pepperliny We have been very good friends for about three years now and he is such a nice person,very hardworking too with a self-employed business that pays his bills. now he wants to take the friendship to another level but the snag there is that he mixes his tenses and is not very fluent with English, though he is a part time graduate.i correct him once in a while because i don't want to trample on his ego and u know how men can be sometimes,he might later think am trying to be a control freak.He is very caring and doting though a good man. i have dated some other guys in the past who have got "swag" but they are not as caring and doting as this one and the kind of family i come from is one that is so particular about the way people speak. i think this all goes to show that there is no perfect being. what do u guys think cos i don't know how am going to present him to my family and friends with his tenses on the long run? i do like him a lot anyway and he loves me very much. pls what do u advice?

The most important thing is that he loves you very much and he is such a nice guy. I know it could be so embarrassing, but it is something that can be worked on, remember you will be the one living with him not your family and friends. Nice guys are hard to find these days.

As a student, I ll advice you to go for databases, its easier to learn and practice on your own.

My dog is about to die, you can come get her heart for free

Lol! 190 stop lying there! This girl's pic was posted on another thread by Wizpa a while back and you just pinched it and placed it here. Or are you also Wizpa?

https://www.nairaland.com/932139/pictures-most-beautiful-girl-nigeria

SMH #Godiswatchingyou#

cigie thanks guys...so where do you suggest i start from (in learning web design).

you can start with html

yes. it will help you a great deal

Web design. If you want quick money.

shimao I was faced with a similar problem about 10 years ago and I chose medicine. However, it did not stop me from exploring ICT; I had to find a way to combine the two. But I must say, it wasn't that easy particularly when you're learning by yourself. Got my SCJP mid-way into medical school which was followed by some other certifications. Currently work as a doctor but program in my spare time and have a number of apps to my name. ICT is more like a hobby now but considering making it fulltime. So it all depends on your capacity and how much you're willing to give. If you must choose one, since you'll be studying outside the country, go for MEDICINE, you wont regret it. Medicine is a very long journey of largely no-return and can be frustrating over here. But make no mistakes, ICT is equally as challenging.

Wow...very interesting

@ OP you can do both as long as you are focused

biliki

[b]Dgunnerz[/b]This is my elder brother'$ name!
How come you mentioning our names?
@Topic
Shefiu

Lol...

ahmed

Dgunnerz This is my name!
@Topic,Seyi

Really?

saheed

modinat.

slimyem do what for you??
Choose?
Mba!

choose for am nau... she's confused because they are so sosososo it.. #nd hot

kpolli :oTell me ur joking?

I personally know 190, so now am shocked

hi all.. this may sound really bitchy and silly but.. i am in a lov triangle here.. i kinda hav a crush on TWO boyz!!!.. gosh i like them sooooo mch.. i dnt knw wahd to do.. they r just sosososo it.. #nd hot (girls u knw what i mean).. what oo.. help me.. question me. i will ansr.. most of u here are more matured than i am so.. u cld do this for me!!..

#thnkz tho

nnnh.... brb

kpolli

I wonder who's chick this poster slept with?

so you dont know its 190

Dear Nairalanders ,i met this beautiful charming young lady online for over 4years nw ,bt all my effort to meet this young woman proves aborting ,the annoying part of it is that since then she still calls me ,sends me nice messages till date, her area of abode is nt too far from me cuz we live in the same city, i tried ignoring her calls but she'll alws notify me that she'll make it upto me
Dont know if she's testing my patience or playing pranks, she has never made any demand 4rm me instead she sends me recharge cards ,spends time calling jst to hear my voice, we're both friends in every social network u can talk of globaly
pls i need your help on this one dunno wat next to do!

But you try o, you've been dating somebody for over four years without meeting the person one on one.

ecolime Just give her another chance... Tell her frankly that you are tired of her "hide and seek" game and you should both fix a meeting date which isn't too far from now. If she doesn't honour it when the time comes, you should ignore her completely and you must be resolute in such a decision.

That's the right thing to do

This waz an email a Nairaland babe sent to me but I will not Say Her name:

EMAIL FROM IJEBABE TO MR CORK

Dear Mr Cork.

I dream about you everyday and you so so handsome and you from London and infact you make me Korodo everytime I think about you. Please can you buy me this things from London becoz I love you:

Electric Kettle
Electric Fan
Brazillian Hair
Japanese Wig
Size 12 shoe
and One carton of Oraganic Conflakes.

Mr Cork I love u so much I cannot stop dreamin about you.

Love:
IJEBABE (Your one & only Lagos CHick)

((does this chick think am cheap just becoz am from London??

she must chop your money...

SMH

mumunat
fisher
donatus
Inobong
Akpos
Iina
akinwole
oyefola
agu
alu
bobozi
tokunbo
maliki
Simbi
ntukpom
Oke



Tgirl4real

I can never name my chile Goodluck Ebele Jonathan

Yield

100% agree, stephen!

we all need to be patient and wait for the out come of the investigation. If lagos traffic can stand still while the president comes and leaves the airport then it could be true. lets wait and see.

you should be very grateful that she's willing to sacrifice her income for both of you to be happy in future

A man supposes to be the head of the house, what if in the future she proud that if not for her, we won’t achieve what we are archiving today? Should she assist me or I hustle on my own?

Why would she say that if she gave her income willingly. I think she really loves you and wants to have a future with you.

Morning nairalanders. As I type this now, am so loosing my mind and really don't know what to do.
Yestiday morning. I slapped my girlfriend& hit hard.it happened when she saw a contact on my BBM. After carefully xplaning who d person is. She didn't still listen. Ok I wanted to take my leave, but she followed me outside calling me all sorts of names, and using swearing words. Even passers by knew virtually wat was wrong. Well we went back n and she did same and dis time. She was getting too abusive and point remote controls and oda stuffs n my face. Really a fury blew up in me and next tin I lost control and slapped her hard. I walked out.dis incident has happend more than 30times. But I was totally calm and usually didn't react, der after she goes ahead and calls me a weakling..but as it has happend am feeling so sad and wishing I neva lifted my arms on her. I deserve to be shot. Cos she is and still the only girl I love.have sent her 5pages txt mssge apologizing bt she has responded or even picked my calls. She is someone I cnt do witout hearing from least a day. Now I ask my self, since my anger has been unleashed on her. Will dis now make me a wife beater? Cos it wasn't intentional, I couldn't jst control d abuses anymore. Pls I need advise on selfcontrol and way out to get her back.

It is totally wrong for you to hit a woman, no matter what she does.If she is the shouting type, there are better ways to deal with the situation, like chatting on your phone, reading a magazine or doing some thing that shows you are not bothered at all. Since you feel remorse for what you ve done, you can go over to her place or ask someone who's close to her and she really adores to help you plead on your behalf, if she really likes you she 'll come back to you.

Run as fast as I can.

@op Get married, you ll probably get another job in Abuja.

What a waste of bandwidth

when you see a girl that you like tell her
"baby, oh i finally found you, i ve been waiting for you... oya follow me make i go buy you suya"
if she slaps you sorry o, but if she goes with you, you don get girlfriend be that o

dont let our inlaws read this post

Yes, as long as shes emotionally prepared for it, and they love each other

0. jeffp: Quote Post
i am in a relationship ..which have lasted for 3years and everyday of the past 3years..it takes strength to keep dis relationship because i hav strong emotions for my girl....after 3 years..my girlfriend and I started having issues bcause i heard she was cheating on me wit a guy that stays in her hostel compound...the rumor became very clear and true.and instead of her to apologize..she broke up wit me.AFTER A Month later..we got back together and i just felt it was the time for her to make amends and make it up to me...
i am 27years old and she is 21 years old..we ar in d same class...and we hav been so close for the past 3years...
WE ARE IN THE SAME CLASS..AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT I CANT BREAK UP WIT HER.....and she told me that she had stopped what she was doing she was sorry...After 3weeks...something happened wen i visited her compound.. I found her and d guy chatting.i tried to caution her and told her that why she is so so stubborn.(bECAUSE SEEING HER AND D GUY WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME REMEMBER THE PAST..since she claimed that she and d guy ar nt talking again )).as i was talkin to her in an angry tone...d boy got up and started fighting me..and it resulted in me having injuries..because people from my girlfriend'scompound joined and fought me.and she stood and WALKED OUT ON ME. instead of her to still come to apologize...she told me that she what us to take a step downward in the relationship.Bcause i am too possesive about her and i embrassed her in her compound....IS DAT NT FUNNY?

And do u know this SAME GUY STAYS IN HER HOSTEL COMPOUND TILL NOW AND SHE SAYS SHE WILL NT LEAVE THE COMPOUND.


she later said we can continue dating but..there need to be changes..and this is what i noticed.

1> SHE SAID SHE CAN NEVER COME TO SPEND THE NIGHTS IN MY HOUSE AGAIN.
2> SHE PASSWORDS HER BLACKBERRY AND I CAN EVEN CHECK HER PHONES
3> she treats me like anyhw and walks out on me on every given opportunity.
4> SHE CHANGED MY PET NAME ON HER PHONE FROM my cherish TO Jeffzain and Jeffmtn.
5> she SAYS THAT THIS SPACE WILL WORK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
6> She only comes and sees me in d day and goes back to her house in d evenings.
7. before the fight..she deleted the boy's number from her phone..bt after the fight she saved the boys number back to her phone.

it hurts me everyday.pls i need comments. she keeps on saying she loves me...
before in d past we were so close like brother and sister...nw it is d opposite.
SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND..AND I SINCERLY LOVE HER....WEN I MEAN ONLY FRIEND..I MEAN ONLY FRIEND...I GAT NO OTHER FRIEND..BCAUSE SHE MADE ME SEE I CAN HAV ALL THE FRIENDS I NEED IN HER... BUT ALL THIS HAVE CHANGED WHEN SHE STARTED MIXING UP WITH PEOPLE.''

N.B: i am a young man and a student in my finals..i am nt poor bt i am comfortable..wen i mean comfortable i am....bt dis changes have been so shocking and it is tearing me apart.



Can u b in this kind of relationship and be okay.

No you cant be in this kind of relationship and be okay. If she is not making you happy , I see no reason why you should still be with her. Well if you really love her and you still want to continue with the relationship then you should be comfortable with what she does.

0. jeffp: Quote Post
i am in a relationship ..which have lasted for 3years and everyday of the past 3years..it takes strength to keep dis relationship because i hav strong emotions for my girl....after 3 years..my girlfriend and I started having issues bcause i heard she was cheating on me wit a guy that stays in her hostel compound...the rumor became very clear and true.and instead of her to apologize..she broke up wit me.AFTER A Month later..we got back together and i just felt it was the time for her to make amends and make it up to me...
i am 27years old and she is 21 years old..we ar in d same class...and we hav been so close for the past 3years...
WE ARE IN THE SAME CLASS..AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT I CANT BREAK UP WIT HER.....and she told me that she had stopped what she was doing she was sorry...After 3weeks...something happened wen i visited her compound.. I found her and d guy chatting.i tried to caution her and told her that why she is so so stubborn.(bECAUSE SEEING HER AND D GUY WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME REMEMBER THE PAST..since she claimed that she and d guy ar nt talking again )).as i was talkin to her in an angry tone...d boy got up and started fighting me..and it resulted in me having injuries..because people from my girlfriend'scompound joined and fought me.and she stood and WALKED OUT ON ME. instead of her to still come to apologize...she told me that she what us to take a step downward in the relationship.Bcause i am too possesive about her and i embrassed her in her compound....IS DAT NT FUNNY?

And do u know this SAME GUY STAYS IN HER HOSTEL COMPOUND TILL NOW AND SHE SAYS SHE WILL NT LEAVE THE COMPOUND.


she later said we can continue dating but..there need to be changes..and this is what i noticed.

1> SHE SAID SHE CAN NEVER COME TO SPEND THE NIGHTS IN MY HOUSE AGAIN.
2> SHE PASSWORDS HER BLACKBERRY AND I CAN EVEN CHECK HER PHONES
3> she treats me like anyhw and walks out on me on every given opportunity.
4> SHE CHANGED MY PET NAME ON HER PHONE FROM my cherish TO Jeffzain and Jeffmtn.
5> she SAYS THAT THIS SPACE WILL WORK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
6> She only comes and sees me in d day and goes back to her house in d evenings.
7. before the fight..she deleted the boy's number from her phone..bt after the fight she saved the boys number back to her phone.

it hurts me everyday.pls i need comments. she keeps on saying she loves me...
before in d past we were so close like brother and sister...nw it is d opposite.
SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND..AND I SINCERLY LOVE HER....WEN I MEAN ONLY FRIEND..I MEAN ONLY FRIEND...I GAT NO OTHER FRIEND..BCAUSE SHE MADE ME SEE I CAN HAV ALL THE FRIENDS I NEED IN HER... BUT ALL THIS HAVE CHANGED WHEN SHE STARTED MIXING UP WITH PEOPLE.''

N.B: i am a young man and a student in my finals..i am nt poor bt i am comfortable..wen i mean comfortable i am....bt dis changes have been so shocking and it is tearing me apart.



Can u b in this kind of relationship and be okay.

No you cant be in this kind of relationship and be okay. If she is not making you happy , I see no reason why you should still be with her. Well if you really love her and you still want to continue with the relationship then you should be comfortable with what she does.