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Mindlog:
You come UK with your wife and kids, you wan form boss and massage your masculinity by being the sole provider.....na from where you dey do your shift ambulance go rush you go hospital.

nigerian men show their masculinity by behaving like boss... This statement sound like nigerian don't marry women who have some cash and assist the family.
Because i believe men are living fine with their women with no problem attached.. So ur husband telling u he's the man of the house is an oppression to you and u belive he is behaving like a boss? Over there everybody is a boss, and between the marriages over there and here which one crash most?

The same common sense u lack by quoting me...

Otunbakayce:
This your statement is devoid of common Sense and it's quite insensitive.

What is meaning of your (husband telling u what to do)

Mindlog:
Combining resources, cuts off unnecessary stress.

Any one who seeks "control" in marriage or dating, have underlying issues and is using it as a coping skill, though negative.

The way u sound i was thinking they were being controlled by their wives..

Mindlog:
Acknowledging your limit, will not effeminate you.

Wailers food don set..

Akwamkpuruamu:
Wetin to learn

is not by force to learn...

Loud...
In the next 50yrs they will change many of this churches to bars and restaurants..
Because of too much pressure i follow my woman to her church today, imagine this people have 6 different types of offerings and packaged them with different names. After 4 offerings i whisper to her ear, say na church house we dey, madam say make i no worry, na so I leave the church house go and smoke my loud in my house ...

Blingchic:
Do what works for you

The only answer to this unnecessary arguement.. Situations and challeges play important roles in our life and bring changes to our way of thinking..
Your mindset when u are in ur early 20 is different from when u are 40.
You mindset when u are single is different from when u are married..
If u give urself unnecessary rules and regulation you might die single...

So all the men in uk behave like women?

Mindlog:
You come UK with your wife and kids, you wan form boss and massage your masculinity by being the sole provider.....na from where you dey do your shift ambulance go rush you go hospital.

The writeup is funny and interesting.

izonborn098:
Any woman who call any man broke is 90% sure olosho..

Ex or future hollow show

Really' wow, sowing seed to one pastor in other for him to use ur sweat feed his children, build universities and bought private jet is farming?

Dtruthspeaker:
You no know say the whole world na farm?

Highest manipulation ever. Sow seed in church house, say the church na farmland...

Because sex is manipulation, and they know without sex they will find it hard to manipulate u...
They want you to give them all the money u are spending on drink because u didn't told them the drinking is even better than them..
Women are fear and respect men who don't take sex serious...
Louuuuud8....

Mohbad don die, let the boy be we know nothing is going to happen. Important thing is people should learn from the story..

God bless u

dacool1:
Don't mind all these kids here on nairaland. Don't give up on your ideas. I just think she's having a wrong mindset thinking it's a control mechanism or she lacks indepth understanding of the subject matter or she's selfish. Forget all these independent talks from people here.

How is she independent when she will be controlled by a coy, she prefers to work for other people's organization than her family. Most women have this problem.

If she doesn't understand the pros and cons of her decisions, try educating her but if you sense she's putting herself ahead of the family, you will have to appeal for her selfish nature by making her see from how it benefits her more.

It's most likely she wants to have some level of freedom to move around without getting queried. If this is the issue, just plan your retirement without her in the picture for now. When she's about 50years old she'll come around.

Good writeup..

You have read different stories here on nairaland so no need.. Not me but somebody i know..

successmatters:
So you have zero experience of this topic?

You don't have to quote me because is not necessary..

yimor:
N yet they use tout to do their dirty work, why not send spirit instead they send tout, guy try dey think as u dey type

PrinceofSarcasm:
You cant even spell words properly , and your grammar construct is so poor!. Is this one educated?

Pls never quote me again, only speak to your kind pls just pls

A simple question but u decided to insult him as if you get any standard..

With my loud...
Na u dey open teeth waaah with him, abi na him dey feed you? Bros no make me vex o...
Bendaniel1616

No mind me'' The toxic nature of the forum make think they are about to insult our women... Smh... Lol.. U can see samantha also drag me because of my comment..
Any way have a happy sunday...

1Sharon:
W/o reading op's topic, you should already know his content Is directed at nigerian men.

Nigerian women need to sit this one out. It's not our fight. They issues SAN's have w/ nigerian men, have nothing to do with us.


If you say you're not into SA women, you should sit this topic out aswell and don't take it personally.

The nigerian men that are into SA women are who this topic is directed at.

My first experience was 2010''
Answer this question politely'' do u believe in hellfire?

successmatters:
No, it's not about convincing me, it's about dissecting a topic.

Have you any personal experience to convince yourself that a person's organ can be stolen by another person by merely touching them? Am not talking about "I hear say"

My man I don't want to convince u, but juju dey..
If u are close to a big politician u would understand this better...

successmatters:
Let's have a debate, stop the name calling. What's your personal experience about possibility of a person's genital organ being stolen in broad daylight?

Like isaid i only read the headline and comment'' so this topic is not even of my concern.. both men and women bash each other in nairaland here.. Like i said i hate it when a man compare nigerians women with another country.. Is better we engage in more interesting topics than this.. And I don't do tribal statement here, how i like my tribe will be for my concern because all tribe are beautiful in their own way.. Insulting nigeria women over sa women is like discussing ur ex with ur new man/girl..
Make this first line more clear for me, biko..

1Sharon:
You simultaneously bash Nigerian women and SA men to make SA women feel like the prize. You're oyo.

Because anybody that dates outside their culture/race is at risk of getting hitched to the rejects of that community. Anybody that has casted themselves in their community tend to date out.
Serena Williams ended up marrying a white man because she slept with too many black men and ruined her reputation.

Your contact...

successmatters:
Muslin Lagos