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haykinzz:
She is just 16years old going to SS3 now. She is so pretty that every guy wants to date her even some of my mates do admire her but I know the mind of guys, she is too young they just want to have their way with her.
I used to be strict with her before, seize her phone, beats her up whenever she talks with any guy but my friends told me I don't need to do that, they adviced me to sit her down and talk with her.
Now I don't even know where to start with her, what kind of advice to give.

Should I tell her not to date or have any boyfriend??

Should I tell her not to have sex with her boyfriend or go visit any male friends??.

Our parents are old and too busy to look after her, its all down to me to do the job.


I need help please, how can I advice her

Don't mind my English oo, I be youruba boy.

Yoruba ni won fi tor mi dagba

OP....yummy yummy ....d fruit is ripe now

ladyF:
All your past girlfriends are other guy's sisters too na. Your eye just dey open? Abeg free the girl...

hmmmm...ladyF wants d girl to be tasted too

Safiaa:
Lol. Guys gossip way too much. It's terrible.

may be I get lucky with d girls I had....I once stayed in a room where a girl was being bang. truly I never knew d guy will do it...I slept off only to wake up at night with a terrible odour....infact I almost choke myself looking for where to place my nose at d same time praying for day break...it wasn't a good sleep....funny d girl looks clean and fair in complexion

Safiaa:
so have you personally experienced it?

personally I have not....but friends do tell me

Safiaa:
then thats their business. I would want someone to tell me that i smell so i can fix it immediately.

well...it is easy for u to say dats their business..u don't know what some guys pass thru in d hands of girls.....some can read so many meaning to ur yes...some will feel u are seeing other girls...some will feel because they didn't perform well..mmmmm woman

Benita27:
Thanks for the compliment.

u are welcome

Safiaa:
most girls dont know that their pussy smells. They're accustomed to their own smell. So it's only other people that can perceive it. Thats why its just good for ladies to ask for their own security.

hmmmmm...but some will be offended if u say yes

Rorachy:
I get o.

me I like Ikebe even if na moderate nowahala

Benita27:
I could remember reading something similar on Quora weeks back. A lady asked people to share the things their spouses told them that hurt. She shared hers about her spouse telling her her vagina smells and she hasn't been able to get it off her head 'cause it made her less of who she was before the news. Now, I think how such informations are passed is what matters. You'll have to tell her as a boyfriend and friend who cares about her well being so someone won't feel hurt.

u are very mature in responds to questions ....


I dey here but not my main moniker....i

Rorachy:
This is backstabbing, I hate backstabbers, even if she decides to fu*k all the guys in world, you don't need to publicize it, you are actually the bit*ch cos you be snitching on your fellow girl.

I'm a facebook user...she didn't fvckk me

clarocuzioo:
All these girls won't do something useful with their lives, keep slaying tilll you are slayed. See the wowo face self.

don't mind them...if she dies on d process now some girls will come here and say guys dat are commenting about her behaviour are wicked....there was thread a girl was just cursing( Ghana slay queen killed) as if na somebody send her message....instead wey make dem go find legitimate work do them go just dey look for cheap money

Martin0:
hahahahahahah aaaaa na wa oooo
How u go tell me say inside 500men not even one don agree to come see u aaaa nor get weitin I nor go see ooo bros u sure say this lady nor get bad character wey dey scare men away

well make she dey search when she succeed, she go come tell us how far

Rorachy:
Then I will need to work on my nyash, who pretty face epp .

so u no get Ikebe..

Rorachy:
Some people go die on top nyash matter.

There is this girl in my school that limps but have nyash, guys dey pursue her like kilode.

hmmmmm....meaning guys wan hammer d area be dat

shinarlaura:
Lol.. you want come use force abi?

yes oooo....this ur DP just accelerated my ginger no be small

Martin0:
Abeg pick anyman and build to you taste or u wanna end like Rita?No time for u again ooo 40 is almost close,Remember mono mono

I suppose to e-slap u but someone else don answer u.....y u dey rush d girl now....no spoil things for person oooo

shinarlaura:
Lol

kai.!!! see d way Cameroun dey take care of u....nna eeerhhh...I'm coming to take u to mama....dat ur bf must give way

Modsenemy:
*lets assume the story was real**
I See two fools in the story.
1. The gullible wife who married the guy just to secure rich and handsome bobo
2. Mr. jack Robinson

u gave a good summary of d couples

rebirthforgoody:
What are my seeing .

something u like ooo

dareerah:
Seems this guy stole banana daz why he hid it inside d boxer..

girls love such banana

adadike281:
wow! Nna, dis guy dikwa huge

hmmmmm....a good size rite

Freewoman:
Try another penn,is and see what happened, you know what?, in most cases, they always blame women whereas it supposed to be the man faults, dont border telling him anything rather on your own subject your self to full medical examination, to ascertain your fear, Old things has passed away, every other things becomes new, dont let your past hunt you, no one, i repeat, no one that doesnt have more terrible past............ dont bring trouble into your marriage, what if the fault is from the man, he will now stand so firm to blame you, while you will be the only one bearing the entire pains, after you may have confirm your self medically fit, ask your husband to do so............. READERS SHOULD NOT BASH ME HERE PLEASE< THIS IS JUST AN ADVICE ONLY{}

u see...d problem with some of u girls
or boys is dat after consciously
committing grievious sins u come up
with no sin is greater than d
other....says who.? during d time of
Moses sins were categorise
according to God's command....and
different punishment were given
accordingly.....d issue of abortion I
detest.....I cannot ask a girl to
commit abortion on my behalf....i
must take responsibilty of my
action....reason y I hate girls or boys
calling a pregnancy unwanted.....if u
cannot take responsibility y doing it
in d first place....








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terrible advice coming from a girl....


no wonder we have bastard children in some family

MissRaine69:
The husband was deprived of choice. And that was a very selfish thing to do. All this should have come out before the marriage and he SHOULD have been given the choice of carry on or walking away. Bringing all this after the fact could result in a lot of mistrust and put the marriage in jeopady. This is what's called playing with a live grenade.

God bless u for saying d truth oooo

VirtueDigest:
After several abortions before marriage, I finally got married to a wonderful guy. However, he doesn’t have all the sordid details of my past life. We have been trying for 3 years now to have a baby and I fear it may be as a result of my actions in the past. Do I own up now? Isn’t it too late? (Rose, Benin)

I’ll begin by saying there is no single human being without an adulterated past, be it lies, gossip, lust, greed, malice, envy, jealousy, backbiting, abortion, cheating, stealing, rape or outright murder. There is no small or big sin before God- every act of sin is categorized same before God. That is not to say God condones sin. God detests sin, but loves the sinner because it is not His delight to see us wallow in sin whose end is imminent destruction.

However, in Christ, our past is wiped out clean by the blood of Jesus and we have a clean slate to begin with. 2 Corinthians 5:17 states that ‘If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature, old things have passed away, behold, all things have become new’. So long as you’ve done away with your past deeds and surrendered to Jesus, He no longer holds your past against you. So the question I’ll ask is ‘have you surrendered to Jesus?’ If you have, you need no longer to berate yourself over your past because as long as God is concerned, it no longer exists. On the other hand, if you have not surrendered to Jesus, I’ll encourage you to do so. It’s only in Him you can make giant strides forward having had your past completely wiped out through the spotless Blood of Jesus.

Thirdly, go for a medical check up to ascertain the cause of the infertility. If the doctor says it’s because of past abortions, ask to know what options you have. If they are not much, you’ll have to bring your husband in and plead with him to join you in praying because regardless of what the doctors say, you know you are still going to have your children. You need his buy-in. It won’t augur well if your husband discovers himself.

Your children will come at God’s appointed time, just believe God’s Word. Study God’s Word particularly where the blessings of children are emphasized. You could begin from Gen 1:28 ‘God blessed them and said, have many children and grow in number. Fill the earth and be its master. Rule over the fish in the sea, and the birds in the sky and over every living thing that moves in the earth’. Also, Exodus 23:26 states that ‘None of your women will have her baby die before it is born, and all women will have children, I will allow you to live long lives’. There are many other scriptures that focus on God’s blessings on fruitfulness.

In conclusion, it’s good you feel to remorseful but don’t allow the devil hold you bound through guilt. Regardless of how adulterated your past may be, your future remains a glorious virtue.

Rejoice, mother of nations.



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u see...d problem with some f girls or boys is dat after conscious committing grievious sins u come up with no sin is greater than d other....says who.? during d time of Moses sins were categorise according to God's command....and different punishment were given accordingly.....d issue of abortion I detest.....I cannot ask a girl to commit abortion on my behalf....i must take responsibilty of my action....reason y I hate girls or boys calling a pregnancy unwanted.....if u cannot take responsibility y doing it in d first place....

Evaberry:
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their legs look like chicken laps if view from above

I just read about a wild animal in uniform....useless idiot

jamesbridget13:
u re very funny ooooo. Enter inside me, how? Through my mouth?

Answer: it ll never n can never

Why are u people misunderstanding the post. She rubs sperm on her face n u re relating it to inter course? Hmmmm! Na wa for ur reasoning sha

since u understand I don't need to talk further

refiner:
The more u look..d less u see!
Bye!

nawa oooo...see wetin refiner dey write for me

jamesbridget13:
God forbid bad thing.


Ayama

and u think dat thing will not enter inside u one day.?

refiner:
I av gat no sister...

it doesn't look like d refiner I know

refiner:
Ewwww...why not do that shiit in private...i wonder what must be going on in any of her relative's mind when they see this!

she bang ...so it is not new

refiner:
Better practise it in d private..tha way u aint involving no one in your filthy business...for God sake why must u bring everything to d social media!

is dat u or ur sister in dat DP