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Aconomist:
I just received $600 ( 228,720 naira ) as a stimulus deposited directly into my bank account from the American government. Where is your stimulus? Enjoy Buhari, Nigerian monkeys.

Congratulations, Good For You!

Wetin You Want Make We Do Now, Eh?
Maybe we should do #RemoveEkoAtlanticFence
#LetUsEnterEkoAntlanticBecauseAreNigeriansAndWeNoGetWork
Maybe this should make some people happy.
Rubbish, Wetin concern me.

dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks

But Honestly Speaking She Ain't cheating on you, you can only cheat in a marriage.
Both of you are cheating on her future husband.
You don't need our advise, you already know what you want to do, you are only scared of going ahead doing what you want to do.

Yellowblack:
Tell them you have HIV.. thank me later

Good Man

5hanklee:
Seven girls are currently in my dm, begging me to bang them.

The matter don tire me and I even bought Love Machine for one of them last week yet, na my preeq she still dey beg for.

Heed to this Advise

haiti007:
I haven't seen any profession occupied by ladies that's is not prone to sleeping around.

Is it police, teachers, nurses, doctors, military women, politicians, artisans etc

Even Reverend sister dey take am, why not anybody?

Exclude Software Developers

Noted with Thanks

Noted

bell1255:
Good day guys. So a client of mine needs an app where people can transfer money to someone's bank account with their debit cards. Pls which API can I use.
I saw moneywave by flutterwave and that can work cos it's too expensive. Imagine N40 per transfer and they will still charge you 1.4% for debiting the card.
Pls who knows of the right API to use for this

Paystack, flutterwave, remita, interswitch has API for that.
1.4% ain't much now, moreso it is capped at 2500.

Aggressive Persuasion

onyidon22:
Hello buddies.
Between ethereum and btc, which would you advise a fellow with 100k to invest in?

Both

Deathtk:
Hi I need help for woman matter.

There's one girl I used to chat with on FB I joking asked her she said no I let it slide coz I was never interested in her. One day I posted pic she chatted me up asked me whose house disco take the pic? I told her it's our house mehn since from day she started calling me baby, honey , my love. I only reply msg on FB hardly have time for chat. Whenever this girl texts me she's always asking for airtime or ask anything for me. I once told her to stop asking me anything for me it irritates me. She never ask me how's work , how I'm faring all she does is hi, how are you next text anything for me, send me airtime, this is my new number send me airtime. I have airtime, I always send but now I'm just fade up. What should I do am I her maga?

You Are Not a Maga Ooo, you are shining beacon of hope and elegant helper from Above.
Keep the good work going

We are our own problem, we elected the wrong leader, we still extorting ourselves, Tooh.

But To Be Honest, must all Romantic Relationship end up in Marriage

Tooh

Nice

Sorry My Sisters, we are not all bad people who wants sex in exchange for help, but you folks redefine being generous.
I tried helping out a lady financially with no string attached, only for me to discovered that she wants more than financial assistance. While another one told her friend who indirectly told me that she said I be Mumu, hence I am careful of the type of assistant I tried to render.

Take heart my sister, na the world we dey be that.

BlackfireX:
I never mentioned Christian vs Moslems... I said Moslems should know Israel is not there mate.

Okay, noted.

Megatrix:
Iran are just like toothless barking dogs. US killed their topmost general and their top scientist and Israel is just bombing their military facilities at will but all they know how to do is making noise like the empty barrels they are.

Iran wants to grow their economy back, of which America and Is real knew they are pretending. Just imagine what they can do despite all the economy sanction, and imagine what they would be able to do If Iran should build their economy back. Obama shattered Israel heart when he decided to returned their money in exchange for stop to their nuclear program because they knew their will be more fund for Iran and Hezbollah (Iran proxy soldiers against Israel);
Trump who happens to be their main man will be unseated in less than 40days, and their is high possibilities of Biden to go back to the negotiation table with Iran. Despites its messiness, is real is fighting for its interest, Iran not fighting back is trying to build its economy, Uncle Trump is supporting is Isrealies business goons.

BlackfireX:
When will this Moslems get it into there thick skull that Israel is not there mate..ehhhhh

This is not about Muslims vs Christians, its just simple political feudalism running on tenets Race and Religion. Do you know there are Muslims in Israel, and there are more Muslims than Christians in Israel.

Realtord43:
Jihadist and head slammer on the lose.

The aint happy about xmas

Why say that?

I see no danger but implications, implication 1 Forget admission into UNILAG

Aunty Cardija
She was the first foreign celebrity to inquire and tweet about #EndSARS

Deicide:
I see so many Nairalanders on this section talking about how they work remotely and how it pays handsomely but would never tell you what they do exactly.

Someone should please show us the way I would love to work remotely but don't know how to go about it, knowledge they say is power.

Turing.com
Gun.io
Up work.com
Many more when you googled it

Noted

Tooh

Aconomist:
I've been hearing a lot of talk about Nnamdi Kanu's Eastern Security Network, but where is the action? When will the combat start --- do they need help locating the enemy?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2T_aJvOFi9s

So you are instigating violence against another human?

ejanla077:
Why do yorubas always assume they are more Educated than Igbos or Igbos re poorly Educated..

Yet Igbos top educational indices year in year out

I don't mean to derogate any tribe bro, The Yoruba's has more graduates than any tribe in Nigeria.
But Looking at it critically the Hausas is the most educated tribe in Nigeria.

StaffofOrayan:
Because people like you always have an excuse for them

Maybe you are not open minded to my post,
I am not defending anybody, I am pointing out what's happening. In as much as it sound biased and unbalanced, its the truth of what is happenings in the country that neither of us can deny.

Paretomaster1:
Obviously you don't leave the comfort of your hometown...

I don't understand what you mean by I don't leave the comfort of my hometown

StaffofOrayan:
Dem curse us Yoruba to dey defend these people?
Have you listened to the children of Northern elites speak English?
You better shut up if you don't understand what is going on,

I guess you lack manners and am very sure your parent did a lot of good work bringing you up.

Take it or leave it, they don't speak good English yet they influence decisions That affect us all.

Tooh