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Slyle:
Check your mail boss.

Oh good evening.
I am in the same shoes as the guy above.
I have all my documents ready.
I am resuming 1st of October
No visa appointment yet.
Please can I talk to you?

Shamelz420:
Vibray how can I get in touch with u too for assistance?

kindly chat or call

Shamelz420:
Good morning family...so I have been trying to book an appointment for Poland visa appointment since last week but it is not coming,and I am running out of time already....is their any trick or tactics to tackle this....it will be much appreciated if I get a positive reply or way to go about it or someone that can help me through for a token...thank u

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kid7soccer:
LADIES AND GENT PLEASE CAN WE THROW MORE LIGHT ON THIS. I BELIVE THIS THE 3RD TIME THIS QUESTION HAS POP UP

Good Day,
Please I requested to send you an email. Please kindly accept.
I love all you comment and i would like to talk with you one in one.
I need serious guardians.
Thanks a lot as I await your response.

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

You are the victim here bro.
Who ever you have hurt in the past must have forgotten about it, they must have met other amazing people that erased all their painful experiences with you, and they must have even longed forgave you. You on the other hand, you are still wea you ar. kindly seek help and be a better man. Peace out.

[quote author=Monfeels post=89442424]I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice. [/quote

You are the victim here bro.
Who ever you have hurt in the past must have forgotten about it, they must have met other amazing people that erased all their painful experiences with you, and they must have even longed forgave you. You on the other hand, you are still wea you ar. kindly seek help and be a better man. Peace out.

prettysassygirl:
I know a male friend exactly like this. When he told me he was getting married , I was like wtf? I couldn't attend the wedding because I was far away but when he sent me the pictures , I looked at the girl with pity. She had no idea what she got herself into because her daily bread would be tears , the guy derives joy in tormenting people.

Are you sure the girl that married the man is not me?
Omg. I married a man like this too.
Doh m out of the marriage now.
As you said, my daily bread was tears and pain. When the marriage ended people were congratulating me. Someone said he pitied me on the wedding day.
But the story is diff today.

Zenithbank

Prudential Zenith Life Insurance

FTC

FTC

friendlyadvice:
E dey sweet buh not with underaged geh ,geh like toke or yvonne nelson dey ok to rape

This made me laugh

victorian:
The few ones I know is this:
If she lost so much blood while trying to deliver naturally, and blood transfusion is needed but because of poverty from both couples, the husband might go for a cheaper blood. And cheaper blood means blood that's not been screened. Such blood can have any form of infections. A close friend of my neighbor died through such means.

If she's hypertensive and her bp is not monitored all through the pregnancy and during labour time, it can skyrocket and voom! She's dead after delivery.

If the CS is not done properly, she could die as well.

If her cervix is small and cannot push out a baby but refuse to take the option is CS. She and the baby can loose their lives or the baby can be suffocated and killed while forcing it out from the narrow cervix , the natural way .

There are many causes out there.

Labour time for women is the moment in a woman's life where she's faced with either death or life.

Women who have gone through childbirth and are back home safely. Be thanking your God every blessed day.

It's a rare feat.

And some women will give birth to do many.
God is wonderful

I don't get it. You mean this whole baby plus that big intestine came out through the woman's punna?

Plant gegemu plant around your compound ...
Burn garlic and bitter cola around too.
Thank me latter

From your story OP, Vivian infected Fred with this your dreaded disease in quote. My question is, why didn't Vivian die of the disease weeks after contacting it, or even loose weight and weakness weeks after contacting it... To the extent of transferring it to Fred without obvious signs that Vivian is sick.

I hail una and yeye story sha.
Even HIV, e dey take long b4 e go manifest.

The name of this disease biko....

Its simple naw... Soak the hand inside soapy water and it will slip off. Force it if its still difficult.
Y cut the finger?

Ha, she should soak her hand inside soapy water and it will slide off... It will be painful but it will slip of... Why cut d finger?

Hassan88:
and u call that normal?

Wetin u want make I call am na?
Hahahahaha....

thorpido:
Good one for them.

..but the girl don get belle already?

Kikikik... Una no go kill me with laugh.
I don't think that's pregnancy... I think its her normal stomach size.

joberplanet:
congrat

Thanks a lot.

Basilona:
The test no be here ooo.

E plenty well ooo

As in ehn. Waiting to hear from them in 2weeks time

Applied successfully. Wrote the test....

I don't get it... Is this lady doing this to appease the gods?

Leokhennie:
Fct on bank level. This implies more monies in my account soon.

You mean federal capital territory? Ayam not understanding....

That was how this wan was arrested n they saw him with multiple dicks

Franzinni:
and other men have slept with your WIFE... Don't be absolutely phoolish


You think she doesn't know you are collecting communion else where.....

The thing no get meter.... A good wash with alum and its back to new

Alum...
That's very dangerous o.
I heard ladies use it.
P*ssy is not snail o.

Throwback:
Taxify is like Uber.

It is a taxi service using a mobile application to process taxi requests from passengers.

Once a passenger is linked to a registered driver, the driver's call details are displayed on the passenger's application. Same way the passenger's call details are displayed on the driver's end of the application.

This is to allow either one to call the other to arrange for the trip.

Better pikin.
You see, no one knows it all.
I have learnt one thing today again.
I con dey reason am like cab....

Ayam not understanding ....

How did the lady get the phone number of the taxi driver to call him that she left her stuff inside his car?

Who else is with me on this?