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If this is true, Kim J go don dey dance galala like this 😂. Baba sha dey find reason to join war, una go dey bomb hin embassi

Nice UI 💯. More power to y'all

Them wan rile up US citizens against Trump 😂😂

Let the oil economy crumble or release the files on Epstein and his immoral adventures with big names.

morgstreme:
Influence her...

"Upgrade" her mental state..

You can force a horse to the river, but you can't force her to drink water.

When the zeal is not there, it's not there - see the evidence in Op's case.

Just a bunch of countries publicly saying, "my deeick is bigger than your deeick" with missles, lives and properties.

#1,250 Benin 😝.
You see how e nor take them one minute to bump up the price? Join old stock o.

We worse pass our leaders.

guysis:
She ought to have been properly trained on how to properly navigate those businesses.She just can't wake up and start a business just like that. Did she keep track of the monies she gained and lost in the business? Did she put in any effort to market the business online as well? How many customers did she retain? etc . So many parts to this thing.

The excuse of "the place is too far" is a laziness manifestation. Business is not convenient at its early stage, but you have to keep showing up.

OP has said the niece does a lot of the taking care of the baby, so what's she doing with her time - being that her money was not invested in the business, she didn't care what was lost or how to recover; so na OP enable her attitude towards hustle.

My question remains, OP what was she like before you popped the question? It's hard to turn a trophy wife into an industrious woman.

Following.

First of all, people will always attack you irrespective of the perspective you put forth - the same people who attack you for being expressive about how you feel will also throw tantrums if you bottle it up.

Here's an analogy I heard one time, "What do you think will happen, if one day, you enter a taxi, and the taxi man says he wants to carry you to his own destination"?

You won't agree because what we know about taxis, is that they carry you to YOUR OWN DESTINATION.

What this means, from your writeup, you enabled her POOR FINANCIAL DRIVE - and the guts to even ask for #700k for phone!!!!

I'm not one to disrespect other people's wife sha. But God abeg ooo; after squandering my money, and your obviously lackadaisical attitude towards personal hustle, dem no born you well to ask me.

🤧 My own temper go good for marriage so? Cos me nor go take half of wetin you write up there.

sweerychick:
words of a lazy fella. That's the problem with Naija folks always thinking that it's the sole responsibility of a man to provide. Let me tell you something, in this harsh economic environment it requires two to make it, I don't leave the whole responsibility for my husband alone, I work too, provide for my own basic needs, if my husband wishes to give me fine by me, but I'm there to support him because if I don't work hard too, anything can happen, what if my husband falls sick tomorrow or worse case dies would I still wait for him to provide from the grave. Enough of these nonsense it's a man's duty to provide that's the words of Lazy women.

At Op focus on your kids and rent and bills, start a side hustle stop giving her money let her make her own, if she decides to cheat outside let her suffer the consequences. Man up and don't listen to any fool saying that as a man you must provide everything.

If everything you typed here is true eh, please tell your husband that he won the wife Jackpot. He should literally Worship you 😇.

It's not common to see women to are realistic and also strategic - a hardworking woman is not Just a helpmate for the husband, but a support system for the kids if the inevitable happens as well as a model for independence to her daughters.

Wishing you and your family more grace and blessings ma'am.

morgstreme:
If you"overthink" on how you are becoming a Billionaire,you won't even notice your wife's not doing anything to add value to anyone or even yourself because you already are value..

Think and act like a Billionaire!

When you're the only one with Growth and Wealth mindset, there are some conversations you can't have with your wife anymore, because she'll just be clueless - you can't take her to social gatherings with high ranking people, because all she knows is skit and self-acclaimed influencer bhuffuns who give half-baked advice online.

If you're okay with a maid-wife, that's fine - but not this soul.

kestolove95:
Is her choice to work or not..you are her husband go out there and provide for her and the kids nd stop lamenting

You like it when you get mentions abi, it gives you some dopamine hit. Because what in the unholy phurck did you just type here?

This right here is what i fear the most.

Now she does nothing, she just presses phone and play games all day long

I mean, there's no harm entertaining yourself with social media - but you're not learning anything, youre not earning anything from it, just giggling and being entertained into obsolescence 🤧.

I've tried talking to her several times but she will pretend to be serious and goes back to default settings..

This is one thing I've not almost given up on. Apparently, no matter how good intentioned you are, you can't force someone to have a vision for themselves and pursue something that can better their own lives and improve the family.

But I think you knew even during dating thay she's a RELAXED person, did you promise her housewife life? Did you always know she was one to not pursue personal development?

I'm very big on partnership and mutual growth; the truth is, if one partner is growing and the other one is just marinating, it eventually leads to disgust.

Sending you my prayers Sir... May you find peace

Kingosytex:
Silence isn't always the best answer for fools, sometimes you've got to pay them in their folly.
If you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.

Oh no, it's still the best. It's the attention that was being paid to hindiots that actually encouraged them into "influencers" today - some intentionally put out ragebait just to have people pouring into their posts, engaging and them getting paid for just being plain stewpied.

If they were ignored, they'll quickly fade into their own stewpeidity.

They trained you, and you turned out pretty "smart in your own eyes". But fruit nor dey fall far from tree.

You can also see how childish you are, while you're technology-savy than your parents, you have the sense-development of a rhethardded 2yr old child - for coming on a public forum to insult your parents because they're slow to adopting technology that's newer than when your scrothum dropped.

When people have a very dhhumb brain, and they spew rubbish, then that golden rule must be adhered to, which says "Silence is the best answer given to ovbie-ewe (child of a goat) a.k.a fhuul"

After all the story on the internet?
Who made the rules that proposals have to be a "surprise" - y'all don't have a conversation about whether or not she wants to marry you?

These type of girls often feel that they're already paying you back with sehx and the girlfriend label they "allow you" call them.

Na skit e. The guy always post funny stuff like this.

Sha hustle like there's no home to go back to; but don't forget that you left home so that things can get better for you, and everyone.

Make e sha mind him tongue for Mexico 😝

When you carry a discussion away from the Parlor into the Market square, you must be ready to take counsel from the mhad people roaming around the market too.

There was always an offer to Talk, but absolute power corrupts absolutely - so them nor accept to talk.

MrsNwaAmaikpe:


Is it you or your brother?

We know it's you. Anyway, once you get a cure, stop doing raw with every hole you see.

This name you're married to so eh, lots of expectations from you o. You have to be an unapologetic, foul-mouthed preacher of the raw truth 😅😅

Una need to dey communicate in tones and words that cannot be easily misunderstood or maliciously misinterpreted.

Public relation is an actual professional field, make una learn.

What of foreigners from chad, Niger and the rest wey nor even need visa; dem just dey swim through the net, i mean border.

😅 - na the ones wey even wan spend their foreign exchange we go pursue.

Na registry be una problem.
Wey the job for the legit graduates?

For those of us wey like entrepreneurship, wey d enabling environment.

Sirchiboy:
How far.
Ur mum fair or black

😂😂 Na me and you for this platform o.
Me nor go gree you.

Sirchiboy:
I know of a guy back then in rumuola.
This guy was working as a chef in one hotel.
In 2020, he got married.
Boom with 2 year of the marriage the guy bough house in lekki, built house in his home town.
Bought cars everywhere.
Sometimes u begin to wonder how come

Except fair-complexioned women abi.

The guy norva tell una wetin him do sha.
The same way some people to run things and say "Na God o".

benardtotti:
Exactly the defender played rubbish but you cant blame him most players then were used to goalkeepers who stay back and use their hands.

Agreed sha... But him team mates supposed know say the guy na werey. They were already playing high field, back pass like that even if keeper plaster goal post is still risky.

Football has generally improved sha

Racoon:
The complete humiliation he suffered in one of his failed reckless stunt from Roger Milla during the Italian 1990 world cup changed him.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKHA8dZRFLc?si=_VgxDSYdigOKsqac

But that defender na hindiot for that kain pass na. That was a poor ball.

And that scene isn't any humiliation sef, man lost the ball as the last line of defense. The player nor even dribble am

Hmm... Kindness and empathy is not the problem here at all. The problem is the "people-pleasing" tendency and not saying NO when you should.

You need to learn two main things:
1. Everyone cannot be your friend.
2. Personal boundaries thay can't be broken.

Try asking for favour from those people you're moving heaven and earth for and you'll see that dem no send you.

Happy birthday to you Declan!
I pray this new age brings you more wealth, peace, divine health, love and blessings.

Cheers to more reasons to celebrate.

You're my birth-month-mate - me na March 1st 😁

ZombieDredd:
Their can't salute like army when they are not army

Salutations by Force Personnel ought tp be smart and exude discipline, respect and confidence - smart salutation is not a trademark of the army.

Hehe... I think the new IGP feels weird about it, you can see him first looking away to his ADC, and not making eye contact for the first few seconds 😊.

Wish them both the best tho.

But why their salute be like who dey adjust cap. Stand straight, chest out - do am like army jor.