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xcabczyxabczzzz:
How many people don craze so far?

I'm eager to know also
Your moniker sha

Bestie! Hhahahahahaah. It is interesting how she can still say all those sweet things to you after an action that kinda depicts you as a side piece. Good for you that you decided to brace up and face reality.
A lot of people do not deserve trust, men and women. I've been burnt worse than this so stop making it a gender thing.

piyoo91:
Thanks..i have enough money to cover all the expenses. Just that i have never been in the coridor of any higher institution before. Am just afraid that i will never gain admission because of my age

There is one way to find out, apply to as many schools as you can, just dont give up! It is important to believe in yourself and that you can do it. I've come a long way from where I started and one thing that kept me going was to not give up, I met some hindrances but I usually looked for another way to get through, as long as you have the determination to succeed, I believe you can find a way to get through and I am a Christian so trusting God helped a lot(if you are, the psychological importance of trusting God cannot be overestimated).

It is never too late. When I was in school I had course mates in their 30s who completed their first degree and came back for a second one and I've seen someone become a doctor in his 50s. You need to have a real plan as far as tuition and living expenses go and believe in yourself.

The guy that videoed the drama sha! He really went into commentator mode with interpretation and the whole shebang

Karleb:
Sincerely speaking, you are too soft.

Even my 10 year old sister always drag the knife with we the elders when it's time to kill Christmas chicken.

10 year old struggling for the knife to kill a chicken? Damnnnnn! You guys better watch out if there are signs of sociopathic tendencies and curb it now.

Jesu Christi! People are really into weird things in this life.

tunmiluabi:
Glorious! Thanks. In my marriage I was the one deprived of affection and everything that comes with being married. I never for once looked else where and never discussed with anyone except now on this forum. I have always known that my condition was not permanent. I and believed that I was going rewrite my own story. All I wanted was a go at an opportunity and for her to stand by me and which never came. But when it finally came, the deed has been done. Forgiveness is grace, I have done that already. I swear I have nothing against her. To be honest, she doesn't even know that I have a job. She only knows I am not dead. She has called to let me know that I should work hard to help raise my kid. I am sure she is surprised, I send money to her account on a monthly basis for our kid's upkeep. There is no need for me to brag to her about my current status. If she finally knows, it will great for her. I believe the greatest gift in life is not just knowledge or wisdom but grace to believe, believe, and believe again. At the moment, I have not taken a decision on what next line of action is but what I do know is that she is not in any of the my plans. At the moment I am concentrating on re-certifications that I have not done in years. I will update you guy as LIFE gives me more "feedbacks".

From the first part of your story, I had this gut feeling you were going to come out better. You sound so wise and patient. I pray you find happiness wherever it is. However, It is not so good that you had to go through this all alone with no outlet for such intense emotions. You need a family or friend that can be there even if it is just to listen but be sure to choose someone with a good heart like yours because it will be sad if someone with your kind of heart gets poisoned with malice and revenge because of your choice of confidant. The venting done here was a good idea. You deserve to be happy, whether with her or someone else so dont deprive yourself of family and what it represents. I hope you heal soon and move on, cause not healing means you're giving her more control to negatively affect you, I do believe you're on your way to happiness because you forgave her. I'm really glad you've forgiven her, what people dont realize is that forgiveness is as much for those that give it as it is for those that recieve it. This is the beginning of your success story. Good luck in the future.

LovelyDude:
Lie that you've not started having sex at that age, I'm sure you might have had couple of ex at that age.

Boyfriend at 16? Who dash me liver to try that rubbish at that age?

malcom1X:
There nothing wrong in marrying a 16 years old.

Na dem be this... smh

I cried when I saw that video. They murdered him in cold blood! It was targetted and merciless yet they never would have tried prosecuting the perpetrators if not not for social media and the publicity it got. Person pikin! Life is not fair indeed!

For where!

Netflix, spend some of your money . You can start with the free trial sha

My tip is try to get your papers the right way and look for a naija sister with papers too. That will take away the major trust issues of being played by a naija babe back home or in America. Things people do for green card is quite unfortunate.

[quote author=Bahamas95 post=89302191][/quote]That's really true. She had such high hopes for me and everybody trusted me at home and school. I also feared the one time I would indulge will definitely lead to pregnancy regardless of protection then everyone would think I was pretending all along. A boyfriend wasnt worth ruining my life in secondary school.

He body shamed her and casually talked about suicide at the same time. Not cool! With the swag talk it doesnt even seem like she was trying to cause trouble

Hhehahahaahah... they were not oloshos jor, they were models.
Those days... sun models, Hints magazine. Hints follow spoil me for secondary school Good thing I couldn't bear to disappoint my mum by having a boyfriend. I had to make the woman proud.

Davash222:
Both ladies are hoes!

What makes them hoes?
The first didnt cheat on him and broke it off before getting another guy.
Granted I'm appalled by how much trouble an iphone can cause with the second but how does that make her a hoe?

You trusted your ex with your finances and she didnt betray you, actually helped you with it from your account, she left you but it's not cause she cheated or was two timing. I think she deserves another chance, especially if she has learned from her mistake. From what you narrated this new lady has nothing on her in terms of how well you guys worked together.

A decade already! Mehn I'm getting old

IlovePMB:
What is soul?

I'm not bidding. You're looking for someone to argue with

You just put your soul on auction

Oh my God!
If this is how she understands facemask and God's word then someone should please read Proverbs 4:7 to her...Wisdom is a principal thing! In all your understanding, get wisdom.

sosa993:
You’re very right. Online relationship scares me but at the end of the day, don’t we meet strangers physically?

Exactly! Reminds me of the netflix show love is blind where the biracial couple admitted they never would have even considered approaching each other or ending up together outside if not for the show. They ended up married and the most beautiful couple of the show in my opinion.

Sometimes I forget the iron lady Dora Akunyili passed on, God rest her soul. I guess i just like to believe she is out there still doing her thing.
As much as I hate to admit it, i agree that Kemi Olunloyo deserved the honorable mention.

Well I have been there and even though the online ish didn't mask his assholery, i liked that i was able to discern he wasn't perfect. Now falling in love with someone online that appears to be perfect is what I'll be scared of.

Iceberg3:
Wetin this one come mean na!!!

Bad belle

budaatum:
It's scary. Even cancer patients are scared of going to hospital for fear of catching coronavirus. Meanwhile, cancer tumors don't take a break from killing!

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-52382303

Well that's the irony of the virus, those that used to frequent and depend heavily on hospitals cause of chronic conditions are now at increased risk of getting the virus and are advised to stay away.

Sad! Likely cause one VC or/and registrar decided to be merciless in deciding against a situation they or their relatives cant be in.

Issokay.... I never get time watch am

IlovePMB:
If we ask they will call us Ipob.

Come to think of it, if Nigeria should separate now, it's only fair for IPOB to go with some of the debt burden since
[s]the east also benefited from the loan as part of Nigeria[/s] politicians from there also participated in the looting