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adulthood: Life as a good-looking guy is far different from what the average guy/ugly guys go through. No offense but for handsome guys the game is different. They usually have no idea on how to woo a woman, because all their lives they never had to make an effort to get girls to flirt with them. When in a social gathering, the girls would always treat them differently. Every girl will always be too nice to them or always flirt with them, making them the center of attention wherever they go. Life can be frustrating, as some guys may start disliking them for the fact that every girl always wanna be around them.

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

The funny thing is if a goodlooking guy isnt careful he may end up being sad and miserable, because his blessings could also be his curse. Personally i had to tell myself that i am not goodlooking whatsoever in other to have a normal human orientation. I was becoming too full of myself, never talked to any girl first because they always talked to me first. It started to affect me as i thought i was too good for any girl. Right now the game has changed for me because i dont care how i look anymore. I now initiate convos with girls first and i try to be the normal guy that isnt too self conscious and think the world revolves around him.

(the normal game for the average guy is the ability to flirt with a girl, respect her, care for her. Be nice to people, and be all round humble, polite and caring to the opposite gender).

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.

I have played this game and trust me when i say this game is a bundle of paranoia and restlessness.

xsey: @sweetdbest;

Poultry business is very profitable no doubt but before you get to that point, there are processes involved

Here's my best Opinion about egg Production.(Layers)
There are loads of poultry farms all around in Ogun/Lagos/Ibadan.
I'll suggest you walk up to any of the poultry farmers around (Your approach matters a lot here)
Just explain to them your honest intentions.

You may consider working for them for free to gain relevant experience.

Learn on a daily basis(or weekends) for about 3-6 months. you would have a better understanding about poultry business and know which aspect you want to master if you are able to do this.

Production is not all about the money, it's about investing Your Time first.
After your hands-on training, Start Small and grow as you gain more experience.

No book/theories can give you the exact figures to expect. Any sincere farmer will attest to this fact.

Volunteer to work for free till you gain relevant experience in that field. **Layers requires hands-on experience**

Don't be tempted to venture into poultry Production because of the Potentials alone. Learn all you can about it. Invest your Time in learning before investing big money.

Layers requires loads of cash and it's only very profitable if you know its management.

Best of luck

xsey: Egg Distribution is Perfect if you have the flare for Marketing.
You just need to be very sure of 2 important things;
1. Your regular Source.
2. Your Market.

At the moment, Eggs are not easy to come by in Lagos and Ibadan. We have only succeeded in getting about 1,000 crates in 1 week.

I have tried egg production before...I didn't enjoy the process, management, high running cost, patience, etc. Plus Too many troubles. *My Opinion though* (That does not mean production is not good.)
I still have plenty friends who are comfortable with production.

But, I feel most comfortable with egg Distribution than production. It meets my immediate and short-term goals.

The Market is Very Big and easy for me.

Egg Distribution/Production or Pig Farming.
Egg distribution is by far better in my opinion.

Mcfemad: Better then. I'm glad you claimed it was an error. Yes. Two thousand birds back then must have been a very lucrative business but it is not that lucrative now as Economics of scale have set into every stage of poultry production. The initial capital is still very much (if you are going commercial), and it takes a serious minded person to do the business profitably. Its a business for the wise. As said in my previous post, I will be willing to share my thoughts and ideas so that we can all learn.

Also vislabraye, I advise you modify the former post so that others will not take you up on it. Thanks and Kind Regards!

millionairemind: Nigerian actor Joseph Benjamin who on Tuesday opens up on his marriage crisis in this recent interview with Adeola Adeyemi revealed how he married his wife out of pity because she got pregnant while they were dating. Joseph Benjamin who is formally separated from his wife of 8 years said he married her when he discovered she got pregnant because he doesn’t want to father children out of wedlock.

From the interview, the actor apparently didn’t love his wife. He allegedly married her out of pity. Interview excerpt below.

What Really Happened in his Marriage?: “I was married for 8 years. It was a rather odd situation at that time. She got pregnant and I didn’t want to have a child out of wedlock and so I married her so we could build a home together for the unborn child. Things weren’t rosy then, but I believed it was the right thing to do for the sake of the child. I overlooked my own personal desires, I just wanted to do right. Our second child came and I stood by my family like I always have; but no one is perfect, we had our issues – the crisis persisted but we stayed because of the kids. But you never make that kind of decision because if the parents are not happy together then the children suffer.”

Is Your Wife Older Than You?: ''She is not older than me, and she wasn’t taking care of my financial needs as people have insinuated. We were both starting off in life on the same grounds – no one was exploited.” “I’ve been separated for a year now but we still keep a good relationship, and our separation was a mutual agreement. She is a good woman but I could not go on with the union anymore seeing the foundation it was built on was untrue. I have two wonderful children – a ten year old daughter and a seven year old son. They are an integral part of my life; their mum and I have a very good arrangement on how to balance their lives and make sure that psychologically they are stable and unaffected by our separation.”


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naturalwaves: This guy is taking this too far.



There is a natural law of giving and receiving. The more you give, the more you receive. If you do good, you get good in return. If you do bad, you get same.It is not until one gives in churches that one gets blessed. Your being blessed was not necessarily because you gave in church but because you gave. Moreover, giving in church is not the only way to give to God. When you help people, you are also giving to God. If you want to confirm the natural law of giving, do the same thing you have done in the church outside the church and check if you will be blessed or not. Note that, I am not against giving in church but just want you to know that giving is giving. One gets blessed in folds irrespective of where the giving was done.I know a lot of Philantrophists that do not even know the way to the church and they get blessed in folds through giving.



As a village boy, where did you expect him to start from? From a mansion? Or from a storey building . At that time, most houses were made up of muds and thatched roof (not even zinc). So, that is where he should start from cos that was what most houses were made up of in the village at that time. Even now, there are still a lot of houses with the same characteristics in the North. The problem with folks like you is that, just like the guy you accused of crying more than the bereaved, you talk more than the accused. Next!


Well it was a good thing that he chosed God but the fact that he chosed God does not necessarily imply that he has not deviated from what he is supposed to be doing while focusing more on other vanities.


This case is not a unique one. He is not the first and will not be the last to be rejected by families simply because he chosed something that was different from what they wanted. Even the early Actors and Actresses that were always following dance and drama troupes all around faced more from their families. In some cases, their families even threatened to disown them. Right now, their stubborn moves paid off as Entertainment is one of the biggest things at the moment. So, your point is void wrt Oyedepo. Next! .



No, owing a Private jet is not too much but only 4 Private jets that requires huge amount of money to maintain seems senseless.

Have u read about Kenneth Copeland, his church has as at 3 years back given away about 25 jets as gifts to other ministries world wide.
Why didn't they keep the 25 Jets to themselves? How many private jets do they use on their own? Go find out and come back. Like you said, "they distributed to other Ministries". Why did they decide to do a distribution? Ans: Cos keeping 25+ jets is unreasonable.

Would we rather have a man who would teach decency, love, morals, fear of God, etc to fly on private jet just to meet preaching schedules world wide

This one got me reeling with laughter. "To meet preaching schedules world wide". Who is he preaching to? Is it the same British that brought Christianity to us or the Americans and what will he be preaching about? That Jesus christ died for our sins and they should repent? Or are they flying to Somalia and other remote places for the gospel? If yes, give accounts of what the travel schedule has been like since the acquisition of the jets. Without seeing it, I can bet that the most dominant on the schedule will be America and Europe. Please, do not mistake a Jamboree travelling for preaching of God's work.

The place we call Cannan land at Ota before Oyedepo came was a thick forest, the church has turned it to the best city in Nigeria, nobody is commending him and the church

Commend him for what? For expanding his church? I was a regular member of Faith Terbanacle even when it was still at Raji Oba in Alimosho before moving to Ota. The closest place to Lagos is Ogun state and Ibadan. Lagos state has limited land for a big building hence the choice of Ota as the next point. Or, was such land available in Lagos and he decided to move to Ota instead? My friend think! Let us not argue with sentiments. You said he developed it, NO, he shouldn't have developed where his church is, he should have left it as a bush and worship there like that.If I may ask, the development is for whose benefit? Is it not for that of the church? ,

yet for them to fly on small 10 passenger private jet is causing uproar in Nigeria. God is watching us all. I believe that a man who has paid so much that many other re unwilling to pay should enjoy what others are not entitled to, all pastors can't be on same level.
The church should not forget the word "MODESTY". A Private jet even under the guise of using it to preach the gospel is not that much of a bad idea but 4 Private jets is too much.

Sam Milla: Lets analyse this together.
We have roads that are not motorable and the gods/Suntai decided to be traveling through the air.
Now the air has started to reject them and the President is promising to save them by all means necessary.

Mr President,

The last time you visited Anambra state, you traveled from Enugu To Awka through air. A mere 30 Minutes drive but due to the state of the road, it now takes 2 hours to get to Awka from Enugu.
Mr President, you also flew from Awka to Onitsha, wow! a distance of about 15 minutes through road if the road is good. But you chose to become a bird to get to Onitsha from Awka.

My verdict is that as long as you people care nothing about the plights of the common man who dies due to the state of the roads,
The air has started to reject you people and the sea will follow soon.
We will all get stuck in this mud.
Fly Suntai to heaven if you like, just dont forget that he will be traveling by air again.

sandylurv: My relationship in which I had so much hope, where I found true love and hapiness, where nothing else mattered to me in this world has just come to an end because of genotype incompatibility (AS-AS).

I feel shattered ,broken, pained, disconsolate, heavy-hearted, sorrowful, aggrieved, wounded and bruised. My heart bleeds terribly, I've cried myself to sleep several times(usually I feel better after a good cry when I feel bad) but I still don't feel better. I find myself blaming nature, my stupid genotype, and God....I loved him, I still do, with every fibre of my being.

Oh God,we had ‎​so much in common, ideas, views, beliefs, birth month, family structure,physical attributes etc.I know for sure,I'll never find anyone like him **sobbing** Until now,I neva believed any human cud feel this much pain.

The amount of pain I carry in my heart at the moment is such that I keep wishing for death, maybe I would find some peace there. I cant say but maybe I feel dis bad cuz it seems soo easy for him. He has moved on, barely one week after.Maybe its just my imagination but it was really easy for him. I don't know if its usually so easy to let go of someone you truly and really love.

He was everything to me, he made me very happy, my world went round because of him, and now, my world feels so empty without him. We had decided to go ahead initially, with the plan of having CVS with each pregnancy but he is too scared to take that chance. This is the saddest thing that ever happened to me all my life. I still want him. Imagine finding someone you love completely, and finding all u ever wanted in that person but still not be able to have that person.

I'm praying to God for strength to carry on (even though I must be truthful, I'm sorry, but my faith and belief in him has greatly dwindled) as I really don't wanna do anything nasty.I don't understand why God would sit by and watch me go through dis and not intervene.

Any words of encouragement to help me go through dis would be appreciated, as I don't really have my friends around me at the moment and I feel so lonely in this world, plus I really needed to bare my heart one way or the other.

I hope I feel better after this. God bless you.

engineerd: This man had no business piloting an aircraft! The only thing an aboki can pilot is a cattle.

4bobo: his intention was to gain admission to any university, join a cult group and kill as many people as he could.
By the time those capon and Don in university of ife see this, he is already initiated and doomed for life. How can he imagine and say this out? Just watch out, he has already ruined his own career out of curiousity, unless he has a better source of income and good family support.To be come a lawyer no be moimoi.