Eefi ni ìwà ko ṣé fi aṣọ bò, bópẹ̀ bóyá àṣírí ààtu You can't hide your character forever. You can get the ring with deceit, but you can't keep a home with deceit.
Like I always say, we men mostly don't have a clear standard when it comes to dating. Mostly Boobs and Big Ass is our standard, what happened to looking beyond the surface.
After you have sweat to make something good for yourself, one retired Olosho girl will turn you to retirement plan with deceit. God save our soul
Demigod22: My neighbor met a girl and he got her contact. As usual, they started dating and the girl is a walking liability. She will bill my neighbor for airtime when the guy is the one always calling. She asked him to buy her clothes, phone, shoe and other valuables.
This girl call this guy at night to tell him that she is hungry or she doesn't like the food she eat that evening, and she is living with her parents. This relationship is two or three weeks old now.
Recently, the girl informed my neighbor that she is not going to have sex with him because sex irritates her, when my neighbor asked what benefits he can get from the relationship, she told him that she will love and care for him.
I am sexually active and personally, I cannot accept any relationship that involves me spending money and not having sex with my partner. I ask the guy to break up with the parasite immediately.
So guys, can you accept any relationship that involves you footing bills without having sex?
Girls, apart from sex, what benefits can your boyfriend get from dating you if he accept to spend money and not having sex with you?
This Billing you are talking about, did she put gun to his head? No Does she ever forced him to drop requested money? No You Don't need to advise your friend to dump her, all he has to do is say no. If he is comfortable with the no sex relationship, what's wrong in that He might be benefiting in another way from the girl beyond sex. If he want sex, he should get another girl that will give him sex back2back.
Christianoir: I hooked up with someone on tinder just to have sex nd move on. We got chatting tho, we meet a week later Ever since then I’ve been attached to this person, I’ve done anything to get them off my head/mind but this person is still there.
Have anyone been in this situation I’m not looking for a relationship
Please suggest something to get this person off my mind so I can move on nd tell me how to avoid getting attached next time
So, if I understand they only teach them students how to hold body. No academic prowess, even the only little academic skills they get should be exercised in the Oza room🤔
advanceDNA: Hatred..?? ..u don't have point....u think u can wash another person's faith and expect ur own won't be tackled .... Half of what u pple do to christians, u can't take it.....u would have killed shouting blasphemy.....
Ur Muslims brothers have been disturbing this nation for over 10years...u ddnt preach against them .....but ur problem is always Jesus being son of God,
Can You Proof that?
insulting another persons faith, insulting holy spirit, and the bible...but if someone now tackle u prophet and ur allah...u will start to cry hatred... I thought you people preach love, does that sound like love to you? U don't like to hear that ur prophet is not a prophet..but u and brothers ur always tell christians that Jesus is not son of God.....well done...I can see how "good" u are ..
...look around u ..how many times has a Christian killed ur brothers because or something he said.....look at how many christians have been killed over nothing...u now have the effort to say Christians hate u.... guy u are just a hypocrite
You Sound Bitter and Unappreciative, which is typical of most Christians.
DarkLover: Hello everyone, please my friend needs help🥲
I have this ex that we were cool when we were together some years back, life happened and I broke up with her because of some of her attributes I disdained.
So I traveled down home yesterday and I was surprised to find her in our place, it’s been over 3 years now and she won't move on, she's doing well in her personal life, she's got business of her own and a supportive family too, however, she’s obsessed with me and won’t let go. She already developed a close bond with my sister during our gf/bf period, and despite the fact that we no longer see each other, she still comes by occasionally to our place, my sis has told her several times that I've moved on and she should too but it seems she believes in us coming back together.
She is in our place rn and has been performing some wifely duties to my irritation, I traveled home to relax & I was surprised to see her, anyways I’ve been avoiding her as well as avoiding any conversation with her, I have a gf I'm not willing to trade or leave for anything.
Looking at her, I really feel for her but I can’t help her. My sis said she's obsessed with me and won’t even give any guy a chance, I can’t send her away ‘cos she’s seeing her friend which is my sister, I don't know how to help her.
She will rape you if you are not careful, remember I warned you.
phemyhalaby: My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly. On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold. I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway. Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused. What can i do?
advanceDNA: Where u there in person when tinubu was sworn in...is this disaster happening in nigeria not enough proof...must u be there??
Where u there when u parents had sex...are u not proof....?? Guy Please stop talking like u have the IQ of a 4 year old...its nauseating...
How u chose to reason is totally up to you.... Opinion is free....judge who u like...
Yeah, Your Choice! Just know you Christian have this unfound hatred for Muslims and Islam fuelled and catalysed by some individuals and groups identified as Muslims. Exaggerated and blowned out of proportion by Christian media house to suit their personal agenda, unfortunately most of you Christian take it as evidence without reasoning because your brain is emotionally clouded by hatred.
advanceDNA: Evidence for world trade center bombing by Muslims....?? We're u born in 2017..??
Evidence for Abdul mutalab the unde wear bomber that the whole saw on national TV..??
Evidence for all the christians like Lydia, Teresa murdered on the street for preaching on Friday, christian teacher butchered in the class for touching Quran a student used to bring in expo to exam all, etc and all the churches burnt??
Oga.....he sef ddnt deny it naaaa..he said it's the bad Muslims among them that do such..
but u that want to form defender of the universe without knowing jack is asking for evidence......Evidence kii u there......
All those are reports which to any reasonable and objectives individual will take it as facts. You weren't there, were you? Should I conclude that because you reason like this, all Christians judge based on emotion? It will be highly unfair to every other Christian for me to judge every other Christian.
advanceDNA: U are a hypocrite....ur brothers do same here but u don't want same thing to be done to u...
Ur fellow brothers burn churches...kill Christians, forcefully kidnap christian girls and convert them for marriage, raping them
....ur brothers have been disturbing Nigeria for almost 10years now, trying to make the Islamic caliphate take over Nigeria from the northern side
. U are now here opening thread saying they are disturbing u.....it's like u want to be unfortunate this afternoon...
.....shame on u...abi it's not ur brothers that killed thousands of people in world trade center.....massacre pple in ondo church.... No be ur brother wear bomb under wear to kill 236 passengers inside place.....
Please use this energy to enlighten ur people.. Oh I forgot.....u can't do so.....u all see killing as a good thing because u want 72 virgins.....
Do you have evidence for everything you stated above or just media facts, because obviously you just proved the @op right.
Winterhaven: I loved this lady very much having been friends with her since secondary school but sadly we broke up in 2017 due to some issues. I was able to get over her and move on with my life, but problem is even though I've moved on from her, i still see her in my dreams and it never goes well.
Whenever i dream about her, I will be trying to talk to her but she doesn't want to have anything to do with me. And when i wake up, i start feeling nostalgic, thinking about her and missing her. This happens to be a recurring theme which really drives me nuts.
Is this normal, is there anything i can do about this cos after seven years it seems it won't go away.
It’s normal, here is the way out: Go get coconut water like 7litres a grounded hot pepper 🌶️. Soak the pepper in the coconut water for 7 days, buy a soap of your choice mix it with the pepper soaked in coconut water. Be bathing with it everyday after 7days to restore your sanity
cutecommend: As sinful as adultery is, yet you may hardly see a married woman requesting for condom during adultery. That may be the same with men. I am not supporting adultery. But several or most adultery committed by women is probably done without concern for protection.. If adultery was done with protection, you may not hear much issues about DNA.
Stay away from Adultery..
You were there, I was not there. How did you know?
Tanitoluwa is the son of Kayode James Adewumi (born June 24, 1976, Ado Ekiti, Nigeria) and Oluwatoyin Kuburat Adewumi (born June 16, 1981, Ado Ekiti). He has a brother who is seven years older. Kayode used to run a print shop in the Nigerian capital, Abuja, with 13 employees, and Oluwatoyin used to work as an accountant.
Adewumi's family is devoutly Christian and have been threatened with violence by the Islamist terrorist organization Boko Haram.
In June 2017, they left Nigeria for the United States and sought religious asylum. Philip Falayi, a pastor in Queens, New York, gave them temporary accommodation, and connected them with the New York City Department of Homeless Services. They were given a place to stay in a homeless shelter in Manhattan.
Kayode took work as a dishwasher and as an Uber driver in a rented car, while Oluwatoyin worked as a cleaner.Tanitoluwa enrolled in elementary school P.S. 116.
In October 2022, Adewumi and his family were granted asylum in the United States. This status allowed the family to remain in the US permanently and allowed Adewumi to travel internationally to compete in chess tournaments.
This your title is wrong, Boko Haram or Nigeria Islamist?
EreluRoz: Few years back this man tried to make advances at me but was not bold enough to do so but he kept gifting me different things and crediting my account of which I never asked for. He was familiarizing with people around me and comes to our house to greet my mom because he lives nearby, will call me to greet me before going and all those unnecessary famzing. But he never had that boldness to ask me out.
On my part I never demanded anything from him and whenever I want to reject his gifts and cash I couldn't because it always comes at the right time. I can't count the number of times I have sworn never to accept his gifts and cash but never for once did I keep to my words because he's gifted in sending cash and gifts at the perfect time.
This man is very unattractive to me, like that man you'll not even want anybody to see you standing with , so it has never even crossed my mind to have anything with him. So I summoned courage one day and text him to stop all those univited visits and stop wasting his time because I can never date someone like him(I was young and said some nasty things I regretted later) and unfortunately his cousins saw my nasty message to him, told others and they all wear this scornful looks whenever they see me as I later learnt my message caused problems in their house. Well, he stopped coming to our house, he relocated to a new place as I learnt he got a job that took him away from our location.
I never felt remorseful about all I did to him till recently as I'm now older and wiser. So, I was somewhere doing something and he also came there and saw me first, I was expecting a very cold reaction from him but he immediately came over and was very happy to see me, started gisting and all that, I gave him attention just to make up for my earlier bad attitude, I apologized over how I treated him and he said it's nothing that he's not holding anything against me as I was very young then. Before I say jerk he went to his car and gave me some bundles of cash, requested for my account number and he won't even accept my refusal to give him. So that's how this man resumed sending me money again, infact he's obviously now richer because if I mentioned the alert I always receive from this man nobody will believe me here. I narrated everything to my brother because he knew all I did to him back then, my brother started calling him fool which I felt bad and cautioned him to stop.
Now this man has not made any advances or wooed me but he's already acting more than a partner, infact I feel so guilty each time I see his alerts and calls. God knows I can never date him but I'm beginning to be so uncomfortable with all these. Let me not lie, it's so hard to reject his money as it usually comes at the right time.
Let me also add that he later got married but his wife left him few years into their marriage.
Honestly I'm tired and want to be free from all these.
Please am I at fault here? Or is he God sent to ease me at my times of need? Why am I feeling so guilty even though I have never requested anything from him? Am I in trouble and what will be the end result of all these?
I use to spend Laulau too, I dunno why, it's just impulse spending
I can't remember the last time I went to the ATM to withdraw cash self, shebi it's when person have money to withdraw that you will want to deposit back into bank. We don't even trust our banks anymore, not after what they did to us in 2022.
LandMann: Only a fool will believe that those soldiers were killed simply for going there to broker piece.
I'm 100% sure that the Nigerian army did something nasty there to warrant the retaliation from the community. Was Their any evidence to back it up?
Again, the army men could have been killed by people from the other community just to setup the community were the soldiers went... Investigation is ongoing doing this would definitely cause problem for the community were the soldiers went, and of course they'll get all the lands once the army helps them fight their fight Strategic thinking, let others do the work but take the credit
In all, the army should never have been there. There's nowhere in the constitution that says the army should meddle in civil dispute. This is a National Matter which is beyond domestic issue, if you don't understand. They can be anywhere, they are Nigeria Army not selected location Army The army brought the carnage upon themselves unfortunately You don't understand the law as you claimed, They killed Soldiers of Nigeria Army which is an act of war if you don't know.
Kenda123: Yeah, I have been thinking of some business idea to start with around 800k to 1million.
Note: this money is my last hope for now and don't want to waste it
Pls advice
This your small though, but consider agricultural business, find and buy what is in abundant in your location and go sell it where it's in demand. Remember, profit are made when buying, and not when selling.
Olawade24: So I had to goto a remote area here in Port harcourt, precisely mango estate at elele one.
I went there to chill a little, if you know what I mean.
Surprising, the place risk of heavy ghetto. You need to see how poor the neighborhood is, very epileptic place with children in their number roaming all over the place.
I thought by now people should be wise enough not to give birth like rat in this tinubulation. Time will tell.
A great lesson they will learn by force. Because I see hunger coming for them but unfortunately my friend don't seem to agree with me, instead he told me they will continue cheating children even if Nigeria is as poor as Somali.
I giveup.
Eskis Sah, what is this write-up contribution to knowledge.
All for politics and does not want to go by facts!
Netanyahu of Israel is greatest salesman. He has collected more funding than Zelensky will ever get in his life time. Also, he has dragged the US into wars US had no business with, at no cost!
Give it to Netanyahu! Zelensky is a toy!
This is not true, beyond America false claim of Isreal has the right to defend herself. Isreal is a big strategic plus plus for America in the middle East, especially among the Arab nations. At least they use it to put Iran in check, and some other nations.
Mikuni: My new gf wanted me to pay her a visit. I personally don't like visiting ladies, but the desire to eat jollof rice that day made me visit her. I visited her on Friday, slept over and decided to leave early next morning.
Men and Jollof Rice 🍚, Jollof Rice no go kill my gender Ooo, Amin.
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I'd like to know the implication of walking over the "sacrifice", if you have experienced such. Do you advise she leaves the house ASAP?? Don't worry, you are covered by the oil of the Jollof Rice.