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I don't agree with the death sentence.

But for people that have chosen to be Islamophobic, you will get the same sentence if you insult Jesus Christ or Moses or even David (May peace be upon them all) in Saudi Arabia

Of course.

FSBoperator:
Don't quote me.

Good call! Murderers should be relieved to their Creator.

Yes, that is very possible and not unusual and definitely not contradictory

alfajohn:
You are suffering from attention deficit and you could put together this write up and also have 397 topics on nairaland. Story story story.

FSBoperator

Let's assume you lack the requisite subject knowledge or a flexible enough mind to hold NO opinion on this subject matter. But as an adult who has observed how children develop abilities and skills through experience, I am surprised you believe those experiences can shape personality and behaviour without affecting the brain itself. How do you think dopamine, serotonin, cortisol and the brain's stress and reward systems work?

So do you actually understand what you mean by "brain chemistry", or are you merely regurgitating conspiracy theories where 2 + 2 somehow equals 5? Trust me, I consider some conspiracy theories worthy of serious consideration, but denying that environment and experience can affect brain function is a wonder biko. I am not impressed at all.

FSBoperator

Yes, the environment can lead to personality disorders but not mental disorders.

False, you are actually don't know about the brain. I am not a scientist nor a biologist but from my experience with how people learn; I can tell you that this is pure falsehood. Environment and experience can affect both the brain and the risk of developing mental disorders.

Mental disorders relate to brain chemistry and biology that are always due to congenital issues, exposure to toxins and toxic compounds during gestation or early childhood.

False again. The word "always" alone makes this wrong. Mental disorders can involve a complex interaction between genetics, biology, environment and life experi/ences. Don't you have any life experience or have you chosen to ignore reflective thinking and observations for conspiracy theories?

Environmental issues such as childhood trauma greatly alter personality traits but not brain function.

False again. Childhood trauma and chronic stress can affect brain development and function. Personality, behaviour, emotion and brain function aren't completely separate things. Again, you don't need to be a scientist or like Oyinbos to understand basic facts about us.

Autism is more of brain chemistry mishap and isn't due to environmental or rather emotional responses.

Lmao, brain chemistry mishap is definitely an interesting choice of words. Conspiracy theory again!

American children are the most vaccinated and are subjected to a curtail of vaccines up till they are 16 and most of these vaccines contain heavy metals and also biological pathogens, and neofoetal matter gotten from stem cells of aborted babies.

No way that's not going to fck up the next generation.

I don't know about america but I know that vaccines aren't inherently bad or negative and I also know that Big Pharma can be quite overbearing and unethical and evil and we should be cautious of everything they throw at us. See? it isn't hard to hold two conflicting opinions at the same time.

We shall have this discussion again when you are licensed, or when you have chosen to open your mind before then. Another tip for you: long before modern psychology and psychiatry had names and diagnostic criteria for these things, scholars and physicians were already observing and describing behaviours and symptoms that we would now associate with neurodivergence.

These things did not suddenly start existing when modern medicine gave them a name. You are welcome.

Kukutente23:
What is ADHD and how is it different from just being a troublesome person?

I agree to overdiagnosis however this isn't Jewpharma. Neurodivergent conditions such as ADHD and other have been identified before vaccines or before the West gained enlightenment. As for other mental health issues, some of the causes are the way we live.

FSBoperator:
Vaccines are the cause plus over diagnosis.

JewPharma needs the next generation numbed and dumbed down.

Even the US military is struggling to get new recruits as most young Americans have been diagnosed with one mental health condition or the other and have been placed on mind altering drugs since they were 7.

Do you also know that the leading cause of death in the US is from medical malpractice ?

Not gun violence or car accidents but medical malpractice.

And you can't sue them in court.

@Goodmarlian


Just have systems in place, plenty of it. The trick is: don't trust your brain. If you know you forget things, lose things or get distracted, don't depend on yourself to remember. Document everything IN FULL not summary and create simple rules for yourself.


Losing things: If you are losing money or important things, don't use pockets or anything temporary. Carry a bag and have a dedicated compartment for money/important things only. No matter when you are holding money, it goes in there ASAP. Don't trick yourself into thinking you'll put it away when you're done, even for one second. Do the same for your keys, documents, cards and everything important. Everything should have a specified place, and put it back immediately.

Forgetfulness: If you are forgetful, alarms please. Set reminders days, weeks or hours before an event. For a major event, break it into little steps, write them down, set target days and tick them off. Get a diary/planner and a notebook and write every little thing down. Activate Siri, Alexa, Gemini or another assistant so you can just say a reminder out loud instead of depending on yourself to remember to type it later. Get a kitchen timer too.

Clumsiness: If you are careless or clumsy, create rules that prevent accidents. If you spill drinks, don't drink from an open cup on the bed, Get a leakproof mug or bottle. Don't leave things balancing somewhere "for a second". Put things away carefully, close lids, zip bags and before walking away ask yourself, "Is this actually done properly?" One deliberate check can save you a lot of stress.

Restless: If you are overwhelmed or restless, learn to slow down. Breathe, relax and don't try to respond to five thoughts at once. Acknowledge it then force yourself to finish what is in your hand, put it away properly, then move on. Get a hobby, sports, gym, walking etc...biko. Hang out with people you like and who like you so you have somewhere to expend all that energy. Whatever religion you follow, there should be something e.g hymns, recitations you can play to regulate yourself; this isn't the time for hip hop or anything loud and fast.

Have structure and an Alarm: Get your pending work written down and start clearing it. Have a full timetable because you will be more productive when you have a lot/competing priorities [/b]to do than when you have an empty/little to do.

Alarms and reminders please. Reminders days, weeks or hours or even [b]a minute before the event. If something is important, don't just set one reminder for the actual event. Set reminders for the things you need to do before the event as well even if it is up to 20. If you have something major coming up, break it down into little steps, write those steps down, give yourself target days and tick them off.

Get yourself a diary/planner or a notebook. Write every little thing down. If someone tells you something important, write it down. If you suddenly remember something you need to do, write it down. Don't tell yourself, "I'll remember."

Activate the assistant on your phone or have a home assistant with Siri, Alexa, Gemini etc. There are downsides, but these are also tools that are already available to you. It is much easier to say "OK Google, Remind me tomorrow at 6pm to do X for X at X." OR "OK Google, Remind me in 2 minutes to check the rice."

This is easier to rely on yourself to pick up your phone later, open the calendar and type it in.

Get a kitchen timer as well you set immediately or use your phone. Timers are useful when you need to start something, stop something, leave the house, check the oven, get ready etc.

Basically: don't trust yourself to remember it, write it down. Don't trust yourself to put it away later, put it away now. Don't trust yourself not to spill it, use something leakproof. Don't trust yourself to remember the event, set alarms and make it detailed. Document everything and build systems around the things you repeatedly struggle with.

There is something like ADHD; no be Oyinbo talk. Na brain matter since you aren't a neurologist nor a psychologist nor a physiologist, you really need to mind the career you have chosen.

Kukutente23:
There's nothing like ADHD
No allow Oyinbo to dey whine you

That man can never be either happy or contented with anything.

pocohantas:
Solomon Buchi bothers too much about single women and single people generally. It is quite strange for a happily married man.

They will.be sad but again justice isn't in this world.

Baba Ijesha will get his recompense someday. So will Ooni.

flokii:
I wonder how Iyabo Ojo and 'Princess of doom' will feel seeing this lovely photo of Baba Ijesha.. the guy man don fresh, still get fine wife join.

This isn't true.

She didn't foresee anything.

Nigeria's security agencies had long been aware of these terrorists and bandits before the insurgency escalated. They started with bank robberies and other criminal activities and their followers lived with us and they were known, but, in typical Nigerian fashion, we often ignore serious warning signs until they grow into full-blown crises.

Boko Haram was not a consequence of Jonathan or his ethnic background. Given the rise of terrorism and the proliferation of arms across several parts of Africa at the time, it would have emerged regardless. Have you actually looked into the history of Sudan, Niger, Libya, Egypt? Which is exactly why Kwara and Oyo state attacks should not have shocked anyone. They were always going to happen because the leaders we have chosen hate us.

So Patience didn't predict anything. Like all first ladies, including the current one, their priority is personal wealth.

God will judge them all!

Mariangeles:
Patience Jonathan.
That woman was underappreciated.

She foresaw and spoke about what is happening now, and was mocked for it.

A death sentence would have been perfect.

Fraud lol

Ibas3454:
Read your quote

What obvious sir?

Ibas3454:
That's the more reason Iran shouldn't possess a nuclear weapon.. you've just stated the obvious

Yeah but a nuclear US, France, Britain is fine.


All of which have actually tested their nuclear might on poor people but that is perfectly alright with you. The Iranian state is criminal but they have committed the level of atrociea your precious states have done.

It is either nuclear all or nuclear none. Frankly, no state should have nuclear power.

Ibas3454:
I don't want a Nuclear Iran..period

Dpsychologist

For Muslims, God has indeed said that He created people with disparities, and those who lack should not constantly fix their eyes on those who have more. Everyone will account with what they were given.

This means that wealth itself is a test and might be a curse, because people will be held accountable for how they earned it, spent it, and behaved with it. So in Islam, woeee to those who become arrogant or miserable despite these blessings.

Likewise, begging and unnecessary debt are frowned upon. People are encouraged to work hard even in hardship and to be careful when borrowing, since every debt must eventually be repaid. Islam therefore encourages living within one’s means. Borrowing is not forbidden, but it should be approached with caution and responsibility. Being poor or disadvantaged aren't necessarily seen as enough reasons.

Islam addresses social disparity by mandating an annual charity obligation called "zakat" on Muslims whose wealth exceeds a certain threshold. It is compulsory, and traditionally amounts to 2.5% of qualifying wealth each year. Quran has a list of people who are recipients, charity itself considered a means to purify wealth and oneself before God so it is a BIG deal.

We also believe that being poor should not stop us from praying to God for a better life, because even prayers that seem unanswered in this world are still answered in another way as blessings and mercy for us on the Day of Accountability. Therefore poverty is also a test on hope and patience.

What was the point of insulting your neighbour over a non- harmful advice?

Caaz:
I have other places ...but I intend growing other crops. there.i m asking if my neighbors assertions are true?almost neighbors here grow theirs this same only few grow theirs in sacks and places them on land because of space constrain

Says the man that divided Oyo with religion right from his first term.

He gives, he takes. The earth certainly felt some relief of one less evil creature.

May God take control of your reasoning!

bigwig071:
you don't even know what Iran did to kids people...

You are saying this after Trump confessed that they gave weapons to Kurds.

May thy Lord continue to leave you in this white master-slve relationship you've gotten yourself into.

bigwig071:
Nonsense propaganda what about the innocent people the Iran terrorists leaders ordered to be shot, hanged and killed? Did they hold mass for them??

Why is it blasphemous when Rabb/Lord is in the Qur'an and many Prophets started their prayers with it? Like 40 Robannas?

Do what? Is this another fear mongering?

This is what happens when you dont know anything about Islam and yet think yourself a Prof because of YouTube.

LeeSmart:
As a Muslim, it's blasphemous to mention the word Lord, i hope you know what your people are capable of doing to you?

Who are you guys? Who is churning numbers?

Elusive001:
So how do you guys get the numbers you churn?

How can you assess casualties on the Israeli side when they don't allow reports?

Lmao

No one should believe a thing you ever say.

eazzzy1:
I watched a podcast where David Oyedepo Jnr said they haven’t fought or argued in 17 years and a lot of people were skeptical and said it was a lie, couples must fight etc.

The truth is when there’s a clearly defined hierarchy in a system, people don’t fight. I lived with my parents for 25 years and I never fought nor argued in with them, I have worked for almost a decade and I have never fought or argued with a superior.

It is equality and friendship that brings fights and arguments.

I am just like your mum.

BTW, do you know you get your intelligence from the X chromosome that is the female chromosomes.

I know you don't which is further proof of your lvak of intelligence. You know who to blame for that, don't you?

DEROXMAN:
As a female you shouldn't reason straight so I don't blame you

No reasonable human should be competing with a dog.

You make it sound like infidelity is new with women. Your mothers have been doing it for ages. You might not even be your father's son.

higgs:
So you actually want to compete with men in having casual sex with multiple partners? Remember men don't get pregnant. The risk of contracting many STDs is also much higher if you are female. Feminism can sometimes be taken to ridiculous levels.

Does this analogy sound right to you in the context of relationships? ANY relationships?

It is important to be mindful and alert in relationships but you don't jump the gun in the name of being careful especially over something this significant that can make or mar the relationship..

Nteogwuija:
You walk into a Fouani store because you trust that they sell genuine LG projects. You ask them to put on the OLED TV so you can verify, incase there's any factory fault.

Fouani does not gaslight, unlike some women.

They know u trust them and the still give u assurance by giving you some years guarantee.

Life no suppose hard.

He is unwell and I genuinely believe that his family are either one pushing him for the joint custody plus he gets his own for body.

pocohantas:
Both him and his supporters are unwell.
He goes everywhere with Chioma and word on the street is Chioma's mother used to live with them. That is if her visa issues hasn't been sorted out. No one has denied him access to Imade and I am very sure his father said in an interview that Imade comes for the family's Christmas retreat. He wants to carry Imade and go keep with Chioma's people and his igbo smoking friends. 😂😂😂

Betrayal is part of human experience.

The question didn't start with an assumption or evidence of betrayal like infidelity, then request for DNA.

FaAbData:
.

You've not seen where trust was betrayed before?