Op, take one beer for my head.

Seriously though, cheating is really both ways. What I can't say is if a girl will continue to love a guy after cheating on him. This is because I've seen/heard of more girls attaching emotion to cheating.

I can totally relate to this...

mizzbouqui:

Sorry I can't deny it, I've done it before

Aaawwww, you have my respect for this.

bloodkiIler:

starting with that ignorant dude omenka
chaii i really pity that guy it isn't easy to chop aisha rice and chop away your destiny while watching your people get maimed

Lol

The ignorance on this thread is alarmingly disturbing...right from Magu down to many of you who have contributed.

Nigerians need to be educated cause ignorance is killing us faster than corruption.

marylove2:
maybe I can pay it

Happy birthday!!!

If you admire somebody, you should go ahead and tell 'em. People never get the flowers while they can still smell 'em.

Okay!

halfricanadian:
she aint loving u one

Next u can never ever av her bck

Loyal people are d hardest nut to crack

Bro if she finds out u are her ex for life till eternity

All this is hypothetical...till it actually happens.

In other words, op, lemme be in that situation first. I'll cross that bridge IF I get there.

Ontarget:


Since the rule says a man must pull off his cap in the church and the Ooni is putting on his crown in the church it means they are regarding the cultural tradition superior to the tradition of worshiping the almighty God. Is it supposed to be so? Which tradition should supercede the other?

This is very simple. To the custodian of yoruba tradition, the leader of the yoruba race, which comes first? His tradition and culture, or a religion he received from the white man?

That should help you find your answer.

realmindz:

I think your hypocrisy stinks...

Ok it's my right to walk around naked and I think I think we naked people should be given our rights to move around and work at offices without discrimination.


Well I'm a teacher and it's my right to teach naked..will u allow me teach your daughters naked pls u need to respect my right...

I'll teach ur daughters and wife naked my female colleagues will teach u naked (I knw say u go like dat one).

when u come to the bank, u'll meet naked people attending to u. Hmmm imagine those naked female marketers coming to ur offices

Hahahahahahaha...I like this your analogy, but you forget we were all once naked, and then 'Eve gave Adam the apple and it became an offence to not have clothes on'.

Your analogy is wack though and I will tell you why. Choosing not to put on clothes is a choice, being gay isn't(I know you won't agree with this, but it's the truth).

realmindz:


oga I only asked a question...

if gays decide to hit themselves in private, of course it non of my biz.

But for gays to come out boldly to the public is an insult on our natural instincts. Imagine a gay approaching a guy who is straight, that will insult his phsycology and cause emotional trauma.

What of gays adopting an innocent child, that child would never grow up in to live a normal live.

Two men kissing in public or on TV insults our natural instincts, it is traumatic, unacceptable and I think gays are rly unfair to us.

With more gays in society, our generations wud be ruined as we would ve forgotten what it takes to be male and female.


that's why we hate them, we'll find them and deal with them without mercy

You think gay people kissing in public is unfair to you, but you don't think that you hating gay people is unfair to them?

Your hypocrisy stinks man.

realmindz:

How does being gay contribute to moving forward? pls educate me

If I say you're ignorant now, you will say I'm abusing you, but think about it. How are we more preoccupied with what two consenting adults of the same sex choose to do in private?

A vindictive society can never move forward, but one with equity, justice and fairness will progress. It begins with recognising people's rights and respecting those rights.

Harinholar:
...Jah bless u....pipu can't just do without criticism.....

Amen ma'am. God bless you too.

dracosith:
are u ok. https://www.openbible.info/topics/homosexuality

I'm okay. Are you?

NinaMiliano:


If its a taboo, den he shouldn't come to church. He should reverend d King of Kings. U don't come before God d Creator and still be forming Oba of a tribe. Dia can't be 2 Obas in d church. He can form Oba outside God's church. D church is d body of Christ.

Which came first, his tradition or his religion?

Ah! This one is strong.

I've not had any weird experience sha, largely cause I'm not very adventurous when looking to chase women.

halfricanadian:
Crossing ocean for people who wudnt jump a puddle for me
Is no problem

D problem is dont pull me into d water to make it very difficult for me to cross d ocean for u

I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but this is the most coherent stuff I've read from you.

E dey happen sometimes.

Chrishandsome:
If u are based here in Calabar,then you will know that we don't go out by this time considering wat is happening here.

All I'm saying is, if the situation was as grave as you painted it, your first instinct won't be to come on nairaland to seek advice. You'd be doing something in the real world to help solve the problem.

I wish you luck though.

1. The girl isn't for you
2. Your guy isn't loyal to you.

Op, stop lying abeg. Your story comes across as something that happened tonight. If it really did, with all that you wrote, your 1st reaction in the heat of the moment wouldn't be to come here seeking advice. You'd probably be on your way to the girl's house or on the phone explaining yourself to the girl's sister.

Bamz:


Yeah...I leave people speechless like that. Just be careful where you show your indifference/affinity to/for homosexual unions

Lol, I guess you're trying to look out for me? But thanks...I won't be needing it.

Ontarget:

Its better he doesn't go to church

Why not stop him from going? And when asked why, hope you state that your reason for stopping him is cause you already judged him.

Bamz:


You sound like one guy at my workplace, people have warned me about that guy ehn but the funny thing is I'm liberal. Because someone is gay does not mean I won't talk to him

Lol, I don't know what to make of what you wrote.

AtlanticBreeze:
Nice one oni but comot your cap next time

It is a taboo to see the head of a king in yoruba land. Kings don't/shouldn't be without caps/crowns.

The amount of hate and ignorance Nigerians exhibit on issues of homosexuality is just annoyingly baseless. No wonder we haven't moved forward as a people. Shame we are small-minded.

#SayNoToHomophobia

Oyiboman69:
even as a Christian, I support Islamic religion crucifying such demons in our generation.and I think the federal government should act quickly by punishing those caught in social Media.

Just look at dis one.

The headline and the whole news is misleading. These PDP people weren't prostrating cause of Omisore. It is normal custom that you prostrate before a king and remain like that or kneel while he prays for you.

I shouldn't expect any better from the media, our journalists are lazy, always looking for sensational spins to straightforward stories.

Wealthgang: