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XXXXTENTACION:
No problem we would revisit this your remark very shortly.



come to think of it if dbanj was your brother would you side him or not

andrewtosin:
going well jare.... Care for pm?

joviegghead:
Hmm.
Painful ladies classify marriage as a great achievement and let this worry them. Worrying and hunting for a responsible man to talk of marriage.

Op, you said you're pretty, right? Let me ask you:
Do you have sense? Like are you smart?
What are your goals and and aspirations in life?
What are you doing to develop yourself intellectually, financially etc?
What are your achievements?
Where do you see yourself in the future?

The moment a girl can define her life in terms of what she wants and hunt are dream life, trust me, things like finding the perfect man will be the least concern. Why?
She'll have men of the best sorts coming for her.
Girls love successful, accomplished guys. It's the same when the genders are swapped.

Get it through your head. Beauty isn't all. That's what the wrong guys look at. The right guys, look for content. Aim for that. If feel, you have that, be patient.

XXXXTENTACION:
Ok if you think dbanj is guilty you can go ahead and charge him to court then. Nobody is stoping you.

XXXXTENTACION:
so you believe her side of the story.

andrewtosin:
okay. I thought you were making jest of me

andrewtosin:
I didn't get it?

andrewtosin:
I'm okay

andrewtosin:
I'm okay dear.

You should have answered in your dialect na

andrewtosin:
Kee kiime?

andrewtosin:
babe you haven't told me your tribe oh?

Staphylococcus:


Money first!

The case of Biafra would be like Sudan. The whole world thought North Sudan was the problem. After break-up, South Sudan became a war zone

extol1:
maybe not in our contemporary Nigeria. even by response, you can't stay with such a man that earn that kind of money.

extol1:
would you agree to date me if I tell you that I am collecting 20K per month. be sincere

efosky1246:
This is a very stupid mentality. Financial stability is a must for every right thinking man before going into marriage.

You're not doing her a favour by being a provider, protector to your family. Your legacy dies without the right woman. And your building doesn't end when you marry. Your 1 million will turn to 10 million with the right woman.

It's weak men that think they need a woman to build with from scratch and any woman getting into such an arrangement is shooting herself in the foot.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

I wear my intellectual cap abi thinking cap while reading between lines with keen interest
I understand the message you are trying to pass

You mean say
Wetin go be go be!
Which means our action in life most times don't change our destiny...
Maybe true sha o

Because some girls with their annoying character gets a nice man.
And the ones with nice character won't get anything.
Life is really funny sha and life is not fair

mikebabs101:
ladies should stop saying this. In most cases, even when the man was broke, the lady was still a liability and offers not much than sex and little gains just because she hasn't found a better option, even if you check most ladies that claim to be with broke guys , they are still cheating on the broke guy with more comfortable men and trying to expand her tentacles if she will lucky to land a ready made man. I have one in my contact , always forming love and love quotings with one broke guy , but will readily come and give me a good sex anytime I want with just 5k. So its just normal if the broke guy decides to change his taste when he become successful cos he only pretended, endured and took a lot of shits cos he doesn't have many option when he was broke.There are exceptions though, but these exceptions are mostly from girls from a relatively financially comfortable family not the hungry ones we have these days

donbachi:
my sister,morning is for breakfast and not dinner and dem no dey fine black goat for nite..mind u,most of the married people.dat married for material things,nyansh and breast are regretting it...cheating here and there is as a result of marrying for something dat is not love...they are also wallowing in sadness...may GOD give u speed in life as u fine a life partner,prosper u and give u,ur own kids..have a nice Sunday...labonita.

Stephenomozzy:
Very immature.

Stephenomozzy:
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How did she get to be liked by the so called useless, immature and jobless ones?(I don't mean being toasted/wooed). Work on yourself and surround yourself with people of like minds, build a circle and live your life.. You'll surely find someone who at least ticks some of your boxes.
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All human endeavors are with their risks, love and loving is not any different. Men take a risk to love just as much as you think woman may be taking a high risk.

To say many men in Nigeria don't have ambition is an insult and a biased narrative. That a man is not pushing for what you would term a blue collar profession doesnt make him any less ambitious. Everyone has a defined hustle that they're pushing for (legal things of course)

ednut1:
stop contradicting your self. Can a man on 20k salary think of marriage. The situation of the country is deteriorating. If a woman has money and her bf is poor nothing wrong in her being the bread winner. That is why there are many ladies over 35 singles and frustrated. Majority are looking for men that can give them big Cinderella marriage. Una go tey for una papa house o. If the desirable is not available the available is becomes desirable. If u no gree u either stay single or become old cargo

PUSSYHOE:
what do you mean by "u look for better jobs"? I asked you a question you answered why assumed I am in that category.

you see hypocrisy and selfishness? some women but not you, you can't but some women should.

PUSSYHOE:
can you marry a man with 20k job? stop the hypocrisy abeg, it is your thread for God sake!

donbachi:
Today is sunday,stop misleading people..u had all time to choose or make amends.but u did not.not like they weren't coming,they sure did.but greed and love for material things didn't let them you/them see mr right.as for the guys.they allowed their love or lust for big nyansh and breast to over cloud their sense of beholding true beauty of a woman..they were busy doing fine boy and curvy girl..na time don pass.u come nairaland dey encourage ur sef...u better behave.

kurupt1:
The building part is the riskest part?
See una mentality? So u want a man to build and sweat and u just pack into his life without building with him?
This is not how the older generation saw life.Most women then started from scratch with their husbands!
Continue to look for who has built,let you park in .What a lazy mentality
Do you know what it means when you are someone's wife?

Samadhii:
In my own opinion, the hardest thing to acquire is a job as a fresh graduate. I don't know if I'm the only one :PIn my own opinion, the hardest thing to acquire is a job as a fresh graduate. I don't know if I'm the only one

Stephenomozzy:
Immediately a person takes their mind away from material aspects of life, it eases the possibility of finding a partner.

Sometimes, our expectations are so unrealistic that we can only have the kind of partners we want in dreams.

If you want perfect, without putting effort to build (i.e not getting to know a person who likes you and see if you may actually like them on closer look), then first be perfect yourself.

kurupt1:
Yeah ,especially when women are looking for a rich man in a country where 70% of the population are poor .And most young men are struggling.