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[quote author=gypsey post=90059040]NO, thank the DRUGS! the drugs did the Job not God, God is useless. didn't do a fu cking thing! [/quote asiele! to you now, you are an atheist; trying to be smarter than yourself. I only see foolishness in your comments​. quit trying hard to be wise, wiseness is far far away from you!

jeffchinedu:
Pls house i need your help and advice on the solution to my baby skin problem, it has bn like dis for over three month after seeing a doctor it refuses to go. Pls someone help with a better way of doing helping my baby. God bless in ur effort towards this.

this is called obo in igbo. I used mupiderm oitment for my baby.

TheKingIsHere:
Exactly.

A man from Abakiliki, Ebonyi state developed the place even when the so called anambra sons ignored and avoided the area.

Now that the place is booming, they want to change it from Abakiliki street to "club" street.

That's the highest level of disrespect

he developed the place, is he the owner of the clubs and the rest of the houses their? that he built his house their doesn't mean he owns the place. I'm quite sure he is the only ebonyian that has a house there. no disrespect please.

FreeConCiencE:
Whether you take it or leave it, the truth is that men are the authorities in their homes and the wife and children should submit to the authorities. That is the teaching of the Bible, the Quran and even the culture of the land. I don't believe in maltreating the women or relegating women to the background, but let us call a spade a spade. Like I said, your husband is the authority, he is the head and you should submit to him if you want to have a successful marriage. For your information, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't take alcohol. I just bought a new venza for my wife and I am still using my "" drop light camry ". This is so, because my wife see me as the head and the authority. She respect me. I don't fail in my responsibilities and she doesn't fail in hers too. Our children are doing fine. If you want to have a home please see your husband as the authority and the head. Where there is need for you to be carried along in decision making, he will do. And don't inculcate the mentality that women are equal partners with their husbands in your daughters. If you do, it will affect them later in life.

sorry but I'm not a feminist. and again, I never said husband's are not the head of the family neither am I in support of ladies disrespecting their husbands. all I'm pointing out is that husbands should not use the opportunity of being the head to treat their wives as slaves. in as much as wives ought to bid to their husband's commands, the husband in turn should treat and speak to the wife wife with respect.

tiwa and teebliz were never really in love. it was all infatuation from the beginning.

FreeConCiencE:
This is where you are getting it wrong. The husband can command his wife. That is the simple truth. If the Lord can command the church, husband can command his wife. If you cannot take to his instructions and be submissive to him , it's better you don't get married.

I feel pity for whoever that will be your wife. You are the type that knows nothing but thinks he knows it all.

FreeConCiencE:
This is where you are getting it wrong. The husband can command his wife. That is the simple truth. If the Lord can command the church, husband can command his wife. If you cannot take to his instructions and be submissive to him , it's better you don't get married.

Jesus never abused his followers in the name of being the head, did he? He showed them love and also talked to them with respect. He humbled himself before them which most of nowadays men don't do in the name of being the head.

putting on rag in the name of fashion

You didn't read the part where the bible says husband's should love and respect their wives? you can't get what you can't give. talk to your wife with respect and not with a commanding tone. treat her like your partner and your companion and not like a house help, then watch house she listens and obey your words.

nonsense! as in house girl?

northvietnam:
Court wedding or not..

woman at the end of the day, ur husband still wins... cuz he's the father of ur 3 kids....

and this shyte happened way bk..
why nt let go and move on.

if the man has been good and caring husband then why not take him along with his kids...
but if the dude has been an A$$hole then SCREW HIM...

if she leaves with out the man then she never loved him at the first place, she jushegot married cuz of the pregnancy...

she stated that clearly

Clerverly:
Expect curses from ipob vagabonds for daring to say this to their Regional Christain Party..

I don't even know what is wrong with the likes of you.

this boy gee problem this boy gee problem

omo this "sheboy" wowo ooo. make heshe use foundation cover the fingers nah haba

Henryyy:
I doubt anyone will insult u without provocation so if you draw the first blood and they insult you then it is well deserved. Why do people even bring up this non-yoruba excuse?It is so lame and only exists in the heads.

" I doubt anyone will insult u without provocation" thanks for this statement, u have said it all. so u see, Igbo girls don't just insult without being provoked first. there's no tribe in naija that their girls don't have respect, it depends on individual.

Henryyy:
Its not about tribalism bro.Igbo ladies can be very uncultured.Am not saying all of them but most are.Yoruba ladies are more respect fuel and homely which could be a reason many parents prefer them. Also not forgetting the issue of cultural misunderstanding could play a role.
@op openness to intertribal marriage is an individual thing so dont expect to find any "correct" answer here.

Yoruba girls are respectful but only to their tribe. if u are a non Yoruba, they will give u the insult of ur life.

disumusa:
nonsense the owners of the language felt ashamed of that language that sound from nouse to the extend of naming their children Yoruba name and learning Yoruba language acidiously.

who ever told you that Igbo's hate their language, is it your language that sounds better than Igbo language?