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It's a very profitable skill especially in this era of short content made popular by features apps like TikTok, IG reels and YouTube Shorts.

Nice... What tools are you using?
Self-learning or attending a training?
Would love to connect and bounce ideas too, of you're open to that.

This one go beat the 100 men and gorilla together o. Obviously she's into weight lifting as a sport or hobby.

Ah... Pawa!

Take your head outta yo arse man.
Music has no gender.

You mentioning drake, Eminem and likes as model music for men? Because they glorify the things you're not man enough to get for yourself? Bitches, guns and money.

As our naija artist said.... "Music no need permission to enter your spirit"

starpower:
when she was single, she visits when she is free, no house shores, with you shores included. The mental stress of marriage expectations she won't express, but if you let konji take cover, your attention is divided even growth wise. If you cheat normally, fire on. 🔥 live too short not to be selfish once in a while.

Hehe... Agbonmagbe my guy!

Sha.... intimacy is more than the sex really. I don't think it's normal to offload all shores to her and still be expecting her to be all rosy in the mood.

Angels like us no dey cheat. I'll do everything right by you, pre-intimacy for 4 days sef (buy random stuff for her on your way back home, send her old pictures of y'all, help her do the dishes, cook that one food you know how to cook 😂)....and don't ask for sex at all.... just cuddle her. My guy, unless na Esu you marry, the sex will blow your mind when she sees how intentional you've been.

And nope, only a mumu partner will try to weaponize this kind of approach.

For me to cheat cos you don't bother about being intimate with me, you go go your house.

gerizzim:
When one refuses to get involve, then you read to Him or her the riot act....

...Dnt beg or cajole her for sex. I repeat don't force her to sex.
when one person starts bringing the "I don't care attitude or anyhowness" Just read to her the riot act.

The Riot Act 😂

I like that concept! We the People....

As "Socrates" said in 1978.... Try to marry a woman who is crazzie about you sha. Also boost your seduction game... Work out, even if na daily jogs, smell good steady.

If she constantly sees you dripping, she wouldn't want you taking all that hotness out. She'll want to keep what's hers.

This applies to wives too. Oh, never beg for sex.

After learning that SKILL, TRADE or earning that DEGREE or CERTIFICATION, you need to also learn how to communicate the VALUE you bring.

There's usually the initial period of "imposter syndrome" or "it's too hard to get results", but you gotta see yourself as a Business looking to secure business deals - not looking for a best friend. So, the one thousand and one "No" and "Not interested" is not a testament of your skill, ONLY the perception of the prospect or maybe they really don't need your "business" at that point.

Nonetheless, keep showing up. Don't fire blanks blindly though - filter out the noise. And be vocal about your "insights" and "process" - give value freely, be out there. Sales is greatly influenced by the buyer's perception of the 'brand' (you) than the product/service.

So communicate value in your words, actions and appearance.

#Cre8steve

ponishah:
It is a common line in cyber world; " There is nothing that can't be hacked, it's just a matter of time."

True that. But if an attack is coming from "one IP" as the news claimed, and it wasn't blacklisted early, then they were not security conscious is what I'm saying.

Slic1:
I can not be the easiest even X (formerly twitter suffered same DDoS attack last time. You can say it is the easiest to recover from if your server didn't crash as a result of the botnet.

givedemwotowoto:
DDoS not DoS. There’s an extra D meaning it’s distributed, could be coming from multiple computers around the world not just one computer.

Thank you 🙏🏾

BTW, whatever tech skills you are considering learning, you don't need to pay anything to learn it.

Personal experience here. YouTube and Telegram you can find all you need - but NOTE: TECH SKILLS ARE NOT GET RICH QUICK. Trust me. But it pays when it start yielding results.

Loud your graphic design gig and start targeting international clients.

I'm not a physical business person, so no advice from me on that end.

All the best - atleast you were wise to have saved, give yourself some accolades.

If you're into this kind of work, you need to up your security infrastructure. This kain thing can easily be prevented using:

1. Rate limiting / throttling.
2. Fingerprinting to identify the device/IP sending the request if they try to randomize it.

DDOS is the easiest to prevent against.
Unless them just use "cheap-artiko" WordPress site.

RAGE BAIT. RAGE BAIT.

Food don done for low-IQ people who can't reason beyond their nose and the screen of their phone.

Procashtips:
They're actually okay with the rent. Wife's 2 month's salary + or - minus clears the rent and the school option is almost similar to other schools around.

As I know, they don't pay for school bus which would have been 50-80k per child for a term based on the proximity of the house to the school.

The man in view is just afraid of losing it all again.

Fears this is his last shot at stability.

Oh great... Means he has a supportive wife. Who can help him weather the storm in the home front.

The man should not be to harsh on himself. A calm mind can actually plan better. He should not beat himself too much over the last failed enterprise that he becomes too "cautious" and lose out on new opportunities - he'll need to still trust people again in whatever business he seeks to venture into - but this time, should be done with more scrutiny.

As someone earlier said, he should invest in the same things that first gave him his wealth.

I can't suggest any exact business, but buy and sell is usually safest provided there's an established demand.

Cut down your living standards to meet the current reality. This Will give you a clearer mind to restrategize and bounce back.

The major assets of people who have at any point in their career earned that much is CONNECTION AND NETWORK. It is now time yo leverage the relationships you have built over the years... Reach out to people you have good reputation with, let them know you're open to new contracts, jobs even part time opportunities to help you stay afloat while you rebuild your wealth again.

Foolery will be retaining a rent of ~200k monthly, 150k for feeding, school fees of 350 every 4months and 100k monthly miscellaneous expenses as if you were getting inflow as before.

Unless you want to sell off the assets to maintain a lie for 4years and pray to God that something good comes out, and comes out quick

The real definition of "not giving a shiit" 😅

Putin way.

One mistake people often make is to think that a native version of an application is a "perfect strategy" for breaking out into a market, or testing an idea.

It's always cheaper to start with the web - decouple your infrastructure in such a way that it's easy to move to mobile when the app-feature or user needs demand such.

But for now... Focus on the best medium - the browser. Cross platform by default, cheaper hosting and distribution.

Nice one

"We are part of everything that exists"

It's a matter of perspective - while you live, your life impacts human lifes amd other organisms - when you die, your live on in the memories of others who are living and impacting the world too, while your body gives nutrients to organic life in the soil.

Most of these theories are not new, modern "thinkers" just use big words to put forward simple things that have been in human though even since Buddha, Socrates, Babylon, et al.

Be careful though.... I doubt that budget will buy a truly functional laptop that meets that spec.

Why live u to 1000 years in digital "consciousness" what is living if you can't explore the world with all 5 senses.

I think more research should be done into slowing down the ageing process - like a rejuvenation that can slow down cell breakdown - not this human-chatgpt approach.

Didijiji:
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Your comment just broke Seun's CSS on mobile 😅

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You wan dey blame your papa?
Lemme blame you - you didn't believe in your passion enough - you for brave am and pursue it anyways - atleast you wouldn't have to wait for 18yrs later to finally pursue it.

You see how the blame game works?

Life has no timer - but give yourself the benefits of early preparation.

Always think 1year ahead, whether in finance, job or relationship - if anything will be useless in a year from now, don't invest your time and cash into it.

Leave to the bedroom, that which should be done in the bedroom.

Welcome to Free Tier. Yup... That's what happens.

Free tier on render is for portfolio projects.
Or, you can set up a cron job to ping your server maybe every 10 minutes - to keep it live.

Or, if you want to get your hands dirty, sign up for aws free account and you can get credits to use ec2 free tiers for up to one year or so.

Welcome to Backend World

Hampers001:
I am more shocked that someone is thinking this way honestly.
You are into tech? What area?

Seconded, which area of tech are you into?
I think your concern should be about that "still broke" not about relationships.

Talk about your tech skills... Maybe you're not doing some things right

Kimo21:
Nigerians don’t know how to ignore silly people that’s why they keep being popular. There is something called rage bait and you people keep falling for it

Spot on. Giving idiots attention to expand their idiocy.

This may not sound helpful to you at this point in time. But in the future, don't store any Serious money with these e-banks o.

I personally use them for disposable cash/instant dispensing - never business or savings. I hope you get the matter resolved soon.

Samantha125:
You men are territorial and egocentric, chances are the father and the step father were gonna end up fighting each other and ruining the little girl's day.

Even with me, had it happened that my husband had a child with another woman, I wouldn't want to tag along whenever they go out with the mother of his child, because I know things might end up turning sour between me and the mother of his child... Next thing we'll be pulling each other by our hair and choking each other in front of the innocent child.

Be realistic. And re-educate yourself from the misconception that men are not capable of just being cool.

For real men, when a woman calls it quit with you, no biggie... What matters is that if your child is with her, then any man she now latches on to should treat your child right. No way the stepdad was gonna fight someone who obviously shows care for his child.

He ain't gon' fight for his past tense.

Later when people start stereotyping that category of women, people will call men "skum".

And that name.... We know then.