₦airaland Forum

Jorussia:
I thought you reside in the ss.Anyway, let me allow you sleep,even though, its very rare to see a working class lagosian who wants to sleep by 10:00pm.

Lol. I work. Today was a very busy day and I slept late last night cos I was flexing.

Jorussia:
I guess you reside in uyo?

Nope!
Emi ni sisi Eko toh badt.

Jorussia:
that's cool,i love uyo and i would love to be there,in near future. I don't know much about iron and efik.Any body from akwa Ibom and cross river,we just conclude here in Benin that he/ she is calabar. Your languages in akwa ibom and cross river,have similarity with Slavic language.

Lol. Yes we are calabar people. Although some proud Ibibios don't like to be called calabars. The truth is that we all can understand efik while not everyone understands other Akwa/Cross languages. So we are calabar people in the true sense even though we have our own unique identities. Oron is the the most difficult and different language. If you listen to people speaking Oron you will think they are fighting! Lol. But there are some universal words and phrases among all the Akwa/Cross languages.

Jorussia:
Before i say good night, which state are you from?

I'm from Akwa-Ibom. Oron babe. Mum is Efik though

Jorussia:
I used to think as well,that this whole Biafra thing exists, only on NL,until my dad told me about his experience when he travelled to Enugu, in June this year. my dad said,he was shocked, when a police officer who checked the documents of his vehicle, at a checking point in Anambra,was asking him which side of the divide he belonged to, whether it was Nigeria or Biafra?When my dad told him,that he was from Edo, he(police officer),said they know that Edo will never be part of Biafra.my dad said,the police officer spoke with serious hatred against pmb.

Let's not go there please. I don't want to turn tribalist and start hating them cos I don't want to. I have some really nice Igbo friends and business contacts so make I go sleep abeg.

It is well sha.

Jorussia:
I was also a victim of what you are currently passing through here.It took several weeks,before those Biafra guys here on NL, could believe that i was actually from Edo state. They just feel that if you oppose the way they currently going about the Biafra agenda,then,you must b either a northern or Yoruba.If the Igbo want to secede,they can go ahead,provided they should not include SS,in their Biafra agenda.

Even at that they hate Edos because Edos are more glaring about their distaste for biafra. Other SS tribes try to tolerate them but Edos being the way you guys are fear no one. Edo man will always tell you stuff straight up. So they hate you guys for that.

Now tell me, how can you expect people to trust them enough to give them sensitive positions when they keep bulldozing everything in sight. Let's be practical. It doesn't happen that way. Until they learn to at least pretend to be accommodating, they will continue to have political issues. That just the plain lemon truth. I speak like this because I haven't noticed this on NL only. It's everywhere. Even in my office sef. But thankfully there are some really really nice ones. Really nice ones. But sadly the nice ones don't do enough to call the misguided ones to order and tone down their excesses.

Freemanan:
Is Homosexual normal to you?

Nope. And what's the relationship with what we are discussing?

Homos can do whatever they want as long as they don't come forcing it down my throat, this is my issue with the biafran wannabes. That's my point. You can want and yearn for biafra for all I care BUT why force it down the throat of someone else who doesn't? Why call me names and accuse me of being Yoruba just because I said I don't want it?

Guy I understand you are trying to be a peacemaker here but these people are just too bitter to accept your olive branch. They don't want it. As you type all your excuses for them they are on another thread bashing an SS person as we type now so what's the point?

Freemanan:
If you follow my replies logically you will know my point. I said no sane human wants Biafra because of the evils and damage it will cause and still yet it might not even be realised after all the hullabaloo. Then I said you won't consider those that are in the struggle for Biafra less sensible because, They have a reason for this which is marginalization and Nepotism which puts them on the losing edge and also they have no role in the history of Nigeria. So its like committing suicide because you discovered a future of penury and servitude till death. The act is bad but your reasons are understandable. i believe you grab.

Ihatago?

If it's understandable then it's not insane. Simples!

Freemanan:
I believe no sane Person wants Biafra... No nation wants to go back in time just because of some personal hate and paranoid few. I am also from SS and I see the way some fellow Igbos attack those against the Biafra course but that doesn't make them less sensible. They have a point just that it is being expressed from the wrong channel.


FYI... I am not playing Mr. Nice.... And also, those eyes look sekzy...

Yes you are playing Mr nice guy. How can you say you believe no sane person wants biafra and then say that the ones that want biafra are not less sensible. You are contradicting yourself. Take a firm stand on what you believe in. Don't try to please anybody just because you want to appear nice. Truth is that saying the gospel truth to people actually saves their lives. Save a life today. Dazzol.

And please don't flirt with me. I like bad asss niggas and not guys who are scared of speaking up.

Freemanan:
No no no.... Very wrong... I don't believe the Biafra agenda is being forced on any One and if it is being done then those who are in charge aren't part of the real ideology.
Moreover, Biafra will never be realised. Nigeria must and will remain.

I understand your trying to be Mr nice guy but pulezzzeee spare me *rolls eyes* are you trying to say you've not being seeing them pounce on any anti-biafra SS person here?

I am one of their worst enemies here. They call me a Yoruba girl/man. Why? Because I don't want biafra! It's not only NL o. It's all over social media.

wapSmart:
Why must you do this.. Why must you attack people with words that can frustrate them. Every tribe have their own flaws be it Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba. Instead of us to fight all these Politicians that came from all the four cardinal point, you are here attacking Igbo.. This has to stop my brother..

Freemanan:
Dear, you speak as if you are a perfect ethnic group yourself. You know people say lots of things due to personal interest. Taking a particular speech from some "GOD knows who" to judge a whole race is wrong you know.

My dears. We all have our flaws but let's face it, when it comes to politics, these people just don't know how to play the game. Although I don't support all the tribal insults but look around you, they start insulting first. Now they have turned against SS people who are against their biafra. Forcing it down our throats and calling us vile names, accusing us of being Yorubas. Now tell me, be honest, how can such people possibly get good bargains in the country as far as politics and appointments are concerned?

It doesn't work that way my dear and it never will.

I thought they said last week that they don't need appointments anymore?

When I say these people do not have the slightest idea what they want now, some people will say I hate them but I'm just being the Sweetlemon that I am. My truths are bitter in the mouth but turn out sweet when you later digest them. Dazzol.

swtchicgurl:
You only use makeup when you know you are substandard

Meanwhile I can bet my next salary that this person and the likers of this post are tribalists.

Please how do I get the contact of the make up artist?

If op is really doing so well he wouldn't be crying like this. Cos real niggas help without expecting too much in return.

Listen guys, if you cannot do something for a girl because you care for her welfare then don't bother. Don't pay her fees once and then see it as some sort of bride price deposit. Hell no it isn't!
Give from the heart because you want to.

bukatyne:
@Bold: word.

There are exceptions though

Plenty of exceptions.....

Joavid:
You paid her tuition once. (Which I assume is cheap) and you give her some change every now and then. Ok.

Is that enough for you to say you laboured for her, you sent her to school?

Did she not give companionship in return all those 4years?
Was she not cooking, cleaning and washing for you?

Men and lies.
She's not leaving you cos you're an OND cert holder (that can still further) with a lucrative business.

She's leaving you cos you're an a$$hoole.


Modified
I woke up to see 30+ mentions from angry men.


Ladies, don't ever let a man brag about labouring for you or your family, even if he ever was.
I encourage women to be independent, but in some very rare extreme and emergency cases of needs. Don't tell him to give you money for your fees or bills. Instead tell him you want it for brazzilian hair or some other ordinary things then use it to pay your fees, so he won't come and brag like this.

What is a boyfriend for, if not for support.

This is some brutal truth though. Brutal but 100% true. The op enjoyed companionship while she enjoyed the money. It was 50/50.

Errrrmmmm. But she shouldn't have told him he's just an OND holder. It's not fair to look down on people. And yes I don't believe she's leaving cos of the OND. It was just an excuse. If your business is doing well enough, as in if you are making good money, most ladies will overlook that. I suspect op is not good looking or good enough in bed. Something like that.........

Fashola and Tinubu are like Tom and Jerry. No be today.

Rose2014:
What is happening in akwaibom is not the issue here. The issue here is why u can't be proud of ur origin. That's all

Proud? Don't I say it everywhere that I'm Oron?
Look here, I have given the ultimate proof of my tribe. I posted my facebook name here. If that is not enough to convince bitter irritants like you, then too bad. That's the best I can possibly do as far as NL is concerned. I no fit shout ok?

For God's sake leave NL for a while and go out to the real world! Ha!

Rose2014:
This is the latest propaganda being carried by your Yoruba and Hausa brothers. You've thrown confab report in the trash cos u don't want Nigeria restructured. Now as soon as Biafra is mentioned, u'll start saying let Nigerdelta create their own country. Just so the division can continue.
You know that's never going to happen either. The same people that doesn't want Nigeria to be restructured will create niger delta country for u abi?

You guys should try another line pls. This one has bn over used

Hey, my advice to you folks here. Stop concluding about things through NL. My advice to you is this, go to Akwa-Ibom or cross river and ask about their feelings about biafra. Or you can even make a facebook update. Update your status inviting akwa/cross people to share their sentiments about biafra.
Save screen shots then post it on NL for us to see. Make sure you mention me.

Rose2014:
One thing that gives him/her away easily is the fact that he/she says she loves one Nigeria the way it is now
Let's leave Biafra matter aside, The minimum anyone that is truly from SS should be asking for right now is restructuring of Nigeria.
Imagine someone from akwaibom saying Nigeria is awesome the way it is now lmao

Save ur energy bro

I've never said that Nigeria is fine the way it is. That's why I keep fighting for better governace. But if Niger Delta is to part ways we won't go with biafra. We will form our spectacular nations cos to be sincere not all Niger Delta are compartible.
Now, in case you did not understand what I told NVDF abi wetin be im name? I'm flexing with my loff. So I may soon have to log outta here when this asss tapping he's doing gets out of hand. Lol.
Later.



Hey, my advice to you folks here. Stop concluding about things through NL. My advice to you is this, go to Akwa-Ibom or cross river and ask about their feelings about biafra. Or you can even make a facebook update. Update your status inviting akwa/cross people to share their sentiments about biafra.
Save screen shots then post it on NL for us to see. Make sure you mention me.

NDPVF:
[s][/s]I said am done with u don't u get it?.Be proud of ur identity.thanks.

You're done with me but you keep quoting. At least me I'm still managing Ibibio but can you speak a word of Oron Mbok ki ibi inua fo! Unam ikot akamba. Mtcheeeeeeew!

NDPVF:
[s][/s]Akpara.That you have an Akwa ibom boy who always teach you pick 'n' drop a55 wipe my language,doesn't give you any right to be forming Akwa Ibomite.You are nothing but etere.mbok daka mi iso.

Imma imma mi is not anything Akwa-Ibom. Nobody in my family is married to Akwa-Ibom.
And you, if I speak Oron for you will you hear a word? Does that make you any less Akwa-Ibom than I am?
Ibibio is not the only language in Akwa-Ibom you know and I ain't Ibibio. I'm an Oron babe. My mum is efik. I'm always saying that.

NDPVF:
[s][/s]From today henceforth,never you ever come here to tell lies about your identity.Cc,dearpreye,Easternlink,Onenaira,Kotv,Phockphockman,pazienze,Mogidi,Barcanista,etc,This ediot is not from here.He is simply Akwa ibom wannabe.Take note.
Sweetlemon,am done with you.

Hehehehehehehehe I knew your game. That is why is said nfreibagaha. Meaning no problem.
I no get your problem. I no get ya time.
Believe I'm Akwa-Ibom. Believe I'm not. That's your bloody business. I have said severally that I'm Oron. My Ibibio and even Oron are not as fluent as my efik.
If YOU are Akwa-Ibom you will know that Ibibio is not our only language. If I speak Oron for you go hear am? Does that make you any less Akwa-Ibom than I am? Idiot! And why are you calling Igbos here? Why not call Akwa-Ibomites or Cross riverians?

Mmodi flex with imma imma mi. So mbok pkong mi.

NDPVF:
Ifod,afo atuke?.

Ufan mi. Nfreigbagha

NDPVF:
Akpara ino,abadie?.

Afo! Aka m mong?