Amotolongbo: Though the mother was trying to protect her daughter, it sounds a bit disrespectful to the groom.
The better way for the bride’s mother is to admonish the new couple (both bride and groom) not to engage in domestic violence and find a friendly way to correct each other when any of them makes a mistake
You just nailed it in the bolded...
She was very very disrespectful to the groom and his family. The mother in law is very foolish and may have just started a crack in her daughter's marraige. Why make threats to the groom? Did the groom say he was a wife beater? Domestic violence has nothing to do with gender as her daughter may equally be a dragon.
In all of these, I feel the mother in law probably had a very ugly experience in the hands of men and is using her own experience to judge her Inocent son in law.
Splashme: First things first, the people organising and enjoying the Amala hangout are all Ibos.
So, Reno attempting to paint Omo-Ibos as tribal bigots is outright foolishness . #But, hey! I hate that shit called 'Amala'. It's too black and the ingredients dirty. Nothing tribal here but personal hygiene. .
socialmediaman: Or maybe they have come to tell him to issue a statement condemning Israel or risk being sanctioned by OPEC? While at the same time “master strategist” is afraid of going against the G7 so he won’t end up like this again
Tough situation to be in
The elections and court losses still dey pepper Una no be small
successmatters: I remember he met German an American investors in previous summits earlier this year, have you ever heard of even a two penny investment he attracted being discussed in Nigeria?
Everyone is afraid of the criminal background, picture taking is allowed for propaganda purposes. At least he can use it to calm people's nerves as they die of hunger induced by terribly wrong policies.
In the same OAU Ife or another OAU? Are you referring to Oba Awon university.if you check their anthem it says FOR LEARNING AND CULTURE,SPORTS AND STRUGGLE, GREAT IFE,I LOVE YOU, THERE'S ONLY ONE GREAT IFE IN THE UNIVERSE, ANOTHER GREAT IFE IS A COUNTERFEIT, GREAT GREAT GREAT GREAT GREAT (any alumni of OAU can relate to this anthem) forget it OAU is big on respect.the university culture is operated exactly like the Yoruba culture
OAU that I know don't joke with respect for elders.theyre still very much traditional and conservative.them no dey follow Una do woke philosophy.the one you dey talk about fit happen for Bowen, covenant or Ajayi crowther.it can never happen in OAU.lets leave that aside.
Many of these old professors you see still carry the old mentality of parenting and teaching.them no dey follow Una do wokism and they're equally grandparents.many of them have children and ex students as politicians, senators, and people in high places of power so the fact that they act simple and unassuming e no mean say them no fit treat your f*k up when necessary
However I've noticed something with these Lousy Gen z's.they always assume anyone who is quiet is stup1d and can be disrespected.they Often mistake gentleness for stupidity till they collect.
Lastly it's a sign of childishness for a person to flout classroom rules or university rules and then when he's called to order starts acting recalcitrant and when she collects, she begins to play Victim
Many people on Nairaland talk through their anus and use their brain to shit. How else can someone even support that level of barbarian character that a lecturer will assault a student in a university.
The case is being reviewed by several bodies and the said lecturer is in serious trouble.
1. The OAU VC has condemns in strong terms the actions of the lecturer 2. The OAU spokesperson has condemned what the lecturer did. and the lecturer is presently under investigation 3. Two Student bodies are already preparing to prosecute the lecturer on behalf of the student and he will likely be dismissed and go to jail. 4. Even the lecturer is a known serial abuser but is already begging and apologising to the affected student. 5. The politicians that you claim will help him are no where to be found. 6. Maybe you should go and defend your barbaric lecturer
Ikpunnegi01: Exactly what I told my in-law, any day you touch my sister, get ready to invite Army against me because police won't be enough for me..
Why make threats to your brother in law. It seems you have gone through an ugly experience and you are using your own horrible experience to judge the innocent young man.
Did it occur to you that your sister could be the dragon in the home?
IjebuWarrior: Mama, abeg go rest. What if ur daughter lay her hands on him nko? Wetin you go come do?
From the look of the video, she be single mother.
Useless mother...
Very useless mother.
No one is talking about the character of the daughter. The man has married into a very dangerous family and that his mother in law will frustrate the hell out of him
The mother is very foolish with that statement. Marriages should not be based on threats. It goes to show that the girl is damaged and will not be submissive to the husband. You would not be afraid a man would touch your daughter if you raised her well.
I think the mother is a victim of domestic violence and is using her own experience to judge her daughter's husband. I feel so sorry for the husband.
Domestic violence should be discouraged irrespective of the gender. Men are victims of domestic violence too.
mariahAngel: Did the man even love his own son enough? I doubt.
Also, what is it with African parents and their children's placenta/umbilical cord? What do they do with it? That is how they go about, tying their children's destiny to some deity they know little to nothing of its origin.
He sidnt love Mohbad yet he single handedly raised Mohbad
He didnt love Mohbad yet none of the people hanging arround Mohbad was there when the ood man was toiling to train Mohbad
Where was Wumi when Mohbad was a nobody.
Where was Wumi when Mohbad's father was sufering tobtrain him
In the same OAU Ife or another OAU? Are you referring to Oba Awon university.if you check their anthem it says FOR LEARNING AND CULTURE,SPORTS AND STRUGGLE, GREAT IFE,I LOVE YOU, THERE'S ONLY ONE GREAT IFE IN THE UNIVERSE, ANOTHER GREAT IFE IS A COUNTERFEIT, GREAT GREAT GREAT GREAT GREAT (any alumni of OAU can relate to this anthem) forget it OAU is big on respect.the university culture is operated exactly like the Yoruba culture
OAU that I know don't joke with respect for elders.theyre still very much traditional and conservative.them no dey follow Una do woke philosophy.the one you dey talk about fit happen for Bowen, covenant or Ajayi crowther.it can never happen in OAU.lets leave that aside.
Many of these old professors you see still carry the old mentality of parenting and teaching.them no dey follow Una do wokism and they're equally grandparents.many of them have children and ex students as politicians, senators, and people in high places of power so the fact that they act simple and unassuming e no mean say them no fit treat your f*k up when necessary
However I've noticed something with these Lousy Gen z's.they always assume anyone who is quiet is stup1d and can be disrespected.they Often mistake gentleness for stupidity till they collect.
Lastly it's a sign of childishness for a person to flout classroom rules or university rules and then when he's called to order starts acting recalcitrant and when she collects, she begins to play Victim
I went a far better university than OAU and I sincerely hope you are not a product of OAU because you just disgraced whatever higher institution you went to.
Assaulting a student is a disposable and jailable offence anywhere in the world and it is a shame that OAU failed to inculcate that into their academic and student population.
I am telling what the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria says and you are here yapping about the lecturers knowing politicians. Is OAU greater than the constitution of Nigeria?
I would advice you stop porsuing this your line of thought as it will eventually lead you to jail if you think you could assault anyone because you an an "elder". No wonder most OAU graduates easily land in jail.
gigabyte13: Pressured abi shame don dey catch you At what age....?? Una go get official and unofficial age... Mama getaaaaaattttt Husband don dey hungry you You come dey use style throw lamba
She don dey lonely.. That's why she dey use style to advertise herself
clearcrystal: It's normal to be pressured to get married from your family. The question is do you have any serious suitor? If yes, you need not waste more time if you so desire to get married. Age is no longer on your side Yemi, giving birth at old age is not the best. Ladies who give birth early slays forever.
Yemi should be above 40. All the serious suitors would have left by now. Na gold diggers remain
stylish announcing she is ready to accept or consider applications. Spinsterhood has a short narrow span before loneliness and the wish to have a family of your own becomes insupressible!
We are all human afterall
GBAM!!!
You just spoke the truth. She is just using style to market herself.
Yemi Alade is now an old woman what nairalanders would call evening newspaper and she knows it. Younger and finer girls have taken the stage now.
Reasonable suitors have stopped coming for her only gold diggers and useless men are the ones now coming for her.
SAMBARRY: All these unruly gen z's that think they are untouchable till hand touch them.i Kuku trust those old generation prof them for OAU,them go give am her size sharp sharp.
Always disrespectful with attitude issues and a dose of narcissism.e no dey hand to recognise them.them go dey Waka for road dey do selfie,them go dey cross main road dey wear headset, always half naked with one lousy rubber slippers they call crocs
Two things will happen to the lecturer.. 1. He will be dismissed 2. He will go to jail for asult.
ofeco: He said you should mention the positive things BAT has done. Stop using tribal sentiment. Know when to call a spade a spade, the economy is not doing well, common man in the street regardless of tribe is no longer finding it easy, some salary earners can no longer pay their children school fees.
HATEFUL,DUMB&ST00PEED IPOB cannibals will not see where I listed same on this thread.