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biola44:
true,but u need 2 find dat special luv which family doesnt have

yeah and that is love, not true love

sistawoman:
All I can tell you is that when it is right and when it fits if feels like heaven.

I can only tell you that i kissed a few frogs to find my prince.

I can also tell you that I married the first time for all the wrong reasons and stayed for all the wrong reasons. That I loved him but was never in love with him.
I can also tell you that the first person I was in love with was a fraud and after 2 years the real him started to peek thru because he tried to change him to fit me and it was too hard to maintain. But that does not negate the fact that I was in love with the person I thought him to be and for the first time I knew what that feeling was.

and I can tell you that I am that same person and refuse to change who I am, so my man has to accept me, worts and all and love me inspite/despite my flaws.

But the fact remains, there is no such thing as TRUE love.
All "Love" is based on RECEIVING something in return, which subsequently makes it Not Love.
We all wanna be loved unconditionally, But it is Humanly impossible. True love is 100 percent acceptance.I dont think in this world today you can find that word,amongst couples.

sweetluvb:


i believe in true love n it does really exist, but u must strugle hard to find it

that is what make the whole love thing confussing. True Love…what does that even mean?  To me, there is only one kind of love, you love me I love you kind.  unconditional love are meant for only families

biola44:
true love is becoming a fantasy

thank you

sistawoman:
not if you take your time
properly vet the person first
and dont try to "make" it fit.

Please need to learn to walk away.  If it is not right now it wont be right after marriage.

In God's due time all things are reviled.  Wait for him he knows when it is time.

Sometimes women let the sound of the clock ticking force them into something that is not right and make them stay when they should go.

in the real world true love doesn't exist, that thing only happend in movies.  I don’t think that two people can fall hopelessly, romantically, deeply and irirrationally in love.  Mmm, perhaps that is a Misstatement.  I don’t think I can fall hopelessly, romantically, deeply and irrairrationallylove. that is not the world we live in today let's get realistic here. some people even go to the extend of saying "I will die for you my love. I wouldn't die for nobody

Epiphany:
Its called GLOBALISATION and like an earlier poster said, it is not only Africans that are imitating. The Asians, South Americans and most others are doing the same. It comes with whoever drives the world economy - they eventually influence the local cultures.

that make sense

Epiphany:
One last question: what are we doing to stop being influenced by the west or what are we doing to influence them back? NOTHING. WE IMPORT EVERYTHING AND EXPORT NOTHING. Even our crude which is collected locally is sent abroad and sold back to us as refined products. Shame!

sistawoman:
It does exist and I live it every single day.

We believe in open and honest communication despite how the other might feel about the truth. With that there is also the responsibility for the person hearing the uncomfortable truth to not blow up or "save for throw back". I feel completely safe in my communication with my husband and completely safe in sharing my complete unclothedness with him.
I tell you this love is different than anyother.

I guess it is one out of every one million. with the divorce rate being so high and everything else like that I just feel like finding your soulmate is kind of impossible.

funny topic

sistawoman:
Yes I believe in its existance.

nobody deserve to be trusted in a world full of lies and ambiguity how can true love exist? love does but true love doesn't

will I ever have a crush here? well let see

there is nothing like true love now, that was doing our ancestor time

platinumnk:
someone change their eye color its too distracting.

lie their eye colour is so beautiful

sexyLeamon:
hey sweetpie can you shut up with this virgin stuff IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN GOOD FOR YOU

JustGood:
you seem to have a problem with her mentioning virginity.

If you feel so badly about it, you should have preserved yours. I hear there are surgeries for hymen reconstruction. . . you may wish to try one of them. It is good for pretend-virginity - though you will know yourself that you're not one

@poster very wrong if you don't know very very wrong. how could you think of such thing?

wow thats good

JustGood:
It may not be about his friends. There could be a number of things at play and the guy is the only one who knows this.

but why wouldn't he tell her?

If you know your girlfriend mate, you won't need to ask this question. Its about trusting yourself to know what she wants.

maybe his friends complain about her some guys are stupid you have to impress their friends

JustGood:
You honestly think virgins go around giving blowjobs? where did you grow up?

JustGood:
What is old school? The guys you meet are the ones who dont want virgins. . . perhaps they tell you that because they know you're not one.

Which man wants to have the city's remnant for a wife except those who are calculating what they stand to gain?

now the real men are speaking

never married someone you don't love. now you will have to live your life as a compromise forever

a lady who didn't do anything sexual till she married is 100% pure

lobinoxebe:
i dont want to share the story here, just advice me,

they re like 5 gurls, They gave me Alomo bitters mixed with power horse before we started, I nealy died,


I have never seen this type of thin before ooooo

lol funny people

customer care roflmao somegirls

Ejadamen:
Was that supposed to a compliment or an insult? Try again. Meanwhile no need for all this talk. Sweetpie posted stuff and i objected and because of my comment I am easy? A woman might not be a virgin before marriage and that does not mean she is/was easy. BTW,i am happily married
I agree wholeheartedly.
This makes me wonder if all virgins never gave a Mouth Gig before getting married:-\
IMO,it doesn't matter as long as husband and wife remain faithful to each other while married to each other.

Sorry for derailing the thread. Ride on.

the pure ones wouldn't

lol that could actually be true I saw something

[quote author=ADORA.K link=topic=215851.msg4144397#msg4144397 date=1246899933]ok point taken but van is much handsam then majid[/quote]oh yeah