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AdexAbbey:
Hmmmm... I will forgive her but I need to revenge first.

Why dont you just leave vengeance for God?

skullzflex:
Easy to forgive but very hard to forget .. Very very hard my brother

This int cool

FvckShiT:
he's fůcking crazy

who?

WHY CAN'T YOU FORGIVE?

I always tell myself that when you live your life without anyone hurting, disappointing,disgracing or offending you then it means you never did anything worthy.

Before you continue reading this piece, I want to tell you that there are so many people who are buried daily, and their crime is that someone they offended couldn't forgive them.
There are innocent orphans and street children out there whose crime is that someone didn't forgive their parents.
The reality is that even as you read this piece, there may be someone you have blocked on whatsapp or facebook, or you have decided not to respond to his/ posts/messages and the person's crime is that he/she is naughty, broke your heart, disappointed you or said something that really offended you. You aren't talking to your roommate, an old friend, a family member, your Ex or that special friends because they offended you and you can’t forgive them.
Yes, I really understand you, they hurt you. He/she is annoying, rude and not worthy to be part of your life. However, my questions are: do you expect someone to forgive you if you can't forgive others? Do you think you have never offended anyone before?

The beauty of life is that it comes with disappointments and offences from people you least expect. Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time on the disappointments and offences and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.
Remember this one thing always: Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty and ungrateful people; you will always come across them during the gentle stroll of your life span here on earth, but the best thing to do is to deal with them with love and maturity. You can’t get everyone to behave like you. Never!

Hatred and intolerance have caused many of the world's problems and have solved none of them. We must learn to tolerate and forgive one another. We must have personal cemeteries where we can bury the faults of others and move on with life.
There are some people on this earth who when you treat them the way they are, they will forever remain the same, sometimes you need the love of God and ideal maturity to be with them. Their lives will never be better when you let them go.
I know so many names are racing through your mind as you read this piece. Yes, I have been there before to the extent that I felt like eliminating some of them from the earth, however, through prayers, love and maturity, today some of them are my best friends. It is never easy but it's possible.
It's said that true forgiveness is when you can say, "Thank you for that experience."

As you read this piece, I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you have grudges with, unblock that friend and iron out your grievances. A great man once said that forgiveness is the sweet smell left by the flower on the bottom of the shoe which trampled it. It is the only needle that knows how to mend. Master the courage and apologize to that person you have offended. Life is too short.

The stars are falling, the clock is ticking, man is ageing, grave is calling and we are not in charge. Mohammed Ali once said, don't count the days, let the days count. Life is short, don't wait for a perfect time to impact the world, you don't know how much time you have left...now is the time...live life to please the maker, that you can not regret.

My dear brothers and sisters, May God make it easy for you to do the right thing.
We have been asking for forgiveness all through this month..imagine if you are told that GOD has not Forgiven you.. Please forgive others and pray that you are forgiven.

This is lent season, always remember the death of Christ.


IT'S SUGAR BOY BABY...

I love pastor chris

WHY CAN'T YOU FORGIVE?

I always tell myself that when you live your life without anyone hurting, disappointing,disgracing or offending you then it means you never did anything worthy.

Before you continue reading this piece, I want to tell you that there are so many people who are buried daily, and their crime is that someone they offended couldn't forgive them.
There are innocent orphans and street children out there whose crime is that someone didn't forgive their parents.
The reality is that even as you read this piece, there may be someone you have blocked on whatsapp or facebook, or you have decided not to respond to his/ posts/messages and the person's crime is that he/she is naughty, broke your heart, disappointed you or said something that really offended you. You aren't talking to your roommate, an old friend, a family member, your Ex or that special friends because they offended you and you can’t forgive them.
Yes, I really understand you, they hurt you. He/she is annoying, rude and not worthy to be part of your life. However, my questions are: do you expect someone to forgive you if you can't forgive others? Do you think you have never offended anyone before?

The beauty of life is that it comes with disappointments and offences from people you least expect. Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time on the disappointments and offences and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.
Remember this one thing always: Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty and ungrateful people; you will always come across them during the gentle stroll of your life span here on earth, but the best thing to do is to deal with them with love and maturity. You can’t get everyone to behave like you. Never!

Hatred and intolerance have caused many of the world's problems and have solved none of them. We must learn to tolerate and forgive one another. We must have personal cemeteries where we can bury the faults of others and move on with life.
There are some people on this earth who when you treat them the way they are, they will forever remain the same, sometimes you need the love of God and ideal maturity to be with them. Their lives will never be better when you let them go.
I know so many names are racing through your mind as you read this piece. Yes, I have been there before to the extent that I felt like eliminating some of them from the earth, however, through prayers, love and maturity, today some of them are my best friends. It is never easy but it's possible.
It's said that true forgiveness is when you can say, "Thank you for that experience."

As you read this piece, I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you have grudges with, unblock that friend and iron out your grievances. A great man once said that forgiveness is the sweet smell left by the flower on the bottom of the shoe which trampled it. It is the only needle that knows how to mend. Master the courage and apologize to that person you have offended. Life is too short.

The stars are falling, the clock is ticking, man is ageing, grave is calling and we are not in charge. Mohammed Ali once said, don't count the days, let the days count. Life is short, don't wait for a perfect time to impact the world, you don't know how much time you have left...now is the time...live life to please the maker, that you can not regret.

My dear brothers and sisters, May God make it easy for you to do the right thing.
We have been asking for forgiveness all through this month..imagine if you are told that GOD has not Forgiven you.. Please forgive others and pray that you are forgiven.

This is lent season, always remember the death of Christ.

refiner:
Good evening nairalanders...everyones advice will be greatly appreciated...

I've been attending this particular church for three years now,he's been there before i came,he's newly married too and his wife attends same church too...it all started around march last year,he started getting close to me,at first i took it as nothing but as days pass by,he comes more closer to me...

He loves talking to me more,he sometimes keeps chair for me which i always decline and when i sit somewhere else,he tries sitting there too,he touches me whenever he laughs...

The other day we attend a youth conference,he was one of the cordinator,he openly said that i am his best friend,good thing his wife was not present.

Caught his wife staring at me most times,pleading with me seriously with her eyes,i felt sorry for her,she has noticed the unusual closeness between i and her husband,tho she has not approached me about it.

I have tried all my best to distance myself from him but he ain't succumbing so i have decided to leave the church,i don't know if i have taken the right decision,leaving the church because of a man.

I've also told the pastor but after warning him,he still continued after a week or two...
Please your advice will be appreciated...

But how come this so called married man is not seeing that you re an underage?

I dislike weak guys

ok

I CONCUR

Nairaland, a forum where kids become relationship advisers

This is totally and out-rightly false


IT'S SUGAR BOY BABY...

falconey:
Which ladies? naija own? Oga why you dey waste cyber space now?

No, Oyinbo own


IT'S SUGAR BOY BABY...

If your man is broke never compare him to your friends boyfriend. support his hustle Build your man value him ... Don't Disrespect him. help him if you can Appreciate his Efforts No matter how Little .show him Money isn't the reason why you love him , because the bitter Truth is Every Rich Man has someone who was there for him when he has nothing . And you don't know what Tomorrow May bring . Never underestimate A Guy with Ambition Trust me u won't regret it .



IT'S SUGAR BOY BABY...

carzola:
If you have been worshiping a god
Or gods and his not done anything
Anything for you.. He is useless to you..
The guy is entitled to his opinion and he has a right to question the things happening in his life..

subtlemee:
A guy that exchanges number with a girl today by tomorrow he's already asking her to spend the night in his house is what? And how was he managing before he met the girl?

You never can tell who'll help you tomorrow and how,something big can erupt from buying one a plate of food,i can only say something is wrong if the girl in question does it repeatedly..

I can't count how many guys I've fed and I didn't come here to call them names

fine people

Beautiful Nonsense!

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