this? So all his problems are from his daughter in law and her mother? What about the guy he was clearly having issues with? Is this about the properties he alleges they are withholding from him, that he feels so entitled to? Doesn't he know that that is what a wife is: the true next of kin?

If a Nigerian woman isn't to blame, then the story is not complete. Misogyny is stupidity.

Even the serial killer who suddenly claimed the girl wanted sex with him, when he lured her with a fake job then raped and killed get, even he knew that the dumb men presiding the case would lose all their braincells once he mentioned sex. He just knew they would, and it worked.

It's the same thing here.

You simply don't know if the story is false, for now it is alleged, you also don't actually know the truth either, don't speak like you do.

MikeMicheal:
I still dont know why people carry this matter for head.
Abeg make una rest jare! Wetin sef

Oga go sitdown, you wey no carry am for head. wetin you don gain for this life?

membranus:
NDI ALA!!

You will wait forever to learn Nigeria politics from we Yorubas; you will wait till kingdom comes.

Should I count the number of Yorubas that have ruled this nation after Aguiyi Ironsi? Should I name Obasanjo, Sonekan, Obasanjo and now Tinubu. Even your fellow rebel, Philip Effiong surrendered to a Yoruba man after your kinsmen misguided venture into civil war. That means we Yorubas are at the top of the pecking order in this country. Without our support no other tribes, including Igbo, can win the presidency of this nation. Ask Buhari.

As per the economy, what magic can your Saint Obi perform to turn this over-looted country around in just 6 months that will be different from what Tinubu is presently doing? Do your presidential choice have the mental capacity and political clout, skill, influence and experience that Tinubu have to turn this country around in a short time?

Apart from racial insults and abuses, and bigoted and sentimental, ego driven, supremacy claims of your Igbo tribe, what special or superhuman attributes do you believe your tribe will bring to the Nigeria economic table that suddenly brings us at par with all rich economies of the world? Nothing, except your ambition to fill all ministries, departments and government appointments with your people with your people, to start another round of looting and crippling of the national economy.

So Mr. NDI ARA and NDI ALA, go siddon somewhere mek we hear noise.

Nothing sensible was written. It’s 5 month now z what has your tinubu done?

Tayorshd87:
Tinubu is not a magician bro ..


At d same time Nigeria is not easy the population is more than d countries u do compare it with and besides before he got there there are some backlog error foundations that has mismanage our future benefit ..

Jagabam we stand jare

brain dead

Sunnie1:
Not only that,many people who sub to come online ,can get contract or even a work that will pay.

Being online does not mean one is not suffering?

Did you know what some are passing through,oh,because they didn't tell you?

You even sub 2k -5k data,speak for yourself.

Some sub ₦100 -₦500 to be online, some borrow to sub to be online,some use their last cash to sub to come online in search of job or work to do.
Is that not suffering ??

Many are staving,but have to come online by all means just for ends to meet.

And mind you not everyone come online to post pictures and the rest of them, speak for yourself that you are not suffering.
👇👇
Hire me to write your project, dissertation, thesis ,etcetera.
👇👇

You did not understand what was posted. He said those that come online to claim hunger. The post was specific

CJStarz:
Why Hausa weddings no dey trip me? D guy go still marry 3 more wives on top this one.

On the other hand, I've noticed that in the North,d rich marries the rich. Why? Because they believe that Power must remain in their circle.

But in the East,you can see a rich dude marry a girl from a poor background and before you know it,he transforms the lives of the girl and her poor family. Why? Because we believe that wealth should go round.

Abegi make we hear word. Nothing like believe anything anywhere. See as you use still quickly forge reason.

YoungLionken:
This guy is in for a long ride. He will be trending back to back on all social platforms online for the moment..

Like I said earlier, "a man's temperament controls his destiny". When a girl is adamantly stubborn with constant misbehaviors, the best or worst you can do is release her back to the streets, where you picked her from. You can't save any girl that doesn't or not ready to be saved, no matter how you try..

See how this nigger (a multi-millionaire) messed up his own life, by himself, through a girl he could have easily replaced. Men who don't know themselves are the ones getting all hyper on women. The men who know that they're the prize, women are the ones begging/craving for attention from them..

Be wise...

Nonsense talk. Multi millionaire from doing what? He claim from a bet but we sure know better, I have never heard him being announced on any platform as a winner of any bet.
How on earth do you think he killed her due to anger issue? Because of some useless random Instagram post?

Abeg Abeg na Sunday be this

superCleanworks:
Can you bet your life on that? Or you just want your assumptions to be correct by force. Is that not the height of delusional behaviour?

Go and ask your parents the difference between being HONEST and throwing baseless, boring, childish accusations.

Honestly, never mind

superCleanworks:
You simply lack the mental capacity to achieve understanding. Blame it on your parents & don't be too harsh on yourself.

One more thing, saying HONESTLY over and over again like a clueless person doesn't make your comment valid. Even a mad person can say that so try something more intelligent (IF YOU CAN)

You are a covert Tinubu supporter is the idea but you are instead masquerading. You claim Atiku fight cannot be for anything real. But then again the person on the seat is compromised. You’re just too slow.

I am being honest here

superCleanworks:
The chase is real. I don't care about Tinubu but when you see a person fighting so fiercely for power, it can never be for the good of the people.

Honestly you’re plainly an online miscreant . I mean honestly

HarunaWest:
Na we go suffer am not him. He is the fvcking CinC whether we like it or not. Since Atiku lost, I have already moved on. He too should move on as well and forget this cry baby tactic. It's too late o to remove Tinubu as we speak.

move on to where exactly? Out of Nigeria? The way una dey think ehn

planetx:
Bloody fake Ashkenazi so called Jews, continue your genocide while this dumb Africans are clapping for you. The Bible said once the real Jews returns from the 4 corners of the earth from which they were scattered there will be total peace in the promised land, how come since you fakers got there in 1948 it's been endless wars.

Just Dey zuzu like fly online. Quoting off context

zombieHUNTER:
The arrogant fool will meet his Waterloo ..

He has no aiota of humility inside

Stop smoking colos

Tommydare:
When u read very well, u will understand what I am saying. But the bottom line is all of the are fighting for their own pockets. Non of them can or will give the masses what they want.

Which solution do you propose? Your own na make you just dey point who is wrong Abi? That job is easier that doing something about it, I hope you know sha.

NutritionGuru:
#LetTinubuBreathe is now trending on Social Media! Well meaning Nigerians that really love and want Progress of this Country have started calling out:
https://www.nairaland.com/7867832/igbo-leader-tells-opposition-leaders#126241939

Zombie

Tommydare:
Abeg make dem getat. Tinubu, Atiku, Obi and their lawyers are all liars. Pointing fingers at each other for their own self interest. But agbadorians and mumudients will never use their heads. They believe what ever they are told.

What exactly is your point?

Georgekyrian:
He is mad, if I’m in your shoe I will get so mad at him. I can’t enter someone door if I was not permitted no matter what, I can’t open a close door if my knock wasn’t answered, some people just got no discipline

life no get Manual. What you said is a general principle and not a law on how to live

VeeVeeMyLuv:
That enough seems not to be enough for the sister

If the kids are homeless and squatting in a friends place. You can’t call that enough.

We like to bash women for pressuring men but in as much we must acknowledge when something doesn’t seem right except we are just trolling

Curse777:




*and I so much dislike him because he's fair and I can't stand fair guys.

*they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house.

Summary of this long epistle

1: He first asked you out and you rejected, as a man he moved on to your sister and you resented him deeply

2: He is currently financially handicap and he irritates you, you hate poor men and poor men neither deserve marriage, or children

3: To you financial burden of a family is exclusive responsibility of a man


PS:

Dear Men, stay completely away from marriage if you are not financially bouyant as you are only rated for your financial strength by Women



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After three kids
Is it that someone part of the story aren’t true, is it that the man didn’t do enough and his kids are in his friends place?

She obviously has some bad blood for the said man. But that being said, a man is responsible for what happens to his family, the man in this story hasn’t done enough

Jewessgratitud3:
Right now she needs advice on what to do and I'm also going to be sharing what I have advised her so far.

This man has used his foolishness to implicate my sister and their lovely kids. Before I go into details of what happened recently, I'll like to give a quick backstory of how all these came to be and how she even got herself into this mess

Backtrack to 2014 when she broke the news that someone was coming to see the family for her hand, I asked her who the person was but she refused to tell me saying I'll meet him when he comes. I was now like ha... This one you're hiding it. I never knew it was one useless guy that was living in our former area in the early 2000s that all he does then was stand at junctions disturbing girls. He also disturbed me one period like that and I so much dislike him because of his behavior plus he's fair and I dont fancy fair guys.

The day came and we started cooking. Already I had gotten a hint from my eldest sister that it's the guy and I said was that why she was hiding it? What's my own there. We move. As the day was approaching, my idowus husband called and told me to warn my sister that that guy she's pulling with is not it. That if she's trying to have something serious with him she'll be making a big mistake. I said, she's an adult and can make choices for herself.


He came with his people and we did everything and she moved in with him. Now, this guy doesn't do anything. He claims he's a lawyer but never goes to work. Most times he'll go for early morning training by 6am and after everyone has gone to work, he'll come home and be sleeping. initially my sister was covering him up that he's doing something but anytime I visit after school, I'll always meet him at home sleeping. I knew my sis was just covering him.

Before they married my sister owned a school that was doing well. After her first child the school was still doing well but they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house. Sometimes she would come to school with bruises on her face. Since she refused to talk, me I didn't bother asking because if I do she'll bark at me.it continue like that until she could no longer bear it and started opening up to me that the guy doesn't do anything. Just goes about from one junction to the other.

She took in for her second child and fell sick. The school suffered mismanagement and folded up. That was when the guy showed her his true color. They fought to the extent she left her kids and went to my sister's house. My elder sisters husband settled them and she went back.

She had her third child and the guy started his madness again. This time he would leave them and go for hours without food. When he's coming at night he'll buy food and call his children to come eat and leave my sister hungry. So anytime I go there I'll just find her something to eat. Sometimes not always.
The day I said enough is enough and decided to pull her out of that nonsense was the day she called me, I was in a bus and she said for two days now she has not eaten anything and she's having headache. That the guy said he'll deal with her. I told her to hold on and sent her the little I could that I'll come and see her.

I got there and told her she can't continue like this . I told her to start following me to school to learn how to do what I'm doing and I'll be giving her small small daily pay any day she goes with me and later she can start sourcing for her own schools and be making her own money. I put her through and took her to a school immediately and assigned her to some classes after watching me for a few mins.

We did that for a few weeks and I was giving her the small thing I could after each day. She started going out to look for schools and two schools called her. She now said she can't be following me again , I said no problem. God helped her, She now got more schools and started selling books too and making money.
When this guy saw it, he left feeding and only buys food for the children once in a while. Meanwhile their fighting continued.

Fast-forward to last year, the landlord called my sister that he has given the husband quit notice, not because he was owing but because he was always disrespecting the landlord. My sister tried to plead but he said it's not because of my sister but the husband. Now this guy's is so troublesome and brags a lot. He quarrels with the landlord a lot and always goes against the rules of the compound. I on the other hand have been telling my twin now that she has the money to get her own apartment and leave the lazy thing but she remained there.


Last two weeks Tuesday. during that heavy downpour, the landlord came with some police men and threw their things out in the rain as she was preparing her children for school. It was one of the police men that now had pity on her and said they should leave the things in the compound instead of throwing outside in the rain and helped my sister to bring then inside the gate. The husband ran away. After everything he called my sister to bring the children somewhere. When she got there it was a friend's house. He begged them to let his family stay the night and till now he's still there. I told my sister, shey I've been warning you about this guy. Bett look for a place and move in before this one's change their mind. Could you believe this man continued his laziness there? When everyone has gone out he'll go there and start sleeping till they come back from work and meet him. My sister said he has started quarrelling the man's wife . Someone who's squatting you you're challenging them.

he's talking about moving them to Mowe but my sister is not buying the idea and says she wants to get an apartment here on the mainland because of her job and move with only her children but I'm of the opinion that she should leave the children with him because if she goes with the children he'll run from his responsibility and never pay their school fees again.

What should she do because the guy travelled for his brothers burial now and the owner of the house was heard asking the wife why the guy and my sister are still in their house and said let him come back first . Meaning they are tired.

I've told her to get an apartment now o.

Your sister don tie big stone to her leg o. You’re advising her to quit marriage as if it is even easy with the type of man she is with. Like like this, make your sis lock up and bear responsibilities of her decision. If the physical assault continues, she should divorce him legally and prepare to care for the children herself.

That said, please don’t in anyway share the bad blood you have for this man on decisions for your sister, be holistic. I sense some of that in your story. He is the father of her kids and he is your sister’s husband. Also acknowledge your sister deserve to pay for some of her decisions as well. Don’t give a dog a bad name so you can hang it

AlphaHakimi:
My advise to this man is as follows
1) Don't ever sell your source of income to send your wife abroad.
2) Always know that she is in love with what you provide and not your personality.
3) Plan for your retirement, as you go out daily to provide for your family, remember you are part of that family and provide for yourself too.
4) If your wife places conditions before she sleeps with you, please place more stringent conditions before you provide.
5) Be prepared to walk away once the marriage no longer serves your purpose, your wife will walk away at the slightest opportunity. Don't worry about the kids, when they grow up they will understand.
6) Marriage is a world institution so be prepared to treat your marriage as such.
7) Your marriage should be transactional, anyday she relegates in her duties as a woman, you are justified to relegate in your own duties as a man.
Be formless like water, never be predictable.
9) Never let your wife draw you away from your parents or siblings. If you die, she will be more interested in the properties you left behind.
10) IT IS NOT YOUR DUTY TO PROVIDE LUXURY OR SOFT LIFE FOR YOUR WIFE. IF SHE WANTS ANY OF THOSE, SHE SHOULD GET A JOB.
11) If your wife works, please ensure that she contributes 50% of her earnings to the family needs. Don't say a man must provide EVERYTHING.

Lastly, I pray she is a GOOD AND KIND person and may Your marriage work out.

N:B Do not think I have given you bad advice, my aim is to ensure that you are not on the loosing side of this romantic transaction.

Shalom

Oversabi!!! Get something better to do with your life. See as you take time type unsolicited advice…
Who asked you all this.

Na wa for someone people 😅😅😅

Yankiss:
It's obvious that Kogi people need a fresh breath from the Yahaya Bello era. If that be Dino or the SDP candidate or even the APC candidate if he would later betray Bello, so be it. We need good governance in NIgeria.

Dino plant

NSNO:
I don't support Tinubu but floating the naira and removing subsidy was the best thing to do.
Alot of Nigerians don't understand how bad our economy is, they think its just to build roads and start farming etc.
Nigeria's economy needs a complete overhaul and the measures taken yet are just the beginning.
More hardship is on the way but like the saying the darkest hour is just before dawn, Nigeria's dawn is almost here, we just have to endure the darkness a little longer.

One hungry criminals will locate you someday. You Dey your house dey type nonsense. Atleast you don chop belle full this night ba

Looking4massage:
stop bullying naira marly. what if he commits suicide because of this bully and una later find out say no be him kill am?
stop this fucking rubbish.
so if u have issues with someone and the person dies monthly later , does it mean u killed him?

do you know how many people u have had issues with that have passed on? will it be right to say u killed them all?|??

You fit enter street talk this wan??

Oboto700:
you just Believed everything happens naturally... No worry

but things also do happen naturally, I am sure you also can't differentiate the difference better than I can do. I don't also think I may do better also.

it all boils down that we really don't know anything about somethings

Kobojunkie:
1. Exactly!

2. So? If any of those girls turns to report any of those men, that man will be regarded a rapist by Law and that tag will hopefully follow him for a very long time to come. The reason many of them don't come forward is ignorance. Once awareness is gained, many of those girls and there families will begin to bring to book all those men who do that.

3. That does not change what the Law states. Even if the girl dances naked on you, so long as she is underage, if you have sexual intercourse with her, you are a rapist by law. Nothing has changed about the Law. You just choose to feign ignorance of it so you can excuse your rape of kids.

stop sleeping with teenagers. simple
when you see a teenager, you know them.

Claiming ignorance of age is exactly whose fault and who should be held responsible?

lordnkem000:
Pls how is it rape? They had sex. U re just saying because it's a minor so it is judged as rape. Omo 97% of men will be jailed by ur assertions if things work like this na, because some girls of 16, 17 in the university re bleeped by men everyday ignorant of their age. In most cases na the girls dey carry the kpomo give the men.. things have changed in 2023 so these archaic laws needs to be amended

So you failed to ask a young girl(you're about to have sex with) about her age as full grown man you're. who exactly is to be held responsible.... ?? please help me out