This is a very underrated thread

makydebbie:

Your mother is mine as well, I'll relay the message to her. When you want to quote me next time, try harder with accurate spellings and punctuation.

I see u everywhere evaluating spelling and punctuation,, sis get a job

alfredilly:


still maintain. I can't but marvel at the view some modern Nigerian youth espouse about American. You people opinion is purely based on hearsay and ignorance. Mind you, I have a brother in US who works in the oil sector. Many guy from my town who are close to my family has has also left for US. One left two years ago. Within a year of being their, he works in the naval.
Yes, I agree there are gap when a new migrant needs to find stability but that isnt peculiar to US. In fact, it is worse in some country. Beside, it is better working without work permit in US than being in some country. US still remain the home of free people due to land mass. The police brutality or racism you guys talk about isn't new in America and was witnessed in higher scales decades ago. Shebi they can protest now, in the past, the killing and brutalization of black might not even create a spark of reaction. The 60s and 70s in US could be likened to slave era. Even the law we're openly bias against black. This has reduced over the years.

Listen, I still maintain that US remain a land of opportunity because of their high level of industrialization. I once search online, the number of oil company in US, I was still counting over 30 oil company each of which is richer than the richest company in Nigeria. Many world largest multinational have their headquarters in US. America remain the land of opportunity and home of big business if you dear to try and plan

I respect your opinion but I stand by mine , and my opinion isn’t based on hearsay .

dlaw70:
LEGAL ADVICE NEEDED.

I bought an MTN SIM, registered it with my correct details,recharged it ,activated it and started using it since last two weeks.
The problem started when different people started calling me, people I dnt even know and never had their numbers.This particular lady will call me and start speaking Hausa from the beginning to the end.from my life little knowledge of Hausa,I can understand her calling me BARAWO (thief) .this lady in particular has frustrated me with calls that I am now confuse with life.
The other issue is,when I try to save numbers on the Sim,it bounces back(does not save),even though the Sim card has just two numbers are n it.
Finally,I called my Uncle working with NNPC yesterday with the number and I was shocked at what he said.He said from his true caller,it is not my name that displayed.I tried calling another friend that uses true caller just to realize that it wasn't my name that appeared.
Because of all these,I seriously need legal practitioners to look into this and tell me if to Sue or not.this is my WhatsApp number-08120572518

same with my glo , there is this number that calls me everyday speaking Hausa, like daily preaching ,,, I don tire ,, Many Hausa people calling and I told them I bought the sim , when I reported they said the person registered that number on true caller n they hv no control over that , but in their database it’s showing my name

Be God go help us

If u hv something taking ur time u won’t be so addicted . If I hv nothing doing my phone is my bestie , that’s not about to change anytime soon

alfredilly:

US is the best destination for anyone who desire to make it big. Yes, Europe, North America and probably Australia are what we should come to mind when we refer to abroad but in US come ahead of Canada any day. I'm a bit surprised at the obsession of young Nigeria with Canada these days. It is an nice place to be though with good welfare and facilities, but USA come ahead in big business and opportunities. You may travel to Canada and be satisty with all you need to live a meaningful life but the opportunity to make it big and send money home may not surface like the US. In US, the chance are there if you plan hussle and dream big. It is the headquarters of world capital.

please there is no where u would travel to that u can’t make it big ,, because Nigerians And Africans are so fascinated about America don’t mean u don’t hv equal opportunity in Europe and Canada . Do you know how many black people live in dumps in America? Yes there is a lot of opportunity due to their economy, but there is already a very high population of blacks in the US. B4 u get a proper work permit in the US , u will sweat and suffer as an immigrate , with a student visa u can’t work for more than some specified hours , and destination to your school , and this is because of the high rate of immigrants! B4 u can hv a stable life in the US , even with family . U would hv stayed there for almost 10 years , getting a green card is like gold . So at the end of the day u are going there to wash plate for 4 to 5years over there. In Canada if U are given visa u are given a work permit ,,, same thing with Europe countries , except Uk , but their policies are still better than the US. Then the police brutality and all , it’s a black American palava, but ur black skin and ur Nigerian status will still be an issue ... the time u would use to suffer there , u can stay in Nigeria and be hustling and trust me one day thing will be good !!! Except ofcourse u are going there to do drugs like most of them do and never tell you ,, if you are from a rich family that will sponsor you to nursing school till u graduate, praise God , but school fees isn’t cheap !! So which hustle are you going to hustle there?

Mokason28:

Nice . plsss Chat me up on watsapp... I wanna tell you something very important

yeah sure if ur picture is on ur profile I will , but if not I won’t

Mokason28:

Are you from south south dearie?

yeah

Mokason28:

Kisssssssss sweet like sugar

Jaqenhghar:

Oga I wont stay in that dump for 1m every month. I tell you in the long run it is not worth it. Oyinbo talk say quality costs less. Even the cost of running a generator and your own pumping machine is enough to keep you depressed. Dont get me started on the monthly donations to mechanics etc

oh please who never travel, go think say u all hv it rosy ,, u all pay for water , and electricity bill isn’t cheap . The only cheap thing in foreign soil is junk food and data. U buy ur pumping machine and it is urs forever , even if u no get gen when light cm you pump ur water , if light no Dey u can conveniently beg ur neighbors and fetch from their place for free.. a 20 litre Geri can, is 10naira in Nigeria . Some of u all pay lowest 100k in Nigerian currency in a month for rent .. the government benefit from every single thing .. make person hear abeg .


If you can’t travel stay here in Nigeria and hustle .. if na Ashawo u wan do u go still make am

Mokason28:
This Ize-Iyamu sounds too desperate and frustrated
Meanwhile Edo no be Lagos and all South South states are now freeee from Fulani agenda and it will remain like that forever and ever

Amen

onoja12:

Slave mentality,oya go and be sucessful there,the generation of our youth have been lied to,i have traveled and i tell you Nigeria is better than 60% of the world


uote author=osamz007 post=91624997]THERE ARE SUCCESSFUL NIGERIANS IN LEBANON

NOT AS IF I'M NOT CONDEMNING THE LEBANESE BUT WHAT WAS THE MOTIVE BEHIND HER TRIP THERE

I HOPE NOT FOR QUICK CASH AS. MANY DO.

people don’t know this ,, my uncle has been in the us for 15years and has no house to his name . Hes trying build in Nigeria. But he’s mate here in Nigeria , hv cars and are doing very well better than him , the only good thing is the 247 light . There is nothing so amazing that would make me want to relocate totally or think maybe there is a better life there , I wish there is more availablity of Jobs in Nigeria . But then again people are being employed daily in Nigeria

makydebbie:


The guy is as dull as you are. You can now fvck out of my mentions.

tell that to ur mother

omoharry:
successful Nigerians in Lebanon as domestic help or business people or those that went on professional ground? .Both job are different and wide apart in the treatment they receive.
The domestic help are practically like slave to their employers. whose freedom and wellbeing is determined if the employer is kind or not .So who are the successful Nigerians that are there .If Lebanon is that rosy, how come so many of their citizens are in this same Nigeria with in doing businesses everywhere . Everything na abroad for una eye . Even their currency is garbage as compared to our naira.

@bold ! I swear . The only aboard I know is Europe , Canada and US. and even with the wah blacks and white keep fighting in the US. I don’t even want to go there . Europe and Canada is the best place for any black person as far u behave urself . There r wonderful Europe countries with less stress u can migrate to

I use to say this, if it’s prostitution you want to do , u go make am for Nigeria . But shame no Dey allow girls .. if u can open ur leg for a smelling arab u are already a disgrace , a lot of prostitute in Nigeria cashing out. And they still get married . Just carry urself well .

needanswer:


if that guy doesn't learn to control that urge now, one day they will accuse him of rape, he may rape his daughters or something worse.

let him break free biko

okay

God 4bid this happens in Nigeria !! We go just finish for this country

Juliusmomoh:

I was introduce into the world of mastubation by a friend of mine. He told me he also learn it from his friend.... He said he tried it and it is good... Then we start mastubating... That is how i start mastubating ...
It as affect me all way round mentally, socially,academically..... Even spritually. And i can't stop it since 2014 .. Pls help !!

get a girlfriend, if u can’t find one continue , it’s better than fuvkikh oloshos up and down

needanswer:


make I clap for you

OROSUNBOLB:


You're already sounding like a broken gramophone; you ain't making any sense ! Perhaps, you need to look up the meaning of companionship in a good dictionary for you to have an idea of what it means. It means a feeling of FELLOWSHIP or FRIENDSHIP ! Are you saying this FEELING can only be gotten from a "spouse" or that it is limited to marriage ?

Obviously, you are unfortunately blessed with an absurd thought process and that's why you seem to have a one track way of viewing issues without thinking logically through them ! It did not occur to your feeble mind that a 52 year old is an adult that is capable of making her own decision without any stupid suggestion from a randy ( apparently) girlfriend of her son ? And according to your own Methuselah's wisdom, she could only get a feeling of companionship by remarrying ! Are you being deliberately stupid or something ?

You need to get down from your high horse of thinking that you're older than everyone of us here on Nairaland. The fact is that some of us are old enough to be your parents ! If you are married,your husband must be passing through some hell right now !

if u are really older than I am , then u really suit this phrase , a fool at 40 is a fool what? Forever . When u done being pained, u can shove ur opinion up ur ass ..

Ayoolajames007:
Sex is d most powerful creative force in the universe,dis sacred connection has been downplayed 4 d sake of fulfilling bodily pleasure.
Preserving dis life force has unbelievable powerful benefits to males
When a male climaxes during sexual activity he depletes his core and gives up his life force,dere are physical nd psychological effects to giving up dis force...as a result, d mind isn't as sharp,balance nd stability is lowered,core strength is weakened,energy level is lowered amongst other side effects

We are biologically programmed to desire sex. It’s natural. But dere are risks in taking d animalistic approach to sex-life management. If one entertain this desire without careful thought,one will find himself creating a number of problems in how disciplined one is in other areas of life. Anytime u deny d body it’s desire, u strengthen d mind's ability to govern ur actions. Dis denial encourages careful thought before action, especially as it relates to lust. Lust, when acted on without wisdom can lead to long-term consequences such as damaged relationships,unplanned children,divorce,depression, nd countless others. A special discipline is needed to contain sexual lust...u can only build dat by exercising denial nd setting a standard dat u can actually stick to.

We can achieve more if we spend our sexual energy wisely. Our sexual energy is like crude oil, a valuable nd important natural resource. To maximize its power, we must refine it and use it to fuel productive creation in our thought and creative lives.
I implore single guys to abstain from sex.
Premarital is a sin
1st Thessalonians 4:3-5 says
“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God….”

1st Corinthians 6:18-20 says
“Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”

If u've had premarital or extramarital sex,all hope isn't lost,God is more dan willing to forgive u of all lust nd free you 4rm impurities Turn away from sexual immoralities and seek to live under God’s gracious nd forgiving love.

For those of u who do struggle with burning passion,continue to wait patiently for the right time. Sex is a wonderful privilege dat comes with great responsibility. May d Lord bless u nd keep u....STAY SAFE, STAY BLESSED!

I just watch porn and masturbate . Everybody Dey form holy when them don marry . Abeg make person hear

OROSUNBOLB:


Madam Methuselah,the point is if the old woman desired a male companion, she would have made a move to get one for herself. Does companionship necessarily mean having an opposite sex as a friend or companion ? The senseless girlfriend made a "suggestion" that the old woman ,her boyfriend's mother,should remarry ! Like she can only get the necessary/needed "companionship"through marriage only ? What if the woman's holy book or fellow widow is her companion ?

Yes,companionship is necessary but it is not limited to opposite sex.

first of 52 years isn’t old and which other companionship beats a spouse ? What kin of miserable thinking is this oo, so a fellow widow should be her companion? So u believe this your suggestion is better than that of his girlfriend? Lol small pikin sense

Someone7:


So you were upset but weren't real enough to say it? Your girlfriens is a woman (if you haven't noticed ) and she may understand your mum's position even more.. Drop your ego and think about your mum..

Exactly

makydebbie:


I feel the girl should've minded her business sha. But this op sounds like a silly child to me.
You brought the words out of my mouth.

there is nothing like mind her business in this issue , they were obviously hving a discussion and she brought up her suggestion. She spoke to her man about it not like she told her face to face or forced it on her ,. U folks really need to know when to use the mind your business word . As far she’s concerned, this is family. Every little thing, mind your business. Sis please if you hv no one you care about . Don’t rub it on anyone .. the only issue here is the guy is dull

OROSUNBOLB:
Though it's a suggestion as somebody put it here. But the question is what triggered such a suggestion ? Did she observe that the old woman could not cope with her loneliness ? Was there anything to suggest that the woman was not comfortable and needed another marriage (man) in her life ? Like the old woman was incapable of taking a personal decision and that somebody had to "suggest" what's good for her ?

Sometimes,learning how to keep shut saves a lot of troubles. I would lose confidence in such a girl too. She has succeeded in portraying herself as someone who can't do without a man or the so called "Companion" in her life.

I bet all the people saying all these ain’t more than 20 years . Companionship is a necessity!! Not luxury !!

victorian:
Op, let your mom live in peace. You think to get married again to a man is child's play? It's lots of work. And at 56? Trust me, she's not ready to go down that lane again.
My dad died before my mum at age 90 years, my mum was 55years back then. She was always alone, either cooking my meals and gisting with me as my chat buddy whenever I got back from work. Sometimes I get to see her reading her Bible. One day I asked her mummy, are u not lonely? Don't u want a man to keep you company? She smiled. She shook her head and said no. She is not ready for man wahala and she happy and peaceful seeing me working and getting myself together. That I'm the one who's suppose to marry, she has lived her life and no man can replace my dad. She's not just ready for any man issues. That I should marry and give her grandchildren.
I sighed, I said OK mom.

She looks peaceful living alone without a man and she died peacefully,5years later.

Op just leave your mom Abeg. Let her live her remaining life in peace.

Then your gf? Let her know mom is not getting married, end of discussion.

like you actually expect her to tell you about her romantic life ? All these children self