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0. jeffp: Quote Post
i am in a relationship ..which have lasted for 3years and everyday of the past 3years..it takes strength to keep dis relationship because i hav strong emotions for my girl....after 3 years..my girlfriend and I started having issues bcause i heard she was cheating on me wit a guy that stays in her hostel compound...the rumor became very clear and true.and instead of her to apologize..she broke up wit me.AFTER A Month later..we got back together and i just felt it was the time for her to make amends and make it up to me...
i am 27years old and she is 21 years old..we ar in d same class...and we hav been so close for the past 3years...
WE ARE IN THE SAME CLASS..AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT I CANT BREAK UP WIT HER.....and she told me that she had stopped what she was doing she was sorry...After 3weeks...something happened wen i visited her compound.. I found her and d guy chatting.i tried to caution her and told her that why she is so so stubborn.(bECAUSE SEEING HER AND D GUY WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME REMEMBER THE PAST..since she claimed that she and d guy ar nt talking again )).as i was talkin to her in an angry tone...d boy got up and started fighting me..and it resulted in me having injuries..because people from my girlfriend'scompound joined and fought me.and she stood and WALKED OUT ON ME. instead of her to still come to apologize...she told me that she what us to take a step downward in the relationship.Bcause i am too possesive about her and i embrassed her in her compound....IS DAT NT FUNNY?

And do u know this SAME GUY STAYS IN HER HOSTEL COMPOUND TILL NOW AND SHE SAYS SHE WILL NT LEAVE THE COMPOUND.


she later said we can continue dating but..there need to be changes..and this is what i noticed.

1> SHE SAID SHE CAN NEVER COME TO SPEND THE NIGHTS IN MY HOUSE AGAIN.
2> SHE PASSWORDS HER BLACKBERRY AND I CAN EVEN CHECK HER PHONES
3> she treats me like anyhw and walks out on me on every given opportunity.
4> SHE CHANGED MY PET NAME ON HER PHONE FROM my cherish TO Jeffzain and Jeffmtn.
5> she SAYS THAT THIS SPACE WILL WORK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
6> She only comes and sees me in d day and goes back to her house in d evenings.
7. before the fight..she deleted the boy's number from her phone..bt after the fight she saved the boys number back to her phone.

it hurts me everyday.pls i need comments. she keeps on saying she loves me...
before in d past we were so close like brother and sister...nw it is d opposite.
SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND..AND I SINCERLY LOVE HER....WEN I MEAN ONLY FRIEND..I MEAN ONLY FRIEND...I GAT NO OTHER FRIEND..BCAUSE SHE MADE ME SEE I CAN HAV ALL THE FRIENDS I NEED IN HER... BUT ALL THIS HAVE CHANGED WHEN SHE STARTED MIXING UP WITH PEOPLE.''

N.B: i am a young man and a student in my finals..i am nt poor bt i am comfortable..wen i mean comfortable i am....bt dis changes have been so shocking and it is tearing me apart.



Can u b in this kind of relationship and be okay.

Why would she steal ur PANTS and maleria drugs?? She dey sick?

Life na waohhh, a lady just called me now that she is packing out of her husband house, before and after the marriage, this guy refused to stop loving her ex-gf, the guy was crying on the eve of the wedding that he wished her ex-gf was to be her wife. the lady who never returned the love he showed to her and put her through alot of stress. The height of it is this guy keep watching the pictures of her ex-gf even in the night until she is caught by her wife and when questioned he said something like he can't stay without her infront of her wife. The lady in question is about to get married now. The wify that called me made me promise that I will not tell her husband as she does not want third party and wants to handle it herself, I asked if she informed her own mum, the lady's mother was part of the deal that made her decides to marry this guy as this guy pestered her mum to help convince her to marry him as such cannot tell her mum. and the guy's mum is also a no no as no one may believe her. rigth now she is parking and I can't talk to her hubby as I have promised and I keep my promises. The lady's love is too much on him but the does not love that that much.
Pls advice

Dear Haus
Just fell in love wit dis pretty Chic..shez nice to d core&I dnt regret anything abt her but M a man&lyk evri man,I'd lyk my girl to com out lukin flashy at times I mean d whole make-up charade&stuff. the wahala tho is dat my girl who by the way luks beautiful witout make-up doesnt luvs using dem. the highest item of make up she uses is her lip-stick she says shez nt d make-up type. so here I m asking How on earth do I make her use diz things cos I c ladies evriday wit dem make-ups&M tempted to luk twice but I love my girl & wnt to alwz luk at no one bt her!!..I'l welcome cool comments plz!!!

Only a fool will fall for this! Even if you took the child to the address, all you need to do is to point to the house. Must you go into the house?

He will be the first Nigerian star to join - Others will follow after seeing how successful they will make him.

Trust Naija our own dey worst. Na de Illuminati go take their hand they drive them when thm don over much!

In most cases, it is caused by greed and jealousy which are both nourished by lies and anger

lol, ladies..organising area boys no be beans o.

Concentrate on other productive things. Delete her from your life.(Facebook, twitter, Pictures and texts).

Finally, leave time to do the rest. . .

dat man should be sent to d forest to be eaten by wild animals but bfor then go pay ojuelegba tugs to give him d beaten of his life or beterstill get 5 heavy bouncers to deal with him then send him to wild animals.
Wot if ur cousin losts her unborn child? Abeg comot her for dat house till she puts to bed.

I hate stories like this, ummm do you have a few brothers, or in short some neighbourhood boys will do to give him "the beating of his life" thats what should be done to this man, since domestic violence in this country does not get enough attention.

its simple enof. The man raised his hand on u so u have the right 2 give him back what he asked 4. U can also involve ur family men and ur cousin's brothers, but if he has borthers too then careful b4 it turns 2 a family-family squabble.

DNT BE SURPRISED DAT D WOMAN WILL STILL BEG TO BE WITH HER HUSBAND. I TIRE FOR NIGERIAN WOMEN

Op, am evn angry wt u first first. man slap ur cousin, precipitate slap u, u just walked out from their house.

ok, tho sha, second tots u r just respecting the man.

On a serious note you are most wicked even more than the man that beats your cousin, if he had killed your cousin the guilt would have been on your head. My reason, when somebody was beating your cousin in your presence and also slapped you, you should have atleast stayed back to mediate or just for the sake of your cousin stayed to ensure the abuse was discontinued but you left leaving your cousin in the lion's den and now u a complaining.

You are too dumb to come from my village. . . No offence!

Seriously, where are you from?

Does that make Guys Animals?!

Boyloaf:did U̶̲̥̅̊ say guys Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ animals? Ūя̲̅ fada Йą M̶̲̥̅̊y̶̲̥̅̊ guy S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ watch Ūя̲̅ mouth U̶̲̥̅̊ biat.ch!

killz:Seriously, you'll hate me for life if i reply you the way i really should. . .

dabrake:adiok ono fi. Atebe itid

Dearest in the lord i beg you by the mercies of the lord not to make that mistake, tithe is suppose to be given in obidience to the lord and not to attract God's judgement as a result of breaking God's command.