flokii:
You spent 13 million to Japa to UK.. now see your life, no job forthcoming for you.

I won't pity you cos I know your type love going about condemning Nigeria at the slightest opportunity you get, thinking the grass is greener over there for you.

Experience is the best teacher.. this one will teach you and many more like you to appreciate your home cos 'no place like home'.

So what is your point exactly?
The same place we called home was same place we have a lot of crisis around and same una if una see the opportunity wey im get una go grab am with both hands

Natbrowny:


Exactly.. Where is the money?
Probably returned to people he loaned it from
See ehn, Nigerians will not show transparency and they are going to nations that has rules.

U lied in ur bank statement just to japa. If OP is found guilty, those people won't listen to sorry..

stop to dey cap jare. Na today you enter Nigeria?

EmperorFred:
Are you saying weed is better or worst to smoke?

He mean you can smoke anything else but don’t smoke weed

Benki003:


Bro this is me right here 🥺🥺 I thought it was only me that have this situation am happy to see am not alone

Me sef join the group o lolz

Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh

I so much relate with this. Anytime anything stress me na to ghost everybody and sort the stress out. Every of my babe don tire for me. Even me sef don tire for my sef lolx. Na God go help me make my wife be so understanding.

Funny thing is when I get back, I go wan start to relate like say we don dey talk since

Reminderz:

sure, but right now, the topic is about sex on a first date in general... and btw, a girl who you met at the club should tell you that she's just there to have fun... you'll be taking yourself for a fool if you think she's there for nothing more than just that... one night stands are common in such places.. let's just stay on the topic...

Generally, sex on first date is not acceptable but what is weird here, is she agrees to it beforehand, in reality, it happens alot and it usual just happen and no pre-discussion about it. But consenting to it and agreeing to it rather than it just happening raises eye brow and makes every look so transactional. So I get your point

For the topic at hand, OP could be the only one dating here and he just lucky finds a randy woman who has nothing for him than just FWB. And OP has taken the transactional relationship to the next level. we never can tell

Reminderz:

exactly...

Well what I am saying is a bit contrary to what you said.
I mean women act differently based on the her phase of life, situation, the man involves and some other things.
e.g When a girl meet a man in a club, she is more loose towards same man than when she meets him in a church etc
also young women like 21 - 25 are more likely to act loosely towards men. older ones and the ones ready for marriage try to act socially correct.
So there are grey areas. if you don't add the specifics, you're likely to give OP the wrong advice. and perhaps OP didn't say much about this lady in question.

Reminderz:

this is why most of y'll ladies are dumb thinking you're wise... a woman and a man are not the same and can never be the same... how men see women is different from how women see men... men will ask you for sex, the good ones and the bad ones... the wise ones among them (whether good or bad) will understand by that statement she made that she's not meant for keeps... he would think, "if she can have sex with me on the first date, she would probably have a high mileage... she's probably a hoe who have sex with men on first dates"... women are mostly judged sexually, men are judged financially or by his status in the society... you guys keep thinking you're on the same level as a man, that's delusional... some men will ask you for sex on first day or somewhere around just to test you, if you accept, he will fvck you and conclude in his mind never to take you serious... if you find nothing wrong in having sex on a first date, you be olosho... top level!

no matter how attractive a woman finds a man, she should never have sex with him on the first date unless she's a hoe or she's probably in just for the fun of it or nothing serious... a woman with standards and who goes for the real thing won't stoop that low... olosho nor get standards... for someone like her, anything goes... this is why they end up getting used and dump by numerous men and end up saying "mehn are scum" while they brought it upon themselves...

When it comes to woman choosing who to have sex with, it’s more of a double standard. The same lady in question will meet the one she wants for a husband and choose to deny him sex till marriage.

Dexy4yah:
There is nothing like the most beautiful in the world.... nomatter how you fine reach...u go see person wey fine pass u 100 times

And the one wey come fine pass na the most beautiful

Firefyta:
Which Oba?
Dey play lol
Oba wey na lordi
You see Benin and makurdi till thy kingdom come fraternities are there to stay.

What does Oba need them for?

NastiLord:
Congratulations to them. Nothing gives peace of mind than knowing that the job that pay your bills is secured. I don't have a job but I'm happy for them.

God bless me one day

Brain dead

FitCorper:
World war 3 is more economical than physical. You will understand after African gains back her greatness championed by Nigeria. God bless Nigeria… God bless Africa

?? I am sure this is not a normal human being. obviously a miscreant

BRATISLAVA:
You'll simply pity Nigerian women by the time this dubious sounding and looking man is done with his beclouded testimony.

His son is dead, but he's more interested in this infidelity allegation. If he were asleep from eating the drugged noodles, how could he know all this? So all his problems are from his daughter in law and her mother? What about the guy he was clearly having issues with? Is this about the properties he alleges they are withholding from him, that he feels so entitled to? Doesn't he know that that is what a wife is: the true next of kin?

If a Nigerian woman isn't to blame, then the story is not complete. Misogyny is stupidity.

Even the serial killer who suddenly claimed the girl wanted sex with him, when he lured her with a fake job then raped and killed get, even he knew that the dumb men presiding the case would lose all their braincells once he mentioned sex. He just knew they would, and it worked.

It's the same thing here.

You simply don't know if the story is false, for now it is alleged, you also don't actually know the truth either, don't speak like you do.

MikeMicheal:
I still dont know why people carry this matter for head.
Abeg make una rest jare! Wetin sef

Oga go sitdown, you wey no carry am for head. wetin you don gain for this life?

membranus:


NDI ALA!!

You will wait forever to learn Nigeria politics from we Yorubas; you will wait till kingdom comes.

Should I count the number of Yorubas that have ruled this nation after Aguiyi Ironsi? Should I name Obasanjo, Sonekan, Obasanjo and now Tinubu. Even your fellow rebel, Philip Effiong surrendered to a Yoruba man after your kinsmen misguided venture into civil war. That means we Yorubas are at the top of the pecking order in this country. Without our support no other tribes, including Igbo, can win the presidency of this nation. Ask Buhari.

As per the economy, what magic can your Saint Obi perform to turn this over-looted country around in just 6 months that will be different from what Tinubu is presently doing? Do your presidential choice have the mental capacity and political clout, skill, influence and experience that Tinubu have to turn this country around in a short time?

Apart from racial insults and abuses, and bigoted and sentimental, ego driven, supremacy claims of your Igbo tribe, what special or superhuman attributes do you believe your tribe will bring to the Nigeria economic table that suddenly brings us at par with all rich economies of the world? Nothing, except your ambition to fill all ministries, departments and government appointments with your people with your people, to start another round of looting and crippling of the national economy.

So Mr. NDI ARA and NDI ALA, go siddon somewhere mek we hear noise.

Nothing sensible was written. It’s 5 month now z what has your tinubu done?

Tayorshd87:
Tinubu is not a magician bro ..


At d same time Nigeria is not easy the population is more than d countries u do compare it with and besides before he got there there are some backlog error foundations that has mismanage our future benefit ..

Jagabam we stand jare

brain dead

Sunnie1:
Not only that,many people who sub to come online ,can get contract or even a work that will pay.

Being online does not mean one is not suffering?

Did you know what some are passing through,oh,because they didn't tell you?

You even sub 2k -5k data,speak for yourself.

Some sub ₦100 -₦500 to be online, some borrow to sub to be online,some use their last cash to sub to come online in search of job or work to do.
Is that not suffering ??

Many are staving,but have to come online by all means just for ends to meet.

And mind you not everyone come online to post pictures and the rest of them, speak for yourself that you are not suffering.
👇👇
Hire me to write your project, dissertation, thesis ,etcetera.
👇👇

You did not understand what was posted. He said those that come online to claim hunger. The post was specific

CJStarz:
Why Hausa weddings no dey trip me? D guy go still marry 3 more wives on top this one.

On the other hand, I've noticed that in the North,d rich marries the rich. Why? Because they believe that Power must remain in their circle.

But in the East,you can see a rich dude marry a girl from a poor background and before you know it,he transforms the lives of the girl and her poor family. Why? Because we believe that wealth should go round.

Abegi make we hear word. Nothing like believe anything anywhere. See as you use still quickly forge reason.

YoungLionken:
This guy is in for a long ride. He will be trending back to back on all social platforms online for the moment..

Like I said earlier, "a man's temperament controls his destiny". When a girl is adamantly stubborn with constant misbehaviors, the best or worst you can do is release her back to the streets, where you picked her from. You can't save any girl that doesn't or not ready to be saved, no matter how you try..

See how this nigger (a multi-millionaire) messed up his own life, by himself, through a girl he could have easily replaced. Men who don't know themselves are the ones getting all hyper on women. The men who know that they're the prize, women are the ones begging/craving for attention from them..

Be wise...

Nonsense talk. Multi millionaire from doing what? He claim from a bet but we sure know better, I have never heard him being announced on any platform as a winner of any bet.
How on earth do you think he killed her due to anger issue? Because of some useless random Instagram post?

Abeg Abeg na Sunday be this

superCleanworks:


Can you bet your life on that? Or you just want your assumptions to be correct by force. Is that not the height of delusional behaviour?

Go and ask your parents the difference between being HONEST and throwing baseless, boring, childish accusations.

Honestly, never mind

superCleanworks:

You simply lack the mental capacity to achieve understanding. Blame it on your parents & don't be too harsh on yourself.

One more thing, saying HONESTLY over and over again like a clueless person doesn't make your comment valid. Even a mad person can say that so try something more intelligent (IF YOU CAN)

You are a covert Tinubu supporter is the idea but you are instead masquerading. You claim Atiku fight cannot be for anything real. But then again the person on the seat is compromised. You’re just too slow.

I am being honest here

superCleanworks:
The chase is real. I don't care about Tinubu but when you see a person fighting so fiercely for power, it can never be for the good of the people.

no pinch of sense in what you just said. Honestly you’re plainly a slowpoke. I mean honestly

HarunaWest:
Na we go suffer am not him. He is the fvcking CinC whether we like it or not. Since Atiku lost, I have already moved on. He too should move on as well and forget this cry baby tactic. It's too late o to remove Tinubu as we speak.

move on to where exactly? Out of Nigeria? The way una dey think ehn

planetx:
Bloody fake Ashkenazi so called Jews, continue your genocide while this dumb Africans are clapping for you. The Bible said once the real Jews returns from the 4 corners of the earth from which they were scattered there will be total peace in the promised land, how come since you fakers got there in 1948 it's been endless wars.

Just Dey zuzu like fly online. Quoting off context

zombieHUNTER:
The arrogant fool will meet his Waterloo ..

He has no aiota of humility inside

Stop smoking colos

Tommydare:
When u read very well, u will understand what I am saying. But the bottom line is all of the are fighting for their own pockets. Non of them can or will give the masses what they want.

Which solution do you propose? Your own na make you just dey point who is wrong Abi? That job is easier that doing something about it, I hope you know sha.

NutritionGuru:
#LetTinubuBreathe is now trending on Social Media! Well meaning Nigerians that really love and want Progress of this Country have started calling out:
https://www.nairaland.com/7867832/igbo-leader-tells-opposition-leaders#126241939

Zombie

Tommydare:
Abeg make dem getat. Tinubu, Atiku, Obi and their lawyers are all liars. Pointing fingers at each other for their own self interest. But agbadorians and mumudients will never use their heads. They believe what ever they are told.

What exactly is your point?

Georgekyrian:


He is mad, if I’m in your shoe I will get so mad at him. I can’t enter someone door if I was not permitted no matter what, I can’t open a close door if my knock wasn’t answered, some people just got no discipline

life no get Manual. What you said is a general principle and not a law on how to live

VeeVeeMyLuv:

That enough seems not to be enough for the sister

If the kids are homeless and squatting in a friends place. You can’t call that enough.

We like to bash women for pressuring men but in as much we must acknowledge when something doesn’t seem right except we are just trolling

Curse777:




*and I so much dislike him because he's fair and I can't stand fair guys.

*they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house.

Summary of this long epistle

1: He first asked you out and you rejected, as a man he moved on to your sister and you resented him deeply

2: He is currently financially handicap and he irritates you, you hate poor men and poor men neither deserve marriage, or children

3: To you financial burden of a family is exclusive responsibility of a man


PS:

Dear Men, stay completely away from marriage if you are not financially bouyant as you are only rated for your financial strength by Women



.

You brain dry o. After three kids
Is it that someone part of the story aren’t true, is it that the man didn’t do enough and his kids are in his friends place?

She obviously has some bad blood for the said man. But that being said, a man is responsible for what happens to his family, the man in this story hasn’t done enough