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ehikwe22:
What reality are you talking about? He already has the education for free

Well, I doubt he was even educated at all. An educated person in $290k debt shouting on the internet that he has duped businesses that financed his loans of $290k, just because he was deported.

Educated for free but doesn't know that his credit score in the US is like zero and would still repay if he finds himself in that country again.

Hehe.... The reality go soon hit am. $200k credit debt.... Means dude was just living off of his credit cards? Above his means?

I hope your new country offers credits, seems living on money he doesn't have has been his norm for a while.

SAMBARRY:
op don marry omo mummy. This is another classic example of mummy's boys.their brain is not developed enough to know every individual cooks differently and this one too is encouraging you to be like your mother inlaw and not have your own identity or ways of doing things. Even if he marries 100 wives he will want them to be like his mom. E remain make he dey tell you to wear the type of your mom's pants. Mummy's boys can never be satisfied except you want to run mad.leave them for their mom o and if their mom's dish is that spectacular, kuku tell am make him mama dey send food to your house every day. Problem solved

When them tell una to marry men,una go dey marry kids in men's bodies.my prayers to women marrying 6 year old in adult bodies. Make una try dey buy anti depressants o.as if if your kid husband goes for meeting in the office and they serve food,he will tell the caterers to cook like his mom.orisirisi

You really just had to complete Seun's 40 characters abi na.

Never try to compare yourself with a man's mother - in anything - you'll understand soon if you're a good mother to your kids. Leave his adoration of mum's food (he's had atleast 2+ decades cherishing it).

Secondly, not all men like the idea of travelling across the world in the dinning table - sometimes, a man just wants to eat eba - not Thai.

I'll suggest you talk it out with him - of all my experiments (cooking) which one do you like. Then do more of those, and if you have extra time, do the intercontinental dishes on weekends for you and the kids.

Even if you learn how to cook exactly like his mum, and even better - a mother's meal is more than the recipe.

silibaba:
E git be say na church donate am to him, if not that thing that brought that money to him, will continue to bring it with proper discipline.

Lol.... Why you go talk like that na 😂😂. Me dey fins that kain church o.

Na impatience wey go make am lose all the money him dey pursue.

Once you start asking these questions, you'll begin to see that religion has so many flaws.

Any of the religion that claim to be the truth will almost never be able to answer the real questions about life - they shine more in finding coincidences.

There is a God - but that God doesn't deal in rituals and rites - there is Good and there is evil, our purpose on this earth is to be good - so if there is eventually a judgement, then good people will receive good and bad people bad, irrespective of the name they used in their prayers.

You know how many years have passed even before the birth of Abraham - the billions of humans who have died before "the new religions".

xtianchris:
It's like looking for a pin 📍 in an Ocean 🌊

Lol.... Don't judge based on Nairaland females o. There's a fountain of these kind of girls - just that most of them don't come with BBL, and the superficial things that look good to s**x-starvrd-guys

Dr. Hall says that the world has urgent need of "girls who are mother's right hand; girls who can cuddle the little ones next best to mamma, and smooth out the tangles in the domestic skein when things get twisted; girls whom father takes comfort in for something better than beauty, and the big brothers are proud of for something that outranks the ability to dance or shine in society.

Next, we want girls of sense,—girls who have a standard of their own regardless of conventionalities, and are independent enough to live up to it; girls who simply won't wear a trailing dress on the street to gather up microbes and all sorts of defilement; girls who don't wear a high hat to the theatre, or lacerate their feet with high heels and endanger their health with corsets; girls who will wear what is pretty and becoming and snap their fingers at the dictates of fashion when fashion is horrid and silly.

And we want good girls,—girls who are sweet, right straight out from the heart to the lips; innocent and pure and simple girls, with less knowledge of sin and duplicity and evil-doing at twenty than the pert little schoolgirl of ten has all too often.

And we want careful girls and prudent girls, who think enough of the generous father who toils to maintain them in comfort, and of the gentle mother who denies herself much that they may have so many pretty things, to count the cost and draw the line between the essentials and non-essentials; girls who strive to save and not to spend; girls who are unselfish and eager to be a joy and a comfort in the home rather than an expense and a useless burden. We want girls with hearts,—girls who are full of tenderness and sympathy, with tears that flow for other people's ills, and smiles that light outward their own beautiful thoughts.

We have lots of clever girls, and brilliant girls, and witty girls. Give us a consignment of jolly girls, warm-hearted and impulsive girls; kind and entertaining to their own folks, and with little desire to shine in the garish world. With a few such girls scattered around, life would freshen up for all of us, as the weather does under the spell of summer showers."

Excerpts from the book How to Succeed, or Stepping Stones to Fame and Fortune

Published in 1896, but how even more true it is to this day!

Wishing you success in all your genuine hustle brother. Here's what you should do..... You have to be firm and set boundaries.

Call a meeting with them and point blank state how much you will be able to support monthly - and that you'll send the amount to the family at the end of every month.

Any calls during the month for requests that are not related to health emergencies will not be honoured.

We all love our family, but you will soon start being pressured into starting your own family too - so you must start saving - what if you have a personal health emergency, with no savings aside, who will foot your own bills?

You need to have a talk with them about the reality of your financial situation.

binary123:
if you think the 20k daily
profit for 500k investment is much.what will you have to say with some people with zero capital investment yet take home more than 20k daily for daily mineal jobs ?

The time taken to ask me a question would have better being used in answering the question i.e tell us the menial jobs that'll pay the 20k daily.

binary123:
it's too much
I'm not investing the money and go home to sleep my time & energy will be fully involved

Well, it's not too much, but the fact is that if you're expecting that kind of profit, the business you'll want to start should be a buy-and-sell operation. Something where you can place orders and resell at a profit margin, you understand?

For example, you could order something from the village market during peak market days, bring it to the city, and sell it there. That way you're guaranteed to make profit from whatever you've spent that day.

But if you're hoping to start any business that involves renting a shop or buying shop items to set up the business, then by the time you handle the business setup, you're already eating deep into your capital.

So what I'd advise is to keep pushing whatever brought you that ₦500k and then start doing Local "dropshipping". You can reach out to people selling gadgets, phones, laptops, and stuff, then start advertising on your WhatsApp status. If you're already getting traction, you can also run ads and post on sites like Facebook Marketplace and Groups, jiji. Post the items you have available, then when people want to buy, the capital that would have gone into setting up a physical shop and premises can instead go directly into getting the goods you'll be selling.

500k business capital with 20k DAILY profit. Interesting dream.

Following

This is an insult to truly STRONG WOMEN out there.

What nonsense. You're ruining your physique to look "tall" for men? Later in old age now, rheumatism hold you.

And how on God's earth is everything y'all do needing men's validation to know y'all trying? Open your mouth and share an opinion, let's see how strong your brain is, not your tendons you're stretching for people who don't care

Buying ooo.

*Singles*

If you must eat a mountain to belleful, then sofri cook sha. Else buying is cheaper and easier to budget for.

If you must buy half the market before your food sweet, sofri just go buy from better mama put wey sabi cook and chop small.


I prefer buying, with buying comes variety - but if you spend 5k for melon soup, you're stuck with it for 3 days.

Please!!!!!

“And because Nigerians are fools, they listen to everything,” she said.

SMH 🥱

Emergency fund/Savings of #20m.

Side income of $200 monthly (Content Creation Gig - Video+Graphics).

Monthly Website maintenance gigs for like 3 clients.


And I go retire sef.

motymop:
Lol! Dey there no adapt, they argue

I have seen lot of ads made by veo and sora and they are being used by big companies.

No need to employ models or actors in ads

This literally has reduced the cost

Even studio owners are now buying image rights of actors, that means cost of production don reduce

AI prompt engineers and editors are now hot cake

You're not able to different between a *skill (video editing) and resource (models and assets)* from the industry - Advertising is an industry and video assets are just one factor of it.

Yes, these tools will eventually disrupt the part of the industry that involves shooting, sets and models - but these resources will not replace how video ads are used to rewire public perception about a product or build a sense of we vs them to market a brand to trigger purchases/subscription/adoption.


That is the Advertising Industry.

motymop:
Dis veo will disrupt the advertising business

Nope. Advertising is more psychology than video assets.

Tech Sis.... Nice one, good review.

It's not the pressing of the phone that he has an issue with - it's that your pressing of the phone has not yielded anything USEFUL that he can see the profitability of the venture.

And by the way, instead of farming engagement online and looking for helper, start building a personal brand online - use your design and video editing skills to make Content that looks nice.... Then farm engagement to grow your accounts..... Then reach out to people and ask them that you can help them manage their social media page - bundle a package and sell to them.

Then one of these days, buy popsman nice wine, two packet shirts, 3 pence trousers and one black shoe + sandals..... He go bless your phone.

How in God's earth will you ask someone to pay 200k as charges for a house whose rent is 350k per year!!!!!!!!

House wey your father no build, just exploiting people who are looking for accomodation!

And there are the r_eta_rdzx who ask for registration fee, and take you to rubbish places for inspection.

Really, there needs to be government regulation to prevent this daylight robbery - and the landlords who connive with them - shame on y'all.

Those days you could walk to a house with vacant accomodation and negotiate with the landlord or caretaker directly, but now they want you to talk to agents wey Ohghun go keehl 😑

Tips going forward:

Rather than spamming people's dm with unsolicited messages, save contacts and ask them to save yours. Share meaningful content on your status and occasionally put stuff related to whatever action you want people to take (buy something, register somewhere).

If you want a place where you can send messages to interested people, create a channel and grow it one day at a time.

Following - no gatekeep resources o - help with presets and mogrts 🙏🏾🙏🏾

You guys keep having this conversation because y'all believe that a woman is doing you a favor when you go into a relationship with her.

Responsibility? It's a privilege to be given anything by someone you are in a relationship with - once you start feeling entitled to it, you're a leech.

Why do I have to worry about your needs unless you're equally broke, and by your logic, no sane guy should date a broke a**$$ girl either.

What you should say is that, if you're broke, focus on finding a way to leave that state of lack and improve yourself to be of value to yourself and your family - then you can have options to find a woman who will complement your growth, not open a tap on your finances.

A worthy thread at last. I be think say una don throwaway the Tech-related threads for this land.

Tips:
Don't try to vibe code a serious project with a language you have zero ideas about.

There's an Audience for every type of content.... Just make sure you put out quality stuff and be patient, you'll soon gather enough following and be looking at monetization.

Note, this kind of path takes a lot of patience.
Keep your eyes in different baskets

Nobody is coming to save you.

Make me just first see signal.... I'm porting ONCE!

If it has taste, it's not water 🌚

When you are submitting a bid/proposal for a contract, no matter the size/cost, there are some things you should have in mind.

Having the lowest bid means nothing if there's no trust or credibility behind your name.

When decision-makers can't find any trace of your business online, it raises immediate red flags. They start wondering: Are you legitimate? Do you actually have the experience you claim? Have you successfully completed similar projects before? Without digital proof points, your proposal becomes just words on paper.

Meanwhile, your competitors with professional websites, client testimonials, case studies, LinkedIn presence, and Google reviews are telling a compelling story about their capabilities. Even if they're 20-30% more expensive, the committee sees them as the safer choice. Risk mitigation often trumps cost savings in procurement decisions.

The committee members are also covering themselves professionally. It's much easier to justify choosing a vendor with a solid online reputation than explaining why they went with a ghost company that saved money but had no verifiable track record.

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