Them dey run?

onward4life:


Just in case Phyno actually came from the Same local Govt as Flavour (Orumba south) in Anambra.

But both are Enugu brought up and partially Based.

Up Lagos

Phyno's from Awka south.

sarutobie:

Jesus is not the cause of the bipolar afflictions that has been tormenting your soul..

Well, since I'm not the one going about cursing innocent trees, I guess that tells who's really bipolar between J boy and I.

Breezy should really work on his anger issues, wetin dey worry am sef? Mschew.

Good to see couples like this, although them full everywhere sha, but congratulations all the same.

So many people be wising up.

Religion and God na wash.

Someone said jesus was a psycho, do you blame him with this type of feckery displayed by jesus?

I don't even know what you people are on about, igbo women have been inheriting lands forever.

Young03:
whether they like it or not. traditionally a female can't inherit a land in Igbo land

aru!

Igbo land z not Bini where famales have rights to lands n houses


Igbo aju kwa

See person, come collect my mama lands na, mschew.

Marriage, na wa o.

Imagine say I marry tomorrow and he says "don't cook with okpei" ha! Oga ekwekwa omume?

Now we know the ex cons on here, how nice.

Analee:
dnt talk against d anointd one so u dnt bring curse upon ursef,dnt sit far n judge wat u know nt,js cm close n c tinz ursef so dat wen next u also hear somone critizing him u can also tel d person to cm close,cos i was once a critics of opm,bt i cam to realise it wasnt wat i was tinking n hearing,stil askn GOD for forgivnes.

Story story.

Ugosample:


You still don't get my point.
Worldwide, women find it difficult to get along with each other, and there are often frequent disagreements between many MILs and their DILs.
I was just bringing in a dimension into this discourse, the extent this disagreements can degenerate to, as opposed to other climes.

There was no need for that, as that dimension is a different topic altogether.

emeijeh:

I was just asking.

What a thing to ask.

Ugosample:


Yea
you have made good points, but I still stand on my opinion.
You cannot tell me with all authority that this problem is as rampant in these countries than in SSA and SEA, the cultural issue makes the DIL be at a disadvantage position in these regions

Okay look at it from this angle...

A MIL is more likely to instigate the family to push out the DIL to the streets in Africa, as opposed to Europe/America.
I have seen this with my eyes

A MIL is more likely to be a live in person in Africa than in the other clime

A MIL is more likely to suggest, and Even bring a second wife to the matrimonial home than in the other clime.

To cut the long story short, the MIL has more advantage here than in other climes.
She could be more brazen in her attempt to frustrate the DIL here than elsewhere


I hope you see my point?

That's not the topic here, except you are saying this 'advantage' automatically makes every(for emphasis) Nigerian MILs prejudiced against their DILs.

She looks pretty in that hijab but I don't see why she had to wear it to visit the sultan.

elfmann:

That means..do ur role...u can not talk more or demand more when u are always receiving.
Folo foreign wives the whole distance...not u want a modern man but can't pitch in in anything.

I don't even know what you are talking about, you live in a society where women contribute nothing? Please where's that?

NevetsIbot:
nah.. Can't tell ya... It isn't wise.. I feel my wife is on this forum.. She could be watching

Then I guess you can understand why it's fair, if I can't take your word for it, yea? Plus don't you think just by our exchange, you are already in trouble if your wife is on this forum?

Haha, very funny.

cococandy:

I'm honestly confused too.

Like the women have sexual relationships with their sons instead of a maternal one.

It's only emotionally imbalanced women that will have these problems. Because it's a clear case of not understanding that the role of his wife and that of yours as mother are different.

You will have problems with all the women he comes in contact with because they have come to steal your baby's.

Instead of enjoying your older adulthood with your husband on one remote island reminiscing your youth.

True, but the mistake many young women make, is that they carry this mindset into marriage, forgetting that not all mils are like that, if one wears a red glass, they tend to see things in shades of red(I know someone that always says this) and it's true, people can see things that are not there, so it's best to make sure to check all angles while looking.

NevetsIbot:
Why won't I look at her ke?... You want me to talk back?.... You need to hear all she's saying... Mehn, no woman wuld marry me if mom lists half of it for her....... Her own don pass tips

Perhaps you don't mind telling us some of those things, so we'll judge for ourselves that your mum is brewing trouble, please?

elfmann:

As u help in paying rent.

So what if I don't pay rent? I need to pay you to help?

emeijeh:


So they (cameramen) will hardly make heaven?

Where does it say that, if you don't fall under anointing, you won't make heaven?

SC31:
she can,some people are just sadist..happened to my cousin till her husband died

if she's a sadist with everyone then she's a bad person, therefore would make a bad MIL, I already acknowledged that but if she was mean to only your cousin, then ask your cousin why her mil hates her, if your cousin is good and smart like I think you paint her, then she must know why the woman doesn't like her, could be anything, there's always something.

Chai! So sad, it was an accident, though an avoidable one but don't blame the man too much, he didn't intend to kill her.

May her people find the strength to move on, it's really a pity.

Pidggin:


My mind is not messed up, the woman in question clung to her son like one should cling to a husband. Is it that you are not aware of some women substituting their husbands for sons? Why will a MIL who has her own husband to take care of move into her sons house leaving husband alone. Suit yourself.

And this automatically means every MIL is like that? As for the woman/boy you are even using as instance, he is only but 15, not married yet, so how does your 'moving into house' theory apply there? So a mother can't hug her son again?

Go have your mind fixed jor.

emeijeh:
Yeyebrities always showing off unnecessarily


Hhhmmm
She wants to stand above all men.
I smell a female hitler



But why is the camera guy not under 'the anointing'?

He was paid to do a job so his mind is disconnected, that is one of the reasons why a cameraman wouldn't fall under anointing.

An mgbeke will always be an mgbeke.

Jerryojozy:
What do u expect ? when daughter in laws will be asking the younger brother of her husband to do dishes . The mother in law won't be happy with this when she finds out. Therefore the aggression toward daughter in law. Mother tends to love their boys even when they are married but for the father , he doesn't care cos he feels you are man enough.

Why can't he do dishes, is he not a human being who eats with dishes? Even if he doesn't use dishes sef, can't he be of help in the house?

Ugosample:


It is more of an African /SEA countries problem than say Europe/America IMO because The former are more particular about extended family stuff than say in Europe, where family members are more individualistic/mind their business.

This is my observation tho, because my cousins in Germany hardly get involved in each other's lives, and their mother is living with their dad (my uncle) in the countryside most of the time, and is not inclined to visit all the time, as opposed to Naija MIL that will always find opportunity to visit/breeze in/get involved in the son's life.

The more individualistic a society is, the less likely in laws (Not just mil) get involved/cause friction in the family.
hope you understand my point? ?

I beg to differ.

It is more about being emotionally healthy than visiting one another, than what you term individualistic society, the US is a very individualistic society, yet this issue plays there and so is New Zealand, Australia and a bunch of other countries but MILs and DILs disagree there.

motherfucker:
Mothers are very protective of their son. You wouldn't understand until you have raised one for 27+ years and a lady comes in one day to take away what she has laboured for.

The mother would always feel no one can take care of her child like her. What most DIL should do is assure MIL that her son is in safe hands. It's that simple but most of you would rather compete with her or take her head on, which often backfire

Na wa o, does he stop being her son because he is married? How exactly does extending family, mean taking away what was laboured for?

kabrud:

Condemning it and doing same in secret even by the so called men of God is the true definition of HYPOCRISY.

How does this apply? Is 'Hypocrisy' a tenet of Christianity?