₦airaland Forum

Iefosa:
Yeah, he should. He started the whole issue and the lady reacted in the best way she can, she just want him to know how bad she felt about it. So he should do the needful

You are a joker, someone spat on him and you say he should apologise to the person, yea right.

nickda:
We have more than enough mad women her in nigeria. Pls keep her right where she is ATM. We don't want her here

okestev:
Bro, you need to be more tolerance, persevere and accommodating to your wife. ...Why on earth would you stoop so low to be dragging remote control with her, even when she hid it in her private area. ..Why? why? nah? Spitting on you is the minimal response you deserved from her for such coward and inexperience action of yours!!, may be some other lady would have hit you hard.
Sending her packing is not the solution, but respect, honour, show love to your wife, then she would accord you with same. Bible calls them "Weaker vessels". May God bless your home.

is this person for real? Minimal response you say?

The wife is not even sorry o, I hope you people know that.

Iefosa:
This issue is a minor one, but can really mature to stage of causing serious damages:

You're a married man, bros you don't ignore a woman's want or should I say feeling, no matter how silly it might be, just give her the attention, then you will enjoy and do whatever you do in peace. Assuming you went shopping with her, she for even cook better food give you ontop that fifa self. Follow dey shout Goal even when computer score you .

See bros, just go back to her, apologise, let her know that you're sorry for not going shopping with her, that it was not good of you, that nothing can come between you two not even that game self, let her know you paid deaf ear to her feelings, but you have realised now, you're very sorry, it wouldn't happen again. You go see she go just bust cry, then you kiss her, then yanch am, after everything. Tell her say that spit wey she spit for your face you dey forbid am, make she nor ever try am again, she will promise and promise, she wouldn't do it again really.

Biko don't send her home oh, Nigeria this time ehn NA wrong timing, sort things out with your wife brother, e nor easy.

Apologise to her ke, you people must be joking.

ERCROSS:
oga shut up jare make we hear word,

u for kuku take gun kill him for voicing his own opinion, no be only red hot iron

bros
If I marry your sister or daughter and she raise hand against me or spits on my face. I swear, drum set no go get beating reach her...

If that kain thing happen to me, wetin my mind go first tell be na "headbutt him", "kick am" "bite am" in fact, killing him can't even make me feel better.

Fkforyou:
Thank you for being honest. Everybody just dey shout forgiveness, hailing his level of patience as if it's that easy to let go of something as distasteful as this.

Spat on a human being with feelings fa?

Mehn.., I can't deal jare...I'm out.

My brother, OP has his faults too but the babe, hmmm

Make I keep quiet before them go say I follow break person marriage.

Your wife should never have to spit on you(unless you are into it ) but I can't help saying you both are like really immature, what's with the talk about how y'alls parents raised you/background? While I don't support beating anybody but the girl dey mad? Even you OP your own no good too, hab!, must you vex at everything? She collected the remote and you reach into her panty to get it, like what's that? must you give her quarrel when you already saw it coming? Plus she was only trying to get your attention, at a point, she was even playing with you, but you had to go and take everything serious, mschew. Still, spitting on you is something else, even I aren't sure I won't get divorced over that.


But mehn! If him pour me spit, hmmm, I no know wetin go happen o but I'm sure of one thing, which is that, he will wonder, 'what's going through her head'

He should just be very afraid sha.

sukkot:
by reading it thoroughly especially the book of revelation and genesis. you read it enough times to where you start going beyond the literal meanings to the deeper meanings. thats the foundation of all esoteric wisdom

Lol, just read it? I don't have to believe it, that one no be madness? How does one keep reading the same thing repeatedly, hoping that the meaning changes?

sukkot:
oh na crazeness lol. ok. to partake of this esoteric wisdom ? hmmm its many layers to it but i dont think you will be able to get past the first layer because if i remember correctly you are an atheist right ? yeah the first layer is you have to conquer the bible. the bible is the foundation of all esoteric wisdom in this world. every secret society that controls this world has the bible as a foundation. the illuminati, freemasons, skull and bones, jesuits, rosicrucians etc etc.

Yes I am atheist cos I'm yet to see evidence proving beyond reasonable doubt, the existence of God, still, how does one conquer the bible? By believing everything therein?

sukkot:
i done enter market tey tey

wetin be market ? madness ?

Yes o, you don craze finish.


on a more serious note though, how do I partake in this esoteric wisdom? I'm interested.

sukkot:
its divine wisdom you cant get in a book. you get it when you are in sync with your higher-self

Lol, you are on the verge of entering market but don't know it yet.

sukkot:
dat na esoteric prophecy na. e go do you like film trick when e begin happen

Lol, where do you get all that from please?

Your ex left you for monkeys and shame gree you talk? oyibo women can sabi mumu sha.

babyme1:
To everybody telling Edu to send the bro out and all, you guys dont know the kind of caring and sweet sister she is. She doesnt have the mind to cut him off so forget it.

Sis, it is well. Do what ur mind tells you till you move in with your husband. BTW congrats on d upcoming wedding

This has nothing to do with caring and being sweet, so you think the rest of us don't love our siblings or wetin?

She's only enabling him and he'll never change if she doesn't take a firm decision to cut him him off her apron strings, you might think letting him keep being irresponsible is showing him love but it's not, it's actually doing him more harm than good.

Just imagine.

What kind of a person without a job and a home has 8 children?

Only in matters like this, will I like how Nigeria handles things, this one no go see under bridge live sef, was he nigerian, nonsense.

joeace2020:
Nato open church remain...The mind of God ministries inc international

No be small something my brother, see the way he sounds like he had a meeting with God this morning, where God told him everything.

Story, I don't understand the need to fast though, since God answers prayers with a full stomach.

The book they used to corrupt our mind/steal our curiosity.

The way some people and their religion claim to know everything tire me, so this one knows the mind of the supposed god now o.

sukkot:
[b]the frozen water body is the esoteric wisdom knowledge and understanding of the empire running the world. the fact it is frozen means their wisdom is coming to an end ( which you can see if you are in america where all the manufacturing has dried up and its all being shifted to china, and the white people who were once the pillars of american society are now degenerating into drug users and criminals and minimum wage workers with no skills ). now out of that frozen water comes the scavengers who feed on the dead. lobster crabs and shrimps are scavengers symbolically meaning they feed on the spiritually dead souls which are the negros hence why white man is up and black man is down and being fed on by white man. but these scavengers have been frozen out of the water meaning a global shiift is coming when the black man will be on top and the white man below. the white man will no longer be the scavenger feeding on dead black souls. they are now on the ground which means they are in a low state. now you picked up the shrimp means the white man will be under the control of the black man soon. its a global shift coming. thats ya dream . its a prophecy [/b]

Where's Shymm3xx when you need him? Sukkot you are crazy.

Timbuktou:
"more often than not?" Aunty, I always make sense . OK, like 99% of the time.

See barawo. I'm going to be treasurer and accountant and auditor. You will be in charge of ushering.

if I hear always, because I even dash you more often abi.

The workload will be too much for you na, haba!
Besides if you do am like that, we will be found out as members will start wondering why pastor dey hog all the positions that handles money.

We will assign the position of head usher to uncle TV, everyone will fall in line with him there.

Timbuktou:
Just because I'm allergic to bullshiit, sorry Sexxkillz, doesn't mean I'm not nice, does it?

I have my plan all laid out. Na to go collect bank loan remain. I must to carry Gucci bag by force.

Nah, it doesn't but then miz, does make sense just like you do more often than not.

Please involve me in the plan, I've served as my town's union treasurer before, amongst my friends/family, I'm the one usually trusted with money, even in primary school, I was entrusted with keeping the class's money whenever there was need to contribute, so you are rest assured the money we will make, will be safe.

Timbuktou:
I swear, I'm nice. . Except, just like yourself, I don't suffer fools gladly. Make one toddler no use me dey learn talk.

You sabi when I go church last? Thinking of opening my own ministry soon sef. My head no dey forbid private jet.

Lol, Mr nice guy, I see you.


I swear me sef dey reason the matter o, e be like say you go come let's reason together o, that's one helluva lucrative business.

Benwems:
madam stop deceiving yourself and been one sided. You are talking about Gift. When I was in the university if I give my lecturer gift(s) just before or after an examination must of them always rejected it because they know the implications. Only the corrupt ones accepted my gifts, the upright ones rejected them. You give gifts for different reasons. The girl knows why the guy was give her gifts, its simply for sexual relationship. if she is decent and responsible, she would turn down MUST of the gifts. She knows she is not ready for sex, then she should have send booboo, please ooo these gifts are too much, I want you use your money wisely and prudent. Gift me gifts only on special occasions like my birthday, valentine day and christmas. It's enough instead she was demanding endlessly. If we look carefully, you would see the same is dating multiple guys (3-5 other guys) yet she doesn't want to sleep with him. Let me inform you because you said you are married. If a male admirer constantly gives you gifts and you or your husband report him to police. it is crime against our customary law. police will charge him to court for "enticing" you with gifts. Same thing for the girl. collecting gifts in false pretence like the girl is doing is also a crime and against the law. If he goes to police and report the girl that she is collecting gifts from him and they are both dating and she have other guys too which she is in an intimate relationship with. Police will arrest her and charge her to court for deceit and pretence. Quote me anywhere, I know the law. The guy is wrong, the girl is also wrong. They should both be reported to the police and charged to court.

What won't someone see on NL/Nigeria?

Timbuktou:
So, I "make sense", but you still sneak in a nice insult to follow the "compliment". . I'm not necessarily pissed off, though, it is you after all. Ironically, I find your own comments to be silly most of the time. You try too hard to make sense and be philosophical, you hardly ever succeed at either and you constantly miss the direction of common sense.

So, when you say this is the only common of mine you deem sensible, I can only shake my head in pity for you and those who lap up your bullshiit like hungry dogs in a dystopian existence. The world is obviously more fvcked up that I thought.

Anyway, happy Sunday.

can't you just pretend to be nice for once this man? See your mouth.


Why you here by this time, you no dey go church?

Grace ko grass ni.

There's nothing like genuine child of God since everyone sins and absence of sin, is supposed to be how to detect assumed children of God.

Who una dey f00l? Duh!

cococandy:
Water poured on stone can never penetrate.

Stop wasting your energy.

Truer words have not been said my sister.

Let me go watch TV instead.

freshvine:
Why will I run a circus with you when your brain has been tilted towards non objective application?

You don't have the rational mind to sustain this argument cos it's glaring your myopic standpoint is sentiment driven and I don't want to give you that pleasure to fantasize to oblivion.

I know your nectar is sweet and free, why not patronize those with what you live for?

The lady provided the template for crime to exercise and you want me to exemplify her and condemn the guy. Because arm robbery is a crime, will you leave your doors ajar at night and hope they don't come?

If you condemn the action of the girl, you've succeeded in dealing with the root problem and rape will reduce drastically in the society but if you keep saying "no matter what" other young lady will think it is legal to deceive a man into believing they're in a relationship with him with the notion of zapping his wealth with no benefit to the guy and such demeanor encourages rape.

I know that someday you'll will have a son and your advice to him when he is of age won't be different from the others, "beware of the foolish girls who's after your money and would want to render you useless". This girl represent one of those mothers warmed their male children about and in this case, the guy was smart to extract his wages.

The one focusing on unrequited love instead of a crime committed is calling me sentimental, irony never felt more real.

You know, when I talk about you wanting a go at my "nectar" I used to do it as a joke but I'm not so sure anymore, why must you always refer to it in any conversation with/concerning me? How is my coochie related to the discourse? Even if you must take a swipe at me, must it be pvssy related? Nna nekwa nu'm nsogbu biko, I don't do 1diots, I've said that a gazillion times.

See who I am attempting to reason with, so if I leave my door open, it is an invitation to get robbed? Not that robbers are lowlife criminals and therefore need no excuse to carry out their nefarious activities? Does a door even need to be open for robbers to come? You'd actually present this argument in a court of law? Amazing!

Now accepting gifts or leading a man on, is the root cause of rape, not the fact that the rapist is a crazy and wicked fellow, who doesn't care about anything but his own depravity, do you even hear yourself? So kids, teenagers, old women and even babies that get raped all collected gifts or led their molesters on?

I don't talk about the actions/inactions of the girl because rape is never and can never be justified, rape is a crime for a reason and accepting of gifts or leading a person on isn't, I don't know nor care about the morality of the girl so why should I focus on how she chose to lead her life?

The only issue here is that a crime, key word being 'crime' has been committed, whatever may have led to the crime is secondary or (in some cases) even not important in a court of law.

While it is(in my opinion) morally wrong to accept gifts under false pretext or lead a person on, it is not illegal(with the exception of promise of marriage, which you even have to prove) and I have said this earlier on this thread.

You need to understand how the law works before opening your wide mouth to talk trash, the law doesn't care how much dude may have spent on said girl, all it cares about is that a crime of rape was committed, but how can a stupid person understand this?

Ofcourse any wise mother would give their son that advice but the onus is on the son not to be a f00l who doesn't recognise that his love is unrequited, yet keeps spending money.

And you boldly said the guy was smart enough to extract his wages, how do you even think yourself smart making such comments? This is the height of it, you are a disgrace.


Some people dense sha, na wa.

Blood or not, I will not support an irresponsible sibling.

I kuku like myself, I would have packed out of that house for him, since he doesn't want to have sense, what rubbish.

The struggle is real.

Should I say she is lucky to have been arrested in Nigeria? Hmm