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Long story short, he used to date my friend, they broke up and in a very horrible way, he cheated on her and she almost killed herself.


That was a couple of years ago, my friend is married now, and he and I recently met unexpectedly, he says he’s a changed man now who wants to settle down and he’s always admired me in the past but because he was with my friend he couldn’t say anything.


I am beginning to like him a lot, what do I do? I am scared since he cheated on my friend he’s going to do the same to me; do I go ahead and date him? He’s already talking about marriage.



Talk2Bella.


While I am inclined to say a cheat will always remain a cheat, but everyone deserves a second chance. You said in your email he’s a changed man, have you seen those changes? Do you think those changes are real and genuine? Do you think you would trust him around your female friends? Have you talked to your friend who he broke her heart about this?


We see what we want to see in people, it’s obvious you’re crazed about marriage that you might want to throw common sense out the window, but you alone know what’s best for you.


Take your time with this; don’t let the idea of marriage lead you into a life time of misery, think about your future happiness and not a fleeting moment of self-satisfactory pleasure, I hope whatever decision you make works out for you.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/he-used-to-date-my-friend-to-date-him.html

emitoz:
I think she's cheating on her 'uncles' with the guy

Looool

If only a blind person could read this

Onyintology:
Even without asking questions, this is so CLEAR ..... She is CHEATING

Nah she's not cheating she's sponsoring both of them

kellycute:
so you want him to leave his gf for her? Holup holup.. Gerarrahere

I spoke about the past not the present

dharay99:

βella oh βella, here we go again,
i go try come back and read...

jejely waitin

kindredspirit:
Lol.

Actually, it wouldn't be a bad idea if I gave the ring to another girl. In this Buhari change, it would save me from shelling out another princely sum to get another one, don't you reckon?

nah I don't reckon, it means you don't value your present girl, second hand things comes to mind

I can’t put up with her lies anymore, if it isn’t uncle this taking her to Eko Hotels, its uncle that telling her to come to Abuja, what does she even take me for?


And she lies with a straight face, she wouldn’t even introduce me to those her uncles, says they wouldn’t feel comfortable with me because I am not family.


She travels for days, receives their calls in my presence, tell them she loves them and blow them kisses, and I’d be there looking like a slowpoke, she says its family love, I don’t have a job yet neither does she but she foots the bills and every other thing.


How I wish I can just strangle her one night, she’s turned me into a laughing stock amongst my friends, they say she’s sleeping with those her “uncles” but I don’t know if it’s entirely true, do you think I am a fool?



Talk2Bella.



Do I have to tell you what’s going on here? She doesn’t work yet she foots the bills, you don’t have a job yet she takes care of you; do you even love this woman? A man who loves someone wholeheartedly would not allow her sleep with other men to foot their bills; he takes whatever job he can and takes care of his woman, same goes for the lady.


If you’re still wearing the “PANTS” in your relationship you need to step up and tell her it’s either you or her “UNCLES” and please get a job, she insults you this way because she feels you aren’t man enough to tell her what to do or take responsibility as a man, you stay home all day while she travels around with her “UNCLES” and then she brings back gifts and you both share them, you might as well be her love-vendor.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/my-girlfriend-seems-to-think-im-fool.html

u wanna give another girl a ring you used in proposing to someone else? you do know you won't sell it the same amount you bought it? just let it go mahn, she's your past and should remain there

firstking01:
Women and their love for jumbo dick be like, you know that meme

Gerrariah

So you expected her to leave her boyfriend for you? typical

Who else saw the skeleton?

#NigerianLivesMatter

What happened to trezzyblog adsense block your account

Fidelismaria:
Whic Kin Advice B Dat Bella Don Day Fall My Hand U Suppose Tell Am Make She Break Up Wit Dude Wit Small Peeka Nd Go After D One Wit D Bazooka Afterall Na Date Level Dem Stil Day

Ahahahahha

You wicked


Big bazooka ain't everything

nwasinachi:
Yes dear, not one but several positions, just google it and thk me later.

Wow didn't know that

nwasinachi:
When she jam a real man that knows how to make real love, my dear, whether big prick or not, guy! she go bow.

True

nwasinachi:
change your sex position and lots of correct fore play biko. pls google sex position for men with small dick.

There's position for men with small distin

Tapout:
if u like change position to snake in the monkey shadow, sergeant Thomas will always stop at his destined spot

Hahahhahahahaah serge tom

This isn’t going to be a lengthy email, I’d just go straight to the point, honestly my boyfriend’s dick is small, when I say small, it’s like a child’s dick and sometimes I feel it stops at the labia without even entering my vagina.


His friend came to sleep over one day, and when I saw him early the next morning with nothing but boxers and the big stick he calls a penis, since then my life has never been the same, please I love my boyfriend but how do I stop fantasizing about his friend.



Talk2Bella.



Honey you need to enjoy that dick in peace, no one comes into this world a 100% complete and if a man got 70% I think it’s more than a enough.


You need to talk to your man and tell him how you feel, tell him the sex has been horrible and he needs to step up his game, there are other ways to achieve sexual pleasure without actual penetration, but if it’s penetration you seek, you guys need to buy a {Strap on} not only lesbians use it, straight couples do too.


Fantasizing about his friend is a phase that you’re going to get over, just give it time.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/i-think-about-his-friend-while-were.html

firstking01:
You might even be a guy sef, you and that your blog

Who knows
You might be right

NairalandEFCC1:
no be lie, he is a normal user , i knew that it was a guy so am not surprised , i am suspecting herbie27 now thats also a guy

Awwwww

CrazyQuinn we love you no matter what

Except Firstking01

firstking01:
Ma'am, was driven by her level of intelligence and maturity.

Hhahahaha indeed

NairalandEFCC1:
yes oooo

Hahahhahahaa

He will be observing as a guest now

Didn't know she was a he

U too like woman

U don rush pm her

firstking01:
At the moment i feel disgusted, what do you stand to benefit on this huh...do i admired this moniker cos of the frugality and the humour "she" displayed on here by "her" comments et-all cos i seldomely send girls here pm, but when i do i ensure she really deserves it...fastwarded to this very evening 21/09/2016, i logged onto whatsapp only to realised the supposed "she" has blocked me, as i'm typing this now the mumu just called appologising still trying to play the "she" attitude...how could a guy be very comfortable flirting with his fellow guy...well, i won't mention the moniker, the "she" is a prominent member here...i'm just tensed up with fury this night

adewumiopeyemi:
has anybody seen crazyquinn i heard he deactivate her account is that true

For real?

Bujumbura:
Send a pm. I will reply when i close from work. Will teach you

Alright thanks

mzhorlah:
He has turned you to a sex worker

Hahahahahahah

dinachi:
You do not have the right to accuse the man of using you as a sex object,when you treat him as an ATM.
Even the love the woman claims to have for him is sorely based on the money. He takes care of her financial needs and she takes care of his emotional needs. No ambiguity anywhere.

carmag:
lol...this is the reason why I bomb people

Lemme go look for my cutlass

buffalowings:
Oh boy I think say name talk2bella na the thing happen to.