₦airaland Forum

ojaysam25:
But why does the naira keep depreciately over the decades.

buhari is a dumb fool surrounded by useless souls as advicers.

Catfishing:
her thread was actually for guys

she didn't say soooo.

actually op English speaking she is looking for a 40 yr old either male or female. ok.

anataala:
After you’re buried

well i wont b in these shitting world that u n Buhari have made possible

liasmiram2567:
You are indeed stupid for making that comment.

if only u can meet me n say that to my face

market must sell.



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YOU INTO MUSIC? CHECK MY SIGNATURE

plan work, or less they are not fining d rest

yesboss123:
Hello All, trust we're all enjoying the weekend amidst the democracy protests and demonstrations, Naija go better.
Please I need the input and advise of matured people and also Nigerians in the diaspora. Kindly bear with the length of the post and the fact that I opened a new account to post it.

I recently gained admission into an MBA program in the US with all expenses after partial funding to be borne by my brother who is resident there. Program starts in two months. Being a lil above average intellectual, my brother has advised that I make myself mentally ready for the program as it will be rigorous but with high ROI afterwards. The dilemma is that my partner who I have been in a relationship wt for almost two years is insisting I pay her bride price before leaving while she joins me two years later i.e. after the successful completion of the program. My brother and some older friends I have over there are not in support of such arrangement as they advise I don't commit to any relationship by means of introduction or marriage before coming over. They advised that I do that after I get a job and work permit following the completion of my program.

The thing is I love this girl; well-mannered, loyal, beautiful and would make a perfect soulmate, but she is not ambitious, although a graduate. She has told me times without number that she doesn't have plans for additional certifications, or higher degree etc. Invariably, she is contented with her secretarial/front-desk kind of jobs with meagre salary plus some mini businesses by the side. She even told me she would go into selling stuffs if she gets to the US. Before the migration plans came up, I supported her business moves in all ways. However, plans have changed and it's necessary that she supports the family considerably as obtainable over there, else man go just dey work with nothing to show cos of the high cost of living in the US. Cos as I heard, to make an honest living and earn something reasonable as an immigrant, having a career is one of the surest means.

All my brother keeps ringing in my head is that I allow nothing distract me during the program, not even marriage, cos his $50k (partial tuition, accommodation and feeding during the program) must not go to waste neither must I 'manage' after graduation, cos the plan is for me to work, earn well and sponsor my younger brother in 5 years thereabout.

To be very honest, I intend getting married to her if only she becomes more ambitious by registering to sit and build a career (I'm thinking HR). If she doesn't show any interest in doing this, I would have to end the relationship.

Lots of things are going on in my head right now. I don't want to lose a good soul-mate while searching for greener pastures, neither do I want to settle for someone who isn't ready to adapt to new circumstances but wants to enjoy the perks that come along with it.

Is there a way to work around this ? Am I being selfish if i end the relationship ? What kind of business can a Nigerian lady do in the US that will thrive ? Is it easy to bear up to 80% of the family responsibility in the US as a man and still remain sane ?

I'd appreciate your honest contributions/advise

u never comot, yet lot of things are going tru ur head.

well introduction is not marriage, marriage isn't evalasting.

can d two b chopulated

arrested or saved from bandit

quit.


which one b d long story again

fbtowner:
Still Available call now.....

50k egbeda

girl from badoo i think

charles009:
Hello Folks,

Just thought i should share this, your imputs i will appreciate.

I have a wife who is willing to sacrifice her life to keep her friends, i mean fake friends,fake neighbours, fake people. Who go about slandering her, back bite and all stuffs and when i wade in she feels l am extremely unforgiven.

To cut the long story short, a very close ally tried scamming her, when i ran all checks and confronted the lady, she confessed to knowing it was a scam abinitio. I warned the lady to seize contacting her henceforth, To my surprise she started saying i should let her handle her, someone who was already salivating to ripping you off 800k. I find this weakness increasingly unbearable.

My thought pattern with people is very precise and direct.i don't care your relationship with me. If you fake, backbite, gossip, i cut you off, through my actions and deeds. No second chances.

Can her personality disorder (i choose to call it) be corrected through my aggressive correction pattern to help her build a strong character or should i simply letting her do her stuff.

ur wife sound like someone who voted buhari twice thus a slowpoke

price

Fantome:
yaba.

egbeda things for me, ok see u @ ikeja, peace

Fantome:
dm

morning were in lag are u

okoroemeka:
they say experience is a good teacher,you moved too fast in playing your hand and letting him know what is your mind,I can remember when I was in a very similar situation,my cousin told me he was coming and been my blood relation I cannot even think of refusing or inserting conditions, little do I know that the guy is loaded with cash and simply needs a place to lie low,I was sad the day he was going,he was paying for everything even dstv sub.

nope didn't I, i simply let him know d leaving condition, wud it b better if he had come n I start giving altitude? am a straight forward fellow dont have time for saying one thing n doing another.

like i said hw works unless he was looking for where to b eating 247 while saving his money then he isnt a good fellow

okoroemeka:
that's a very wrong move,that your cousin will not forget that statement till his or her dieing days,it is better for him to come whatever is available will be managed,I had such experience when my two cousins were living for a brief period with me in enugu,my wife grew tired and told me she will stop feeding them I said NO,we shall manage,but now one of those my cousins got married to a very very wealthy Tyre importer in onitsha and the other is now working in a big oil company ,till date the reverence and respect they have for me and my wife is limitlessness, little do they know what really happened behind the scene.

am single n not working on salary he is.

deltaboyo1:
Please you should suggest any productive I can do with my phone online excluding scamming please help me

shoot porn

Qhalifah:
I have a Samsung S9+ for sale

Front and back glass - cracked

Functioning properly.

I have an engineer on nairaland that can help you fix the glasses if you need to @ #25000 or less - you guys can negotiate

Shoot a REASONABLE fee.

I don't also mind exchanging for a phone though - iPhone X or XR with a fee of ofcourse


P.S: Serious individuals please.

Enjoy

how much u selling it?

maxdozie:
Perfectly working clean samsung galaxy s8 plus, comes with free screen guard and 2 pouch.
Call and whatsapp on 09016842606
Specs..
4gb ram
64gb rom
Fingerprint
12mp f/1.7 back camera super samsung camera
8mp f/1.7 front camera
Dolby atmos sound
Facial recognition
Iris scan
BP / pulse checker
Big screen
Etc

Price : 50k

bro sup, how much to change d crack body? n wheres ur location?

Fantome:
Samsung s6 edge
With pouch

Location is Lagos
Contact in signature

wud love to buy it, hope no issue n can we meet @ egbeda

okoroemeka:
poverty is too bad,it will make you behave abnormal and think weird things,what better joy will a man have if his in-laws come to his place and he will feed them very well and even given them transport money when going,when my in-laws use to come to my house I usually prepare nsala soup myself for them with catfish and oldlayers,poverty it shall not be well with you.

easy for u to say.

my cousin told me he was coming to spend 1 month with me, he works alright, I told him he will take care of his own feeding.

i didnt hear from him again

so person no go eat again shey.

Betty1000:
Good day Nairalanders,

My fiance proposed to me three months ago. Before that, we were in a relationship for six months. Everything seemed perfect, he has been good to me and I never had any reason to doubt him.

Last week, a friend of mine told me that she heard my fiance has a son and she already verified this information before telling me. At first, I was hesitant until she showed me pictures of the boy, he looks exactly like my fiance. So I decided to go deeper and found out that my fiance is indeed the father of the child.

I confronted him and he accepted that the son is his but he has no relationship with the mother anymore and he planned to tell me before the wedding.

I'm heartbroken because before I agreed to date him, I asked him if he has been married in the past or has children, he said no.

I don't trust him anymore. I feel like I have been deceived because not even his family members told me, I am close to his sister but she never opened up to me.

We have everything planned, in fact, we have our wedding card sent out to everybody. The wedding is in July.

He has sent his friends and family to beg but I don't trust him anymore.

My family has assured me that any decision I make, they would support it.

How do I call off this wedding without going through the embarrassment?

I'm so confused.

ehhh have urs too nah n move on

as buhari dey in charge we cant say

is that all