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I wish that was possible hot stepper if no be say the food go spoil i dont mind.
I will also tell you to help me go to mamaput in shittabay
kai I MISS HOME  

na wa o @big shi shi, please what is gambashi?
hot angel why is that food there u are making me hungry i havent had ewedu in like 8 yrs
i miss home

LOL

i cant stop laughing

HELP

i am a size 10 top and 12 below. i will be be going to nigeria this year and i heard its all slim girls reigning there that i have to slim down to an 8 and 10 or 8 and 8 if possible is this true?

somebody i get your point very well now and what you said is true but its not in all cases and for any level weather graduate or professional except you are residence or a citizen, you need a work permit. i see some job advertised as well that they say that they only want students form certain universities but its like one in a thousand job adverts

as for seun i wish you luck whatever you want so far you work and pray hard at it you will get it

i am trying to write seun but it is returing nwoke na wa for this site o

it needs some testing

Hi there ,

Somebody i disagree with you on that. The reason is bescause i am a business analyst in a major investment bank in UK and i also take people on borad to work and there is no discremination what so ever in selecting the right candidate.

The only thing we look for is to have experience which is one thing that may be of help but SeunO may not have. Its not difficult the only requirement is that you have a work permit and little experinence and it will be a great help if you can lay your hands on some financial courses. At the moment credit risk is a major market.

no u guys thats exactly what happened

i was only trying to trick an old friend that called me and left a message on my other phone like i was someone else, because he didnt have the number i texted with so i thought he was going to flow with me but i ended up sending it to another number and then BAMM, my man saw it

please this is not a laughing matter pls help me

please help last night my boyfriend picked my phone and saw a text i intended to send to one of my old friends and i ended up sending it to a guy my man has been suspecting me with , please what do i do i am heartbroken and so is he but i dont know what else to do i have explained and apologised but it doesn't seem to be getting anywhere

please tell me how else i can go about this i dont want to loose me

Me for one I wont lie I was really feeling the guy until I got to the line he said he wants a woman that will shower him with gifts , he is mad he probably needs a man not a woman how can a guy say that if he is not gay

Secondly he asked for too much from a woman without stating much of what the lady gets in return I think he is a 419 just looking for someone to pamper him …….also “ready to face challenges ” what does that mean challenges like what , if I see him with another woman I should stand firm or what ??/

As earlier said I will delete the message . if he had said I need a loving and caring woman to be with for the rest of my life I think I would have applied but with all these qualities he obviously is ugly because fine people don’t say they are fine …, dishonest, NOTGod fearing, NOT a decent guy ….got a bad heart,, and he probably is a drop out

this topic is common i have a friend and she left her boyfriend and she started dating his friend, i used to cal her all sorts of names then , she is getting married to the guy next week in fact i am the bestlady ,,,now i fell stupid, i think i can do that too afterall the same biblical cord did not tie us to earth so why cant i , but in exceptional cases where i am this girls pal like theway i am pals i with a friend of mine bose i dont think i can ever date her ex, no matter what , so my answer will be yes to a friend i am not too close to but no to very close friend

LOL, LOL, LOL
U guys trip me on this site you really do

@luface is it not one day u met ur girl/boyfriend so its possible i found love but
@itoco i am still open as i am not yet married to the guy i can still have a chat with you

ISACCSMAMA , QUIT

what did i say QUIT

Check out the man ,,,had a baby 3 years now , not even a shirt he didn't buy for t the baby and then your family , he disregards them what do you need that kind of arrogant, wicked man for ,,,a man that will have baby and neglect him is not  a man .he should be sent to the woods to leave with the animals.That is pure cruelty , even if he doesn't love you he should at Least love the baby, from what you have said no matter what you do he doesn't want you for now

Or you said before the baby he was dying for you and after the baby he no longer sends you . i will give you an advise if having your lovely baby has made you not take care of yourself again, then i reckon you change that or if you were slim and figure 8 and now you are like big and stuff , then i will not blame the guy that much for running away so i will tell you take care of yourself , burn the baby fat look elegant .beautiful that even people will not believe you have a baby , then tell me if he will not run back. i wish you all the best caring for a baby it is not an easy job but God will see you through. am not been harsh i am sorry if i sound that way i just get really pissed when a man treats a queen like this

DONT DONT DONT GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE IF YOU DONT WANT TO

Let me tell you what is wrong with him that is making him all over you ,

HIS EGO

he can't believe a girl can leave him, if you go back to him he will only switch the emotions and break up with you and not look back so girl move on with your life
you had your reason for breaking up with him so donT compromise that if  you don't want to be in deep S ****T

Your man said you are not giving him enough love( is that the reason he gave you )

Firstly how do you give enough love? because for some men no matter what you do ,you don’t love them enough let me coach you on something , you see this men that we girls are dying for and they don’t do the same in return they don’t know what they have until they loose it COMPLETELY. When a man makes that type of statement in their own terms it means I want to leave you alone but I don’t have any excuse to do that so I will use the fact that you are not giving me enough love.

I had the same issue with an ex- boyfriend, one time he said I wasn’t showing him I loved him enough. There’s nothing I didn’t do for this guy. I did everything any normal guy would love. I treated him the way any normal guy would love to be treated but he still sat on the fact that the love was not enough . For God sake this guy( I said to myself) you are just a boyfriend not yet my husband you should be the one to worship me and want me and do everything for me, it shouldn’t be the other way round .Unknown to me he was already seeing someone and no matter what I did he did not see it . Fine it was hard and I let go of him…he dated this other girl but they didn’t last a month. He wanted me back so bad he did everything he could and he got me back. Like 4 months after like they say , a tiger never changes its stripes the whole,,,,,,,, I don’t think you love me enough started again ….but this time around I just left him , till today he still wants me back but I know that I can never go back …, trust me I still love him but I had to let go because if I didn’t I will be the one that would hurt at last and the same thing will keep happening over and over again ,

Margarita, No matter what anyone says here, you will still do what you want to do. Experience is the best teacher, if you don’t learn you wont have experience so if you wan to go ahead go, but I tell you if another girl were to go through what I have been through I am sure they would have committed suicide. I am a strong black intelligent and hardworking woman ………, heartbreak cant break me again , instead I will break heartbreak, its not me that is this way but it is what men have made me become.

I wish you all the best but be strong and leave your heart open for anything

na wa o one man wants his girl to be a slave in this day and age, that guy must be straight from the bush even village girls cant be slaves not to talk of a working class i beg home girl , your leg break , abi you blind , even if you are you dont deserve to be ANY mans slave for no reason on this earth

ABBA

what can fa?

@ fluffy …please yearn me my story

asking your exes friends if your ex. still likes you is crap ,

His friends can NEVER be helpful even if your ex was on a girl his friends will still say he (youR ex)is still in love with you


so cut that crap if you want to deal with your man deal with him on a one-to-one basis

DONT INVOLVE HIS FRIENDS ( they will be smiling with you to your face but they have actual drank your blood behind you) they are great pretenders

so GIRL

FACE UR MAN DONT INVOLVE HIS FRIENDS

i don't care how good the other company is , all i am after is the money , if i can be 1 million better off, hey what the heck, i will leave without thinking,

I took one of these Molue buses on my way to school , I was with a friend and she said that if we say we are staff , the conductor will not collect our bus fare from us
When it was time for us to pay I said “Staff”, the conductor just moved back and was like efun milaye ,,momaju awon omoyi sita(give way I will throw these girls outside) if you see the rate at which I gave him my bus fare, I even forgot to get my change.

Another one was one day I wore these suede skirt and I walked pass oshodi…. The sales men there just started pulling me left and right shouting APOSHE … that day I started praying for the ground to open

So what funny or embarrassing experience have you been through in Nigeria

Holla bk

not anymore i found love yesterday

Honey, I have been in that position before I want to ask you

Firstly, your boyfriend said you should break up (to me if a guy says that, I feel he had nothing for me) I am saying this because if your man noticed that you had drifted apart then he should have tried to work things out with you not to tell you to go your way.

I also read your plan I tell you guys are DOGS, if you do that to him even if he didn’t want you , he will pretend he still wants you just because they are selfish…they want to eat their cake and have it …, he will only play along with your plan and once he is done you are out again……
What I think

I think for him to be the one that broke up the relationship, he should be the one to call you and say he wants you back . you are only wasting your time by thinking about him (except if he is also thinking about you). I am sorry to say thses but he may have moved on with his life and you are still here dying over him ….


No matter what I say (do what you feel is best for you). I am not a relationship breaker, the truth is bitter and iam just giving you advise on a past experience


1, Who broke up the relationship…if it was you then I think to cool down your mind it is worth tellingthe boy how you still feel about him

LOL @ mekky

this is a serious case oh, and you people are using it to do momi n mo e

its not like she comes all the time shes been ther once ad when she comfrinted her man , he said there was nothing wrong so far he had nothing to do with the ex anymore and that his sister can bring whoever she likes to his house

Oh my God why did you do that?ANYWAY,
the did is done but i know it is not the end of the world i think you should speak to the head of the school regarding this situation. But pray first before you make any steo i wish you all the best

Please I want you guys to help me out with this question I have a friend that leaves with her boyfriend okay. …. the boyfriends sister is a friend to the ex-girlfriend of the guy do you guys think it is right for the sister in-law to bring this girl to the house my friend leaves in with her man. I think this is wrong but I don’t want to say anything to her regarding the issue so you guys is this wrong or is it just me?