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Serves her right!

Why are you doing JuJu? What type of person calls himself Alfa and does JuJu, the greatest sin against God?

Yet not a single picture of residents' property damage

God is watching you..

It is clear she doesn't have sense but she will learn.

pocohantas:
I thought this girl has sense and knows not to fight Chinedu over those kids. Your ex-nanny gave you an update and you rushed to post it online. Exposing her and her family to danger.

You agreed you take drugs to satisfy him. So how do you expect a court to grant you full or primary custody?

The same man that locked up your brother and you all were running from pillar to post is who you want to fight legally? An international lawyer and senator. You were probably too young when FFK and Precious entertained us, but you will learn firsthand.

There is an article about his scams

Adams011:
You are very stupeed for disrespecting a sitting King, Son of a thousand father!

We don’t disrespect kings for SW make e stay for una SE

Northern leaders need to speak out more.

PinkNature

That looks like body acne. Please ignore anyone asking you treat typhoid or otherwise. Confirm with a dermatologist.

You can use over the counter acne treatment like Palmers smoothing body lotion or any cosmetics that has acne fighting ingredients.

Nice try!

But there is no genocide

givedemwotowoto:
Someday you'll also hear this same group of people say "I denied and tried to cover up genocide on my own countrymen because I don't like President Trump".

There's no shame for this group of people called Agbadorians. You praised Buhari for 8 whole years as the best, then turned around soon after he left office to say he messed up the economy. Truly, no shame.

Must you blame others for your voting decision? What happened to "I voted for him because he was my tribe though I didn't think he was the best candidate, but unfortunately it didn't favor me as I expected?". Let people know you for who you truly are.

I am sorry. That was a long time ago. I will send it to you when I find it.

Blankstare:
Pls which book is it? I am very interested in knowing. By d way I am from ilorin

My first real exposure to the history of banditry was the story of a group that operated in Ilorin in the pre-colonial era. And honestly, the way they worked back then is almost identical to how bandits operate today.

They would storm a compound, seize the man’s wives and children, and then demand ransom. If he couldn’t pay, they didn’t hesitate; they sold the captives into slavery. Some of those slaves were eventually pushed into the wider Arab slave routes disappearing forever.

Terrorist country...wooe to anyone that goes around preaching USA or western values!

After all the money spent on HIV education, these comments are very disgraceful.

No, there isn't.

I really suggest you read up a lot on ment of these causes. Both sides have managed to drag religion into an issue that would still have happened if both groups were of the same faith.

Mariangeles:
Even with the continuous massacre?

Again we really need to start teaching history and current affairs not only in schools but everywhere there is a Nigerian like this.

UK can and will release him if the price is right.

Eminent2025:
UK is not like Nigeria, Nigeria is a lawless country, US ,UK Europe is a law abiding country they don't consider your position when you commit they put u in prison

Nigeria law is only for the poor

It is impossible to fall short of the Glory of God though.

Only one country to invade Mexico, Venezuela, Nigeria...awon ole.

Don’t abandon her; keep paying her school fees, no matter what.

However, have a talk with her, not a warm or gentle one. Set clear boundaries.

Now this part is the most important bit. Then wait. When she crosses a boundary, you MUST act decisively and excessively. She needs to see that you mean what you say; she needs to feel the consequences to understand.

If you fail to act each time she crosses a line, or if your response isn’t strong enough to make an impact, she'll keep pushing and will never learn.

Let her give you the silent treatment if she wants; as long as she answers when spoken to and fulfils her responsibilities in the house, leave her be.

Solofresh2:
Honestly I can't help abandoning her because my mind will be there

Here we go, when two minorities women were rapevbd because of their ethnicities, it didn't make Nairaland news. Not did the marches against minorities.

When the Senegalese family were keeilled as well because of their faith in the US, it didn't make the news and so many others.

I am Yoruba. I hatte both of them. I won't stand up nor would I bow for them.

Rekeb:
I guess you are not Yoruba. So it wouldn't matter to the Yorubas if you like or dislike any of them.

I can't believe there are people justfying this cruelty

This is false. There were Igbo Communities with Kings.

tunde1200:
Igbos no get kings lineage no put mouth for matter wey no dey your lineage.

I diislikee the Ooni immensely but this Alaafin appears to be very rvde and arrogant.

I find this very interesting because Turkey isn't exactly practicing.

We like being funny.

Yes it is Haram and yes it is great disbelief.

Azzik:
They will say his Haram... funny religion

They don't need to claim Aram

Qur'an and hadith say it is haram. Maybe you should go and argue with the Quran then. Abi, tell us to abandon the Quran so we don't be extremist.

We don't care if you call is extremist. Yous re iggt, we are extremist. We don't care.

Emmy000seun:
If not for some religion extremist, and politician trying to break us through religious line, interreligious relationship has been so good in Nigeria except the northerners.. imagine alfa dancing with his Quran..but let his other extremist brother saw the video now, dey will claim it's Aram..

Alright
Thank you

Qualityoffer:
Your response points to what my bible tells me in Colossians-4-6: Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

The moniker I quoted has explained what she meant and she is right within the category of women she is addressing.

Qualityoffer:
You're blessed. My bible has you in mind when it tells me in Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

With or without feminism, reality remains unchanged.


In the real world, many men earn less or not enough, some lack vision, or take things for granted, and waiting around for them to change isn't a practical step and you can't force them to change either. So she steps up because she wants more for herself and for her kids i.e better food, better education, a better life.

The other option is to live single, which can bring peace, but with its own struggles. So a lot of them keep going, doing double the work, because deep down, she hopes that get effort will guarantee that her children will have something better.

It's easy to say a man should fully provide, cover most of the expenses, or even help with the chores but the reality is, he's an adult, and sometimes life or his own choices get in the way.

pocohantas:
Lol @ how can you be a femimist and want a provider. That is how they convince one innocent lady to do 50:50. Then she cooks, cleans, births the kids, do the emotional labour, takes the career dip and contributes a good percentage of her income __until the scales falls off her eyes and she becomes resentful.

I am slowly beginning to not pity women who fall into that trap.

You can argue all day, but my point is ALSO clear: Christian churches and white Christians were deeply complicit in slavery. They didn’t just enslave people; they committed atrocities that went far beyond forced labour including human experimentation on living enslaved people and their Slavery was the Worst

Jesus himself never condemned slavery, nor did he oppose the genocides described in scripture. If he were God, he sanctioned the same violence including killing children and allowing enslavement in the Bible as well. Their justification came from the Bible (see Ephesians 6:5; Titus 2:9; 1 Peter 2:18; Exodus 21:7; 1 Samuel 15:3; Leviticus 25:44–46).

Let’s not even start with Nazi Germany, whose perpetrators overwhelmingly identified as Christians, not atheists.


Islam, by contrast, had established principles limiting slavery, encouraging manumission, and protecting the rights of captives to the extent that some theologians insist that it was meant to eradicate slavery and was revolutionary at its time. Christianity and Judaism never implemented similar safeguards. Even today, remnants of these narratives persist, and history cannot be erased.

The facts are there, and they speak for themselves.

TV01:
I was clear on my entry point. The TAST was not the worst slave trade ever. The arab\islamic one was. Period. But please keep mewling and flailing all over the place. Here are a few non-Christian sources.

https://wardheernews.com/the-arab-slave-trade-a-forgotten-chapter-in-african-history/
https://www.fairplanet.org/dossier/beyond-slavery/forgotten-slavery-the-arab-muslim-slave-trade-sex-trafficking/#:~:text=The%20Trans%2DSaharan%20Caravan%20focused,and%20thirst%20along%20the%20way.

The Christian vs. the Islamic scriptures. No matter what TAST did, no matter who was involved, the Christian scriptures clearly presented do not support slavery and it was Christians who eventually abolished slavery - EOS. Nor is there any Christian chattel slavery today.

Islam however, embeds it and still practices it. Nonsense about "upwardly mobile slaves" is laughable. All your duff comments are waffle - designed to defect and obfuscate. Keep pivoting to race based action and not what your heretical sect demands. Abdi is your generation .



No need to explain or justify. Just accept your deen for what it is - unrelentingly, unapologetically ,inhumane, regressive, oppressive, brutal and bloodthirsty.


TV