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budosky:
Same nonsense every time. Why can't you use your real moniker? Very dishonest fellow. I pity those buying the yeye ebook

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Na wa o

EBook .... Only the gullible would fall for that crap

Well I think if you're called upon in certain cases, you should. Especially when you've considered the personalities of both parties. I'll give an example: I needed to travel for one day to write a professional exam, but my husband refused to let me take our two little kids (under 2 years of age) to my parent's house for my mum to take care of them. He said he would care for them himself. (Note that his mother was out of town if not i would have taken them to her). I wanted to make my mother-in-law aware if the situation so that I won't be accused of abandoning my kids for my career. I tried to call my mother-in-law, she wasn't picking, I sent her a text explaining the situation and then proceeded to call her again. I was shocked to see that she was talking to my husband about the issue on the same line that I had just tried calling. My mother in law totally refused to take my calls because she was of the opinion that couples should keep everything between themselves. My husband went ahead to take away my copy of the house keys, he locked the doors and said whenever I was ready to go, he will let me out, in order to ensure that I don't come back later to take his kids to my parents' house. I had already assured him that I wasn't going to take them away and I was opposed to leaving without a key since it will be very inconveniencing for me to go on such an exhausting journey, return and not have immediate access to the house. My husband's whereabouts is usually very difficult to discern on account of the nature of his job). Again, i tried to get my mother-in-law to intervene because I was running late but she still refused to take my calls. I proceeded to take my husband's wallet which he left in one of the rooms. My intention was to use it as an exchange item so I can get the keys from him. Unfortunately, this got him very mad and in a bid to get the wallet back from me, he pushed me and I hit the back of my head on a glass table resulting in a head injury as revealed by a CT scan. In all of this, my mother-in-law still refused to take my calls even though she could hear me shouting and crying through the phone. (recall my husband was intermittently on the phone with her while the fracas was going on). Since that day, I haven't called her again, and she hasn't called me either. Even when my parents informed her about my head injury by text (since she wasn't taking their calls), she still failed to even give me call to find out how badly hurt I was. This is someone I have loved and respected as a mother all this time, we have never ever had even one disagreement. So the point of this long narrative is, sometimes it's okay to intervene if invited. By refusing to get involved, she has effectively destroyed our relationship forever. I cannot honestly say that she cares whether I live or die as long as we obey the golden rule of keeping everything between ourselves as a couple.

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Why won't he allow you to take the children to your parent house

Hope he allows your parent to visit ??

nini1:
Nah real wah

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Haaa. O ga o

Is she married now??

Do you still see each.other( may be once in a year??)

nini1:
Waoh. It is well.
Reading thru the thread get me emotional again, after all what I went thru with the lady, even doing introduction we still goes our separate ways. She's now a single baby taking care of d twins alone. I'm married to another lady too. �

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Hmmmm

Na wa o

Tracypacy:
Is it a crime or a taboo for A Muslim man to get married to A christain lady, without the family being a barrier?
Should love come first before religion and Family?

A friend of mine going through this and needs to be advised on what to do.

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Haaaaaaaa in this country

Why

Are there no more Christian men to chose from

Wetin be this

Lizard pepper soup

BukkyDan:
funny right... I know it sounds stupid... but then I felt it would bring us closer. maybe I made the wrong decision...

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Do you have a job now??

If no... Who pay the bills??

You resigned in this economic recession just to be with someone who might not marry you..

Original babalawo in lagos

Where in Lagos you go see that one

Try other States in the country

Winning01:
Modified. More items available

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Pictures of the small fridge

Bribery

Goldenheart002:
I gave birth in R. Jolad 4months ago, CS is 250k while VD is 175k

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Thanks

This one that public hospitals are on strike..

Who has used r jolad, gbagada, Lagos before... How much is their normal delivery package, cs biko

This nonsense can never happen to me

That's why some ladies prefer sugar daddies

Girls, you better start asking guys how much they can afford and make sure they pay before you order

Hmmmm

Same way some foo'ls will discourage you not to relocate to Lagos

Nigerians

clemzo101:
Do u watch border security at all?

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Please where can I watch border security

Sorry dear

Xcelinteriors:
Shior to you and your generation. Imagine this idiot o. I sent you a message requesting for pictures which I respectfully told you I don't like any of them and you started abusing me. Oloriburuku why did you block me, you should have let me send you back to your parent that didn't train you very well. Please show everyone where I insulted you. What could warrant you insulting me, please no one should buy from this retarded

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Audina:
if you were told maybe,you would have picked offense
thinking its first timers mushy mushy...

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Stop replying her biko

[quote author=Audina post=67276643][/quote].

Stop replying her

Na wa ooooo

AJJ17:
My own 13th March.
Stayed in an hotel Overnight from 12th around Adeola Odeku because I traveled from Ijebu and I don't want to have issues of traffic and late coming.
I got there around 8am 13th March from my hotel room , my interview was scheduled for 9.30 am.
Fast forward to waiting room security check where I have to remove my belt and wristwatch and put them on again after checks from one unfriendly fat lady.
Got in another queue for finger prints an all ,observing everything going on around me.
Eventually I was behind just one person and I became nervous because the way was lady VO was drilling the man and daughter before me going on for about 15 min was crazy but were eventually denied , the man was like why why why?

My Turn,

Me. Good morning ma.

VO.. Good morning. Your passport pls.

Me.. Here it is.

VO.. Where are you going in the US ?

Me..Atlanta Georgia

VO.. for what?

Me ..for a conference sponsored by my company.The conference name is .......

Vo..oH..mentions the name

VO .how long have you been working in the company?

Me..altogether 6 years because its an organisation with different sector ,one in steel the other one paper , I was with steel for 2 years and transferred to paper 4 years.

VO..you are in charge of so so and so?

Me ..yes ma

VO. are you married?

Me.Yes.

VO..for aw long ?

Me..1 year 3months

Vo ..how many kids,

Me..None yet but my wife is heavily pregnant dd may

VO...after some few min of doing what I don't know on her PC said Unfortunately you don't qualify to travel to the US this time and she gave me the Blue card,

Me ..I was like wow ..thank you.

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You want to leave your heavily pregnant woman alone