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HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 2:17pm On May 08, 2024
Pweetiebabe:
BA! BA!! BA!!!
Halleluya!!! The lord has done again, my May baby has arrived, my 3rd baby girl.... Officially wearing my Mummy for the girls crown with pride.

EDD-----10th May, 2024
DOB-----6th Mayl, 2024
Congratulations mama...
God bless and keep baby and the family in good health.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 5:13pm On Apr 05, 2024
Mma4ma:
Team April I don born o
Beautiful... Congratulations mama... God bless and keep the baby and the entire family
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:48am On Nov 15, 2023
bimberry1307:
BS BS BS

Late January, one of my neighbours put to bed and I thought it good to give out the remaining baby things I had left . Me and DH already agreed to put a stop to child bearing after the 3rd child came in 2020. Only to find out early February that I was pregnant. Ha! Mogbe! I don't have anything left!!!
I took it in good faith sha and I started buying things all over again. Omo! It wasn't funny as things were overly expensive, they still are.

Early pregnancy had me vomiting nd uncomfortable. Couldn't withstand pleasant smells but I was eating a lot even though I vomit most of the time.

Second trimester was a free ride. Got my energy back but was constant having heartburn and occasional headache.

Third trimester, heartburn and pelvic pain was my companion. At a point, I considered getting
a break from work but I didn't because I knew I'd be tired of sitting at home. I managed till the very day I gave birth.

On 10th November, I told dh that I wanted sex after I got back from work. He was like, are you sure? We had sex that night and at about some minutes after 1.00am, I woke up to a stomach ache. I went to the toilet, did my thing and I went back to bed but the ache didn't subside so I started timing it. It was coming after every 4minute and some seconds.
I was able to manage the contractions till 2.45am when I woke dh up. Told him to put some hot water in the flask and prepare some noddles for the kids against daybreak.
We got to the hospital at exactly 4.24am. I was 6cm dilated. The contractions were coming back to back and I was managing it by breathing through the mouth. Ha my people, I thought boya kpe I was seeing shege until the nurse inject pitocin in my drip. People of the world, I started seeing shege pro max. I screamed o, as my back was on fire. In the space of 30min, I started feeling the urge to poo. I couldn't hold it, I started pushing (my mistake). Even though I was fully dilated but the nurse said I should be patient but I didn't listen.
The baby came out at 6.14am with serious tear to my cervix. The suturing is another story entirely.

In all, I give glory to the Almighty God. It wasn't easy o but looking at my son, it's worth all the pains.

Safe delivery to the remaining mamas. May God make it easy for you all. To the TTC, may God Almighty ease your affairs and grant you pious children that'll be the coolness of your hearts.


Bs submitted.
Cc: cappo Tinudesi.

Ignore any error pls. 4th trimester is no joke.
Congratulations to you mama..... Thank God for safe delivery
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:08am On Aug 16, 2022
OLESCO:
Good day sabi mamas trust we are doing great .....

We will clock 2months in 2 days time all thanks to God, CS journey no be beans.

Pls my LO refused taking formula for a week now and only feed on breast milk.
My concern is since 3-4 days now he havn't toilet only passes gas that are sometimes smelly ���

Pls is it something I should be worried about??
I don't think it's something to worry about... He would poo... My baby too does same, she takes only breast milk for now and sometimes it takes about 4 days to poo... She might now poo for 2 or 3 consecutive days and go on strike again... I think it's something that comes with taking only breast milk... She passes gas a lot too and sometimes it smells...
You can also talk to a paediatrician about it so that you would rule out any other issues..
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 6:45am On Aug 16, 2022
novia22:
B.A! B.A!! B.A!!!
I welcomed my second Princess on 13th August via VD weighing 3.4kg with tear.
Edd was 13TH too.
My BS will come later.....It wasn't easy but it was all Worth it.
August Cappo...I hail oo
abike12:
BA!!

I welcomed my Princess weighing 4.1kg on August 13th via elective CS. BS coming soon, I'm still navigating CS recovery. Wishing all mamas safe delivery.
Congratulations mamas.. May God bless you and your babies.. Amen
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 3:09pm On Aug 13, 2022
TOHHAN:
See my cappo still dey fear o, I started bathing after 6weeks but won't scrub d CS area(till today, I don't scrub d part) and I apply ori(Shea butter) to d CS area b4 going to d bathroom so that it ll splash water away from dere den apply anoda ori afta drying my body for fast healing but I still feel little sharp pain attyms if I overwork (not everytym sha). The do has bn done self and period neva cum.
My only challenge now is my tummy dat remain very small to go down patapata(am sure it ll still go down wit tym) and how I wan increase my weight back because am nw very lean grin
Hmmm... Maybe I'll start rubbing Ori too... It might even fade the scar huh
My tummy didn't get too big when I was preggo so it's not big now.. when my delivery was announced, some people were surprised, one said she didn't know I was pregnant while one said she knew but was thinking I still had about 5 months more..
Errmm.. when you find out how to add weight abeg let me know... I want to add small and all the food I'm eating is not even making me add
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 1:06pm On Aug 13, 2022
ladyrachy:
Sabi mamas good morning pls I av a question those of u DAT av done cs before is the area above the wound supposed to feel stiff when I wake up especially after lying on my back its discomforting. But moving around I don't feel it and also when breastfeeding and sitting for long the numbness and pulling sensation comes again at times it kind of itches me as if I shud scratch it. I was warned against it though. Don't know again oo am just 3 weeks post cs delivery. The cs cut is healing nicely outside don't know wat to expect again.how long will it take to recover fully from this stiffness and pain
Layormiii:
the numbness nah follow come.. 2months now and it's still numb.. not painful tho and not itching, just numb.
Hafa you don baff?
I think the place above the incision is even where all the pain and action happens... I was surprised, the incision itself didn't even pain me as much as the place above it did.. And it was worse when I tried getting up after lying down for a long while. The pain will heal soon but the numbness will be there for a while... Mine still itches me once in a while till now (it even itched me today)

The doctors removed the plaster about 3 or 4 days after the cs and asked me to be rubbing spirit on it at least 3 times a day and when possible leave it to air..
My cleaning was just with rag and water at first. After about 4 days I started using soap and towel, I would tie wrapper around the incision and bath with soap and towel, then use water and towel to rinse off the soap and dry myself... the reason for the wrapper was so that water won't mistakenly touch the incision during rinsing..
2 weeks after the cs when the wound had dried up, I started bathing fully and pouring water on myself without the wrapper over the cut...
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 6:50am On Aug 11, 2022
Layormiii:
Hello mamas
Today is the 7th day I've been bleeding. I call it bleeding because the blood is much o.

Talked to a nurse and she said my period is back, and that first period after delivery is always very heavy and last longer. I am two months postpartum btw .
I've never seen anything like this before, this is even much more heavier than d one after delivery. Loosing so much blood is so scary.
Please is that how first period after delivery especially through cs is?
She said If it didn't stop or reduce by weekend I should go to hospital
Mine came 36 days after delivery and lasted about 6 days. Just last week I had the second period sef.... That first period was so heavy for me, heavier than the bleeding after delivery.. it had clots ... It was annoying and frustrating... Normal pads couldn't hold it for the second and third day, exhausted them so I had to use pampers, I was changing every two and half to three hours I think. By the fourth and fifth day it reduced, sixth day wasn't really anything, just scanty stuff... The second period was better, it was just slightly heavier than my normal period.
Body differs but I think it's better to talk to a professional to be sure, considering that yours has lasted this long and is still very heavy on the seventh day..
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 10:14pm On Aug 04, 2022
ladyrachy:
The saying "sleep when baby sleeps" pls is it working for anyone. Cos whenever I try to lay down on the bed my baby will just wake up and start fussing about.I have kukuma resign myself to till when she will outgrown this stage.
Nope.... Absolutely not working for me, she hardly sleeps... And when she does she doesn't sleep deep, she wakes up to cry at any slight movement or when you put her in bed...
Thank God for my mum.. Baby sleeps with her at night (I express for them) while I stay with her during the day when she's at work.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 1:12pm On Aug 02, 2022
Hibiscuss:
Hello Everyone,

Our bundle of joy arrived on the 14th of July. Two weeks before the EDD.

I am grateful to God for the bundle of joy.

My wife's pregnancy journey has really taught me a lot.
A week before the baby arrival, my wife and i had gone to the hospital for the normal checks (we dont miss this once everyweek considering she is on Bondomet). When her vitals was check, they said her BP is 130/80 and she should be expecting baby anytime soon.

Few days later, i noticed my wife's leg was swelling but i thought it was just due to the pregnancy pressure. I calmed her down that all was fine. Our appointment was on wednesday but we missed it because i was engaged. But the second day, she dressed up to go lodge a complain about the swollen leg. When her vitals was taken. her BP has shot up to 180/120 (something that was 130/80 a week back). Test was conducted and the doctor said something about SPE (Severe Preeclampsia). I have read about this SPE before and i knew it was something dreadful. There and then, we were faced with either induced labor or CS.

We opted for CS on the spot and it was carried out. I was in the theater with her all through and the surgeon said we made the right decision because if she had opted for induced labor, the baby might not have made it. When the baby was brought out, she wasn't breathing well. They said she has respiratory distress and was placed on oxygen for 5 days. All in all, mother was fine and baby is now hale and healthy.

I must mentioned that what helped with our quick decision was that me and my wife had discussed the idea of having elective CS before that day. So the decision was easy to take.

My advice to expectant da is to always find time to go to antenatal with their wife and doctor's appointment should not be missed for whatever reason. I am assuming what would have happened if we missed our appointment that week.

My little baby's name Kimberly. So y'all can call me Daddy Kim grin
Congratulations daddy... Thank God for safe delivery and everything... That preeclampsia is a very serious and dangerous thing... Your story is just almost same as mine, just that mine was 6 weeks earlier (3 June instead of July 13)... All the same thank God that mother, father and baby is doing very great.. May the baby bring unexplainable joy and happiness to your home... Amen.
Congratulations once again sir
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 12:53pm On Aug 02, 2022
dunpredictable:
B. A
I don port oooo
I welcomed my second Prince on 28th July via VD weighing 4kg with tears. August cappo do take note
Congratulations Mama... May God grant you speedy healing... God bless the baby and family
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 9:10am On Jul 30, 2022
Nmamez:
BA
Edd: 27/7/2022
Dob: 27/7/2022

My cute boy has been handed over to me by God. Safe and smooth delivery to the rest of July mamas and other mamas. BS will come up soon.

Cappo ladyrachy , you're indeed a good leader.
Glory to God... Congratulations... Your boy shall bring joy to the family..
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 9:08am On Jul 30, 2022
zinny20:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

Thank you Lord! My Foreign Pinky Girl has landed ooo
God is faithful! 39weeks +1 day, Vaginal delivery with little tear,
27-07!
BS! Loading
July Cappo, BA submitted
Congratulations! Thank God for safe delivery.. God bless the baby and family
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 9:03am On Jul 30, 2022
Ekabobo:
Pls as dis miscarriage was jus few weeks old... N am bleeding n removing huge blood clots now... Do I need to go for an evac too like I did wen I had a miscarriage at four months... Or jus let it flow out.... Pls smone really knowledgeable shud enlighten me tanks
cry It is well... So sorry mama... May God comfort you and grant you multiple celebration soon
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 8:15am On Jul 30, 2022
oluwalatte1:
BS! BS!! BS!!!

This one go long small oooo

Beginning
After our wedding, my wife kept having baby fever. She was always sending me IG videos and talking about how cute a baby was, but I dey run. So finally in October(6 months after our wedding) after much discussion & prayer we agreed to start trying, thinking at least by December the baby suppose enter. Next thing, my wife started feeling a bit sick and decided to do a PT(Pregnancy Test) at home. Omo, this baby no calm down. Na that October gangan, e come. E shock me. �

Funny enough we go do blood PT later for one hospital like that, they said it was negative. I’m like shey una dey whine me ni. Something wey I don see for like 3 strips. We go somewhere else to do another test, which turns out positive and we register there for ANC(Antenatal Care).

1st Trimester
Anyways moving on, 1st trimester was something else. Because there was a lot of nausea, and a lot of vomiting, my wife could barely keep anything down. Also, I was doing most of the cooking, so she could not smell what I was cooking if not she won’t eat. She also said I can’t be using my body spray. No be small thing. There was one time she was vomiting so bad, that her throat was hurting, I think she even vomited blood. I kept trying to do what I can to help.

Then 8th Dec, I see my wife on the bathroom floor, vomiting and water pouring on her head. I have never been so scared, I immediately carried her to the hospital. They admitted her, gave her something to stop the vomiting, and IV fluids. After that, things got a bit easier.

2nd Trimester
Then the 2nd trimester my wife was able to eat more, thankfully. Being pregnant in the heat is crazy. Cos we dey on the fan and AC down. She was having a lot of waist and back pain though, so I was doing a lot of massages. We found out the sex of the baby and I was feeling the baby’s movements.

3rd Trimester
3rd trimester, my wife’s appetite increased but she wasn’t gaining more weight. Cos na baby dey chop am. I continued my duty of sorting food and making sure she was comfortable, cos na both of us get the baby. We switched hospitals to one that’s closer to us, to switch sef na wahala cos first hospital dey delay to give us the medical report.

We are in Week 39 and Gynae said if the baby doesn’t come out by Week 41, she will be induced. Omo. Wahalur
Naso we start with pineapples, dates, plenty jogging, yoga & bedroom workout � make the baby come quick quick.
So when we went for week 40 checkup, and the Doctor decided to do a scan to check if there was still enough fluid in the womb, na so baba talk we have to schedule a c-section tomorrow cos the baby is big(like papa�).

I confuse small, but I recompose. They didn’t let my wife even leave with me, they said they will prep her that night. So I went home to get our hospital bags and some food.

Labour day
By 7 am, they start prepping my wife for surgery. 8 am they begin, 8:09 am, the child is out. Every other thing was done before 9 am. Mother & Child are alright, We thank God.
Congratulations sir... Thank God for safe delivery.. May God bless baby, mother and father...
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 8:05am On Jul 30, 2022
mhizsholar:
BA! BA!! BA!!!
Thank you Baba God. My pinky Jet landed dis afternoon via vaginal delivery with cervical tears but I thank God ooo. Mama, papa and baby are OK.
July cappo BA submitted
Congratulations!!!... God's blessings on the baby and family
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 8:00am On Jul 30, 2022
shiller:
BA BA BA!!

My Pink jet has finally landed today by 2pm..
@40 weeks 2days via Vagina Delivery..

BS will come later..

July Cappo BA submitted oo
Congratulations Mama... God bless you and the baby...
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:59am On Jul 30, 2022
ladyrachy:
BS! BS!! BS!!! alert
Thanks for all ur prayers and congratulatory messages May God bless you all.
BS SUBMITTED
July cappo
Congratulations mama... Thank God for safe delivery and for giving the doctor wisdom on what to do... May God bless you and your princess...
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 10:16pm On Jul 22, 2022
peggygee:
BA BA BA

My pink jet landed yesterday after an elective CS, mother and baby doing great.
Will drop BS once I'm relieved of the pains o
Safe delivery to all my teamies
Congratulations Mama... God bless you and the baby
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 5:53pm On Jul 18, 2022
dacblogger:
B.A! B.A!!
My blue jet have landed safely.

Labor was so short... Baby boy came exactly on the first Edd scan gave me. Came to the hospital by 3.30. delivered 1hr later
Born at 37weeks+
Safe delivery to the remaining July Mamas.
B.s will come later.
Wow! God be praised... Congratulations to you and the family
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 4:19pm On Jul 08, 2022
Ifyjos:
Hey Mommies which formula milk is good for the premature baby and the affordable one breastmilk is not enough for my baby boy. Thanks in advance
I saw some mums at the hospital buying Aptamil for their babies, they said it's good. So when buying you'll ask for the one for preterm babies.. I don't know if it's called PRE Aptamil

I also heard of Nan.. the one for preterm is PRE Nan... I bought this one when my milk supply was low but they didn't use it for my baby.. They said she doesn't need formula that I should try and get breast milk
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 3:57pm On Jul 08, 2022
dacblogger:
Thanks Mama. How is our little warrior doing?.
Hope she is adding weight as the day goes by?
Yes oo... She's doing so fine and getting very strong.. She no dey allow me sleep or rest, always wanting to eat cheesy.. Thank God the food dey show, she dey add small small�
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:57pm On Jul 05, 2022
dacblogger:
Hello Mama's , Can someone give birth at 36weeks and does it affect the baby in anyway?
Yes you can give birth at 36 weeks...
I gave birth at 34 weeks and the baby is very fine now.. she had to be put in the incubator with oxygen and monitored because her birth weight was very very low and there was difficulty breathing ... It was lower than what it should have been and that was probably due to the complications I had...
Another woman I met at the hospital who also gave birth at 34weeks carried her baby home without issues and in good health... The baby didn't need incubator or extra stay because the weight and every other thing was fine.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 9:33am On Jul 02, 2022
dacblogger:
DNT mind the sonographer. Maybe it was his own scrotum that he saw there. grin
cheesy cheesy gringrin grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 9:29am On Jul 02, 2022
pearlyboo:
BA! BA!! BA!!! BA!!!! BA!!!!!

It is with a heart full of gratitude to God that I announce the grand arrival of my cute princess on 22/6/22 at 2.40pm via ELCS. What God said turned to what God did. My more is here. Wishing all other preggy mamas safe delivery and healthy babies.
Birth story comes up later.

Cc: June capo
Cc: ladyrachy/ July cappo
Congratulations teamie.... God bless your baby and the entire family..
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 9:21am On Jul 02, 2022
Sassy256:
Congratulations mama, thank God for perfection of your miracle. Your baby is blessed.
Amen! Thank you Ma
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 8:14am On Jul 02, 2022
Omakraid:
Thanks to God or little cutie is fine and strong, she'll add faster than you can imagine. Congratulations ma.
Amen! Thank you Ma
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:19am On Jul 02, 2022
Layormiii:
awww what a mighty God we serve.
Congratulations mama.. the lord will watch over her ijn. She's a fighter !
Amen! Thank you Ma
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:18am On Jul 02, 2022
voucher:
What’s with scan showing you a sex then you deliver a different sex please? I have seen it happen to a few people here on this thread then a friend outside here..
Does it happen when one checks too early or the sonographer didnt check properly?
They shouldn’t change this my xx to xy o
I don't know o... To even imagine that I was shown the scrot.um on the screen grin.... I wonder where it disappeared to cheesy
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:16am On Jul 02, 2022
voucher:
Congratulations to you mama StephOkemini
Thank God for your life and baby’s, she will gain weight over time..
Yes Ma... Thank you
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:15am On Jul 02, 2022
Morrewhunmie:
Good afternoon mama.
I had my beautiful princess weighing 3.6kg today.
Thanks to everyone.
Cc.’ June cappo ,@ Larhyomi
BS coming later
Congratulations Mama
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by StephOkemini: 7:15am On Jul 02, 2022
novia22:
Congrats Dearie...Your LO is indeed a fighter...
Don't worry about her weight....breast milk will do the needful. Just be strong for you both....
Yes she is... Thank you Ma... I will
Right from beginning of the pregnancy I planned doing exclusive bf but right now with this weight I've been wondering if breast milk alone can make her add weight?

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