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fleezytran:
I've been dating for abt 10years now...I've hustled my way to where I am now. And now she's begging me not to propose to her cos she will not accept it as she can see dat I'm abt to do dat soon. What would you advise?

That you get things straight with her now before its too late, find out what she really wants and know how to sort yourself out now.

favoured234:
Its a really sorry case, but let me blindly play the guy that dumped her


I met this girl when I was 23 and she was 21, we both didn't have anything and the relationship was running smoothly.
2 years later (25) I went for NYSC and came back somehow we were breaking up and making up..
She has got quite a huge number of male friends cutting through all ages, I continually tell her that I am not comfortable with her associations with those people, after I complain it goes down and later come up..
On different occasions I have seen some really alarming messages on her phone that points that she is cheating but she bluntly denies it and cries high heavens (oh yeah I cant stand her tears) so I will forgive and let go...
Throughout my job hunting period she never left me just like a lot of other girls would do, she was the one that submitted my cv for this shell job I am doing right now... forgot to tell you I later found out that it was one of those her men that got me the job because she told him I am her cousin

When I got the job about 3 years ago she changed totally; she wants to know everything about the money I earn, how I spend my life, where and how I sleep, she was virtually helping me to live my life, again, her family controls my relationship in more ways than one.. The male friends doubled, I couldn't just be the man anymore.. at the slightest she reminds me of how she brought me out from the gutter

Yes don't get me wrong, I love this lady to high heavens, I have done all I can to make sure she sees things from my perspective but no way, so I wonder if I can stand this in marriage...

Fellow Nairalanders what will you advice.......
I know all of you will say kick her arse....
In summary there are two sides to a story

Yeah! And you left the part where you had to wait 11 years to do it.

fleezytran:
I know ladies will enter sympathy mode for the girl now...but when it's the other way round they find a good excuse. I will tell you a personal story if you care to know.

Its not about gender, I'll feel same way about the guy if it's the other way around.

jaybee3:
Your venom woke me up

*covers face* Oya no vex, go back to sleep

jaybee3:
Na you be the girl in question?

Why aren't you sleeping?

babamadiba:
11 years no b beans. I actually married my wife after 12 years so I know how it is.

I saw 15 years recently, and they finally got married. The funny thing is that, she said even though they dated for that long, it was still like she married a different man.

victorazy:
No man is mumu. Every man know what is good for him.

Yeah! After 11 years

obongproff:
Madam, chill. He will not reap anytin. Nothing will happen to him I can guarantee u dat. All dis our politicians dat hav stolen our money, did day reap anytin?

That's just the sad truth but this is just one of those cases where I wish the idea of karma is real.

Aystarz:
Typical Naija girl, dey must shaa curse when their relationships and those of their pals hit the rocks. Won fi seyin ni? Na by force to marry? So if u help a man now, that automatically translates to mean that he must marry u? Where u keep love sef.? Mtcheww!

Imagine! I'm not even so crazy about the help now, it happens! But 11 years? He is just realising after 11 years and you see nothing wrong with it? A child in primary 6 then can be a graduate now and you think it's not a big deal? Where is your conscience? Your comment shows you are capable of it.

mikketech:
shutup. What will he reap? One thing you ought to know here is that. The guy never did promised her marriage, and he didn't even introduced his family members to hers. So shut ur trash down please. Tho I feel for the lady, girls wise up and Bleep love instead of love fucking u.

See this Americana wanna be trying to practice trash talk on me. I don't blame you, I blame Hollywood, stewpid mofo. He didn't promise her marriage, 11 years and he is now realising it. Did you even do verbal reasoning in school? Because your reasoning seems to be that of a hooligan whose opportunity for exposure is Hollywood with no respect for the opinions of others. Do yourself a favour and don't get killed during the election being a political thug. Nonsense!

So sad, God will compensate her with a much better husband in Jesus name!
I can't begin to imagine what she is going through now, 11 years, kai! He will reap what he has sown.

Paul

Kai! Thank God for civilization!

mikketech:
hmmmm. U said excuse? The main thing is that I only told her no outing. But she didn't know I bought her a gift. Why should I give excuses? Nne say what you know please.

And as for the guy I lend the money, he needed it more than me. His mum is at the hospital. So know before u judge

Oga don't take it personal, whether your excuse is legit or not, it's still an excuse, besides I said that on a lighter note.

hatbricker:
Its simple, speak english everytime u see him, he'll die faster

You are not nice

This your excuse too plenty seff...
Btw did it cross your mind that your friend borrowed that money(if the story is true) to take his own babe out this val? Hehehehhehhe

answerspls:
pls tell me the meaning of the stuff I still don't know it . I accept whatever criticism but just tell me the meaning
thanks

Let me teach you how to fish

Next time, just ask Google, it will cost less mb and no embarrassment.

Start with lol... Type 'meaning of lol' in your google search bar. EOD... Before you ask, it means end of discussion

phrancys001:
No pixs of uroboo babes ?

Check my dp

Obviously something is being planned, it will be foolish to believe they can do what they've not been able to do for 4 years in just 6 weeks.
I just hope the plan is as dumb as their campaign plans so far.

simdam500:
Errrr.... op i hope it not because jega postponed the election...



By the way.... God punish jega for that step... what other excuse have u got to give my gf not to take her out.... truth is I have spend val money

See wahala o, na him cause am? If it's up to him, he won't postpone the elections.

mamamummy:
which fuel hike? Sit down in your uncle's living room and surf the internet 24/7 and keep waiting for GEJ to spoon feed you. Lazy bwoi.

Your moniker says it all

I think this is more specific to what you are feeling
Depressive Personality Disorder

mdokaba1:
Thanks bro, pray it helps

Please I just edited the link
Try the new link and I do hope same.
Btw I'm not a guy

mdokaba1:
Psychiatrist? I don't remain sayin am retarded or insane. Its just an emotional thing and to the best of my knowledge, psychiatrists hav no say in this.

Its depression and depression is a psychological thing.
Please take your time to read this article
Mood Disorder
You can quote me and ask if you don't understand any medical term or pm me if you are more comfortable with that.

Please don't take this as an insult but you haven't tried a psychiatrist. The problem is that we take things like this in Africa like an abomination and not my portion kind of thing. I think it's depression but you need to see a psychiatrist.

EgusiSoup:
You are a very big fool.
Wasted sperm..

This is uncalled for

Una don come again