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DeLaRue:
True.

uselessness

Wizzy13:
my girlfriend have been telling me how men gives her money and gift and want me to accept it is normal.
Someone i have been spending my money on.

Being a long time since I was first to comment.

Hmmm 🤔. So why is she collecting the gift and then telling you?

She should atleast have some respect for you.

She should know what is a gift and what is a ‘gift’. If she is collecting both then man you need to start packing your bags

GeneralKoko:
Good day Nairalanders!

I'm 21 years and would be 22 this year. I would be finishing school by September and I plan to leave my parents house totally by the end of this year.
Although staying with my parents guarantee me free food and comfort I think on the long run it would limit me.

What's your advice??

Dont move out without a job or a business or some savings. I won’t advise that. If you have made up your mind.

Look for a source of income

nonsense post

osazsky:
Can't believe bill gates spend 75 b dollars yearly to fight infectious disease..if not for these guys Africans won't be able to afford anti retroviral drugs..someone is subsidizing these drugs..then u go see one guy way say 5g na COVID,Facebook is 666 they call them antichrist meanwhile poor members in his church are dying of hunger..they have schs that thier own members can't afford..they don't give back to the community but are quick to insult those who are trying to make d world a better place..bill gate is not the anti christ

You dey mind them? Willful ignorance is a disease. A plague that has attacked the mind of many able bodies in Nigeria

BigDawsNet:
One of the richest woman alive with $11.2B

Make she just look me like dis and dash me $2m for nothing! make I dey use dat 1 cee front for the rest of dis year

imagination wan finish you

helinues:
Shove your opinion into your ass, let me shove mine into my buttock.

Wondering why you people always think it's only your arguments make sense pass

Idiot

You and this your akamu thread

ChizzyBuna:
She used my phone to enter Facebook and forgot to logout for over a month I have been viewing her messages secretly.

Yesterday I came back and she wasn't around.
I asked my sis what happened.
She said that the girl went for church program

The thing sounded somehow for my ear
I quickly enter room, go her Facebook
I come see her chat with a guy that has already booked hotel for both of them that night.

I was mad!!!

Thus girl that is always carrying church for head.
She just came back this morning

I just dey look am like say she no know say her matter don cast

I used to be friendly with her when she first came.
Sometimes she ask for my phone to watch TikTok but i stopped due to over familiarity

you Dey vex say she nor give you

Pepperdemisback:
What is yours bawo? My property does not necessarily mean to be for my children or wife. You have a right to own and disown anybody. Dehinde Fernandes did it.

Can you quote any part in Nigeria book of law that allows you to disown your children Abi you’re just talking??

Your surname is your birthright and your biological father has no permission to deny his surname to you. By surname I mean the surname of your government name. So your name is also a label belonging to Goverment that exceeds your power and jurisdiction. Without a court order, you can’t change your Goverment name.

Stop saying what you don’t know, go educate yourself

OdogwuAnambra:
true...i witnessed this

Oga go and bed wet on your mat jare. See person wey dey talk

Reflect7:
Shut up and stop talking rubbish.

Do you realise there are THOUSANDS of hospitals and clinics in Nigeria, many of them PRIVATE?

What makes you think there are no well-equipped private hospitals in Nigeria that can be approached by foreigners?

Blasted morons with inferiority complex.

Just because you are useless in your life doesn't mean there are no successful, thriving establishments in Nigeria which you know absolutely NOTHING about.

Genesis Specialist Hospital, Lagos, which is private, is a TOP CLASS HOSPITAL with state of the art facilities, and highly trained medical staff.

That is just ONE example. There are NUMEROUS throughout Nigeria.

you just dey, only you just take that your dirty fingers dey cap 🧢 rubbish. Which kind useless private hospital. Hospital my foot. Goan approach them now wether no be billing dem go take plank common man neck:

Perhaps if they were so good why are politicians running overseas like it’s their backyard just to treat cough or do basic operations.

We know the truth are in the figures. But now the figures aren’t in our favour


Lastly stop smoking weed.

Tellmeastory:
How do you know he is lying?

Do you think Nigeria is your backyard or village?

This is a huge country with nearly 250 million people and you do NOT know everything that’s going on. So keep quiet when you hear surprising news. It could well be true!

it could well be a blatant lie or a mislead. So rest

Reflect7:
OH SHUT UP, with your ONE TRACK MIND.

Go to India. Doctors are doing Japa to US and Canada daily.

But foreigners STILL travel to India for medical treatment.

I know your simple mind cannot comprehend such complex realities.

Dumbasses with free internet.

Oga shut da Bleep up. You presido wey dey run in and out for medics no patronize am Abi. Dey zuzu

StOla:
PDP and LP lawmakers are just disgracing Nigeria while APC is trying to implement economic security measures.

Shame on the useless and bribe seeking opposition.

Maybe to collect the bribe is why their minions on social media have been bad mouthing their own country and asking that those culpable officials of Binance be released.

They have become a lobby group trying to force the government to release those that should face prosecution.

Now Binance is tired of not getting the results promised them and are speaking about this matter just now since when it happened.

Chai!

The lure of filthy lucre.

Stop smoking weeds

MrProlific95:
It would be inimical to public order to arrest a political candidate at this time. It is like calling for arrest of Obi or Tinubu during the campaign period

what part of the law are you quoting? And what is making it impossible except for your kind who want to believe some people should be above the law at some point in time?

Dey there dey write nonsense post. Body go soon tell you something.

STI never show you shege

REDshouse:
The President as a person or leader can operate from any part of the world, the world is globalised and u can effectively rule or lead as far as u are connected by phone, internet or any other means . . They can only be present if there is need by invitation by National Assembly.

will you get lost!!!! Go choke yourself

Solofresh2:
Polygamy affects your kids psychologically in the future.You might think you are doing the right thing but not knowing you are just selfish

feminist view

SAMBARRY:
now you understand why the rich around disassociate themselves from the poor in communities and around.not because they hate them but because they know how unreasonably wicked and impulsive they can be.

I get but I choose not to support the action and my reason is that when the repercussions comes around it does not know who started it or who don’t. Anyone in proximity is a victim.

People die everyday from things they didn’t even start, we can’t stop it but we can reduce it by ensure it does not degenerate to that point or we find how to reduce it by fixing the problem as little as we can.

In some coming years I plan to start an NGO that would be centered around educating young girls and boys from slums on sex education. The aim is to prevent rise in teenage pregnancy, abortion, child marriage and sexual STI and infection

SlavaUkraini:
And the man is a 30 year old fool that was easily manipulated like a 5 year old child right ?

Please, you guys should cut the lady some slack...

If the wedding went ahead without the man's family around, then hold the man responsible for that and not the lady...

He must have insisted that since his family members are not ready to go with him then he will do it on his own terms...

When Meghan was about to marry Prince Harry that was what people were saying...

"Harry has been Manipulated and trapped by a Hollywood Diva..."

We must not suspect every "over aged lady" that ties the knot with a younger man..

Come to think of it,

It is not even as if the lady is getting married into one of the top 10 richest families in Nigeria...

It is not as if the lady is suffering and cannot carter for herself or the child if the guy fails to take responsibility...

So why all the Fuzz...

It is what it is. The man is not a kid I agree and he should take responsibility for his own actions. And not the family trying to do so like they are doing now. I agree

I am only saying that it doesn’t change that this lady in question also look desperate and can also be behind the saga as well.

Pepperdemisback:
He didn't disobey his parents, hence the continuation of name. The guy's mother is alleged to be divorced from the father, so she's supposed to be bearing her maiden name. Why didn't the boy reverse his name? The way he designed Cole on his Clothes shows he entitled.

He is the legitimate son of his father and his mother’s divorce has nothing to do with his surname. You need to be calming down.

You can’t be entitled to what is yours. His surname is his birthright

SAMBARRY:
I'm none of those people but they are Nigerians like you and I who wanted better for Nigeria and used their life and resources to try to make the lives of the poor amongst them better and give them opportunities for a better life but it's the same people who murdered them and you think I will allow my self and family to be a sacrifical scapegoat to people who hate those who want to help them and love their oppressors.

If at all I want to help na from a distance and I will prefer they don't even know the help is from me before they think I have heaven ànd earth because I chose to show empathy

Well true though. The people pouring salt on the wound are same people with the wounds.

SAMBARRY:
please I have re edited my post,read that again.

Secondly I am not a security agent.i am not dss, police, soldier,navy or commissioner of police.everyone has their functions.we also have ministry of youth,you know their function too so if they decide to do or not do their work, what can I or anybody do about it? So the only solution is avoidance because the bible says a wise man sees problems from afar and avoids it

You’re non of those people. It’s all our responsibility, we must all do something about it except we are sure we aren’t going to be around when the rottenness comes around then we need not worry.

A wise man would know to avoid Nigeria as a whole. But the question is if you stay back nkor? Lolz 😂

SAMBARRY:
lol who told you the rich don't do such.if you read and listen to the poor especially before, during and after elections you will know that they're not victims of bad leadership, they're enablers.i will give an example.a particular rich man in a community in Lagos (I'm not going to mention the name of the community or man) single handedly from his own pocket used his money to build roads in his entire street and community for everyone to be free from avoidable accident and pain of passing that particular area.guess what

The poor of that same community that are even the number one victims of bad roads where the ones that came and started harassing the workers that the man hired to do the road that they should give them something otherwise they'll attack them and destroy the road,those ones said they're hired and told them the person who hired them

The guys went to report that they're doing road without government approval, following week rich man went to the ministry and other relevant agencies to get the approval.to cut the long story short,they used bureaucracy and corruption to frustrate the Man from completing the road because he refused to pay some government officials.anyway the road is still there uncompleted and in a worse state which has contributed to lack of business/cash flow and guess who are the victims?

Second story every 4 years touts, Street urchins and unemployed youths are recruited for as low as 5k,10k etc to trigger political violence in certain polling booths online and offline for politicians who don't give a Bleep about their interest and welfare

Who are the major victims of those suffering incompetency? Who are those sleeping on culverts where rain, dust and sun will beat them,who are the ones feeling pangs of hunger? Who are the ones that cannot afford to go to school?

It’s a matrix system. Only those who see the big picture would understand the consequences of your neighbors actions could affect you tomorrow if you will be there tomorrow.

Your narration is correct and your point I agree but what I am saying is if you must remain in Nigeria remember that you could be a victim of this saga. The best that can only be done is understanding that the responsibility will rest of those it will affect tomorrow and the only solution is to fix it. Avoidance like you suggested in your last post is only a temporary measure.

The day you will meet a hooligan/thug at night or possibly in traffic. It won’t matter what made that hooligan or how he/she came about. What would matter to you is if you would come out alive safely that day.


It’s a big picture actually

FreestuffNG Abeg come help us do small explanation here o. Cause this rise and fall no dey align again o

Pepperdemisback:
You can go on with your own name, use your first name as your surname and start your own family. Your father has a right to who uses his name. Father was not aware of the wedding.

Is there any such law as this? Most time the surname isn’t even the fathers surname, he possibly inherited it as well

SlavaUkraini:
If she is your sister, you will not call her Desperate.

Talk about the Desperate Big Black Dick that got a 38 year old lady pregnant....

Guyman saw a fine lady with big Yansh and decided to knack, not knowing that the lady is very fertile..

Blame the Nigga that decided to Fúck her Raw without Protection

Or you want to tell us that the lady removed the condom from his Big Black Cock ?

Abeg, Let them get married..

At least this child will not be Illegitimate and born out of wedlock.

Yes the 30 year old man in question wasn’t raped but from look of things. This lady is looking out to play smart. With the whole rush and arrangement it is clear that the lady is behind all the movement by manipulation and luring tactics

Zonefree:
When an Adult son is in love, it's best he listen to his family. They see things he can't see cos a Man in love is a foolish man.

yet no one can tell you who to love. Remember this. So it is only you that knows who you love

SAMBARRY:
Smh

Sighs

Nigeria is gradually getting to a point that anyone that looks relatively good or comfortable is at risk of kidnap.avoid broke people they're deadly.they can kill for as low as 1k,they can set a whole billion naira house on fire.they are angry because they assume you are the cause of their problems not knowing you have yours too

if you’re rich then be part of the solution. Why not use your influence and power to speak against the people(government) putting them in abject poverty.

Why not use influence and power tp create platform where they can work or find opportunities