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RomanceRe: Relationship Palava by sunday1989(m): 11:56am On May 20, 2022
Really? The future is female indeed. continue!!!
Jennyclay:
Well, personally. I'm allergic to broke and poor people. I can't stand being with a broke person. And besides their wahala is just too much.

I can't even imagine a man giving me 5k to cook stew.. What would 5k buy in the market? 5k can't even buy enough meat to cook not to talk of other ingredients.

Abeg make broke people dey there lane.. While I dey my lane... Biko!!
RomanceRe: 2 Lovers Found Dead Naked In An SUV In Lagos by sunday1989(m): 8:59pm On May 02, 2022
Lol. Thanks for that comment. It really made my day. Makowoje!!! I wish there was something like that for our politheifcians.
talk2hb1:
Yorubas and their magun Wahala
Them no get Makowoje that we can use for our politicians, that will make thair hands swell when they embezzle our money
RomanceRe: How can NIgerian Men Live Long? by sunday1989(m): 5:34pm On Apr 17, 2022
Really? Think again man!
Jeremani:
The spirit world is fun bro
There you will see you ancestors
You will be welcome by your real pals who are gone
You won't worry about anything again
You won't worry about visa, u will travel without boundaries, faster than the speed of light

Or you may choose to be reborn
Come back to this world as a baby and start all over again with an enrased mind,

I see no reason why u one should be afraid of death, so long u didn't kill yourself
FamilyRe: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by sunday1989(m): 11:11pm On Apr 16, 2022
Same here. Love you too. Thanks for that peice. May I ask if you're in the military? As per the post, I think that 21st century parents are not doing enough at instilling the necessary discipline in their children. It's well.
QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do thathuh No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.
BusinessRe: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 22 by sunday1989(m): 8:31pm On Apr 15, 2022
Hmm! Successsam121, what else can I say than to commend your bitter-truth analysis of the largest financial markets of the 21st century. I am also on my learning curve and I must say that it has been interesting and intriguing. Although it's a long way to mastering the market, I believe we can do it. Thanks.
successsam121:
As the forex market opens tomorrow and as you begin the new trading year, I hope you will find this helpful:

Why can't I be successful in trading?

Most traders come across this career off a successful friend or colleague or from a story or video they read on the internet.

That is basically setting them up for failure immediately. Imagine you watched a pro Tennis player win a game and at the end of the day you joined a team to learn and decided to go pro a month later. You’d be eaten alive.

However, because the barrier to entry is so low for trading, people do just that. Here’s what you need to realize instead.

The average window it takes to learn this career and all the nuances and specifics you need to actually succeed here is between 5–10 years.

Most people hear they can make as much as a doctor but get frustrated if they can’t learn how in 6 months of hard weekend work. It takes a doctor 12 years of school and practice to make that type of money but traders expect it by buying a course for $1999.

That’s a lie. Sold by a failed trader to an aspiring trader.

Here’s how you succeed:

Accept that anyone can enter this business. As a result of a low barrier to entry, the washout rate is going to be extremely high. Think 90% plus within 24 months.
No one knows what works for them when they start so they try it all. Breakouts, pullbacks, ranges, equities, forex, options. They are chasing 13 strategies at a time and going no where.
You have to master one setup on one market before you move on. If you don’t know what to master first, take up to a month to decide trying out all of them on demo and then decide. This market does not reward the jack of all trades master of none.

Real risk management is not turning a $500 into $50,000. That’s massive gambling. Anyone who says that’s the way to succeed is a colossal salesman. If that was truly repeatable over and over again, they wouldn’t sell a system for $500-$5000, they’d just rinse and repeat their system.
Risk management is risking 1–2% of your account per trade. On a small account you may not be able to follow those rules, but you need to be thinking long term about trading a 6 figure account. Would you be taking this trade if you were risking $1,000 on it? If no, why take it just because you’re only risking $100? Traders who put their own time limit on this fail. It might take you 10 years to master this. If it does, would you still do it?

Money is the reason most start trading. Working from home, making more money, financial freedom, whatever it is. That can be a starting factor but it won’t give you the motivation to stick with the grind. Find your why, and you’ll get through the throat punches rather easily.

When you learn a system, back test, forward test and master it on a demo account as much as you can of it. The ultimate goal here is to build an edge and keep yourself out of the equation as much as possible. Whatever personal demons you have will show up in trading, you have to find a way to get past them. Everyone is unique here.

Books are someone’s life story in paper form. Trading books are exceptionally helpful. Read a book a month if not a week. There’s so much knowledge you can learn this way.
Technical and fundamental analysis both rely on personal decisions. There’s no perfect technical or fundamental buy point. It’s all a range that will be proved right or wrong by the market.

There’s no holy grail. What works on Monday fails on Tuesday. It’s about accepting its a coin flip but if you win $2 and lose $1 and do that 1000x you’ll make a lot of money. It’s all about making more on winners than you lose on your losers. Have a hard stop. Always. Mental stops means you’ll adjust when it’s hit. Don’t start if you aren’t truly wanting to finish. This is the toughest game on the planet. Money is not enough of a reason here.

Trading isn’t gambling. Learn the differences.
Find a mentor or a coach but only if they help you work on you. Copying someone’s else’s system is guaranteed failure long term. You’ll always be buying their new system or doubting their calls when they have a few losers. It’s an awful approach. Trust your edge once it’s there.

If you need more help, speak out or DM any of the bosses in the house and stop dying in silence.
Hope that helps.

Still a humble learner!
PoliticsRe: Calling Buhari Major General Is Abuse Of Press Freedom - Lai Mohammed by sunday1989(m): 11:31am On Apr 13, 2022
That's an abuse of press freedom! These government is just too funny. A government that has zero tolerance for press freedom, it's well.
qekng40:
Major General Muhammadu Buhari sad
PoliticsRe: Laolu Akande: Osinbajo No Longer A Member Of Lagos APC by sunday1989(m): 9:51am On Apr 12, 2022
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Toks2008:
A RAY OF HOPE FOR NIGERIA AS VICE PRESIDENT PROFESSOR YEMI OSINBAJO DECLARES.

Fellow Nigerians, once again the time has come for us to choose a worthy Person to lead us for the next four years. It is a norm that we usually make a choice among several presumably bad options but that is the culture and we shall continue to choose until we are fortunate to pick the right person to take Nigeria to a greater height.

There are many vibrant, articulate and efficient Nigerians who can lead us to a greater height but for the sake of uniformity of power, it is time for Nigerians to choose an ideal person from the Southern part of Nigeria to take us forward.

I present to you today, the best among all the options we have yet, he may not be a saint but definitely not conspicuously corrupt or stained as several other options we have.

He is a technocrat and a man with first hand knowledge of the current situation of Nigeria

He has proved beyond any doubt when he was the acting president that he is very capable to handle the affairs of Nigeria.

He has served the country as Vice President for seven years and despite his constitutional limitations as a Vice president, he has distinguished himself as a man with strong independent mind and i believe if given the chance, will do exceedingly well.

Today marks a new begining, a new ray of hope for Nigerians and whilst he still has the primaries to win, i strongly believe that the voice of the people is the voice of GOD.

I humbly implore Nigeria youths as well as all Nigerians from the North, East, South and West to come together in unison to drum up support for Professor Yemi Osinbajo so that those who will vote in the primaries will come to realize that only an Osinbajo ticket can guaranty a win for APC and ultimately usher in a new ray of hope for the federal repulblic of Nigeria.

GOD BLESS PROFFESOR YEMI OSINBAJO

GOD BLESS THE FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA
RomanceRe: I Need A Virgin Mary Girl ,is There Still Virgin by sunday1989(m): 8:19pm On Apr 11, 2022
Really? The personal text on your profile says it all. Good luck with your illusive search.
siofra:
I'm a virgin girl but are you a virgin man?

I'll only marry a virgin man. Thanks.
RomanceRe: Isn't this the best way to treat a wife who cannot cook? by sunday1989(m): 2:07pm On Mar 29, 2022
I am sure you didn't mean that, did you?you and I gets married, you can't cook, I would do nothing and rather do the cooking for us! Unbelievable.
siofra:
Best way to treat a wife who cannot cook is let her be. You as a man can cook for both of you or you learn.
RomanceRe: Such Is Life Eee by sunday1989(m): 9:43pm On Mar 27, 2022
Lima98, such is life indeed! Sorry for your loss. But there's hope.
RomanceRe: Signs Of A Useless Boyfriend. by sunday1989(m): 1:07pm On Mar 26, 2022
Dear op, please you might want to have a rethink on your point 4. Are you saying that a forex trader is a useless person?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: #horriblebosses And #toxicworkplace ; My Little Experience by sunday1989(m): 5:06pm On Mar 24, 2022
To start with, Nigeria is one the countries around the world that has terrible and absurd working conditions. Having spent nearly fifteen years in the blue collar jobs, I can categorically say that the government have not done well to ensure the safety and good welfare of the ordinary workers in Nigeria. The op has said it all and it's just so unfortunate that we are in this situation. Self reliance is surely the way.
BusinessRe: Which Business Can One Do With ₦1.5 Million? by sunday1989(m): 1:58pm On Mar 22, 2022
Your point here is still not clear to me. Are you saying that IPC is a reliable platform?
cedricksly:
I'm in manager level in IP Capital, forget it soon or later that tin would go down like other forex Trading platform before them. You know why? Because there is a guarantee of % of profit that would be made which in forex is almost not true, no guarantees in forex even if na u dey trade am or na bot dey trade am, if u like u call it AI bot blah blah... So guy relax
BusinessRe: Which Business Can One Do With ₦1.5 Million? by sunday1989(m): 1:43pm On Mar 22, 2022
Oil dey your head. God bless you for that piece. I am really moved.
PeaceJoyLove:
It is very hard to start business in Nigeria. Go and ask people. The hindrances are so high. You must know this truth. But it doesnt mean you cannot.

Rule 1: Do not give anyone your money.
Rule 2: Do what you can handle yourself. Do not do beyond it.

Those two rules, take them serious. Leave out investments, bla bla bla aside. Do not give your money to anyone.

Keep searching. Keep searching. Keep your cash.

But if I were you, I would invest in my brain. Start learning a digital skill. Do not spend money. Everything you want to learn is on the internet. You may see reason to invest in buying a laptop soon.

There are many things you can learn under digital skills. UX/UI, Marketing, writing, sales, graphics, etc. There are many things. See eh...it may be a small laptop or even a phone you will invest in plus 3k data (20GB), you will need to get you going. And you start loading your brain with digital skills. Or maybe buy a laptop.

Anyway, start with having around 20GB monthly data and start watching youtube videos. Invest in some online tutorial in udemy and coursera. But first sit down and research which area you want to learn.

Another area, you may want to look into learning car diagnostics. Then, use your money get yourself as a certified engineer of a brand like toyota that people will be looking for. You arent a mechanic....mechanics call you to help them find out what's wrong. Then, you set up yourself as importer of replaceable parts too. What I know is that if you go into lorries and big vehicles, you will make it. Thaoe ones with Diesel engines. Make your research very well. You can learn everything online amd pass the exam. Sit down and make a thorough research.

Goodluck!
BusinessRe: Which Business Can One Do With ₦1.5 Million? by sunday1989(m): 1:25pm On Mar 22, 2022
By prop firm, you mean?
Richsteemit:
Invest in prop firm.

50K can get u a prop firm account
BusinessRe: 5 Profitable Businesses To Start With Little Capital In 2022 . by sunday1989(m): 7:12pm On Feb 19, 2022
Interested please. 08160274189.
CelebritiesRe: Kemi Afolabi: I Have Been On Sex Break For More Than A Year by sunday1989(m): 8:21pm On Jan 28, 2022
Badgirl
Foodqueen:
Reallyhuh

Well am not surprise....

The ones you've had in the industry while climbing the ladder to stardom, is enough to last you for a life time.
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by sunday1989(m): 11:31am On Jan 12, 2022
Women are scum. How does that sounds? Don't generalize this, please.
Christinaog:
Men are scum
RomanceRe: Know This And Experience Peace Forever by sunday1989(m): 8:03am On Jan 12, 2022
Just old!
Mercisharelove:
How old in the mind and thought I mean
RomanceRe: Know This And Experience Peace Forever by sunday1989(m): 11:45pm On Jan 09, 2022
Old enough to decipher between right and wrong. Why that question anyway?
Mercisharelove:
How old are you??
RomanceRe: Know This And Experience Peace Forever by sunday1989(m): 9:36am On Jan 02, 2022
You are right. But, this assertion of yours is culled from what experience, I you wouldn't mind? It's a new year yet!
RomanceRe: How Much Did You Spend On Ladies In This Xmas And And New-year Mood by sunday1989(m): 9:29am On Jan 02, 2022
Nah! Zilch. End and start a new year with great ideas.
RomanceRe: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by sunday1989(m): 5:20pm On Dec 29, 2021
"Ejaculating genders". Lol. Your story is quite a touchy one and unbelievably unfortunate. Both genders has one form of shortcomings or another when it relates to relationships. Just like you narrated in your accounts, that you loved him so much and the rest, I don't think that he loved you in return. The love you shared was not mutual. It's better you call things off! Marital journey is much more deeper than one might think.
BusinessRe: Which Digital Skill Should I Learn In 2022 To Get Financial Freedom? by sunday1989(m): 5:45pm On Dec 15, 2021
Okay o. I was searching through those comments to see if there was any suggestions about fx.
tolugeorgeinfo:
go and learn how to trade forex
PoliticsRe: Soludo, Ibezim To Get Certificates Of Return Tomorrow - INEC by sunday1989(m): 9:25pm On Nov 11, 2021
Prince Abubakar Audu of blessed memory was the best we ever had. Every subsequent governor has been a colossal disaster. So unfortunate for my state.
Mandesz:
Anambra is always lucky with leadership. There gov'r are always business oriented. In my state, Kogi, we are inversely related. We vote baboons,thugs, and illiterates to govern. It's a pity!
RomanceRe: Why Are You Not Married? by sunday1989(m): 1:45pm On Oct 16, 2021
What are you saying? Change your dressing, a new
simp, what a better way to give an advice advice! Come on, you can do better.
BigJoe19:
Change your dressing and you may catch a new simp soon that would put a ring on your fingers.
RomanceRe: Beautiful Pre Wedding Photos Of A Nairalander by sunday1989(m): 9:14pm On Sep 17, 2021
Ayomikunle1996:
Congratulations
God when?
at 25 you shouldn't be bothering much about marriage. Just pray.
CelebritiesRe: Stan Nze Marries Blessing Obasi (Video, Pictures) by sunday1989(m): 9:32am On Sep 12, 2021
Onyi22:
Congratulations to them, God please remember me too
with that your personal text on your profile? Okay o. Don't generalize please.
BusinessRe: Naira Falls To All-time Low Of 527 Naira To A Dollar by sunday1989(m): 2:41pm On Sep 10, 2021
RedEnergy:
And we still have about 20 months of Buhari government to go
same thought on my mind some hours ago. It's well.
PoliticsRe: 'The Famine That Will Hit Nigeria This Year, Only God Can Save Us' - Jamil Mabai by sunday1989(m): 1:28pm On Jun 18, 2021
Romanoff:
If you have access to a secure farm land, no matter how small, just go and farm.

Plant yam, beans, groundnut, corn, sweet potatoes.

Just plant as much staple crop you can plant so you won't have to buy a lot.

Get a carpenter to construct a house garden rack for you so you can plant most of the veggies you'll eat. Efo, Ugu, water leaf, Ewedu, okra, pepper, tomatoes, etc.

Cause, e no go funny.
na so. It's no longer funny.
HealthRe: Woman Celebrates Living With HIV For 22 Years (Photos) by sunday1989(m): 9:29pm On May 20, 2021
That was an ignorant generalization. Just because a man had done something terrible to you does not equates all me to be bad. Please, reconsider your perception on men and love then. Thanks.
Technology MarketWhy Are We So Dishonest And Unscrupulous In This Country? by sunday1989(op): 8:20am On May 02, 2021
Dear nairaLanders, I need your candid and honest solution to this complaint. Last month, I ordered a mifi router of a particular network provider via online purchase and unfortunately I realized that the SIM card to the router was not included in it. I guess because it comes with some certain amount of data bundles. Now because of the restrictions on SIM card purchase/registration which has now been restored though, I could not visit a nearby network provider outlet and the fact that their customer service representative was not helping issues. What can I do to have my mifi router working again?

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