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Re: . by jeffizy(m): 5:12pm On Mar 01, 2013
ofeseluayakata: All the good looking men I know are extremely confident! Of course, this does not mean that all good looking men are confident, but I completely disagree with your claims because there is no evidence for it. Also, post your picture and let us be the judge of your hotness.
A handsome dude wont grant u such request. Because it is the average guy that will crave for affirmation about his looks.
Re: . by Nobody: 5:12pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=Mynd_44]Arrogance......and boring read..

Next!!!![/quote]Insightful!, Braddah!
Re: . by dmcdad: 5:20pm On Mar 01, 2013
Well.. i think its more of my personality than looks... I am very confident to the core, with great personal charisma but yet humble...

@op, you wan dey intimidate us?
Re: . by ace1(m): 5:21pm On Mar 01, 2013
adulthood: Life as a good-looking guy is far different from what the average guy/ugly guys go through. No offense but for handsome guys the game is different. They usually have no idea on how to woo a woman, because all their lives they never had to make an effort to get girls to flirt with them. When in a social gathering, the girls would always treat them differently. Every girl will always be too nice to them or always flirt with them, making them the center of attention wherever they go. Life can be frustrating, as some guys may start disliking them for the fact that every girl always wanna be around them.

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

The funny thing is if a goodlooking guy isnt careful he may end up being sad and miserable, because his blessings could also be his curse. Personally i had to tell myself that i am not goodlooking whatsoever in other to have a normal human orientation. I was becoming too full of myself, never talked to any girl first because they always talked to me first. It started to affect me as i thought i was too good for any girl. Right now the game has changed for me because i dont care how i look anymore. I now initiate convos with girls first and i try to be the normal guy that isnt too self conscious and think the world revolves around him.

(the normal game for the average guy is the ability to flirt with a girl, respect her, care for her. Be nice to people, and be all round humble, polite and caring to the opposite gender).

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.

I have played this game and trust me when i say this game is a bundle of paranoia and restlessness.
You also didn't add the part where well mannered girls dont take you seriously because they just assume you're a player
Re: . by lexxwiz(m): 5:21pm On Mar 01, 2013
its not my fault that i try nah.. chuooo!!!!

Re: . by YorubaOmoge: 5:23pm On Mar 01, 2013
lexxwiz: its not my fault that i try nah.. chuooo!!!!
Are you related to Osama Bin Laden?
Re: . by brushstrokes(f): 5:27pm On Mar 01, 2013
I've meet a lot of handsome guys, and majority were humble, caring and nice. So I may find it hard to relate to the Op's post. Maybe I met the ones with sweet personalities wink
Re: . by ELgordo(m): 5:27pm On Mar 01, 2013
Am a good looking dude too buh am also dat ni**a who don't give a f*uk bout sh*t like this. . . Come on! Let's get this money stop bi*chin' Mr Handsome
Re: . by specialguest(f): 5:29pm On Mar 01, 2013
:PStory.fine boy na monkey
Re: . by Nuzo1(m): 5:30pm On Mar 01, 2013
There are also bad sides to this.

Its like a beautiful girl or a celebrity being talked to, touched and harassed when you are not ready for that.
You are also expected to date and love every girl that wooes you.

The canal temptation is triple. And you can imagine the consequences.

But its fulfilling to realize that maliciously using your physical attributes to gain advantage over people is wrong and classless.

Some so-called good looking guys told me these.
Re: . by sagytariusTM1: 5:32pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=pimp_lucious ]guy na lie u lie, ungly fine pass u!!! grin grin grin grin[/quote]Tankyo! U sabi sef.
Re: . by Iykecollins(m): 5:32pm On Mar 01, 2013
Dondav: I got to level with you bro! I have absolutely no idea what u talking about!
Read 4rm bottom up....then ask me again which part you want explained for you...
Re: . by huninaija(f): 5:36pm On Mar 01, 2013
Why does it seem as if the OP looks like Vic O.. Its always the ugly ones that need to justify there"handsomeness" to people as if to prove a point lol

As for me iv passed the "good looking, bad guy phase".. No matter how "fine" a guy is, if he doesn't have what i want in a man, i show him the door..

I'm not moved by looks anymore, although i have to feel attracted to him!

@OP i do agree with you that some men do tend to take there good looks for granted, looks fade and will not last forever!

My two cents... cool
Re: . by Sweetapple007(f): 5:38pm On Mar 01, 2013
U re a fool if u think that u re handsome . Frankly speakg there re girls that will neva notice u girls whose re also confident in thereself, some one like me no send ur kind of man because we know our worth. Is not appearance that makes a man but good gualities ad achievment count.
Re: . by Sweetdbest: 5:40pm On Mar 01, 2013
adulthood: Life as a good-looking guy is far different from what the average guy/ugly guys go through. No offense but for handsome guys the game is different. They usually have no idea on how to woo a woman, because all their lives they never had to make an effort to get girls to flirt with them. When in a social gathering, the girls would always treat them differently. Every girl will always be too nice to them or always flirt with them, making them the center of attention wherever they go. Life can be frustrating, as some guys may start disliking them for the fact that every girl always wanna be around them.

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

The funny thing is if a goodlooking guy isnt careful he may end up being sad and miserable, because his blessings could also be his curse. Personally i had to tell myself that i am not goodlooking whatsoever in other to have a normal human orientation. I was becoming too full of myself, never talked to any girl first because they always talked to me first. It started to affect me as i thought i was too good for any girl. Right now the game has changed for me because i dont care how i look anymore. I now initiate convos with girls first and i try to be the normal guy that isnt too self conscious and think the world revolves around him.

(the normal game for the average guy is the ability to flirt with a girl, respect her, care for her. Be nice to people, and be all round humble, polite and caring to the opposite gender).

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.

I have played this game and trust me when i say this game is a bundle of paranoia and restlessness.
Post your pixture b4 we can come to terms with your write up. No come here display as if you are the most beautify since you since handsomeness cannot equate your person. waiting.post real pics and not from the net. we go know
Re: . by moneyhungry(m): 5:53pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=Yoruba_Omoge]Are you related to Osama Bin Laden?[/quote]na osama former gate man.
Re: . by Nobody: 5:55pm On Mar 01, 2013
Sweetapple007: U re a fool if u think that u re handsome . Frankly speakg there re girls that will neva notice u girls whose re also confident in thereself, some one like me no send ur kind of man because we know our worth. Is not appearance that makes a man but good gualities ad achievment count.
ugly girl forming pretty
Re: . by Nobody: 5:56pm On Mar 01, 2013
Ugly boys forming handsome on nairaland
Re: . by lexxwiz(m): 6:04pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=money-hungry ]na osama former gate man.[/quote]see beef... Op! You're on point. Dis guys don dislike me already....
Re: . by MrHim(m): 6:05pm On Mar 01, 2013
Good looking guy. Whose a good looking guy? I reckon OBJ, funny. OP, here is my take:Having charisma is the main aphrodisiac in wooing women, it comes natural. Any guy that's finicaily liberated, is that guy; no matter how ugly or phisical imapired. Cash brings swag, any way you want to look at it, cos every1 has a price. Having good looks gives you an A+ but seriously, an A is an A,right?

...Yeah, I'm a very good looking guy as well
Re: . by redcliff:
adulthood: Life as a good-looking guy is far different from what the average guy/ugly guys go through. No offense but for handsome guys the game is different. They usually have no idea on how to woo a woman, because all their lives they never had to make an effort to get girls to flirt with them. When in a social gathering, the girls would always treat them differently. Every girl will always be too nice to them or always flirt with them, making them the center of attention wherever they go. Life can be frustrating, as some guys may start disliking them for the fact that every girl always wanna be around them.

Personally their orientation is different as they tend to be very self conscious, conceited, selfish, intolerant, proud, and arrogant. They hardly make an effort to talk to a woman because they are used to girls talking to them first.

The funny thing is if a goodlooking guy isnt careful he may end up being sad and miserable, because his blessings could also be his curse. Personally i had to tell myself that i am not goodlooking whatsoever in other to have a normal human orientation. I was becoming too full of myself, never talked to any girl first because they always talked to me first. It started to affect me as i thought i was too good for any girl. Right now the game has changed for me because i dont care how i look anymore. I now initiate convos with girls first and i try to be the normal guy that isnt too self conscious and think the world revolves around him.

(the normal game for the average guy is the ability to flirt with a girl, respect her, care for her. Be nice to people, and be all round humble, polite and caring to the opposite gender).

Key point of my writing this is to make aware the fact that good looking guys are playing a different game everyday of their lives. And trust me when i say that game is far from the normal game that the average guy plays on a daily basis. their kinda game is mean, selfish and delicate and can ruin a persons life.

I have played this game and trust me when i say this game is a bundle of paranoia and restlessness.
[size=18pt]PLEASE WHEN CREATING SUCH THREADS AND POSTING THESE TYPES OF WRITEUP THAT TEND TO QUESTION YOUR LOOKS, DO WELL TO UPLOAD YOUR PICTURE SO WE GET THE REAL PICTURE OF THINGS FROM YOUR ANGLE. AND YES I AM SHOUTING DONT ASK ME NOT TO USE THE CAPS[/size]
Re: . by oluamid(m): 6:12pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=sagytarius™]Post ur pix lets affirm. lol, just kidding.
Well, as for me, I enjoy my uglidity. It drives women and their troubles away from me.[/quote]"UGLIDITY" hehehhehehe... On a more serious note though, no man is born ugly. Beauty is a matter of perception.
Re: . by huninaija(f): 6:13pm On Mar 01, 2013
lexxwiz: its not my fault that i try nah.. chuooo!!!!
You look like a black version of mr. Bean... No offense oo grin
Re: . by oluamid(m): 6:16pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=brush_strokes]I've meet a lot of handsome guys, and majority were humble, caring and nice. So I may find it hard to relate to the Op's post. Maybe I met the ones with sweet personalities wink[/quote]Or maybe their "handsomeness" is doing the thinking for you.

Just joking though. grin
Re: . by Sweetapple007(f): 6:17pm On Mar 01, 2013
ayswags: ugly girl forming pretty
did i say am pretty na u dey praise ur self, ugly guy formg handsome.
Re: . by Emekamex(m): 6:17pm On Mar 01, 2013
lexxwiz: see beef... Op! You're on point. Dis guys don dislike me already....
you look like a frustrated arabian monkey.
Re: . by Sweetapple007(f): 6:19pm On Mar 01, 2013
ayswags: Ugly boys forming handsome on nairaland
seconded.
Re: . by misanho: 6:20pm On Mar 01, 2013
Y this ops dey impersonate? Oya make we see urs pix....
Re: . by brushstrokes(f): 6:22pm On Mar 01, 2013
oluamid: Or maybe their "handsomeness" is doing the thinking for you.

Just joking though. grin
Lol Dude, I don't roll with arrogant peeps cause am not and I strongly belief you attract your kind. Its been working for me. cheesy
Re: . by bolakale30(m): 6:32pm On Mar 01, 2013
[quote author=Mynd_44]Arrogance......and boring read..

Next!!!![/quote]Well... Same here too... Simply narcissistic !
Re: . by nanalady(f): 6:33pm On Mar 01, 2013
ace1: You also didn't add the part where well mannered girls dont take you seriously because they just assume you're a player
true..
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