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olashas: For real?

MizMyColi:

zboyd: If it's true love, will you stick by your spouse, no matter what happens, or what they do?

Under what circumstances would you not?
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I would not stand by OR stay with my spouse if he...

...became abusive
...cheated
...was no longer a good father
...refused to work
...was convicted of a crime
...stole from me...among other things

olu77:

I could do thesame as long as my wife did not get air of it. She is the only one devil could use to convince me to eat such a dangerous apple

Akunyili got to where she was and she is being celebrated today just because of her righteous act.

Orikinla: There are more ex lovers who are still very much in love with themselves than those who are not.
Two of my ex girlfriends are in this situation, because they said they married their husbands, because I was not ready when they were ready. And until I got hitched, one of them was still very much in love with me and visited me every week, holding hands as we walked on the street in a public display of love that she never did with her husband. In fact, people saw us more together in public than her husband. And I have seen similar cases, even girlfriends who are still sleeping with their ex-boyfriends.

I have seen a married woman snapping at her husband, but melts whenever she sees her ex-boyfriend.
And many guys still want to date their ex-girlfriends, even the married ones.

When your wife talks about her ex with glints in her eyes and her cheeks glow in cheerfulness, then that is a clear sign that she is still in love with him.

My policy is never to call any married ex-girlfriends.
One of them suddenly visited after a year and we really missed each other.
But when another married ex girlfriend came to see me with her husband, he was feeling uncomfortable and intimidated.
Most husbands don't like seeing the ex-boyfriends of their wives, especially the ones they dated for years.
Having a wife who adores you does not stop you from missing an ex-girlfriend you love.
Even marrying a virgin, does not make her more beloved to you than an ex-girlfriend you love.

MizMyColi: I once prayed in those lines too: "Dear Lord, Don't allow me date my husband and marry my boyfriend" Amen.

SAMBARRY: By the way my brother's wife asked me to help her buy cow leg while passing by ipaja today on my way from work and lo and behold while I was at the market buying, a man apparently the husband of one of the sellers dragged a market womanout by her cloth where she was selling her fried rice ingredients. I couldn't believe my eyes, I thought it was a joke not until he brought out cane in the broad day light beating a woman of 38 to 39 years . I was so disgusted . The irritating part of the whole show was that one woman yelled and said what's all this madness all about when you know that you are in the market. The husband acted like he didn't hear and continued beating her and then a young guy who was part of the audience watching the whole drama told the other woman who asking the man to stop being violent saying in yoruba what's your own, is it you they are beating instead of you to mind your wares you are doing gbeborun.



However the only thing that pained me was that my phone battery was dead I didn't charge it if not I for don upload am for this thread . In fact the mental picture is still playing in my head.i would have littered the whole of nl with those pictures showing their faces including the audience. I wonder why our society finds violence entertaining and thrilling.

so many sociopaths around and for those who would want to ask why I didn't interfere. The elders say a wise person doesn't interfere in husband and wife quarrell talk more of total strangers I saw in the market



repulsive

SAMBARRY: of course am calm.the man was supposed to mind his damn business


I love my kids and kids generally no doubt but I hate destructive kids

EnlightenedSoul: @tallesty1 why did you restrain the man? I ask because your immediate action contradicts your line of thinking in the OP. Why didn't you allow him to give her a "hard reset" since you believe she needed one?

Akpaumuaka: Woman hitting man...pls man bear it cos u have more muscles than she does

Man hitting woman...a no-no.Don't dent her face plss

Woman hitting woman...*hands akimbo*...no comments!

Godmystrength: in andyblaze's voice, is that an ''insalt''?

temigracie: ..I think the op needs to stop demanding sex from his nxt girlfriend or victim.....maybe he should not have sex with the girl he loves for real....i think it will help him alittle

olasmith10: Na person like u deh make girls think say all guys are d same!!!

onirugbon1: Godmystrenght you are nuts

Godmystrength: @Tallesty1, hubby scolds in public and wife disobey in public 1-1, hubby questions wife and wife keeps mute 1-1, hubby tears cloth, wife slaps hubby 1-1. They are all made for each other

raumdeuter: @Topic, If your life is threatened or there might be grievious bodily harm to the man

Godmystrength: yeye children, yeye husband and yeye wife. they ended up disgracing their family. they fit each other.

Godmystrength: wifey keeping mute when been questioned by hubby shows she is ANGRY but trying to avoid public display of anger since she might not be able to control her reaction. hubby should have left her alone when she didnt answer just to avoid trouble.

Godmystrength: child could have exaggerated the slap because he knew daddy was outside and would come to his aid. even a slight push can be exaggerated just to add effect. you can't trust these children.

Mprex: There is absolutely nothing wrong with the age difference. Personally, i like it that way



they can get married now. There is nothing wrong with that too.

Afghanistan: If you love him and you think he's the best for you, then go ahead regardless of his marital history.

ahnie: i'll quietly locate her father and tell him to refund the money i paid as her brideprice.what sort of holy wickedness is that?

Eberex: I hate it when a girl try to play on my intelligent by lying.

SAMBARRY: I don't have any right to do whatever I like with him because I came to collect money for antenatal from you or money for diaper . That's right.in Nigeria? Very funny

the rest is none of my business