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neonly:
Which side hustle
People go to work resume by 9am mind u they left home as early has 6.30 close work by 4 before they get home 6 to 7
Where d side hustle wan come Saturday and Sunday do over time make money complete
Pls u can only talk of yurself because of nature of yur work don't generalise it
Saving no easy again bro's we life from hand to mouth now
I wan go buy fuel now abeg

Excuses are logical sometimes, but excuses don't pay bills.

There are 24hrs in a day.. What you do with this information is up to you

Op you have made really good points...

neonly:
OP all dis yur story no body stays in nigeria and still think of saving except his not independent
Save in bank they wahala
Nepa bill 200% high
Fuel or des
Gas for cooking
Trans can't be fixed anything can happen u will spend more
Cable station
Food
Clothes
Shoes
Health
Family if any
Sibling
Wife or GF
Etc
Tell how u wan take safe

By getting a side hustle... You can't survive long if all your earnings go into expenditures.

I think most of you are in too much haste to try and make money from teaching skills that you've not yet mastered.

Set a target for yourself, that you want to get a gig as a Designer in Multinational Coys and really learn this design.

Your flyer shows you need to learn more.
You have a good pitch though

C0ck and Bull stori...

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"Forced labour" on your fellow country men....(probably because you have asked them to swear juju that when you bring them abroad, they'll have to pay times 300 of what you spent in bringing them there... Usually the case) An inconvenience you likely never faced yourself.


You see this money of a thing, when the greed of it sets in that's where you'll know some humans are below animals

MadeINchenzen2:
It doesn't really sit well with me, for lovers to have besties besides their partner is something quite difficult to understand. Ideally your partner should be your bestie.

My thought: chances are that if I figure out that my lady has a bestie then I might not entirely take the relationship seriously.i


What do you think?

Unburden??

Lay there on the bed,
Close your eyes,
Stop trying to solve many things in your head (worrying or overthinking),
Depending on how much sleep you've already had... Before 15minutes you'll likely sleep off.

While you're waiting, don't be browsing and hoping you'll sleep off

missimelda01:
This doesn't work everytime, I think I'm doing my best.

I'm sure he's in a better position to allay your fears... This time talk to him straight about the situation.. Not beating around the bush.. Tell him in clear terms about his plans to _make himself better.

Mind you, he might feel that his life is JUST okay as it is now.

rickpat:
first...find out his area of interest... reading books might not be his thing... people develop in different ways...it might be even from having a conversation with people that read all the books and listen to all the podcast...some people are very bad readers but very good listeners...just tell them everything you've read about and they will use it more than u...some people sleep off when listening to podcasts but can listen when you gist with them concerning issues... EVERYONE MUST NO BE A READER.. find out his interest,you can't change anyone except they want to

"reading books" was just an example....I don't think OP limited the definition of "personal growth" to reading of books.

OP has obviously known this trend from their conversations about future prospects and ambitions and may have seen that he mostly has wishes and hopes instead of a well mapped out plan or strategy to achieving them - such things as upskilling or upgrading one's self to meet with the requirements of where they hope to be in future.

missimelda01:
I would really appreciate matured responses.

I believe personal growth is intentional and when there's no effort, there's little or no improvement.
How do you deal with a partner who's less interested in taking practical steps to grow? (Steps like reading books on personal growth, listening to podcasts, and attending church)

Let the person start seeing the positive effects on your own life....and unless they're cursed with a poverty mentality, THEY'LL START GROWING INTEREST IN THEIR OWN GROWTH TOO.....so as to remain relevant in your life.

JooEeL:
So the military raiding bombs on Orlu in April of 2021 is bigotry?

Oga you no know where they pain u for brain.

k.

JooEeL:
You are a joke if you do not know Nigeria is already at war.

You're dumb if you cant differentiate between insecurity borne out of religious amd ethnic bigotry from a full blown war from an external force greater than you seeking to exterminate your leaders and end your sovereignty.

Demand accountability of your government, but the likes of you will rather exhange your vote for a one-time lunch ticket

greatness77:
Tribalism is too much in nigeria we are been killed in our farm by buhari tribesmen for dat reason we asked for referrendum since d govnt said we are landlocked, we need biafra through refndum but if a call for refrndum is a call for war then u can bring it on ok

Lol.. I repeat, you don't know what war is.

And you'll be hearing some half-witted people threatening and clamouring for war in Nigeria. War is a terrible thing that no one should pray to be faced with!

May God help all innocent people find safety from the madness spurn by the ego of Putin and the ecstasy of nuclear weapons.

helinues:
And who's Ukrainians shepherd that they are being neglected during this dangerous time?

Humans have a responsibility to choose GOODNESS instead of EGO AND HATRED. will you now blame God for giving people free will?

If you were a robot-ish being, will you have enjoyed the privilege of having an opinion?

Maybe you should stop going after TEAR EYE ladies that may have possibly sampled many waters. Look for a decent girl around and start with friendship...someone who you know is not WIDEEEEE..... There's a woman for everybody Mr Op.

You see those girls you're likely hooking up with at the club and some weird places, No sir.. They no dey like wetin no go size their used up garage....


More importantly, you sound so TIMID with a very low self esteem o.. For someone who has traveled out of a village you are not sounding exposed - in mindset. Leave penile size for now, work on your CONFIDENCE

CandyOps:
Yeah right. I just made a few corrections

"If you love him, help him get help" does not translate to offering herself to him first.

Raymond0008:
Where are the 2000s kid that says Oba of Benin don’t visit people! You guys don’t know politics fah.

Tradition that is not based on illiteracy and bigotry is progressive... Go and read history, Oba n'Edo do not go on travels...this lasted for as long as time permitted.

But this is the 21st century...The Oba knows

So your own method is to "Find a babe wey go give person well" abi.

Well, congratulations on your journey to rehabilitation

If you know the meaning of the word "EGOMANIAC" you wouldn't even consider working there for 500k.

Unless you're just trying to sound intelligent

and her cries echoes through your ears like the cooing of an owl in the eerie night at a forest,
but still, your iroko stands still like Goliath when he was struck by the stone from David's sling,
and them, it hurriedly runs flaccid like the last drop of water from a faucet.


Since we want to form lie and figure of speech

HedwigesMaduro:
I thought you were talking of sexual orientation? You don't know what that means, or your memory just happens to last for 5 seconds?

k.

HedwigesMaduro:
Is this also applicable to other sexual orientations? As in, if a person has integrity and he's decent (whatever that means), but he enjoys sex with animals (bestiality) or with a dead body (necrophilia), would you judge him the same way?

Would you judge a murderer differently from the "mis-yarned" examples you gave?

Last I checked, OP's question and instances are so clearly stated that an old woman with Alzheimer's will even comprehend.. You thus surprise me for a "healthy adult".

This is actually a great question - but this is just one of those instances where people major on the minor things and minor on the major things when it comes to religion.

If you really want to be a sticker for the "norm"; remember that the 10 commandments were written on "stone tablets" - so it's even wrong to be using a printed paper bible when stones norva finish. A good number of the Old testaments would most likely have been written on papyrus - not the paper as you know today.

The question is no longer even whether or NOT the person understands and applies the principles of the scripture o....but na wedai e carry the book version or the digital copy (which by the way - digital copy aids better comprehension and reading as you can easily read the commentaries and all)

NaijaMutant:
I'm sure you didn't read the post

I'm sure you have comprehension issues

Unless you're hoping to return a bad note to the banking hall after the atm gives you, nor even bother....plus it's unlikely that you'll be short paid, and NEVER OVERPAID

No one should judge another person on the basis of their "Sexual Orientation".

Our fixation of sex and how a person has sex has been the reason of many bad things in the society today. No one cares about whether or not a person is a DECENT AND RESPONSIBLE INDIVIDUAL WITH GOOD INTEGRITY.....we worry and criticize others based on an HOLIER than thou attitude.

The man who fends for others is the better man - remove the label "gay". And if the universe was fair....the "gay" man will even have a better eternity than the other guy - eternity/karma/reincarnation (No one should quote me with religious bigotry)

When next he's running his diarrhoea of a mouth; just tell him a simple "k";
or "Ah! you donminit!" "Jesus is lord!" "Shuuuu, tell me something"; "ehen...eweeeeh"

He'll burn out soon enough; idiotxx fare better in a dialogue.

If he's not talking academics, don't talk to him.
If he's not talking care of the house don't talk to him

And also, being a pastor's son doesn't make him any better than the uncultured philistine - which he obviously is.

Cheers

You're taking advantage of the girl moat likely because she comes from a poor background (The family coming to beg)

...you dont know that abortion is illegal, you for don to jail by now for trying to force the girl twice now.

I wish the girl would see you as the irresponsible individual that you are and put her life together

jericco1:
Lol are you 16 years old?

What has age got to do with maturity?

k.