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RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 12:05pm On Jun 04, 2021
Abba114:
if redpillers always talk about females, are simps not doing thesame? the difference between redpillers nd simps is that the redpillers discuss females, their manipulations and come up with solution for the betterment of their lives while simps are just blindly chasing girls and falling for their manipulations op you are pained because redpillers are being immune to females manipulations
Now you're getting the clear picture that redpill are simp in another skin.
SIMPS are white knights
Redpill are angry white knights, they want revenge for their good deeds
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 12:02pm On Jun 04, 2021
Sibtygarr:
I am doing so by exposing the lie redpill promises
it claims it knows the truth, it actually doesn't

It is only find way to corrupt men in a bid that it is getting bad to the female.

If guys have problems with the female gender let them cure it for themselves and stop telling other guys what to do.....

I am exposing the hate
Respect!
This line is just apt and I think it is the single line that exposes what redpill are all about.
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 11:53am On Jun 04, 2021
AstroG:
I don't really delve into meaningless threads these days,but lemme clear ur mind abt redpills


There's a big broad line between Redpills and misogyny ,people mistake a redpiller for a misogynist and vice versa.

Back to your topic,self identification of a good woman for marriage is dependent on how you play ur cards while u observe her manipulative characters,most women tend to camouflage during courtship and reveal their through colors during marriage. So redpills doesn't deal with how you identify a Good woman,it's your job to use ur God's given natural instincts.


My Two cents cry
Redpill don't identify good women.
So how does it help OP or men looking out for marriage?
it is all about pointing fingers like you all do all day long on your thread
It is a garbage theory.
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 11:27am On Jun 04, 2021
I see alot of contradictions.
Beta males and SIMPs is simply a term for people who are not IN CONTROL.
what is meaning of control and why should you want to control your partner? shouldn't life be you being in control of yourself?
Relationship is above you alone, it is the combine interest of you and your partner, anyone having more interest or benefit than the other is called cheating.
Repill is also in another words cheating, you want your selfish interest more,
Same goes when the woman does the same.

Redpill is dark point blank, it is just on interest of the man redpill is concerned about. I take the better definition of a SIMP by redpill to mean a guy who is cheated in the relationship and also I take redpill to mean a man who succeed in cheating this time around.

No known physical law works AT ALL TIMES. This, however does not invalidate a physicist's statement if he says "whatever you throw up must come down".
This is not true, with a define scope, when something is called a law it means it holds at all times, except you don't know what a law is called.
Most redpill stuff are based on observation, because some kind of girl behave to me in India then I then have it girls behave that way, it is madness, about 95% of you guys on that thread has barely travelled up to 7 state in Nigeria or barely stay in more than 3 for up to 5 years, yet you can truely form some weird laws and conclusion and call it a law, I called that madness.

Everything in this world is subjective, they must all be defined by a reference. We merely take them as "truths" and "facts" when the consistency of its validity far outweighs that of its invalidity.
This is very wrong, check the dictionary meaning of subjective, it means when it does with personal opinion and feeling of a subject. The earth is round is not subjective to any reference, it is basically a fact that exist and everyone would accept it. incase I subject such fact then it only makes sense around me.
This in practical means Redpill believe that all women are this and that and it then implies it is a fact when in reality it is mere subjective and based on a set of men perspective. Ofcourse it not a fact, if it would be then there must be a comprehensive explanation to explain the root of the foundation why it happens and with references.
Redpill fails point blank on this account, almost all talks and discussion are based on simply mere observation that can not in anyway be validated.
ProgrammingRe: Why Are Females Not Interested In IT?( Esp In Nigeria) by stanliwise(m): 7:51pm On Jun 03, 2021
genaro2000:
I laugh in Chinese, so who is now encouraging the men
Men have it a strong culture to go in tech. It is everywhere.
In my WhatsApp web group, their are practically less than 10 females.
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 1:23pm On Jun 03, 2021
Haylel:
That's why I said from the beginning, red pill is a decentralized ideology, not controlled by anyone or any faction.
You see those saying "all women are hoes" are actually loners, losers, simp-tryna be red pilled.
Challenge most of them to come out to the field and practicalise whatever it was they learnt from the red pill, they then give excuses because they know who they are inside.

Challenge any to tell you why they are hoes and you will realize that everyone (man and woman) will all be HOES according to whatever definition they give.


Red pill is simply a loose compilation of truths discovered about social dynamics all around the world. You have to niche-down to the faction you want to attack, else you will just be beating round the bush.
Well the boldness seem to be among the best definitions.

If such is a definition it means redpill is not something that has a face.
It then somehow can’t really be “bitter truth” at all times. It means I could be talking about my own truth and how does it help everyone.
It also means some things could be subjective and only true for the subject telling them.
It also means this “truth” has it scopes and may not be applicable at all time.

If this is the case so why now using “simp and beta males” to segregate and market ideologies. Which it has become already.

Redpill I think has weak structure and can become an umbrella for all sort of extreme and mildly extreme theory. It then means one has to thread with extreme care.

I barely see any time redpill correct themselves it is all about nodding heads as much as it does not say something good about female. Unknown in reverse it is coming against the male maturity.
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 12:57pm On Jun 03, 2021
Haylel:
Don't you still get it?
I will make her my wife because she is good, NOT, I will marry her and make her good.
It's your resources, whoever you are sharing it with should be worth it by meeting up with whatever high-jump standard you set.
You don't go about carrying out Genesis 1 on a prostitute, that's what SIMPs (the norms) do. You make yourself what everyone (man and woman inclusive) wants, who they want to be with, then you pick the best out of the best to create a family with.

Better understanding? No, you can only get another branch under the same tree.
All women are hoes

You then make yourself what everyone wants and the select the best of hoes and make them what you want.

Redpill is in a loop then.

The biggest mistake of redpill is

“All women are hoes”

It then indirectly renders every man needing a partner useless. It means all men must be on their toes with women. And can’t marry any woman.

You still can’t understand I am trying to paint the redpill red to make it more clearer how it doesn’t help situation. It may have its truth but fall short of the mantle it carries.

If this is the situation then let redpill stop all it segregation tactics. It ain’t the “truth” it claims it is.

Well I can’t paint a color to a color blind man.

This documentations are for the ones looking for something else rather than learning how to be manipulative and playing youthful games
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 12:41pm On Jun 03, 2021
Haylel:
Let me quote myself again "You don't make a good thing from a wife, you make a wife from a good thing".
Say, making virginity a necessary prerequisite for your intended spouse.
Say, making SUBMISSIVENESS a make or break trait that your intended spouse must possess.

Ask whatever it is you seem not to understand.
This then lead us back to the simp route, Men that have not had time for themselves would be the ones making their character of women. Such a fatherhood role for young man

I think you’re not the strong ones in the redpill thing. Let the ones with better understanding come forward
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m):
Haylel:
I see no challenge here, you simply do not understand something about the redpill.
Like the blockchain technology, the redpill community is partly decentralized (most of it actually), but what makes them (all its branches) is that they shoot from the same root.

Everything you want, I want them too. The answer to your question is found in one of redpill's unpopular wisdom.
I. A woman is malleable, she can be anything you want her to be. That girl that looks like a demanding bitch is being so "No, I love you for you, I don't want your money" to another guy.
Who she is depends on the kind of guy she's on to.

ii. Solomon said "He who finds a wife finds a good thing", the red pill added " you don't make a good thing from a wife, you make a wife out of a good thing".
You’re a clown

So men should start forging wife out of Hoes and manipulative women.

Same shit you call out guys who try to do same as simp is same shit you’re bringing on the table as a panacea. SMH

This redpill drug is shaking your brain.

You just keep shooting your redpill the more you try to defend it
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 10:56am On Jun 03, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
No, it gives solutions. It provides them by identifying problems (the bad).

This is literally how many of our problems get solved. Maybe you solve your problems by avoiding them.

I know when a person's mind is made up and stubborn to change. So, I'd end it here.
Bad vibes is when you form a habit of pointing out wrong without any intention to find solutions.

Also You’re really confused.

“All women are the same”, “all women are hoes”

Now tell me how does such statement point out anything good for a man with a future.

Abi shey English too hard like this ni?
There is simply no future for a person looking for a partner nor wanting to become a father.

So fatherhood, husband and family makes no sense in redpill.

I can barely see any married people in your midst. Infact aren’t you concerned about such?

I am engaging you so other people reading would learn.

I have no intention of changing you, you’re one in 7 billion people. Of what use is changing you.
RomanceRe: Pls Oh...can Anyone Explain What Are All These? (pic) by stanliwise(m): 8:17am On Jun 03, 2021
ihatebuhari:
you Christians use the name of the holy one for jokes and nonsense, have you seen any Muslim using their prophet name to joke?

No wonder Christians in Nigeria are being subjected to second class citizens because of nitwits like you.

I don't blame you
Why do you think he is a Christian?
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 7:09am On Jun 03, 2021
yomi007k:
You are talking trash, just so you know.
Answer OP question
RomanceRe: "Reality Every Guy Need To Know" (SINKING INTO REDPILL) by stanliwise(m): 7:03am On Jun 03, 2021
FreeSpirited:
Bull-crap. How does this make sense to you. Well I no get ur time I've see your trail of poo all over the place. You are irredeemable actually. Brother Feminist
Insult don’t work with me.
So because I am not a redpill then I am feminist?
To you everything is about 1 and 0.

You can pretend to be intelligent atleast
RomanceRe: Share Your Worst Experience All In The Name Of Being Too Nice by stanliwise(m): 12:43am On Jun 03, 2021
Bola146:
A lots cry cry but it's always good to be nice no matter what people say about it
Some beggars do what they do because people engage them.
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 12:39am On Jun 03, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
You still have superficial knowledge.

Some redpill authors like Rollo Tomassi are married. The fact they choose to call out the bad and stick with it is just fine.

Do you get all information you'd need in your life from one source? Definitely not. If you're looking for something on love, reference other sources.

If you can't take time to understand first before asking multiple questions, please don't waste your time and carry on with what you think is right
Well quite right.
You answered my question.

“Choose to call out the bad and stick with it”

Well as we all know, it is easy to point out wrong but not so easy to point out a solution.

So redpill is a fault finder theory.

Yet it claims to know the nature of ...

I think it enough
ProgrammingRe: Why Are Females Not Interested In IT?( Esp In Nigeria) by stanliwise(m): 11:34pm On Jun 02, 2021
Shedrach00:
Cultural thing like how they are brought up?
Yeah, teachers, parent and sometimes social settings don’t encourage girls being techy.

Most people find it awkward when girls wanna got into tech. There is always a stereotype of how productive it is for a female
ProgrammingRe: Why Are Females Not Interested In IT?( Esp In Nigeria) by stanliwise(m): 11:27pm On Jun 02, 2021
I guess it is linked to cultural thing. And many female sometimes think it is a male thing.
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 11:25pm On Jun 02, 2021
SportsHD:
There are advantages and disadvantages of red pill. Just that most niggars are just "miseducated" on the real usefulness of red pill.
Well I think it has a lot of difficult thorns to thread.

How can a theory that said “all women are hoes”
Find a wife for a man?
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 11:22pm On Jun 02, 2021
kurupt1:
Lol..... Growing up as a man,I don't think women showed kindness to young men except a few.Their kindness was based on what u could offer as a man.A lot of men identify with redpill because they really had terrible experiences growing up as young boys and men with women except few

So why are u girls now getting worried that men have actually realized the shit women are actually made up of and have decided not to take them seriously?
I can’t relate to the above you typed.

It sounds like you have never lived on this planet.

And aside that in my original comment you quoted I was asking a sensitive question.

If baby mama is the way, it means most male child will grow up with their mom, and would have little access to father figure and then the cycle will start all over again.
Is that not madness?
And then they would need to come to Nairaland again?
Jokes EtcRe: If This Guy Refuses To Pay After Eating, What Will You Do? (Photo) by stanliwise(m): 11:12pm On Jun 02, 2021
BareFacedLies:
Being bulky does not necessarily mean that he is strong
You have a point
But weight is a very important factor in a fight.

If the distance is too much, the heavier person can land just one punch to cover four of the lighter person punch
RomanceRe: Good People Still Exist by stanliwise(m): 11:04pm On Jun 02, 2021
Good people life matters
GPLM
Should be a very keen objective in Nigeria and the world at large.
Because good people are endangered species that all manner of evil people are looking for to ravage.

The problem is decoding the people who truely need help vs greedy people who are looking for people to leech on.

Anyway @jahbwoys thanks for coming through for a fellow
RomanceRe: Share Your Worst Experience All In The Name Of Being Too Nice by stanliwise(m):
Mine was with beggars o.
I gave alms until it got to a time that when they see me from afar all the children started running towards me. I knew I wasn’t doing the right thing

since all my alms, nothing changed, Economy did not get better for the giver and the receivers. And also I always know many beggars are unwilling to change. I mostly give to the children and rarely to adult.

But omo right now I have changed my habit o. I just give to children only and maybe people who are disabled
RomanceRe: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by stanliwise(m): 10:34pm On Jun 02, 2021
I also have said this long ago. Redpill has no plan for marriage!
Redpill is for boys
‘Marriage is not in redpill


Anyone who plans to find a wife and rolling with pigs is making a big mistake.

Watch them avoid the question
RomanceRe: Almost Every One Looking For Bae Dey Claim Introvert by stanliwise(m): 10:15pm On Jun 02, 2021
stupidmod3:
they will start telling us little bout them selves n add am an introvert.


i wonder if dey know wat it means self.


another cope lol grin
Is it your introvert ?
CareerRe: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by stanliwise(m): 10:05pm On Jun 02, 2021
Jideh9ty:
Success itself is highly subjective. So it has different meanings to different persons but yet, a lot of us has allowed society decide what Success is, based on how they see life.


Public opinion is never the right opinion in most cases.
So So true
RomanceRe: "Reality Every Guy Need To Know" (SINKING INTO REDPILL) by stanliwise(m): 9:59pm On Jun 02, 2021
If you're a guy out there really confused about how socially awkward things are and need to get better at it. You most likely need the help of a counselor, if not there are a lot of book to read and here are things you need to concentration on, find books on

Social intelligence - This means how to read people behavior and make accurate inference, this would help you to understand how to react to event and how to interpret healthy and disrespectful social settings

self-appreciation and confidence - Most social problems happen because many people lack respect for themselves and likewise don't ask for same respect for people e.g way you dress, how you allow people address you, what you take from people and how you treat others

Communication: This topic is very complicated, most people face alot of problem in social settings since they lack the skill to communicate how they want to be perceived and also on the other end, some people can't easily understand common social signal. Its a complicated topic.

Self control and maturity: This is very important, many guys this days lack self control of how to act, speak or react to social situation, they either spoil the situation or delay things for too long.
On the maturity angle, alot of guys are just very immature, they lack proper timing and experience to handle common situation either by under reacting or over reacting.

The game: you need to understand common tricks people used in social settings to manipulate others. Unlike redpill you are not all out to play them but to understand them incase you're in a situation people try to use them on you. you can spot them and act appropratiely or play if you have to. But games remain games and if avoided you loose nothing. but a knowledge of them is not a bad idea
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 9:45pm On Jun 02, 2021
SportsHD:
Small dicked ugly niggaz who can't get pussy or got no game.

By the way, shout-out to ubunja.
Asalama for you senior bros, your face show,your shoe shine.
it's always segregation for redpill.
men of two color, black and white.

Your redpill google fails to tell you that live is more than blue and red

its a spectrum of many colors. so it means if I stand against redpill I would not get pussy
or I am not male enough?
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 9:41pm On Jun 02, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
I'm happy you asked. TRP is knowledge on a lot more than female nature. I have said this several times but blockheads that don't want to learn will never learn.

As social animals, men and women co-exist. It is not abnormal to see one gender learn by studying the other gender. Women talk about guys a lot with their girlfriends at their convenience.

At the core, TRP points back to men. If you cannot be rational enough to find out what it really is about, please stop asking questions - since you already have your own answer.
If TRP talks about women, why does it not talk about event where women has shown kindness to men?
why does it not address cases where women has been the victim?
That aside

TRP almost has no content for identifying a right woman, why?
Ok let me answer myself, it says
"All women are the same",
"women are object of sexual satisfaction",
"women are irrational and cannot be logical"

So it mean TRP has no content for people looking toward family and marriage to a woman
In other words TRP grand plan is the eradication of family settings and companionship. since it clearly goes against every idea of concept of
love.

In other words it mean TRP has no content for fatherhood not at least to a wife,

How does baby mama and child born out of wedlock become a solution to greater future.

A male child would be stuck with his mother and almost likely without an available father figure... how does TRP help any man..?
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2021
legallyminded:
This @StacyO is pained about redpill, what concerns relationships with the betterment and wellbeing of the society? Your hatred for that notion has caused your thinking faculty to shake to it's foundations. Why not you and your fellow parasites use what you get from your hosts to develop the society? Nonsense!
She raised a very strong point I have been asking for weeks

Why do redpill talk about female more than male
RomanceRe: Is This What Makes A Redpiller Special? by stanliwise(m): 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2021
StacyO:
Aside being obsessed about knacks (sex and women), of what importance are redpillers to the society?

I can clearly understand misogyny (I direct nail hit perfectly on the head).

Practically, the redpill doesn't give solutions. It only instructs on the games women play and the nature of women.

People that doesn't matter to the society hiding under the covers of bottled emotions.

I calmed down to wonder exactly how this would be beneficial to the society, what makes redpillers special? (Not like they're Bill Gate), even sex is just for a few minutes.


How come women are the center of the whole discussion? (It makes them obsessed, confused, loss of focus, embittered and definitely there would be sexual starvation.

I had to paste this here cause it's quite bothering how this movement is doing more harm than good. Breeding potential serial rapists who only see women as sex objects and pushing them back into the society.


Let's all be guided please. Social media has done enough harm already.

I came across this thread too and felt like sharing tongue

https://www.nairaland.com/6547391/reality-every-guy-need-know#101562546
Redpill is a male supremacy theory.
Nothing make a redpill special.

It’s dark and manipulative.
RomanceRe: "Reality Every Guy Need To Know" (SINKING INTO REDPILL) by stanliwise(m): 3:54pm On Jun 01, 2021
Redpill is a theory of penny wise pounds foolish.
Always looking out forward but no looking at it from the top(the big picture)
RomanceRe: How I Lost My Respect Due To Lack Of Self Control by stanliwise(m): 8:44am On Jun 01, 2021
fati2001:
why creating another moniker?

I believe you are one of them who bash women and responsible men..
You mean Alfa male? grin grin grin grin

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