JohnOkolo:


That girl is a No No.

see person

Jennifer89:



So your problem is how your mum will go down with another man? Oga her husband is late and you are all grown if she wants to remarry allow her to please, in fact suggest it to her abg

All she needs is companionship and even if sex comes in what is your business? That is why I love 'Oyibo' people coz you'll see a 60 year old mama looking for love

these kids believe If your are old u don’t need love anymore

Luckysbab:


Oga, the truth is bitter. That girl is way more matured than you are.

If I had my way, I will advise her not to marry you sef.

Na your type go dey trouble your wife over petty issues. You don't deserve her.

Also it is grandchildren, not groundchildren abi groundnut children

I Dey tell you ,,, men that think like babies, no critical thinking at all. Shame no even catch am , small pickin sense

krushdripper:
Note this OP, Girls will create male accounts and make up stories just to spite you on this like they're already doing cos you've seen the incoming danger from one of thiers before hand, pretence and fakery is thier nature. no one knows or understand your mom or gf like you so do what you feel concerning the matter and don't let anyone spite you cos of it.

I hope u listen to this ode , and destroy ur relationship for nothing

Geofavor:

The game is truth or dare. You said truth, so I asked a question and expected an honest answer.

ur question has no relation with my life so would pass

pDudd:


My dear you are lucky to be a Nigerian woman. But Nigerian females are gradually becoming like Akata women. Slowly but surely.

our thinking and ideology will never allow us to get to that level

pDudd:


Ok so therefore you understand the situation then.

It's easy for us Nigerians to criticize them without walking in their shoes.

When I was young in primary school, I will bring home excellent report cards with like 4th or 5th positions. My dad will be asking me if the person that carried first had 2 heads.

One of my AA classmates in school told me that right from when she was little, her mom used to tell her to stop wasting her time with school because she will never make it.

See the difference in our situations?

their inferiority complex is appalling and This thinking is passed on from generation to generation, I know there were slaves and all but not anymore, and I feel they are living way better than African, black Americans in particular are given more opportunities compared to any other black foreign person . But they hv the lowest self esteem ever .... they blame slavery but never want to blame themselves for their shortcoming. As a Nigerian , I rather hv a white American friend than a black American, this is not racism . But damn I can’t deal with the negativity they hv chosen to carry as a badge!! Call 10 black names in the world and 7 would be black Americans but their adverage population still think the society is the problem, then how did others survive. They even had a black president.

I was trying to understand their perspective till I actually met one . They are angry for mostly nothing and do not take instructions. They want everyone to believe all their brothers are in jail cause they were black , that if it were a white person it would be a lower sentence but if they tell u what their brother did , u be like what were u expecting Eyes rolled* they carry guns everywhere they go for protection, not against whites but their fellow blacks , and whites are the problem? I can go on and on. I really don’t know why black American women are single but I sha know that most of them hv low self esteem, rubbish thinking and terrible bad character. If u see the way they fight in public for nothing, u go shame for them. Africans are way more civilized in thinking and way of life .. blame it all on slavery right !!

pDudd:


Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.

for the sake of this post , i think I am glad I am Nigerian woman and not an African American woman. What a life

dorleey:
yes, women do love more than guys. 4 most guys that remain heartbroken 4 a year, wat is paining them is not the lady leaving but what they 've spent on them. u no, most guys can be selfish. they believe that they were the only ones that sacrificed in the relationship, they dont consider the fact that 4 d ladies to accept them, it is a great sacrifice.

I feel it’s very normal tho ,, the pain is always more when u invested a lot in the relationship, financially and otherwise. If a lady spends for a guy and all and he becomes trash , it’s always more painful .. women love more , men of nowadays hv bad character so hardly u see a lady invest in a relationship because most men cheat at the end of the day, so why invest in a nigga that’s gonna Bleep any bitchhh at any given opportunity? Except she’s desperate for marriage. We use our head now to love the love .

Lalasticlala I like this thread ., front page

Geofavor:

Is this your 2nd ghost account, bro?

I don’t understand?

TRUTH

Madam go to Una Muslim section and raise the issue there . No let me talk weyti go pain u .

Preshieben:
Babe
Don't let love fool you ohh
These guys, they know what they are doing.
If he had really wanted me,he would have pushed on
Imagine just one attempt,he expected me to jump to his proposal..at the first attempt
No na... that's not how stars do

Fuckkboy character, don’t mind these men! They want us to keep being foolish

rasheedatt:
I seek to know because some think am a weirdo

you are to some and not to some. Learn to deal with that. Continue with ur life babe❤️

rasheedatt:
I seek to know because some think am a weirdo

you are to some and not to some. Learn to deal with that. Continue with ur life

I hv a girl friend who her mum has gone for 10years,, she said she can’t imagine her father remarrying. Am like how selfish!! He deserve happiness and companionship. She says maybe when everybody is married . She’s old enough for marriage and the last born but non of her siblings are married yet. Yes these things happen.

Why worry?how will our comments help?

Preshieben:
Good morning to y'all


Have been single for the past 11 month.since I broke up with my ex,
I decided to stop dating and focus on improving myself,learnt a skill(Makeup tho)got a job before lockdown while still studying...
I so much enjoyed my single life
I turn down guys I don't like and friend zoned alot.
Then I met this guy online,we chatted for over two months
I liked him,his personality and every other thing about him
Was ready to stop flirting and get serious with him
I was actually waiting for him to ask me out,and when he finally did,I turned him down, wanted him to put more effort..told me he can't take A No for an answer and then blocked me on WhatsApp.I had to go delete his number, Deleted everything about him.cos I hate nonsense
But what could be the reason he blocked me?

babe I know , how u feel , being blocked by a guy for no genuine reason ,,, some guys don’t know how to deal with rejection .. if u like him you would hv said , yes na. What I know is this is a sign , so don’t bother about itb

DrFunmisticGlow:
Don't bring children into this world that belong to a man who cannot take care of you and them

Dont date a man with more than one baby mama

Mandela27:

Gracias fam!
And about that hoe,She isn't worth my attention .

ehennnn??

Mandela27:
I used to think being an INTROVERT is not normal and one must change his/her mentality to being an extrovert,I used to be uncomfortable with my nature until now..

being an introvert isn’t normal , its a mental disorder .

Ebenezer202O:
mammy water child
abeg leave my mentions before u visit me for night

na ur mama u Dey talk about ,

Ebenezer202O:
ipob spotted.
keep being deceived

I am not IPob!! Dummy

jneutron4000:
Do you think Ambode is not smart?? do you think Jimi Agbaje will step down for Ambode to have pdp candidateship?? Ambode you all are ignorantly insulting is benefitin now for his loyalty to the party and the progress of Lagos state. Apart from the fact that he is getting his royals from being ex governor, he is not being probe for anything finally he might replace late senator Bayo Osinowo. So make una dey use una brain and not emotions, make una dey think of future and not only the present situation. Edo can never be like Lagos because Lagos actually has a blueprint for progress and developnment.
Finally the whole situation is a loss loss for Edo, because they lost a voice at the Federal level which is Adams, if you are smart, you will understand this point now but if you are not, you will realize it later in the future.

this ur epistle makes no sense , howvhas the so called federal level whatever benefited Edo State? U made no point

Ebenezer202O:
Failure supporting failure.
I wonder why Obaseki can't read the handwriting on the wall.
Atiku should stop wasting his resources, thought he sacked his staff cos he couldn't pay them but here he is wasting away resources for a sore loser

Atiku is a multi billionaire , how much is staff he can’t pay ,, please don’t believe every nonsense u see online

Hmmmm u all hv a problem with society ?? Na wah

Shile981:

I was having a crush on her before my guy told me he want her, and because I don't really chase girls, I left her then for my guy to make his move

relevant questions to be asked : how long did their relationship last ? How did they break up? Does ur friend still talk about her or wants her back ? Do u believe ur friend ever loved her ? Is this particular girl in love with you too? When u answer would give u my advise .

andrewtosin:
You watch wrestling?

yes I love it . Good morning dear

andrewtosin:
they don't interest me again sef.

By the way what's the difference between WWF and WWE?

it’s different wrestlers in different platforms. WWE, smackdown , WWF , RAW , there is new one , WWE has the best wrestlers male and female . John cena is in wwe , I think Rock is in RAW. That’s just how it is .

andrewtosin:
they don't interest me again sef.

By the way what's the difference between WWF and WWE?

it’s different wrestlers in different platforms. WWE, smackdown , WWF , RAW , there is one one , WWE has the best wrestlers male and female . John cena is in wwe , I think Rock is in RAW. That’s just how it is .

joviegghead:

True! But such cases can be attributed to other extraneous factors..

Family recommendation
Taste(which vary according to individuals)
Fear of insubordination if they went for a sophisticated lady.

And so on....

these things hv no formula