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Ayindesegun10:
I'll try my best. #Team_Fynestboi

thanks sirsir

HMMM...

lol

I think its best u move on ambgiano. unless you'd just hurt some more.

He looks cute tho

HMMM....funny story

hmmm

obiorathesubtle:
Okay.. Go on

obi no one is perfect. I don't know what u mean by a woman should know how to cook everything, so I'll just assume. what if I come from a family that eats a certain type of food and I can cook those meals well does that mean I won't get married cos I can't cook all type of meals?

naijamakossa:
I won't hide from u bae vizkiz is my guy
but I will try my best to support fynestboi to some level
but if vizkiz and fynestboi made it to the grand final my vote will go to vizkiz
I am honest with you bae.

OK thank you.

obiorathesubtle:
I've noticed you.. You create sensible threads on Nairaland.. The Romance section precisely..



Here's an advice for your own good.. If you want to keep your sanity for all things right in this world.. LEAVE ROMANCE SECTION!


Btw.. You don't gatta make a List.. To be considered fit for marriage, you have to know how to cook everything!


And I mean Everything..

I disagree with u obiora.

naijamakossa:
request..?
Wats dat
go on dear.

pls I'll like you to join my team.... team FYNESTBOI

naijamakossa:
correct girl

pls I want to make a request.

naijamakossa:
LOL it is very funny so I want to know the connection between kissing and closing eyes and the funniest part is that even before you reach the lips as you are drawing closer the eyes will be closing slowly until finally closed when the lips are finally locked together.
did they want to see the holy ghost
sandoski
annnikky
berlyn
kingcheezypuff
makydebbie
do you open your eyes when kissing?

I guess its to feel if there is any spark when kissing. you'd know a bad kiss when the other person eyes is wide open in shock. and besides when u share a good kiss with someone, UR eyes just closes,it might be reflex I dunno.

hbd....wullnp

Ioannes:
Awwwwwnnn... you really must have a strong crush for this guy. I feel honored that you are asking me and I promise to vote for your guy when the time comes. That much I can promise.

LOL,thank u sir for joining us.

30secs:
Hello Switann, Hope you guys are fun?

yeah we are. so are u with us kind sir?

30secs:
Hello Switann, Hope you guys are fun?

yeah we are. so are with us kind sir?

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pls come join team FYNESTBOI, we need your support. PLENTY kisses for y'all.

Ioannes:
Good morning. Please go ahead.

pls I want u to come join team FYNESTBOI. plssss

infogenius:
I am back to talk objectively on the main scene in this post.

Quite frankly the op made a mistake. She made it for love as stated in the post.
Did your husband ask you to open your legs for touts? You willingly allowed those riff raffs have their way without ur husband's consent.

Not every man at that scene will understand the sacrifice you made because there was no mutual agreement between you two on what happened. You decided too.

The job of your husband amongst other things is to protect his family. He never gave you that mandate even at the cost of his life. How dare you open your legs without your husband's telling you to?

What makes you think that your husband is not even thinking that you just wanted to have fun?

The husband is mandated to protect his family which includes making the right decisions even at the cost of his life to achieve this.

There was a similar incidence in my area in Festac when I was growing up. According to the report, the woman was even moaning to the jerks of the touts.

That event ended her 6 yrs old marriage as her relationship with her husband broke until they finally divorced.

I will not open my eyes and watch touts ride my wife without telling her to do so. I will rather die.

I have an obligation to protect my wife even at the cost of life.

I am not perturbed by what anyone says about the man been unfair after the wife was raped because of him.

The man had the Final say even at gun point and since the woman gave in ignorantly, she has a lot job to do to win her man back

you couldn't be more wrong.

Ioannes:

loanne please I want to make a request.

Ioannes:
Well didn't you read the part where she wrote that she had already gotten help?

According to her she's seen a counsellor and she's ready to move on, but the husband is yet to come to terms with the fact that he couldn't protect his wife and so he needs help too.

Hope you get it.

OH okay then.

Ioannes:
It's good that you got counselling. But obviously the person that needs it more is your husband.

Let him get counselling too or professional help from pyschologists.

If that doesn't work, you may need to let his mother know what's going on. Don't wait until he impregnates the neighbor's daughters.

well just cos the woman wants to have sex with her hubby doesn't mean she wasn't affected by the rape,she is d victim here okay. they both need to see a professional not just d husband

smartigo:
Madam, thinking of sex after being rape is very strange and it makes you a strong woman. Unfortunately, your husband isn't seeing it that way. so the issue now is how both of you can see things the same way to manage and appreciate each other.
1. Don't disturb your husband too much about it lest you give him the impression you enjoyed the experience.

2. What you need is healing of body,soul n mind. Then you can talk to your husband about going for a therapy because you know how he is feeling but he should also remember you are the bigger victim.

You are feeling not wanted which isn't what is used to be with you and you want that back,r right? you will need to give it time to heal.

3. Lastly, pray for God judgement on those thieves, healing for yourself n family.
peace madam.

well said...

ccffwx:
Let no one be selfish here. A woman agreed to be raped so that her husband would live. Raped by more than one person. This shows that she loves him. She is also traumatised not just the husband and deserves love and not selfish egotic excuses. Sometimes I wonder if most Nigerian men are selfish. Rape is never the victim's fault.

yeah true talk but the man will also be affected psychologically. therefore making him behave that y,he just needs some time and few sessions with a psychologist.

lol....so funny

its not entirely wrong

SAINTSAMURAII:
yeah babe.

cool

olihilistic:
me and you no get beef.
SWITANN

good

hmmm

SAINTSAMURAII:
As for me i went to morning mass, so im back.

u a catholic?

adeememman:
Bros take things easy. I want you to know that I understand how you felt, I often think same way that when I finally make it, I will make those stupid girls who had made my life hell just because I couldn't satisfy their greedy thirst for money pay for th deeds. Until recently I changed my mind and considered that unnecessary. You are not as wise as God that made you to be where you are today. Look around and you wil see those that are more brilliant, more holy than you are, yet they are not up to your standard. We are all living b the grace of God. I will advise you let it pass. If you can sincerely forgive her just as God forgives your daily sins, marry her but if you can't do that please let it slide but make her realise what she did was bad.

true talk