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Some people who are on better side of life are always the one who think worse about life.

Now, you think your husband is a monster just because he doesn't want you to get a house maid.

You have a husband, 3 children, possible nice apartment, you have a car, food is not a problem, tuition fees are paid, your husband comes home to you after work, possibly treats you with respect. But, you not having a maid supersedes all other things you have.

Don't let anyone mislead you to ruin your household.
Instead, find easier way of doing things and make your life less stressful.

1. Get a washing machine: that takes care of the laundry
2. Enroll the children in a school bus service
3. your child who is 5yrs can do minor house chores
4. The house doesn't need to look perfect
5. The things you can't do, get him involved, after all, raising children involves both parents

Mark this, even if you find a way of making him accept house help against his wish, you will regret it in one way or another.

LIFE IS ACTUALLY EASIER IF YOU FOCUS LESS ON THE PROBLEM.

Imagine if this happened in the southeast, imagine the number of innocent civilians that must have been killed by the Nigerian army or the number of houses the army must have burnt down.

Most of the problems of this nation are rooted in the government agencies.

Madam, e be like say divorce de hungry you since!!
Wetin carry you go check the phone? Now you have seen what you are looking for, what next?

For your husband to record or take screenshots of your bad words, it shows how hurting your words have been to him.

You are here looking for people to encourage and help you scatter your family as you want.

You have made it public that your husband cheated but no one knows how you have been burning him with your mouth.(evil words)

My advice to you is to build your family.
There is no perfect family but INTENTIONALLY NOT SAYING OR DOING SOME BAD THINGS even when we are justified to do so, will go a long way to help you.

Be the change you desire, kindness and love will always bring peace.

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Please any Link to watch the match online? BIKO help a brother

Thanks, I also suspected it was a scam message

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Nice story, feels good to read.

If you are married, cheating is a crime but if you are not married, my dear there is no mandate for you not to cheat or to cheat. If you are not married, NO one has the right of faithfulness over you. As I am not married, no lady has the right to claim my faithfulness. If I decide not to cheat, it is a privilege to my girlfriend also if she decides not to cheat, it is a privilege to me.
Though I don't cheat, but cheating alone won't be a reason for me to end a relationship.
When we focus most of our energy to find out if the next person is cheating or not, we loss the energy to care, to love, to have satisfying sex, to indulge in profitable communication, make jokes, spend quality time and money.
The world is filled with imperfections, create your own perfection.

Zoharariel:
Ayayayaaaaaa! I guess Lear Sharibu & other thousands of Boko Haram victims are yet to CRY OUT LOUDER TO YOUR SKY DADDY or just maybe Yahweh & his entire hosts are jointly suffering from severe hearing loss.

Awon werey gbogbo.

It seems you waited patiently for the writer and attacked immediately he finished writing.
In your quest for "NOTICE ME" you displayed your emptiness and the bitterness in your heart.
Our God is not a magician. He answers who ever he wants at different times. Those who insult our God shall end like Goliath.
But you still have time to accept our lord Jesus Christ as your saviour.
Don't be afraid to make amends, our God is a merciful father. He will forgive you and give you a new heart. The earlier the better.

midolian:
Sowore actually needs help..

This man contested election and lost like his party didn't appear on the ballot paper. After elections, he was accused by party members of massive looting of hard-earned campaign funds. This is the same person who wants to lead revolution.

The m0r0n even wants to set himself ablaze out of frustration...As we all know, suicide is a crime in the Nigerian constitution, so his arrest is in order. You never can tell how many m0r0ns like him would want to roast their skin for few days fame(which of course will come after death)...as the most common kind of followership we have in this country is blind followership.

I don't have a problem with his so called revolution but with the supporters of this revolution. Majority of his supporters are from the condemned end of the country and we all know whatever they support fails in the end..If you are really interested in a positive change, start from your various local governments and states. your local government chairmen and governors are busy shaping their present and future with what is meant to shape your present and future..and all you lots can do is to leave your states to settle in other people's states wherein you complain as if you were sold to them as slaves ...

...And when the government of the day tries to prosecute them, you guys flood social media with jargons as if the country belongs to the criminals you worship...it doesn't even stop there,..you guys even troop out in numbers chanting bunkums like "Our son is being witch-hunted", "Nigeria will burn if our son is not released and bla bla bla"...

Lastly to my misguided brothers from the condemned end, if you really care about this country, you would have thought about revolution when the drunk hat-man was in power, when he and his shapeless wife ran this country like it was a beer parlour...but No, you guys won't! because you benefitted from the rot in the system the most. Now that things are going back to normal, you are thinking revolution...

let's see how far you can go!

Which part of the country is condemned?
Condemned by who?

naso123:
Jesus Christ. Did a graduate write this or a primary school drop out? No underrstandind of present tense or past tence, just jumbling things together. Any hope for this country is gradually diminishing due to the quality of graduates we churn out year in year out.

Thunder wee get belle hit you there. Enemy of progress. Ewu!!

VAR? No penalty for us? Hmmmmm

Like seriously, after how many years? If the money was put in a fixed deposit or into a profitable investment
, imagine the profit the people involved will be going home with.
I have said it severally: EFCC NEEDS TOTAL OVERHAUL.
They are currently social media driven, not purpose and efficiency driven.

Don't say that. Every life is important as yours.
Well-done Doctor.

DaddyNimo:
you're lucky he didn't finally die, na police for dey wait you outside the plane....id mind m business if I were you. you just denied the man's family some possible compensation from the airline.

GO TO GENERAL HOSPITAL FOR PROPER DIAGNOSE AND TREATMENT. your condition is treatable.

How many Hausa girls are in the pitch? The North with their MIGHTY population are not seen in any Nigerian thing that demands genuine and sincere effort.

Hi guys guys, please send me a link to watch the game live

NwaAmaikpe:



Times have really changed.
Back in the days in Enugu, bastard babies were hidden and not talked about. Families prayed against having bastards and were ashamed if they stubbornly came.

To think she openly brags and celebrates this illegitimate baby of hers defies all laws of morality.

But when is Linda going to put a ring on her finger since no man wants to do it?
Afterall she's a self-made woman whose self-made pregnancy to hook a self-made man was revealed by Kemi Olunoyo.

This car is sexy but deserves to be washed first at a good carwash but I pity the person who washes the car seat Linda sits on.
I'd advice he fumigates his nose in advance.

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Your comments are always filled with bitterness

We are waiting patiently.

The trend is similar, GEJ won Ekiti, won convention, won party ticket but lost the NASS, lost the governors support, lost OBJ, lost Saraki, lost Tambuwal, lost Benue before loosing election.

Hope the trend isn't repeating

[quote author=Unclejona post=69386095][/quote]Brother, to be honest to you as a fellow guy. The Truth is that, "THERE IS NO INNOCENT GIRL OUT THERE"
What is the possibility that the next girl you will meet has no cockroach in her closet?
My point is that, from the time you guys started dating, ask yourself if she has loved and respected you as you want, is she a source of happiness to you, does she care for you and do you truly love her too.?
If the answer to the above questions is YES,
Then forgive her and take your happiness back.
ALSO, You said she showed signs of restitution, my brother don't let your lady go.

Also, Search yourself, if you are 100% innocent since you both started dating.

though my own observation

There are lots of churches and lots of pastors, all preaching in the name of Christ. The main problem these days, is that you cant tell who is the true shepherd.

Here are some signs to know if you are in the right church or not.

1. if your pastor or church workers collect money to fast for you
2. if your pastor starts with negative prophecy (most times) they always use this to put fear into the mind of innocent members
3. If your pastor preaches about tithe every first and last Sunday of the month
4. if you are told to buy some certain items for ''spiritual work'' A GA EJI RUO GI ORU N'ISI
5. If your church fix marriage between members
6. church doctrines supersede the gospel of Our lord jesus

YOU CAN ADD YOURS

Success speak louder than hardwork, may God bless all the girls out there who look up to Linda as role model

May there souls rest in peace
Deed

But if I may ask, your wife has a job?
Thanks for the write up though, very educative