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@25 to 35 you don't need any stimulant to booast your Libido. You put Tramadol to shame here. You reduce the profit margin of pharmaceutical coy! You reduce tramadol sales.

For those who engage in tramadol and other unnecessary drug or stimulant never knew they don't need it cos The energy to work is inbuilt and ready to be unleashed if you so desire. its like having Too much maggi in your indomie or Stew.

25 Beckon 35! Rule is the Golden period ( Hmmmmmm! Periodic table or called it Men sexual prowess peak time ever in life).

Here you don't need stimulants to fire your partner in the other room because the energy level is so huge to damage or even shift womb! ( Shifting womb if and only if it exist, I learnt it on Twitter and NairaLD)

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After ruminating through several pages of men sexual prowess combine with personal experience and exposure, I have come to firm conclusion; Unshakable position; that best moment in men life is between the ages of 25 to 35years. Anything above 35 The law of diminishing returns set in and this apply to all facets of life with few exceptions. But in Men sexuality this is a reality.

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Nothing is so ever fulfilling other than passing quality information and life experience down to the younger ones on this forum and by extension the coming generation. I introduce to you , young men and boys of this world ::: The secret of innate men sexuality with particular emphasis on Men Natural Power or Prowess in the other room!

Follow me ! U will Gonna not regret it!!
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deomelo:
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Fact is, the rejected PDP politicians have zero access to power because their own Yoruba and indigene Lagosians don't want them in power, but they don't mind turning the whole state upside down and even invite mercenaries from the SE with cheap ethnic votes and their own agendas to secure power.

Sadly, the coming and subsequent elections in Lagos state and the SW, in general, are largely going to be between Yoruba and ibo people and not necessarily between APC and PDP, this is what transpired last Saturday in Lagos.

Agbaje is a serial loser and he'll lose again and retire back to his pharmacy for another 4 years while Lagosians pick up the pieces, mend fences and heal wounds all over the state, but the folks in the line of fire are always going to be the mercenaries with cheap votes and anti-Yoruba agenda.

Agabje and ibo people in Lagos have nothing in common beyond wrestling power away from the APC, the ultimate goal for ibo people in Lagos is political and physical domination, but clueless and thoughtless Agbaje the so-called son of the soil care less, his only objective is politics and power but his hired mercenaries from the SE wants his land from top to bottom.

This is what Ahmadu Bello warned against in the North and what they've largely prevented till today.

I just don't see how this won't get bloody and deadly at the end of the day.

I like this rebuttal. Classically defined. Its a masterpiece of present Lagos politics. Thumbs up™

Sex education is regarded as a taboo in many homes.


what is a taboo?
ta·boo [tə b]
or ta·bu [tə b]
adjective
1. socially or culturally prohibited: forbidden to be used, mentioned, or approached because of social or cultural rather than legal prohibitions
2. unacceptable: not acceptable or healthful (humorous)
Sweets and fats are strictly taboo.
3. religion sacred and prohibited: set apart as sacred and at the same time forbidden to be used
noun (plural ta·boos) (plural ta·bus)
1. prohibition: a prohibition or rejection of some types of behavior or language because they are considered socially unacceptable
2. forbidden behavior: a subject or behavior that is forbidden or disapproved of because it is considered socially unacceptable
3. religion prohibition on grounds of being sacred: the practice, especially in some Polynesian societies, of regarding some things, people, or types of behavior as sacred and therefore forbidden to be used, made contact with, or engaged in

what the dictionary says:
sex [seks]
noun (plural sex·es)
1. Same as sexual intercourse
2. sexual behavior: sexual activity, or behavior leading to it
3. male or female gender: either of the two reproductive categories, male or female, of animals and plants
4. anatomy Same as genitals
(literary)
5. biology reproductive characteristics: the set of characteristics that determine whether the reproductive role of an animal or plant is male or female

[quote author=deomelo post=76261455][/quote]all this big grammar without penetrating logical views. But the writer holds the inalienable rights to his lovely views. I respect. That said.

My personal take is the presumptive fight in okota and by extension heated debate of Igbo, Yoruba Lagos politics is largely being driven by selfish politician as to who gonna have the direct and control the Lagos resources. Those who have been chopping" d money since 1999 and their collaborators and their beneficiaries will never abdicate such significant roles While those who have been left for a very long time in the Lurch of wilderness plus unaccessible clear cut connection to Lagos resources are also desperate to find alibi to assist them in their dreams.

Thence win or loss one of them will win but the Igboid-Lagosian, different from their brother home in the east, risk the long end of the rod to be the whipping subject as long as they vehemently show their hate to the former. The best approach is to keep your joker to yourself and unleash it quietly on election day. Play your cards intelligently for your candidate without open aggression to the Later.

girl child issue is well explained with this article. i elaborate later.
There have been recent cases of girls attaining puberty at a very early age without a concrete explanation, but this piece appears to give many answers to questions.
Showing all the trappings of a young adult, one would need more than just words to believe that Funke (surname withheld) is just eight years old.
At her age, she already developed breasts, one of the primary indicators of puberty in females. And the way other parts are growing very rapidly would almost give an impression that she’s someone in her early 20s.
But, truly, Funke is eight, according to her dad, who also expressed surprise with the way she’s ‘growing’, and is now unsettled due to the girl’s likely premature s*xual attention from men. He is equally unsure if the situation is normal, more so that she has also started menstruating. The medical term for early puberty is called precocious puberty.
Realistically, Funke is not alone and her father’s fear is quite understandable. In fact, her case is a fitting reflection of what now obtains across the world, whereby young girls now show obvious signs of reaching puberty, as against what obtained in the past, say about 20 years ago, when girls wouldn’t exhibit any sign of puberty until about 15 years upwards.
Meanwhile, other indicators of puberty include underarm hair, certain body odour, since the sweat gland would have become active, pubic hair and vaginal discharge, which is a precursor of menarche, the first occurrence of menstruation. All these are now happening to girls below 12, and according to a study published in Paediatrics as far back as 2010, a number of the girls surveyed had reached puberty as early as seven years, evidenced by bre*st development.
According to a consultant paediatrician, Dr. Rotimi Adesanya, the average age a girl is supposed to attain puberty is 11, but “these days some of them show those signs at age eight.”
However, there are reasons for this early puberty, and it is pertinent to point them out, perhaps to allay the fears of such parents. These reasons include:
Obesity: Literally, obesity is caused by eating too much and moving too little. Thus, if you consume a high quantity of food, particularly fat and sugar, and you don’t burn off the energy through exercise and physical activity, much of the surplus energy will be stored by the body as fat and that leads to overweight or obesity. This was the explanation given by the National Health Service in the United Kingdom. While it is seen as a general problem, obesity has been found to be a major cause of early puberty, especially in girls.
Dr. Adesanya explained that girls now reach puberty early because they eat junk food, snacks, oily food, etc., without doing exercises. He said these days; children would rather play computer games or play games on their parents’ or siblings’ smartphones rather than go out to do exercise. Thus, that lifestyle of eating without exercising has led to obesity and now makes them to reach puberty early. He said, “Obesity has strong links with precocious puberty and what favours it is the diet and sedentary lifestyle. Children no longer do exercises; they don’t trek to their school the way we did back then, which helped us to burn fat from our body. So, that is one major cause of early puberty.”
Stress: This is one other factor that has been found to aid early puberty in girls. Adesanya explained that traumatic experiences and emotional problems impact on the female reproductive system. He said this had to do with the interconnection among the brain, emotions and the reproductive system, like the hormones controlling bre*st growth and menstruation. “Children that go through a traumatic experience or emotional problems may see their period earlier, even though the impact is not as high as that of obesity.
Also, a study by a professor of family studies and human development, Bruce Ellis, and Prof. Marilyn Essex of the University of Wisconsin found that family conflict could influence how early or late girls attain puberty. In the study, which was reviewed on WebMD, a website that provides valuable health information and tools for managing health, they asked the parents of the girls about their economic difficulty, marital problems, parenting style and family stress. It was revealed that girls who live in families with great parental support and less marital conflict experience their first hormonal changes later in life than girls who live in homes where there are marital conflict, family issues, poor parent support, depressed parents and other such unpleasant issues. These were identified to be associated with puberty. “Even modest family conflict or stress may influence a young girl’s s*xual development and these were the normal stresses of growing up, not serious abuses,” Essex tells WebMD.
Now that it is almost inevitable for children to reach puberty early, because children from the rich or average income earning homes are likely to eat so much or even eat junk food, those from poor homes could be stressed emotionally, and those from either divide could come from home with family issues, girls who show signs of puberty should not be treated as aliens.
This development has no doubt made them endangered species, given the rate of rape and s*xual abuse, but parents have been advised to pay more attention to their young female children, because their changing physique could make them attractive to the males, even when they are not mature enough to refuse such (negative) gestures.
An endocrinologist, Dr. Glenn Braunstein, said open communication, nurture, and knowledge of the child’s activities would be good ways to prevent the child from getting into such avoidable troubles. In his analysis on Huffpost, Braunstein said whether puberty arrives early or later at the more expected time, it is always a challenge for children, especially girls and that it was up to parents, guardians and older siblings to help them to be the finest men and women possible, by assisting them through that stage.
He added, “Parental nurture, generally considered a key factor in curbing risk-taking, may be even more important for early-maturing girls. The thinking is that parental influence can help decrease these youngsters’ susceptibility to peer influence, assist them in developing better coping skills and diffuse negative feelings that might turn into negative thoughts and actions.”
Another solution advanced is s*x education, which according to experts, will prepare the girls for the change that is to come and what to do when it comes eventually. However, the experts stressed that one way to make this effective is for parents to encourage their children to communicate freely with them.
A consultant paediatric endocrinologist, Dr. Elizabeth Oyenusi, had said at age eight, a female child should be taught about s*x, so they don’t learn about it from outside or do so the hard way.
She had said, “Whether for a male or female child, once they clock eight years, parents should talk to them about s*x, and there is no need to use nicknames or graphics, more so that such children are exposed to different images on the television or even the Internet. A girl is ready for such education when her breasts begin to come out or when she clocks eight.”
Apart from this, parents are advised to teach their children when to say no, and that in certain (identified) situations, it is okay to say no to an adult. It has also been found to be helpful when children are taught where they should not be touched by others; how to get out of an uncomfortable situation and what to do if the adult wouldn’t let go.
A forensic psychologist and expert in the field of mental health, violence, mental health and addiction, Dr. Kathryn Seifert, in his post on Psychology Today, noted that given the way young girls tend to be susceptible to male attention, even at that young age – since they already show signs of puberty – highlighted ways by which parents could avoid such negative occurrences from happening to their children.
She said parents must encourage their kids to talk to them about how their day went, teach them when to run away from an adult, take action and let them see their parents take action when they make reports, which she said would build their confidence level.
She added, “Teach children that the danger may come from someone they trust. Tell your kids that bad touch is bad touch and no one gets to do it to our bodies. If anyone does bad touch, you go to a grown-up for help. When you are not sure about whether something a grown up is doing is okay, ask another grown up to help you.
“Also, take action if you suspect abuse; understand the signs, such as significant changes in sleeping, eating, mood, or strange behaviour that does not quickly go away; and know where your children are and who they are with at all times.” credit to :naijafastlink.com

Timid parents need to change their outlook on sex education.

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

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... So touching. U have to develop a thick skin to impervious commentaries from virtual faceless community. what are u gonna do if u are face with real time live people and event. U will want to commit suicide!! which is never an option.

The truth is people are programme to pull others down. The moment u realizes that the difficulties issues in Life have been solved by u.

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This topic will require intensive research oooo

This topic will require intensive research oooo

This topic will require intensive research oooo

many of the Languages uses here are modified by the auto correct systems of the Nairaland admni. which one is assassination!!! Abeg ooo

What inspired this article was a real time life event that occurred in a Low class neighborhood in Ghana where I do Biz.

summary: A 12year old girl child from a low socioeconomic background , not fault of her, who hawks oranges on the street to support her Family find herself being sexually assassinated by grown up men arrested and still counting where 17 Men. with ages from 18 up to 54 years. Some of the men are married with children. some of the culprits are in polygamy. some monogamous. some are single.

This young girl Hawks for both sexual gratification and engage in commerce to support her family. Poverty is the culprit here and exposed this little soul to paedophiles on the prowl.

( Girl child: A girl child must be introduce to terminology that will affect their reproductive growth as they approach age Ten. Word like:
Menses
Menstrual cycle
Sanitary pads
Hygiene of their private part.
Ovulation/ Egg Production.

This appears awkward but is an essential ingredients to prepare a girl child to the world of womanhood. There is a medical term called Menarche which means age of first commencement of menses or Menstruation. An uninformed girl child may see it as a bad omen in the phase of life but by preparing their minds will go a long way to make them at ease and approach you the parent what to do next. U will never want an outsider to teach them what to do when they have their first menses.

This first menses for a girl child can start as early as 8 years based on how well fed a child is or later as 15yrs. Other factors such as race, nutrition and others are responsible for menarche which is beyond the scope of this thesis. the range of first menses for girl child between 10 yrs to 17 years. Sometimes can come early which is precocious puberty.

(7) Pictures: Show them pictures and direct their minds to what you want them to know. For instance let them appreciate their internal and external Instruments: for instance a girl child can appreciate knowing Uterus/ Ovary or egg/ fallopian tube. And it is safe. Tell them function just one of each structure you identify. This will be useful as they approach ten years.
for the boys let them appreciate the bladder/ the testis/ the scrotum.

NB:: I technically left out penis and Vagina. This structure will allow you to guage advancement in age and create avenue for question and feedback system.

(6) This is by no means one way traffic. The engagement has to be dialogued with the kids, encouraged feedbacks from them to assess them on rate of assimilation and perception of the subject matter. And to instill in them trust at all times to confide ( confidence) in parent and make them realise nobody has the Right to touch them in their front or back private part or genitals. Except by mummy or Daddy as the case maybe to clean them up or prep them for bath. Meanwhile other people are assigned roles of prep kids for bath or cleaning them up in different homes either by Grandparents or Housemaid or Sister/ Uncle. Those set of people must be brought in to the pix as a trusted inner circle friends.

(5) Back to the main topic. Parent should expand teaching their children my head my shoulder my knee my toes my eyes my nose my mouth my teeth to include my Genitals. My front genitals and my back genitals can be introduce first.
And the function of the genitals are relayed to the kids that the front genitals is for making urine for both sex and the back genitals for passing waste. This methodology of teaching kids will be graduated one notch higher as the kid matured in their thought processes. Am talking of their cognitive capacity.
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(4) With benefits of hindsight I could remember my early exposure to sexualization where between ages of 5 to 7 years not by parent but by trusted Hands. in one example at Nanny homes, in another examples by peers ( group of friend between 4years to 7 years) and in another example by an uncle ( insider) who send you errands as a love vendors to invite his girl friends home for sex romp whenever parents leaves home for work. U can all connect to Late Dagrin song. "mummy not at home, daddy not at home, come and take K+++do*" and d rest of the songs. Dagrins followers will understand.

(3) In the context of Shy parents this is an area you have to take the bull by the horn and start a gradual class session with your kids and expand the scope of learning part of the body to involve the Instruments. I remember when I choose to start this with my wards my wife raised an eyebrow and vehemently object taking the kids through unsolicited exposure of kids to the world of SEX. She assumed its too early and A taboo!

(2). Sex education for under Ten both for boys and girls need to be domesticated in various homes. The need of this is based on the rising prevalence of paedophile attack in various facets of our sectors in particular areas where parents will have to entrust their child to another person either at home, religious center or at school.
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Sex is one most embarrassing word hitherto hypocritical by nature may be or sound vulgar in the mist of people. sex can denote are you male or female. sex can denote getting down to business and dig down either legitimately or otherwise. sex can denote demographic. Nevertheless sex reveals itself when you contextualized it. Away from this introduction and getting closer to the subject matter.
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Gbemishile1:
I was listening to a program where they were sharing experiences on how their parents first reacted the first time their boyfriend or girlfriend first visited their home.thid got me feeling with laughter as I remembered the first time my papa see one girl for I'm house say she dey look for me.
My papa and my three sisters siddon for our midst dey listen to wetin i dey yarn the girl.if you see as I dey stammer.the girl sef just dey look down,she no even fit raise im head.
Nairalander,what was your parent's first reaction when your boyfriend or girlfriend visited you at home
Drop your comment below

l like this topic. My parents countenance and suspicion changes when I clocked 16yrs ( More than two decades ago) partly based on the local experience and will vow to Let me go and form my own family should I impregnate any girl. The keyword is don't get close to girls. This later affected my social interaction with Ladies in my post formative years in d University.
Later years , they were complaining again that all my visitors are Men and the next question is are u not going to settle down and form your own family. I ask have u guys raised the embargo not to get close!

wirinet:
I do not have problems with atmosphere of miracles, the only problem is the faking and acting of miracles to deceive the gullible audience.

The main problem of Pentecostals are harassing people in busses, streets, homes, business day and night. They impose their religion on children in schools without the consent of the parents. They even sometimes force non believers to pray and fellowship with them at work places and offices.

At work place :/I was once a victim of religious suppression and intimidation. if you do not join they Label you d Devil. or Satanic agent

danie09:
You still don't get the point bro. Pdp has been firmly rooted in the south west since 1999 . At the moment apc is still trying to make headway in the south east and so far they have not been very successful in doing this.
The south east even rejected apc on 2015 despite the fact that Jonathan is 100% non Ibo.
Are u suggesting we kill our own brothers and sisters who have decided for pitch their tents with Pdp?
As long as the Pdp structures In the south west still remains. Their voting pattern won't change
And by the way am a strong apc supporter and member and I believe 2023 presidency belongs to the ibos.
We need to drop ethno religious sentiments and bigotry and be fair
Obj representwd the south west
Gej for the south south
2023 belongs to the south eaast
And I think apc has a lot of work to do in convincing the ibos .

Enough of wrong insinuations and empty permutations. Enough of political bigotry and intolerance. Democracy is about freedom which some people profess as Liberty. Southwest Nigeria are at Liberty to vote in or out any Candidate of their choice as long as it suit their Democratic Right. it is called performance gauge Conscience and consciousness. Educate your people and you will be liberated. I am pro APC. But I equally respect the wishes of Pro PDP particularly in south west. We appreciate colour thru the prisms in different ways. That said.


As for 2023, Regardless of who wins the presidential, hopefully APC, it is high time Nigerians are Magnanimous in shifting Balance of power to the South Easterner for Equity and justice and even for solidarity. It will be unwise for other southern region particularly D west to insist on having d presidency to themselves again. I rep d Yoruba Clan but my prayer and thought of 2023 is with the East. May Nigeria Love herself and live Long. End!


Beyond Now. 2023 IBO presidential Is a Goal.

knightsTempler:
You cannot arrogantly rule a nation for 4 years, then start humbly begging for votes just 4 days to elections. That's not how governance works, ND that's certainly not how humility works.

President Buhari kept malice with Nigerians, giving us the silent treatment for more than 2 years, and only speaking words of insult and provocation from abroad.

He was quiet while his Python Danced in the South East, when the mass murderers reigned in the Middle Belt, and all the time illiteracy escalated in the North, and poverty ravaged the entire nation.

Now he's reading a scripted appeal for a second from the same lazy Nigerians, the same women who belong in the kitchen and the other room, the same people nepotism didn't allow him see as qualified to run government with him.

Tens of millions of Nigerians have been thrown into Extreme Poverty
10 million Nigerians have lost their jobs
Hundreds of thousands shut down business
Millions of government workers paid half salaries
Thousands of soldiers massacred
Millions of IDPs starved as their food is diverted
Stock market battered to half its real value
Billions of dollars borrowed
Hundreds of Shiites killed
Hundreds of thousands of students at home
Millions of kids out of school
Billions in goods trapped at the ports
Thousands of farmers massacred
Thousands of herders slaughtered

Honestly, someone needs to slowly explain to me like a child, what Buhari is begging for a second chance for. What exactly does he want to do?

I Gbadun ur analysis in to- to. " a president that keep malice with his nation for two quality years". God bless u.

sowore2019:
Several hours before INEC 'agreed' that they have postponed the elections, Sahara Reporters broke the news. I posted the postponement and everyone came for my head. 'You and your yeye Sowore. Is this how you plan to 'take it back'? Many rants like that took over the social media streets. Twitter Lords including our broda Tolu Ogunlesi regarded it as *#FakeNews* in a bid to discredit Sahara Reporters. The media outfit stood its ground on the postponement.

Don't forget the Man who founded SR- *Sowore*. He has broken more mouth-tearing news for the past 12 years, stepping on all corrupt toes at the expense of his own safety. From Obasanjo to Amaechi. Saraki to Wike. Tinubu and Fayose. Corrupt Pastors to Businessmen. He has dared them all.

All his published reports are always 'fake news' until confirmed true. Sowore is far ahead of others in doing his work diligently. Anything and everything you hear from Sowore is true.

It's about time Nigerians appreciated this Man for his good work in expanding the democratic space

Nigerians would be lucky to have this Authentic Man as President come June 12, 2019 if they do not postpone the inauguration too.

Happy birthday to THE MAN who has dangerously conquered FEAR! ✊

Femi Adeyeye.

Kudos to Sahara reporters who broke the news of election postponement on Thursday Nite. That particular news was received with general apathy and a pinch of salt by myself but and perhaps gives or provides a benefit of hindsight to absorb the nuisance shock and disappointment Inec made us to pass through a unserious set of people.

Dawinlove:
Believe it or not you will refer to this post when it happen. I just receive this

u try jare. better than our established prophet acclaimed but ballest'

u sabi seeing better things