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@ prince i thank you so much for advice and concern i pray that God blesses our marriage
i pray for us and ask you all to please pray for us and in return i, u

@all who continues to post
i appreciate everyones honesty, advice, prayers, and concerns. please continue to keep us in your prayers i thank u all very much may you all be blessed. your views and opinions are very much still welcome although i would greatly appreciate you alls prayers the more, however i am in the u.s. and its getting very late so i will be exiting the forum for now. thank you all for everything my dears. may God be with you and yours amen

@ bad mo fo
i kno wat is goin on with us although we both are struggles and are both stressed i still desire to be wanted by him and no other man could ever compare. my worry is that even with the trouble i am able to still be intimate with him. n i pray we can get through this though i thank u for your concern as well

@ okenwa

i dnt think we are eye to eye on that obedience thing since neither one of us like to treated like children respectful request is the way i think of it lol. he says he has never thought of cheating and for the most part i believe him its just that we have been distant emotionally for a few months and am asking for all the prayers of anyone who is concerned that we make it through this rut by Gods grace thank you all for your concern be blessed

@ noble
u r correct but i still pray we make it thru this with Gods grace. thanks 4 ur reply

@ poster

i painfully understand what u mean the difference is me and my husband have been married for 8mos and have no kids yet intimacy is not on the menu unless i initiate it we have sex maybe twice or three times a month and we both are fairly young i am 23 and he is 25. we fight a lot and he has been distant emotionally i know we have problems yet i can't help but desire my husband still and love him to pieces. thanks nl blessed and plaese pray for us. by
Gods grace we can make it through this

is the stress too much for him? does he still want me? am i still attractive? is he cheating on me? does he appreciate the meaning of intimacy. these are the question that are racking my brain. lately me and my husband have been emotionally distant and our communication is almost non existent. i know the stress is getting tense and we both are to blame for our childishness and have our own issues to weed through. i love him dearly and i want the best for us we are both still young and going through the motions. work, school, rent, etc. its shouldn't be this hard to make time to be intimate but with all of our wahala its been hard for my husband to desire me and I'd to think I've pushed him into another's arms. i am an affectionate young woman i enjoy pleasing him sexually(sorry if that was too much just painting a picture.) even when we fight i still crave him. but has the stress become too much for him? it is rare that he initiates intimacy, affection, and i cant but help but feel lonely, with a little dash of resentment because I've told him how i feel yet my feelings go unacknowledged. i know i may sound extremely selfish but all I'm saying is i don't feel my husband desires me sexually anymore because of our wahala. background info I'm 23 he is 25 loves soccer and ps3 and spends sometime on nl as well. we have been married 8 mos 6 days 12hrs and 22mins i love him so much my heart beats with each breathe he takes. my soul burns for his essence and i'm completely captivated with his presence. i am utterly and completely in love with my husband and can't wait for God to bless our with peace, love, and the strength to make through our wahala. i know it takes time for us to get in sync with one another but in the mean time we are both suffering emotionally. i just ask for nlanders to pray for us because i feel he is my soul-mate and could not live the rest of my life without the best gift God has ever given me besides my own life is the man of my dreams to spend mine with. thanks for hearing me out, its nice to have a place to express myself

If my man is not communicating with me as much, opening up to me as much etc all because there is someone else on his mind, then hes cheating on me; because thereafter, anything else can happen



wel my man has not been caught in the act or anything but we have serious communication issues and that fuels alot of my suspicions and insecurities in this relationship. and i think im pushing him further away with my accusations. i am very depressed and i have no idea what to do to keep our love strong. ladies fellas any advice im new to the nairaland scene but i would like honest opinions my marriage is suffering take this as a cry for help

Game on, Saints all the way

MELANIE FIONA A GUYANESE GURL FRM TORONTO CANADA, GOES SO HARD HER 2 SONGS IT KILLS ME AND SOMEBODY COME GET ME, CHEK HER OUT, NICE

it jus eliminates room for suspicon. but if you assure your woman and dont hold on to your fone like you gone die with out it i doubt you would have anything to worry about. seriously guys always give themselves away by being all weird about stuff like dis. women are natural born detectives any changes in behavior demeanur etc is grounds for suspcions. my advice, tighten up yo game dont b irratated jus be two steps ahead of her. if its not a serious relationship y do u care. if it is do your best to relay dis message(dat u aint gone deal wit her nosy ass behavior as nice as possible ) to her. if u care about her you will do everything you can to insure, build, and keep trust in your relationship
good luck
peace

i have encountered several cases where a man thoght it was okay to be overly agressive with a woman for several but obvious and personal reasons. but it is my strong opinon that if a man is wise, secure, intelligent, and matured putting his hands on a stubborn woman is the last thing he would do. no woman deserves it. could u imagine a man doing the same to ur mum and she had no type of defense. or ur daughter. its not right little boys use their pride or ego as an excuse to blame the woman they r trying to control. when they need to be checking themselves and their actions. fists  and hits can break bones but words can not do physical damage, its a sad thing to know a man can do so much physical harm to a woman, but would he even think to do such a thing if a woman was equally matched in strength.  hell no. he does this cuz a woman is weaker physically and tryn to show power over a woman. in actuallity ur jus showing your waekness by putting your hands on woman. the real show of strength is when faced with the chance to beat or put your hands on a woman you dont take it no matter what. unless your weak.

i wish men new what it was like to b powerless and in fear of someone else . that feeling alone is enough to make someone cry. your not suppose to fear nnobody but God. and he is more powerful than any man.  if u need fear to get respect from your woman than u is less than a man. violence begets violence and respect begets respect
[color=#770077](would be no need for violence if there was understanding) take 30mins to except love n understand d person u married n u would neva want to cause any bodily harm.  lack there leaves room for tension anger and soon enuff violence. despite what some men think women are human being before we r women and like to b treated with repsect. and as human beings man or woman constantly being treated and thought of with an inferior attitude by a spouse is enough for homicide. this is touchy subject excuse me if my logic is misunderstood. we are all created as human being its high time we treated each other this way. treat people how u want to b treated. easier said then done

@Borat
  how do you transfer and discard players. I tried clicking on then players i want in/out but it doesnt show anything like  make transfer like it said in the rules

How do you guys buy players in the league?It's not just working for me.