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Who else feels like hi-fiving this guy with a chair?

Maj196:
Any beginner here should not be discouraged don't let people decide your future. If you want to go into web or mobile development by all means please do

Lazy people will always find reasons to justify their laziness. Someone was telling me that Ai will take over our job soon, I laughed. Bro, Ai writes shitty codes sometimes, especially when the request is complex.

They also said that robots will take over and I was like, do robots fall from heaven? If they take over your job then go learn how to build robots. Person wey wan sweep house properly no dey face nyash one place.

When things change, you sef change.

That God promised to guide and comfort you when you walk through the valley of the shadow of death doesn't mean that you self go intentionally find trouble there.

Moving on is never easy, especially if you truly loved the person. People will tell you to stay busy or jump into another relationship, and while those things might help, they rarely talk about how to handle seeing her in everything you do. This was your wife—someone you shared every moment with.

I’ve never been married, but I’ve been deeply in love. When things started going south, I had to sit myself down and weigh the good against the bad. The bad was overwhelming so after a phone call one evening, I took the phone away from my ear and said to myself, “God, this is the last time I’ll call this number.” And that was it.

How did I move on? First, I uninstalled WhatsApp, quit Facebook, and used the time I’d normally spend on social media to learn a new skill. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

So, here’s my advice:

Decide that this is what you want and that it’s for the best.

Remind yourself that you deserve better because you’re a good person.

When you start missing her, remember all the times you wished she wasn’t there.


Lastly, read books. I recommend:

The Manipulated Man

The Rational Male:

Positive Masculinity

Preventive Medicine

And most importantly, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck*.


Start with the last one—it’ll help you see how unhealthy and toxic that relationship was, teach you to prioritize what truly matters, and guide you through what you’re feeling.

Cheers to a happier and brighter tomorrow.

ibabz:
She didn’t kill anyone, the greed and desperation of the parents did.

Lols.


That's not the way she will see it

Biodun556:


She should eat, they will free her last last. Her detention is just to teach a lesson.

It is easy to say. That woman is messed up bro, imagine trying to help the poor and ended up killing them in the process. She needs help

Kewtt:
Federal Government should flatten this recalcitrant State.... Make we hear word.


If Peter Obi cannot resolve his home State banditry issues, he's not fit for Nigerian Presidency. Charity begins at home.

Charity was on a holiday when Buhari became president.


Ndị ara

KnowAll:
Do u seriously want a strong currency when u are not producing anything. So that when u have a headache u jump on plane to go to londofor check up.

No cross road in the north with this brain

AcadaWriter0:
Shouldn't you be glad she didn't charge you the full 250k? I don't see any issue as long as she has resolved it.

Glad that she didn't charge him N250k?

Why should she charge him for even 20k in the first place?


Omo, you people no get levels.

Nicepoker:
We know the game. Are you trying to tell us how caring your girl is by not billing you the 250k. Dude what will hit you. I tell you you won't see it coming

Chances are, another dude sent the N150k. A lot of them don't like to use their own money to fix things like that.

Richtaiwo:
So a person earning 70k will go for that type of shopping? He will buy half bag of rice and 1 gallon of vegetable oil shey? Shebi na mad person dey advice am ni? Keep telling lies till 2027 when Peter Obi will be reminded he can't be president of Nigeria.

Every discussion now revolves around Peter Obi? Nigeria is sinking, and Nigerians are going down with it, yet your focus is on Peter Obi? Many people who claimed to have taught Obi a lesson and vowed to teach him more have passed away, and more will follow before 2027. Meanwhile, Obi is still here and will remain if God wills it.

And yes, your father is as qualified as Obi, but I doubt his name is even recognized among his kinsmen, let alone in his local government, but since you believe you have the power to make or unmake people, why not make your father the president?

Nazgul:
Merry Christmas. Extend my greetings to the wife and kids.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

fineboynl:
Actually I bought a reasonable one for 15k. I also bought beef and catfish to support it.

How much did you bought chicken this Christmas?

I bought two, one for 27k and one for 16k.

Nazgul:
See enjoyment.

Merry Xmas bro

pocohantas:
Looks so good. I am sure it tastes good too.

It has been long I had homemade chinchin.

Merry Christmas to you and yours.

I knew you'd be here. Afọ nri

Ebubu6:
You can as well not give her any option at all so we know you are a true liberal.

Sick woke people.

It's not being woke bro.


It's about reducing things you give a Bleep about.

pocohantas:
I actually like the sound of it and I will steal it. Don't sue me for plagiarism. 😀😀

As long as you don't say that I have never given you a Christmas gift 😂

pocohantas:
Lol @ forced fidelity.
I done learn new one.

Anything that comes to my mind when I am typing that sounds okay and fits well, I go use am.


E no concern me.

Ebubu6:
then goes ahead to go on vacation and cheat

And then?


Until we men realize that you can’t stop a cheat from cheating, we’ll keep crying over nothing. Gatemen sleep with wives—should we sack them too? What about mechanics, electricians, plumbers, etc.? Should we avoid all of them?

Forced fidelity doesn’t last. The best you can do as a man is to explain the risks involved, if any, and let them make their choices and face the consequences.

My Wife will work all year, and I should deprive her of a vacation because she might cheat? Cheating happens everywhere, even in offices and other places she frequents.

Na unah dey give unaselves blood pressure.

EmperorCaesar:


Saner clime

Dem go tell us say Nigeria get plenty mad people pass these countries

See the kin people wey dey vote for saner clime

Spits

RIP to the dead

He was arrested almost immediately.



Those who burnt Deborah are still free and not even wanted

funshint:
5k is ₦100 where I dey but if you're talking about the East I won't doubt you. Business people over there can be very greedy. When pure water was ₦5 it was been sold as high as ₦20 in the East. So I won't doubt you.

Idiot. I am in the North and the cheapest you can get for 10k is N300. Stupid man, tribalism will eventually kill you.

Sucre6:
How to win a heart of a girl who don't like you initially,

Don't

It's that simple.

Don't try because two things will likely happen, they use you and dump you later or they date you out of pity. Neither of them ends well.

bukatyne:
Well, her reasoning is right according to NL.

Males here have defended their right to get away with murder because 'they paid brideprice or are the breadwinners'.

The quality of bread they are winning though is discussion for another day.

Some have even claimed that paternity fraud is bad because 'the men uses his resources to care for child that is not his'.

So Yvonne dear, carry on.

Murder?

Oceanfl0w:
Making of an African legend, the Biafran story. By Fredrick Forsyth.

The reluctant Rebel. By one Yoruba man who fought on the Biafran side.

Sunset in Biafra etc

A Yoruba person fought on the Biafran side? Now, that's a book to read

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Walaitalai... Mojeri awon omo mi ajé...

A ma shey kiniyen fun ni because eni toba ni kini aa shey,..

The person don buy market for underworld be that nahh RIP.

It's how you all think you will be stronger and have more men/money than the person dating your sister.


First thing I will do if I find my sister like this is to find out what happened.

NikoWinaman:
Just imagine you get home one day to meet your sister like this and when you ask what happened she tells you it was her boyfriend that did it to her because she informed him that she is pregnant for him.

What will you do?

Ask her why

arkad139:
22k for chicken I don't believe it. U can get a goat for 30k here

30k chicken dey

folake4u:
Hi Mastercraft.

You have been liking and sharing my posts dating 6 years and more for some days now, is there a problem?

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂



You are not active on Facebook bah?

And people think something is wrong with me for not allowing women pass the night in my house.

Zone B girls cup ke

illicit:
Exactly

If u are with her phone, she won't even sleep...

She won't even sleep if you're not sleeping