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Okay...I'll advice him to leave her along an focus with his life. I think she's married.

less I forget... that guy is no way suger boy.

I've being on Nairaland for 5years but I've not heard Nairaland pays. Please let me understand how it works. Is it by posting news please how.?

My brother, it's unfortunate situation that the generation we are is decayed generations. Everyone want right, no body want to submit, no body wants to love. No body want to know that the almighty never created every one equal but each person to complement the other, not to compete.

An I ask, what could be the problem, is it Education ( too much of knowledge), could it be the technology (internet), could it be too much of freedom from parents,(early exposure), We left our morals and embraced the White my culture...What could be the cause.?

Mozegee:
I want you to mark todays date and when it happens do not forget me. Soon luck Will come your way.

I won't

Kobicove:
@ Supreme01 I feel your pain but it's one of the risks of doing business in Nigeria with Nigerians.

Just bear in mind that at some point your Nigerian business partner will try yo cheat you, forget about all the religious pretence that abounds in this country!

Thanks bro.

DoGood002:
Hold on to your God. He will surprise you beyond your imaginations soonest.
I spent my last money and borrowed from friends to register and brand a limited liability company late last year. An opportunity came for me to renovate a big house, install inverter in the house and on their farm. I was called upon to do thorough study and submit reports/quotes. It took me and my team a whole week to carry out the assignment and total cost was a little above 15m. From no where an architect in-law of theirs appears and was given the job. More worrisome was the fact that he was given my recommendations and he followed everything step by step.
I have been to the house to run errands for the family more than twice and I saw everything. The only thing I got from them was “sorry our children overseas decided to give it to our in-law”

Early this month God compensated me with a small job and I’m not hungry to the glory of His name.

Am strengthen bro. God bless you.

slimjohn2k5:
There is nothing wrong in been yourself but it should be within your space.
You cooked in my house, use my pot, my gas and I should not be free to go to the pot.

Turn the table around, u are the to be mother in-law and your daughter in-law to be start setting boundaries right from your own house. Will you advise your son to go ahead.

What you boyfriend mother did is to make you feel at home that you are welcome. Do you think she is the only one that wanted more?

You're very right, she went to some once house and cook, using her pot, gas, almost everything and claim ownership, you've not even enter the house yet. it when you enter the house your rules will increase. The guy should learn...Just think before you react, that's your problem here.

BSF:
Bookmark this thread, thank God genuinely without bitterness(this is very very difficult)for this experience you had, and be ready when your time comes!

Thank you.

HVILLE:
congratulations brother,God is finally involved in your life ,a big Door is about to open

wow...this is the Spirit talking. I wish I can shake you. Only spiritual men understand these.

Slynation:
Ahh....I can categorically inform you there is nothing more painful than someone sliding you, but I believe better days are ahead, try to advertise yourself the more, and next time be a man of few words....

thank you bro

Atiku:
Weak man

thank you

Zeion422:
Ur break trou will surely come......i can relate wit u,still tryin to get my mind cleared from my own experience

Amen..and you too..thank you

Hello Good people,
Please help me out of depression right now.

Earlier these month, great opportunity showed up, I was to assembly foreign equipment for one big politician in my state. The architect that got the contract contacted me as an engineer, we went to the site, take the measurement, ready to kick start the work. We've negotiated the price, you know Nigerians most demand for cut, which we agreed certain percentage.

4 days to the date set for the money to be transferred, she stop picking my calls, stop answering my chat on whatsapp.

Before then she'll be calling to ask if I'll be able to fix the equipments, she'll ask me questions like; how are you going to do it, what an what will you need, how many workers will work with you etc.

The guy that connected me with her happens to be a friend. I was updating this guy on every progress. At a point this woman start passing information through this guy to me. I was wandering, why can't she call me direct.

To cut the whole story, The woman went an gather some people including the guy to do the work, after all my efforts.

Ever since I finished my training 3yrs ago, have not gotten some thing to do an this job will have being good break through for me to get my own place. My rent's about to expire, difficult to feed etc.

I've never cry my entire life like this, for the past 5days I've being indoors because no job.

I'm really depressed. I've tried every thing to get it off my mind but no way. Never had this experience.
Please pray for me.
mode please help move to front package for me.

Boxer007:
bro..please go n watch blue film!!

for what, why?

Sonnobax15:

Any man wey dey lucky enough to fvck any Akwa ibom girl,just know say you don already dey one step ahead to heaven..

For this life,I swear if I no lash Akwa ibom girl en,call me custard

ah..your case needs serious attention..

Anigreat:





I really dont know why when they talked about sex , Akwa Ibom and Edo state leads. That's nonsense stereotyping; there's no place in this world were people are not having obsession about sex. Akwa Ibom love sex that much, and the population there is yet to beat that of northern , western or eastern Nigeria.

And there's this picture they tend to paint about Akwa Ibom girls, they make it looks like it is very easy to bed them..like they are cheap, and they love sex too much...this is the greatest lies of all time. Yes! there loose girls there, just like we have in other tribes, but that doesn't make you used one or two loose girls you met to judge all the girls there, it doesn't make sense infact it makes you sound or look stupid.

enyak mien mba ke emem mbok

God bless your mother, bless the sperm that form you.
yak etie etang ndisime

These is the generation ladies no longer reguard what is private as private.

You see ladies flaunting all sort of Bikini's and exposing the unclad bodies and even go the extends to upload it on social media.

Nothing to leave for imagination.

Then a woman's dignity was measured by the level she keeps her body.


What is that different between PANT and BIKINI

Mode help push it to front page, let's bring back women's dignity.

ILovebigyansh:
You welcome. Keep Simping.

best advice ever

Creative7:
opps to slap you dey hungry me. are you charmed or what? you kneeled and plead for immarture 19yrs old girl compared to you 27yrs. I understand the spirit of FEAR in you! Wake up and summon the courage to date a lady of 24-25 that suit you.

she's a past story

Newoldme:
U neva marry her,u dey monitor,if u marry her u go turn CID,for her case,mtcheew!,as if agreeing to be in bondage with u(marriage with u will b a bondage),is a favour.

Some of you talk from the ass, some one just cheated and you're supporting. What stops her from telling the boyfriend, if she didn't have anything to hide.
I checked you mode I notice you're a lady, I can sense the kind of person you are...

Mosdi may be right.

okay thank you

ILovebigyansh:
Where i talk say you no fit marry girl wey you Senior? I say how man for him late 20's go dey misbehave for 19 yo pikin. Na she suppose dey misbehave for you.
You be [color=#000000]SIMP[/color].

ILovebigyansh:
Simp. Girl of 19 yrs wey suppose dey call you uncle na im you dey klinsh. THOU Hath MAD...

So I no fit marry a girl I senior for 8yrs

YourMajesty:
Don't be fooled by the "I have moved on" games they play.


My ex is one confused example I am going to use.

She will go to her WhatsApp status on Monday to post; "Leave love and make money"

Then on Tuesday she will post a picture of her brother calling him sweet financial names like; "My bank booster, any lady will be proud to have you"

On Wednesday the status reads; "Feeling depressed, NP Mercy Chinwo Excess Love"

On Thursday it will be; "I am single and serious about it"

Friday is always interesting; "I wish you were here with me"


So my brother, don't get it twisted.
They don't move on easily too.

You've well said Sir

mosdii:
You mean Nigerian Girls?
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

sorry bro I understand when the pain is coming from a broken heart.

I have notice, ladies finds it easy to move on than men after break up in relationship. Even when she did love the guy.

A lady once told me if I leave her she will kill herself. She meant it because the love was so strong, even when we quarrel like nothing else.

But when I stop calling her she never flash one.
I quite due to consistence quarrel, Nagging and suspicious habit.

Saintmary:
You deserve to be called a Cradle robber and a thief. Date your mates.

seriously, I thought they said age is just a number.??��

Yusufisraelj:
OP

Lols

Emmm, your situation day very easy to see through.

1. You have not made up your mind on what you want in a relationship or if you have, you don't really have a spec for what you want.

If you want a wife then look for such residual character traits in a lady, if you get her pregnant would you be proud to let her mother and train your child? Never start things you won't be proud of down the line.

2. You need to work on yourself, when anger pushes you to talk, it's the worst form of anger it's even worse than being physical bkos it's leaves people deeply scared psychologically than getting physical. I don't condone any.

So bro really settle down and have a circumspect walk with God. At late 20s it's almost becoming late, but change is possible at any level, it starts with a consecrated living.

3. Have a plan for your life and only become close to ladies who also have same for theirs, when you know where you are going, what should help you shouldn't be hard to find.

It is only well with who ends well. Leave this lady alone if she's not willing to be with you, what you beg to have, you beg to sustain, relationship is for two willing people, bkos when the rubber hits the road commitment is what relationships feeds on in a lifetime, it takes two willing people to commit even if they don't feel like, so keep all those feelings that have entered you two for one corner.

thank you I appreciate.

squash47:
If to say u dey close to me, I for slap you.

You are in ur late 20's and na 19 year old girl u dey trip for ?

And you dey even dey call her lady ? Person wey no get sense naim u dey give d honourable title of lady ?

Why do you simps like settling for less and acting stupid in d name of love ?

Are you all blind, deaf and dumb at d same time ?

Bitches will keep on manipulating you if you keep wasting so emotions on them

Thank God am not close.

emetisuccess:
mkpo umiah

emetisuccess:
mkpo umiah

afia ekpo ofiup

Please help!

There is this girl I just wanted to strap an walk away,
but after the first time, affection developed, it keeps increases.

She is that kind of girl that doesn't like Sex. So I have to beg her until she gives in.
Character wise she's so insulting and stubborn. It has if I'm being remoted, keep loving her the more despite the fact that I seriously detests an insulting woman. it turn my off very quickly.

We keep having misunderstanding, i'll apologise till the points she made up mind to quite. I find myself kneeling and begging her not to leave She bluntly refuse. But she loves me to some level, she's not the type that cheat.

At a point of the misunderstanding, I went to the mother to relate my interest in her daughter,( for future marriage) jut to proof my stupid point to her that I love her. But she to no avail.
She'll be 19 this year. Sincerely she's not match with the kind of lady I'll love mingle with.

I am late 20s, I don't keep many girls at the same time. I don't cheat, when am in a relationship.

I've notice this things when I am in a relationship:

1. I've notice it's difficult to get reed of an Ex.

2 .If I say I love you in a relationship even if I was lying, the love will begins to develop.

3. At initial state, won't be serious but if I have sex, I'll develop seriousness and I can't control my level of passion and emotion again.

4. Also, I'm a very jealous type. most time I can't control my reactions, (not slapped) but the kind of words.

why is It always difficult to move on?

Please how can I take away this kind of softness.
please help a brother.

marvelck:
The single ladies there are even willing to mingle with married men, so far you can settle them well ...

Not most of them are willing to mingle with Married men. there are a lot of beautiful decent girls in Akwa Ibom, I mean a lot of them.

uuzba:
Tomorrow somebody will say black man is wicked.
Now see it.
Is the man black? Did APC and PDP worry him?
Did NEPA take their light? What made him frustrated like this now that he killed the wife?

my brother, he no consider say that woman d wit pregnancy