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Depend on the location, because only building fit reach 7 to 12m, and if u want to add furniture that house should 12 to 20m, my opinion sha.

Try to read and understand, he go save u

Angel55555:
Who told you her death is yahoo related? stop assuming without facts.

Ok goodnight, u can quote me when

IconicR:
The aunty is in her early 40s while the man should be in his 50s

Is the aunt up 40 or 50? And the man

IconicR:
I've never really have the experience but maybe I'm this shocked because of the aunty involved. That type of aunty you'll never expect such from and the man's wife can even vouch for her

Like seriously, it is the first time u experience such incident when they never even bleep sef, abeg no let me put story 4 u

IconicR:
They have awaken the spirit of curiosity in me. It's a case of experiencing the unexpected from an unexpected person. The whole thing really affected me, like I'm never going to trust anyone again, it kind of break me.

No wahala, if u have the guts u can confront her in a polite way.
Quote me when u

IconicR:
She shocked me to my bones, as in that type of aunty you can never expect such from. She can't do me anything but she'll be so ashamed before me and will lose her confidence which is why I'm still holding back . I'll still use style to check her phone during the week to see how far they've gone. I just pity the wife in all of these

This two places crack me up, u must be something else o girl i don laugh tire. Ur husband/boyfriend must becareful, u just be like fbi

IconicR:
Yes she like him and there's been exchange of I love you and I love you too from both of them.
The man was even asking her the percentage of her love for him and she said 100%

You go funny well well i swear. The chats just dey burst ur head, take it easy things are bond to happen and we have to accept the reality. U don't know if u confront the aunt and she might get evil plans agains u because
1.she will be afraid whether u will tell her cousin, which will result to everybody hearing the update including their family.
2.she is working under this man so if the news fly it might affect her work.
And u know ur gender anything that will stop their chopings they are ready to die for it. So it is also a very dangerous task for u as well.

IconicR:
Yes she like him and there's been exchange of I love you and I love you too from both of them. The aunty is very shameless to have fallen for him, the man was even asking her the percentage of her love for him and she said 100% . Shame is catching me for and that's why I'm holding back in confronting her because the man's wife is acting clueless around them,

Must they kidnap people in that part of the country everyday. Don't they value human again.

I fight depression for 2 and half years, so as i dey like this i no dey fear anything again because i don experience hellfire on earth.

Vickho:
broke for 2 years?
Wasn't it depressing?

That is life for u. But it is the man that is forcing her according to u.
I still believe that woman go fall for him, it just temporal yanga, she already like d guy but her conscience they worry her small

IconicR:
From their chats she has strongly resisted all form of private meeting or physical romance aside their exchange of love chats, so I think her conscience is still working for now but that man is not backing down, he's hell bent on sleeping with her and the aunty told her that'll never be possible. I don't know when I'll recover from this shock because the aunty is someone I never expected such from.

U can tell the aunty in a very calm manner without making her feel too bad, talk with points and she will wake up. But the biggest problem as a man and from experience the man is the major problem here, even if u tell the aunty he might still bleep her because many women are very easy to bleep in this type of situation, but still yet let her know if she get conscience he go worry her well well.
As for u, u need to respect urself and mind ur business, if thing go one way u are the one to be blame because this life get as he be, so u urself need to observe ur moves before they call u name.

IconicR:
I'm closer to the aunty than the man, she will be so ashamed if I confront her. As for the man seriously I can't stand him, we are not close

This matter just get as he be. U said he is the one responsible for her work, that means he will bleep her for sure, can u talk to this man? Like are u a bit closer to him?

IconicR:
I want to confront the aunty that why will she decend so low to fall into the trap of this man. In their conversation the man was telling her that he had loved her right from when he set his eyes on her during the introduction ceremony of his wife. She foolishly gave in after little pressure.

Some men sef, who do u want to report give?

Tithe as how, for the small 25k

MorataFC:
Pay your tithes

Bayelsa here it will be around 1500 to 3k.
But don't suffocate the hungry people with delicious pictures, they might don swallow spit/saliva tire

My man is in love.
Pls i want to ask a question is the mother living with ur father or they are just enjoying theirselves for the moment?
If they are living together i don't think it will work, but if they are just enjoying theirselves, since u are in love there can be changes but it will be very hard.
Father they bleep mother
Son they bleep daughter.
My friend has done this before sha.

As far naija is concern birth rate will be more than death rate. Nigeria get population man, this country no get ending o.

internationalman:
I don't think birth rate is higher than death rate in this country..

Now I'm beginning to believe the guy that said Nigeria population is overestimated

Rest in peace to the lady

It is well, no need to even check because i know u only retaliate back when u are insulted badly. Many things even my self post is to have fun but many people take it personal and start to insult u even at the slightest opportunity. After now i will comment less and discuss with very few people because that one is even more enlighten.
Nairaland is a faceless forum that is why people always misbehave.

Samantha124:
I didn't use any insults or anything like that... You can even check the comments.

I got banned for saying "hunger will kill me", that was the last time I was able to post and my statement got deleted... It's the only statement that was deleted from that thread, meaning I got banned for saying "hunger will kill me".

I hope I don't get banned on this section for repeating the same statement...

Do u later insult people or it is because of that statement they banned u or is there any other thing u later got involved. Because what i knew and saw fr6m ur comments u are not that violent, but the violent people always type rubbish and go free.
I can remember i got banned from all section for 48 hours because of a comment i made in politics section. But sha i get other account.
Do u have another account?

Samantha124:
At around 5pm, but in Nigeria it would be around 4pm because of the different time zones.

Great, happy 4 u

Welcomme:
I am Yoruba. I have always wish to marry a Hausa lady and God brought one from Kano state my way.A very good Christian.

I didnot said all, though the ones i come across was good for me.

VinnyBaba:
When it comes to Woman, Age CANNOT be used to judge them.

Where are u from? and would have like them if ur wife is not from their?

Welcomme:
Hausa because my wife is Hausa from Kano state.

I was even suprise when i saw ur post. So when did they ban u?[quote author=Samantha124 post=124464084]Personally I don't believe in a woman just sitting at home doing nothing and relying only on a man for financial support because things have changed now.

I'm very much capable of looking after myself and I also feed myself because I've got a job.

I was just joking when I said all those things on romance section, but they didn't take it lightly and I got banned..

I swear nairaland take things very serious, i can see how they was attacking u, but i was busy with work so don't comment i only read the little i can.
So for now u banned from romance' like seriously.[quote author=Samantha124 post=124463815]I was bored and just playing around, I knew that if I said something like that, a lot of nairaland guys were going to react...

And they didn't disappoint me one bit, they came guns blazing.. I even got banned from romance section..

Even if a woman senior me 1 to 5 years, if she has the qualities i found in a woman i will marry her, because what u want in her is respect and understanding and if u leave her for a more younger girls they might not get the qualities she possess.
I have once dated a woman who senior me with 4 years and i can tell u i enjoy my relationship with her, till date even though we later part ways, there is this understanding many of them get that this small average girls don't get, and i enjoy bleeping the ones more older than me like 5 to 10years differences, especially their moaning and seriousness..
my man the choice is urs. Goodluck

Everybody just want to make it by force in this countrx, men are into ritual, yahoo, drugs and other fast ways while girls are running after already made guys forgetting that nothing is free in this world and nothing good come easy.
It is well' rip to the d**th.

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I don't know, you the one who said it so u are in best position to make it clear for me. By the way how far, how is SA

Samantha124:
Why are nairaland men so sensitive and like taking everything seriously?

Do you really believe everything I said in that other thread?

There is this trauma that comes with when u have a son/daughter who is disabled or handicap, they always come to ur mind where ever u go and u don't want them to overthink it because they themselves are in trauma and parents always want them to be happy don't want them to feel cheated because they are physically challenged. I can relate when my consin lost his leg to cancer, the girl always c6me to my mind because she was walking well before that bad incident.
It is very bad and challenging to have an health challenged person in ur immediate family. Let becareful with whatever we are doing out there.

It is well, we are now grown up with responsibilities to fulfil here and there.

And in the other post u said men should take care of their women, it is well

Samantha124:
Girls are future breadwinners..